₦airaland Forum

kingarizona1:
That you are too Beautiful to be a Virgin

Wow! Polite insult!

AncientJerk:
Ridiculous. The only heartless action was inviting a man into the bed of your husband while he was away putting his life on the line for his country just to provide bread for you. but of course you wouldn't see that as heartless would you?

For all those screaming sue... , if i were that soldier and i just happened to be in one of my more dangerous moods, i would have maimed that guy for life and then you can take me to any court. I would only argue that i thought the guy was a rapist (the woman would dare not say pim), he was clearly trespassing on my property, and there were mitigating circumstances. As for the woman... i think parading her nakd and then divorcing her is reasonable enough.

Just because of God i might actually forgive them both and put the woman away quietly.

I don't support what d woman did, nt @ all. Bt d husband too no try. Well, my opinion tho. She knew her husband's temperament b4 taking such risk, so its her headache.

Note:
Most men will support d Hubby, bt if d woman had caught him with another woman in d house n maybe poured hot water on them, they'd hv condemned her.

chemmerfrank:
But wait.. I have 3 phones in d house... 2didnt ring but one did.. Wetin i go call am na?

Oya OP Ansa!

BabyDaddy20:
What is microwave ??

Hahahahsha! Microwave na television brother.

No. 21: Timilinda had a crush on him........ Well..., more like 'on his pocket'.

What they did wz wrong bt can he truthfully say he has never cheated on her b4? Soldiers n heartlessness r like bread n butter.

lexy2014:
Also d pix didnt say its d first time d lady asked 4 money. if 15k is not 2 much 2 give d lady, then let her get herself a job. am sure God will bless d labour of her hands and she can look good when she wants d way she wants. dont u think thats more dignifying than putting d fate of your hair and nails in someone's hands?

Even a Lady that's working can need money once in a yle from a frnd so there's nothing wrong if she asks from her bf. If its sumtin he can't afford @d moment all he has to do is SAY SO. My bf n I help each other out a lot so bits no biggie.

chymystique:
This one don pass normal menstrual cramps o(dysmenorrhea). the lady might be having Endometriosis, PID or Uterine Fibroids... Abeg Advice them to visit a good GYN today for her to be examined and to know which tests to go for. they should stop self medication ASAP!

Exactly what I wanted to say. U've said ur all.

Princedapace:
please, how much do u have and how much have u spent on a man? SMH...u never hear ur mate making millions...sit and be waiting for one rich guy that is not a broke niga to come and spend millions on u...

i hope u will be happy with ur brother spending money like that on a lady....

broke babe like u

My dear, if my brother does nt want to spend money on his gf, then I'd tell him he's nt financially n mentally mature to date yet.

chronique:
How much is the 15k in question? Is it everytime He gives her that? Guys should quit being silly and learn how to behave matured and responsible. If you truly love a person,you'd assist in the little ways you can(if you are bouyant enough to do so). It's not everytime that a girl askes you for money,that you'd equate it with gold digging. I'd spend wisely on a girl I love.

Thank you, Bro!
Imagine one person even saying that instead of giving a babe money because he slps with her, he'd rather go n slp with a prostitute for 2k. So I wonder if he's advising ladies (which would include his sisters n other female relatives) to prefer prostitution to normal dating.

lexy2014:
Your Signature says "Follow ur heart but take ur brain along"...dont u think thats what d guy did?

D pix never said d girl wz always asking for money, come on! In Nigerian currency 15k is nt too much to give a babe to take care of herself n look Gud 4 u. Believe u me, a guy who has, bt is too stingy to give his gf 15k, will also be stingy to his wife.

Aisha95:
Utterly _useless and _stupid post birthed out of narrow-mindedness.
Broke niggas everywhere.
SMH.

Don't mind d "akpainfokos". They'd call a babe gold-digger when she asks 4 money from her boyfriend, yet they'd expect her to slp with d guy! BROKE ASSES!!!

izeeqpotter:
Hope he's or she's cute this one wey una dey hide d face, how market?
Again how come its WHITE.

Exactly what I wanted to ask. U sure say that pikin no be albino?

chocolateme:
Snatch him back.
Stop complaining

I tire ooo!

jaykocha:
They use Linda. . it was a media stunt

Which Linda? Pls complete d name make everybody knw, because me I still dey village ooo!

valicious1:
If dese celebs marry all d beautiful babez 4dis world wich ones we go come marry wen we don ready

U fit manage me na...

priscaoge:
Isn't that pure wickedness?




Hmmm with this, that means the picture op posted isn't related to the post naaa.

Anyway Nairalanders too like picture so make Una manage that one after all Op no de there to take the real pishure

Lol! I had to scroll back n read that part again when I saw d pix.

Paschal001:
. This man is crazy.. .. No b him talk say for better for worse.. ... ...


Some men sef.. . Looking for excuses to divorce... after finishing the woman.. ..


To my future wife.. Don't worry, I won't treat u like that but abeg, u must still look hot and sexy even after u drop 4kids for me....

NICE! She don't hear.

illiad1:
If there are 20 mistakes married men make, there are 100 married women make!



And I can list them for y'all ladies.


1 they stop dressing well
2 they want to imprison their husband
3 they get fat mostly due to lack of exercise
4 they fight their husband relatives
5 they want to control their husband
6 they get dirty
7 they pile up the house with loads
8 they don't want you to hang out with guys
9 they become impatient
10 some cheat
11 some complain about sex
12 some cook what you don't eat
13 they nagg
14 they fight you over little/nothing
15 they hate their mother inlaw
16 they questions your decisions
17 they wanna go through your call list
18 they wanna come to your office for...
19 they wanna choose your secretary
20 they don't want fine house helps
21 they abuse their husbands at will
22 some get very greedy
23 some become extremely rude
24 some use your children to fight you
25 some push their man towards crime
26 some frustrate their husbands life
27 they suspect you unnecessarily
28 they demand an inventory of your outing
29 they accuse you of being stingy
30 they cook late watching Africa Magic
31 some turn their husbands to ATM
32 some forget home become career women
33 some hand over husband to house help
34 some become lazy & reduced to gossips
35 some deny their husbands sex
36 some become feminists in Africa
37 they run mouths like grinding machines
38 they compare dia husband to moneybags
39 some become diabolical
40 some listen more to friends than husband

I hope u r nt married? Pls don't ever get married ooo! Wait until u get to Heaven cos that's where u can find a wife without any of these faults.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Are you people still on this rape issue of a thing?

It's getting stale.

Let's hear word abeg! [/color]

I dont think so. I think d more it is discussed, d more pple, especially younger women, will become more aware and be wary.

grandstar:
Thank God. War is bad. One day, they'll be a thing of the past (Pslams 46:9). Pray for God's kingdom to come. Its our salvation (Matthew 6:9-10)

My brother, don't 4get to report the time u spend in this informal witnessing ooo!

EggovinMma:
Madam, public or no public, these days girls can be rape anywhere. The nigeria it is today, girls are raped / molested even in public.Even for public bus, their priccck dey shoot put like double barrel. We have many perverts in our society. When i was a teen, my classmate was raped in a street!
When I was in the university, a girl was raped/killed I a street when she and her sister was coming back from the church . People wey dey Benin know this story.Until rapists are given tough treatment In this country, our unborn daughters are in trouble because even their own "brothers "can still rape them. Our justice system in this country is a disgrace to humanity.

I totally agree with u on what u wrote. Bt I believe the location in question is d male's house. Yes a girl girl can be raped/molested anywhere bt that does nt stop females from taking precautions. People die by car accidents everyday, bt that doesn't stop us from using cars or crossing rds. We only need to be more careful and obey safety rules so that when accidents occur, we wouldn't hv ourselves to blame
Same should apply to females/males relationships.

Katastrofy:
There was a thread That made front page yesterday on the topic "We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys,Rape is Real". https://www.nairaland.com/2512044/opinion-ladies-should-stop-visiting
I took my time to go through the Ops write up,it was a nice reminder to ladies to be conscious,and mindful on who they visit but in other words it is actually passing some kind of black list to "Men" and refocusing any lady that reads that thread as " All Guys being rapist" or even making ladies have the mindset that any guy you visit these days will end up molesting you.

To. Some large extent that thread was contradictory and could be misleadin and I really want to correct some mental affiliation on that thread..
I really love where the Op is coming from but at the middle and end of the write up she made some mistakes and generalisation of opinions which is unacceptable..
Firstly, Rape is a serious issue meant to be handled,demonic men are among us.. The ladies should be careful and wise on who they play along with..

Corrections of the Thread

.. especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there

These statement is a two way thing.. It could be true that the girl actually started the move.. Let's face it, I can tell you the major reasons why men cheat these days is not that they can't stay faithful but the ways in which our girls dress.. Men are move most time by what they see which directly induces impulse to their brains.. Check out your areas how these girls dresses..provocative way without minding, for instance if you in lagos,ph you wll know what I'm saying.. A strong godly man can get loose on seeing such things. When these ladies dress in a provocative way and come visiting, that one mistake they do, and then lay on the mans bed probably exposing other parts, and so on, so many things comes into the mans mind and at the end of the day if they are being refused they could force it on.. So we should also tackle the ladies on the stuffs thay put on and move they make when with the man alone.

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us
Its a good thing for girls to come visitng the guy with her friends just to be safe.. but its also a bad idea not telling the guy or informing him before coming to visit him with your friends.. I mean let's look at it this way, I'm inviting you to my house and the next thing I see is you and bunch of your followers in front of my gate, I will be kind enough to send you all back because I didn't plan for a group visitation.. Before you go visiting know the aims and objectives, you will know when a guy want to have a carnal knowledge wit you before you coming, it could bt through chatting or calls.. When guys makes statement like "I can't wait to be with you when you come" I'm so lonely,wish to be by your side all alone" things like this could tell.. Though there are other guys that won't indicate their intention not until wen they see you..but the mast conversation before coming matters a lot. Yes! And by the way you don't expect a grown man with blood running in his veins not to have condoms in his house when he isn't married.

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

This is your personal opinion and lifestlye.. And remember all opinions are opinionated.. You cant simply wish or inspire other girls to behave or do like you.. I can tell so many girls do visit guys in their houses without having issue like yours. Visitng guys in church or eatery isn't the solution, the solution is be mindful and know when and when not to visit.. People do rape ladies in church or even in the girls house.. There is this real life story of a guy going to visit a girl in her house,when the dad of the girl was upstairs, the guy followed the girl to her room, at the end of the day,the guy drugged her inside her room and had her then left..and again neglecting the Ops opinion, are you telling us for people that want to be serious with eachother should always end up meeting in an eatery or your house only? I don't think so..

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing called men [b]

You made a conclusionary generalisation statement here.. Trying to label all men as rapist or being bad ..

While in one of your post here :
[b] knostbrown01:
You r not ready to have a boyfriend.....the fact that all bird could fly doesn't mean the have equal feather

I wouldn't imagine you will still have a guy you go visit or love after condenming guys generally.


**By The Way (ClassicB) I went through Your Profile, All the Posts or thread Has got something Doing with Guys,If You've Got Bad Experience With a Guy,try as much as possible to deal with it don't generalise on your personal Experience** thanks


In conclusion some of your point was sentimentally written.
All MEN Aint same.. Visiting guys isn't a bad idea,but be Mindful and stop making unecessary advances when your with him because him seeing those things makes it consensual..

God save Our Laides from Bad Men.. Happy sunday! Stay Blessed!

Op, pls correct me if I'm wrong, bt I don't see anywhere in her post where she said "ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS!" Thus if u think she wz generalising, then I can safely say u were generalising too when u mentioned the dress pattern of ladies who live in PH and Lagos. I live in PH, bt I've never liked d dress pattern of most ladies in PH. I find them too skimpy even raunchy. So nt ALL women dress like like dat.

The Op on d said post also mentioned that it wz HER OPINION. She wznt trying to force it down others' throats. U either take it or leave it.

I agree totally with you tho when u wrote that if a lady must visit a male with a friend or friends, she should inform him b4 hand. I personally find it irritating and childish when a Lady toes that line.

All in all, I think we ladies should be more conscious of the fact that we need to take steps to protect ourselves from rape, ranging from hw we dress to how we talk/chat online, to the kind of friends we keep.

I stand to be corrected.

classicB:
My sister na only God fit save us. These guys are so wicked that they will eventually turn the whole matter against the girl. What more of a bad thing can happen to a raped girl than turning against her? Telling her she initiated the act
If he had raped u that day, he will surely tell his frnds u.came with condom in handy

My dear, as u can see, they already doing that. They'd rape a lady that comes visiting just because she dressed 'sexily', [as if they wouldn't hv raped if she was dressed 'non-sexily'], then they'd go on and blame the lady for even coming to their room [as is its a crime to accept an INVITATION. Even on this thread u can see the rapist and their sympathizers trying to blame it on the women. Ask them IF A LADY STEALS THEIR MONEY, WHETHER IN HER HOUSE OR HIS, DO THEY BLAME THEMSELVES FOR HAVING THE SAID CASH AROUND? No! They still go on and blame the lady, calling her a thief! So, A RAPIST IS A RAPIST, whether d babe comes into ur room naked or dressed like a nun.

NOTE: I'd advice ladies to avoid visiting guys whether in their rooms or any other lonely place. It does nt hv to be in an eatery either, bt as sum1 had mentioned, in church, b4 or after service . Anyway, anywhere public bt that will allow them chat easily should suffice.

PROVACATEUR:
Make this Man no go talk the one Amelika go drop bomb for my papa compound ooo

Hahahaha! U got me laffin hard there! Fear fear. U no fit catch bomb throw am back?

doublewisdom:
For something that will eventually wash off?
How much is plastic surgery?[b][/b]

Very, very educative! I never knew about point 4. WOW! I liked the way u put ur point 7, twz quite funny. Truthful tho, cos I know no animal is dangerous. An animal only attacks when its hungry and wants to eat, or when it feels threatened.

glimpse33:
Lmao
*falls from mango tree*

*this post actually killt me*

Lol! U r always falling from mango trees! U no dey eat orange?

nonjebose:
crime alert.

Lol!

I'll choose the grey. I'll like to move wads of dollars n pounds sterling from banks safe to my house.

Mamaflex:
Asin eenh! I think say Na only me see am ooo. It actually cracked me up when I read that.

Maybe them got return to sweep the place Wey them messed up.

Dafuk!

I really cracked up too when I read dat part!

Op, what's ur business? I'm sure if it where possible, u'd ask her out!;