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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:45am On Oct 12, 2016

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Akorkor:
@tipsyjules, congratulation on the birth of your child. May he always make you happy. Your story is so touchy especially that part that a mother lost her child during childbirth. What could have caused that? I pray that all mother will not experience such kind of thing in Jesus name.

BTW, some Nigerians doctors and nurses lack manners. I think a new bill should be passed on revoking licensee if they don't do their job well. Horrible people as if they send them to go to Med school.

Thanks dear.The umbilical cord tied the baby's neck and it was so tight that the baby couldn't breath.It was more painful when I discovered twas the same man that was telling me to take it easy and be relaxed when my contractions started outside the Dr's office.He was so nice that I never believed he knew his wife was expecting a still birth.I was in pains too but I ignored my pains a and started helping her get whatever she wanted that she couldn't get because she lost so much blood, so she was so dizzy and helpless. I started telling her how I lost my pregnancy last year September and this year September am carrying my baby.
As for Nigerians Dr God pass them,especially the young Drs wey dey sag their trousers. My MIL had to call their complaint line to report.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 9:47am On Oct 12, 2016

MY BIRTH STORY part 2.

When I finally got discharged I started sitting on hot water,i mean the type they use on chickens to remove hairs.See me opening my legs wide so that the heat can penetrate not knowing I was digging my grave.On the 5th day been Sunday I decided to summon up courage to look at my episiotomy because I made up my mind not to look at it because of fear. So I snapped it and did not understand why it was like that. To me I felt that was how it was supposed to be.So I decided to send the picture to DH with the intention of making him feel bad or have a clue of what i went through .He was like babe your episiotomy is open o.I started laughing because I felt he wanted to criticise the work of a Nigerian Dr as he never liked the idea of me giving birth here. He got serious and started using some medical terms to explain still I wasn't understanding what he was saying .He said I should rush back to the hospital to get checked to know if I needed to be re stitched. I almost pooed on my body.After all the pains I went through?? I just controlled myself and waited for my MIL to come back so I can show her too.I later showed my MIL, she was speechless so she called our Dr in calabar and explained to him,that one too said I needed to be re stitched na there wey I bust cry o,i started thinking of those instruments.I called my Dr too,he said there was no need to be re stitched, I became confused o. He was like I know your scared that your jajaina will be loose and your husband will not enjoy you again.That was the same thing my sister told me when she was singing hot water sit bath. She kept saying please use hot water so that your body will close back and your husband will feel you well. The next day been immunisation I got prepared and went back to the hospital. My MIL took baby for immunisation while I went for my own check up.Those nurses almost made me mad.The nurse that discharged indicated that my baby had been immunised and even wrote a wrong date on the card.They almost did not want to immunise my baby because they said he's been given.I talk tire that am not a dunce of slowpoke that will not know or see when they were immunising him.No be small confusion that they even stopped attending to other women because of us.I was just trying to control my anger.Only for them to take it to the lady that discharged me she immediately saw it and started saying that she made mistake abi person no dey make mistake?? Imagine after all the embarrassment especially as I was a FTM they believe we don't know anything. I went back to the Dr he checked me and told me I needed to be re stitched, tears rolled down my cheeks. He gave me my bill I just told him to go ahead.Mehn see him slicing my skin na,he gave me anaesthesia but I was still feeling the pains. Before he could finish scraping out the old wound the anaesthesia stopped working so I started feeling the main pains.I couldn't hold it again o I started shouting and begging him to gimme another anaesthesia I was given another one yet I could still feel the needle piercing through my skin.My only consolation was my son,that was what I was using to cool my brain.When he finally finished I couldn't move o,my jajaina felt like I just got butchered. I managed to enter th car but couldn't close my legs. I was just crying all through till we got home.I couldn't breastfeed my baby,i couldn't even carry or look at him I was just crying and asking God to take away the pains. My MIL fed baby with NAN because I couldn't breastfeed and I had no milk sef. Twas more painful because DH isn't around to pet and rub my back.But I give God the Glory for everything. LO got circumcised on Friday. We are doing great and fine.
May God help this our Nigeria hospitals.See the way my baby was abandoned by the window. All the cold, to the extent that rain even poured on him because they left their window open while they were gossiping. I started shouting MY BABY!!!!!!!!!! They carried him and even had the mind to say Madam dey there o no stand up take care of your baby.Meanwhile I couldn't even stand or sit because of pains and twas still dem that said I shouldn't carry him.I couldn't hold back the tears,i was just wishing American embassy gave me visa,atleast my baby would have been well taken care of and myself too.See us begging nurses to check us na,they were just doing eye service of walking up and down yet wasn't doing anything. When you complain they will just ask if your a FTM if you say yes then whatever your feeling is normal without even taking a second look at you or the baby.Their concern is money.The delivery fee doesn't cover for anything at all. I practically paid for everything including syringe, hand gloves etc meanwhile I had all those things in my hospital bag but dunno how everything disappeared that I had to start buying them again.We paid for 3days but only stayed one night just because they needed space for new people.And they don't refund or even talk to you nicely o.The money we spent was more than the delivery fee.I thank God my baby and I are doing fine.We had to do the circumcision at GH because i wasn't aware I was supposed to book ahead and nobody told us even at antenatal. So all the spaces had been booked till the 3rd week and by then my baby will be one month plus.I just wonder why they don't give these babies anaesthesia because that pain no be here,i practically joined my baby in crying o.My MIL was laughing at me.I thank God it was successful, and the ring came out on the 3rd day.Vigilante is real o but the joy in holding your baby is priceless.
God that did it for me will do it for all the ATC mamas.

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Health › Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by tipsyjules(f): 9:37am On Oct 12, 2016*

Please mamas am very sorry for posting my BS here. Na mistake o cry

I wanted to come and register my presence o. Abeg muna forgive me o.Good morning all.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:25pm On Oct 11, 2016

BIRTH STORY part 1

I started having painful contractions on my antenatal day, that was on the 19th of September. When it was my turn to see the Dr, I couldn't even hold myself again because of pains.So I was taken to the labour ward to be checked. I got checked and I was 2cm.I was kinda disappointed sha because I was expecting like 6 cm.I was asked to go home because I wasn't fully in labour.When I got home, I started doing serious exercise o because I told God I wanted to see my baby before Wednesday that week.I climbed stairs, did my squatting then took a hot bath so that my mucus plug with show.Luckily for me I saw small blood and mucus plug,i was so happy o.I couldn't wait for the next day.I no fit sleep o,i was just dreaming of carrying baby whenever I close my eyes small.The next day I got prepared, put my bags in the car,then I decided to wait small for the contractions to be stronger.I left the house around 11 am,got to the hospital then I got checked again still 2cm. I called my MIL and told her about the situation at hand, she suggested I got induced. I was so scared because of the pains I normally hear it causes. I summoned up courage and went back to the Dr and asked if I could get induced ,he said no but if I want he will admit me.I insisted and he started writting plenty drugs. I started talking to my LO that he should come out that I did not want to be induced.Since I wasn't with cash I decided to wait for our driver to go home and get enough cash ,while I was waiting the contractions got stronger o,so I was taken to the ward, I changed into the labour cloth. I got checked and was almost 4cm.i was so happy because I was going to see my LO in no time.So I decided to walk round the hospital, I entered one shop to buy snacks,na so I see garri and groundnut o.I begged the gal to get me a cup or plate that I needed to sip garri like mad,they all started laughing at me o.I no even send dem.When I finished I couldn't walk o,the contractions were so strong that I felt I was going to give birth right there. I finally managed to climb back to my ward.I got checked again was about 6cm.The Doctors were impressed that I was dilating well.I was still managing to chat and do video call with DH. I was later moved to the next ward around 7pm.I met another woman there. We were almost the same cm.Na there the drama start o.Eeeeeew see me lifting hospital bed and table because of pains o.One Hajia came to keep us company. She asked one young Dr to check me,the guy was like what if he checked and I was 2 cm in yoruba, I quickly rejected it, the started laughing that I understand yoruba. The Hajia started teaching me breathing techniques, my sisters e no work for me o.The only thing that helped me was sitting down but I was hiding to sit down o, when I see nurses coming I will quickly lay on my left. I joined my room mate to shower not knowing that was the beginning of my pains.To walk back to my bed was war.I finally managed to sit on my bed,i was so cold and started regretting why I took my bath but I guess twas the cold water that helped me progress faster.The Dr broke my water,mehn the water plenty o.My sisters labour is real o.I started looking for scissors to vet my braids.Me and my room mate turn prayer warriors o,when I pray she go dey echo amen vice versa and believe me I wasn't even conscious of what I was saying but I was just been prophetic .I told God I wanted to see my baby before 2am.My room mate was checked and was told she needed to be augmented eeeeeeew,i became scared because I was expecting same thing. I refused them checking me o because I was tired of plenty hand entering my jajaina. I nearly fought with one idiotic Dr.I wonder what people like that are doing in the female ward especially with pregnant women in labour. He's so rude and arrogant am sure if I mention his name here mamas that used my hospital will know him.I have never seen someone with that kinda of fat fingers and the way he will be shouting and insulting you to open leg as if it's his right abi he's looking for his licence inside your jajaina.I told him not to check me that I needed another person to check me, he got angry and started insulting me that if he doesn't check me he will send me out of the hospital what huh

For your papa hospital huh

I finally allowed him check me as I noticed other nurses signalling to me that I should calm down and do it for my baby.That was the second time he was checking me that day. The First time he literally pushed me out because according to him I wasn't cooperating and that he's a busy man that got no time for time wasters like me.I just look am look am smile because he no sabi who him dey tell trash, I for show am say no be only am chop expired igbo.But I was more concerned about my baby.
The pains no be here o,my room mate started shouting and begging for C/S me I was shouting and begging for epidural o.None of the Drs answer us sef,except the Hajia that was telling me that epidural is waste of money because it doesn't work. I started having the urge to poo,i became scared because I thought the garri I sipped Has started purging me.I manage to use the toilet only to discover that the way the poo was coming wasn't normal, I felt heavy poo trying to come out, I quickly jump up when I realised it could be the baby coming out.I went back to my bed but the poo came again this came I screamed out. I was just shouting that I want to poo o.The nurses came to my bed and checked me.They gave signal to the Hajia.They started running to arrange my bed in the other room.I was later moved there.My room mate started begging me not to go that I should stay with her.I met another lady there that have been disturbing the whole hospital with noise. Almost all the Drs on duty were with her guiding her to push with all the instruments. I felt the urge to push but wasn't strong enough.The Hajia really helped. She said I should push that she could see my baby's head Eeeewww that was all I needed to push but the contractions still wasn't strong.They tried fixing pitocin or so for me, the thing no gree enter my body o.All the nurses tried adjusting it still e no work. The lady beside me finally pushed out her baby. I started glorifying God because that woman really suffered with contractions not knowing twas a still birth she gave birth and that was my first time of seeing a dead newborn physically .The cord was too tight on the baby's neck.All this while I did not know the baby was dead even the lady did not know but her husband and her mum knew.The Drs refused telling her after doing scan the previous evening so that she could coperate and push out the baby.They started telling me to push so that I won't kill my baby Eeeewww fear grip me o.I started begging them to help me push my baby out for me.I later pushed out My baby at 2:20am and wasn't induced, imagine if I was induced how the pain would have been. I was just so relieved and happy. Almost immediately I heard my room mate push out her baby from the next room.I was so happy for her too but very sad that the lady beside me couldn't hold her baby after all the pains and pregnancy stress.I started consoling her and almost crying with her because the baby was so cute and twas a boy with plenty hairs.I later got stitched.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 1:06pm On Oct 01, 2016

Lbotusme:
I understand sis, the scar will varnish and everything will look good down there.

Are you for real? I just hope so because the face down there isn't funny @all.

Maureensylvia we missed you too luv kiss

wish you same dear.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 11:15pm On Sep 30, 2016

Lbotusme:
About hot sit bath, when I had my first baby, i literally sat inside a 'basin' of hot water that made the stitches to loose and I had to be stitched again. My power house saw oba eh!!!.

I was told to use a paint bucket like the 4litres custard type to do sit bath when I went back to the hospital the second time.I will pour hot water in it, (not too hot or cold ),just enough to produce steam.add salvon and sit on it with my legs closed. The STEAM is what I need to heal the power house not the hot water and it was really ok.

When I feel it's too hot, I just stand up and rest small and seat again, make person jajaina no go perboil.
Cc:tipsyjules

My dear I can imagine what ur power house saw cry

I won't lie to you, am seriously avoiding hot/warm water o,atleast for now.My fear not is weda the scar will varnish.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:41pm On Sep 29, 2016

ozycy:
Only one person get all these names. I love your MIL already. Ayomide is so sweet.

Yes o.But he's known as Praise.Thanks dear. kiss

My inlaws won't lemme give him permanent yoruba name o.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 1:05pm On Sep 29, 2016

peggygee:
Congrats to all the mamas who have dropped... God bless u and ur Los.

Pls I need help o, its one week postpartum today, and my stitches are still looking fresh, despite all the hot bath and sit baths, is it too early for me to worry? When is it suppose to start healing? Is there anything I can apply to aid fast healing?

Secondly the ropes are desolving but I'm still seeing spaces in between the stitched part, I don't knw of it has loosened or datz how it usually Is, pls some1 shud put me tru oooo

Some1 said I shud add uda to hot drink(spirit) and be taking so it can flush the blood n all, has any1 tried this?

Lastly my jajaina is looking very strange to me Oooo, lols. Pls wat can I do to make it shrink back to shape? Abeg make una helep me, there is this air sound that comes out from it, and it's not funny @ all.

The changes motherhood brings r too numerous. Pls help me out.

Cc: all mamas.

Mama please go back to the hospital let them check you abeg.Did you say hot bath huh

? Just hope it's not has hot as mine sha.The air sound and loose kpekusing was the main reason why I rushed back to the hospital to be re stitched. I dunno about uda and hot drink sha but my major concern is for you to go back to the hospital and be thoroughly checked.Make sure you tell them about the air sound .I don't mean to scare but I don't want you to go through the pains I went through. It's only Dr that's the answer to ur questions.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 12:51pm On Sep 29, 2016

I present to you Prince PRAISE Ekundayo Motunrayo Ayomide Emediong grin

.That's my MIL carrying him.Btw my belle has gone very flat though they say I should still tie it but this stretch marks nko? What do I rub to clear it because I wan start rocking my crop tops o. grin

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 9:48am On Sep 29, 2016

feddy27:
Tipsyjules, sorry dear. That pain can be extreme ! Hope they gave you strongpain killers. You can also use ice to numb that area. For breastfeeding, you can express and give to them to feed so u can don't sit for long.

Thanks dear.They gave me painkillers but the pains no be small.Av bin trying to express but noting is coming out.MIL is still insisting on exclusive ,so what I do is hide and give him NAN because breast milk no dey belleful this old man o and coupled with the fact that I can't even sit for long to breastfeed. I will try the ice block today.Thanks jare.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 12:44am On Sep 29, 2016

ozycy:
Kpele dear. Just wanted to ask after you when am done reading. Did they tell you not to do sitz bath? Did you sit inside hot water? It's supposed to be warm water. I can imagine the pain. The pain of episiotomy healing is something else talk more of re-stitching and re-healing .

Eyah thanks jare.My dear I did hot sit bath o.Anties and family friends were calling and singing hot sit bath in my hear.MIL and big sis are still apologising for making me go through such pain again.My major concern is even how to breastfeed my LO.E no easy o.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 12:35am On Sep 29, 2016

realdentist:
sorry love, but I think we've said it here b4 that the water shd be warm, not hot. the people that say hot water must b older mamas because back in their days, the suture used was the "non-dissolvable" suture, so it doesn't melt in hot water. but things have chànged now. its the medical practitioners I would blame, for not emphasising this to new mothers. I also wasn't told and my mum made me sit in hot water n my sutures broke down.
pls let's all be aware of this. don't sit in hot water pls.

*Modified
*water should be warm, not hot.

My sister! We weren't told anything o.I had to call all my antenatal friends that we gave birth same time to avoid hot water,funny enough they were also doing it because we were not told.I no blame them sha. It won't happen again.God help naija sha.I will include the experience i had in the hospital in my BS.
Happy anniversary Sugah,how is Ayomide?.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 7:28pm On Sep 28, 2016

osas4g:
So sorry about the pain mama. I was very close to a re-stictch too..no thanks to too many info from old folks. Thank God I waited for my gynea who den said ther was no need to stitch again. Sorry mama. Speedy healing in jesus name.
Pls fellow mama, pls pls... hot water is a NO! No! When trying to heal after an episiotomy. For God's sake. The pain is crazy already.
May God preserve our LO! Amen

Thanks dear.lucky you my sister.The pain is something else.Women go through a lot sha.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 6:19pm On Sep 28, 2016

Twogreatnations:
Sorry about the pains dear, it must have really been painful. You should nt have used hot water for the sitzbath though. I think its warm water or even cold water and savlon you sit in in the first few days, because sitzbath is really important to make the power house heal on time o.
Sabi mamas abeg make una chook mouth o.

My dear no be small pains o.To pee and poo na war.Now av learnt my lesson not to listen to everything I hear.You no say wen person born everybody will wan to tell you what to do.They said I needed the heat from the hot water. Now same ppl are telling me it's because I did not close my legs while doing the sit bath.They are trying to justify their mistake.I no even gree make my mother inlaw massage me again because of fear of hot water touching that place.Wen I showed my friend the pix of the stitch she almost passed out.she was just crying and hugging me for going tru that pains again.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 5:45pm On Sep 28, 2016

Hello mamas,how una dey? Mehn it hasn't been easy o but I thank God for everything sha.Congrats to all the mamas that have given birth, I cant read back mbok.Please mamas especially first timers mbok joooor dnt do sit bath if you were stitched o,weda na episiotomy dem dey call am because the kinda pain am going tru now ehn,i won't even wish my enemy such.My stitch opened had to go and re stitched so u can imagine the pains, meanwhile the oda one was just 5days o they had to scrape out my old stitch and den restitch it.I don cry so tey my eyes don swell, I can't even sit to breastfeed this my sucker of life. Hot water do me something o.Will drop my BS soon,lemme get my myself first bc am mentally not stable now.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:24pm On Sep 23, 2016

peggygee:
Thank to all the amazing wishes and prayers. The love in this forum is amazing. I can't mention all the monikers, but may my God bless n keep u all and ur household.

My story

I was 41weeks gone last week Monday, Went for ANC last week weds (due to the public hols) , met a doc n was told to come to the hospital this past Monday if I didn't fall into labor by last week sun, according to him the policy is induction or Cs is carried out after 10days post EDD , so I got home told do n MIL, dh was in support so Mil's objection (religious beliefs) was not important.
Fast forward to sun, around 11pm started having contractions, wasn't too sure as I've has 2 false labor, so I started timing n it was abt 4mins apart, I told dh, baby is coming. In fact I was pacing the room till 3:15am wen I told dh to prepare hot water for me to bath, we got to the hospital exactly 5am, baby's hrt beat was checked n was OK , but I wasn't dilating, so I had a hot bath there, was told to go n eat the come bck.
I stepped out for just 2hrs n came bck, na so story change ooooo. Baby's hrt beat couldn't be traced, I said God forbid, went for scan n it was confirmed. My world came crashing dwn, I started crying. I was told to pray instead, I did o, yet nothing g happened.
The labor reduced, so I couldn't push, and the doc said u can't be operated upon, that I have to be induced. Hmmmm, na so I carry dead baby since Monday morning till evening wen I was induced. Tuesday morning, serious contractions but no labor, long and short is the had to augment the contractions ooooo, that was Tuesday afternoon, n was delivered of my hefty looking tall n cute boy by 1:50am on Wednesday morning. Underwent and episiotomy yet couldn't hold my baby. My dh cried like a baby.

I thank God for my life, I surrender all to him. I knw he will give me multiples for my trouble.

Would have luved to rest till next yr b4 trying but dh said for where? Lolsss. Anyways I knw I will come n reg for next yr sha, Cox I knw God will smile on us again.

ABEG MY BREAST ARE ENGORGED. I FEEL THIS PAINFUL LUMPS INSIDE, WAT MEDICATIONS DO I TAKE BIKO? HELP A JJC SABI MAMA'S.

Am honestly speechless.But I must say I like your spirit mama.God will give you double for your trouble my dear.Its well.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:11pm On Sep 23, 2016

iomoge2:
Kikikikikiki
Is it Jajana u wan use write bs?
Kidding! !!

Congratulations dearie.
So happy

Na jajaina o,bc I need sidon well type one whole textbook as BS.Thanks jare besides u dnt need to tell me ur joking, am no more paranoid grin

my blood don calm down now.Am now myself.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:06pm On Sep 23, 2016

Blessedmum:
Congrats Teamie, our babies are birthday mates. God ll continue to protect them from us.
The pain you are feeling is still better than CS pains o, am still battling with mine here but I count it all joy coz devil didn't succeed.

Eyah that's great o congrats dear.My dear all get its own wahala o.My walking step is seriously funny coupled with serious nipple pains wey my LO gimme with him sharp mouth.my whole body is just on fire.But am overly grateful for everything jare.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 9:58pm On Sep 23, 2016

[quote author=princessKF post=49549622]@simababe congratulations, God bless your LO.
Tipsyjules where r thou? Still waiting for the good news.
My dear am back o.Awaiting yours too cheesy

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 8:02pm On Sep 23, 2016

BIRTH ALERT!!!!!!
Am now a mother to a cute prince!!!!!
My prince came on the 21 of September, the date scan gave me,weighing 3.5kg.Them tear me,thought I would escape it cry

.The pains no be here o.We just got back home. I wish all my teamies swift and smooth delivery too. kiss

BS later later o,bc my jajaina is still very painful.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 8:43am On Sep 20, 2016

Liftedhands:
Tipsy tipsy Fara bale, was putting it lightly to you so as not to scare you no be say we dey laugh you why should we

The comment was jokingly put to lighten you up and at the same time pass a message to you not to delay going to the hospital! You are seeing blood already which you/we don't know the cause, could be nothing heck pregnant women bleed but it's ADVISABLE to let a doctor rule out any ish. I Could list many instances here were mamas bled and it turned out to be placenta detaching and a stitch in nine made all the difference between life and death(honestly didn't want to put it to you that plain hence my comment). Moreover you weren't bleeding when your doc sent you home so what's stopping you from reporting the new development?

Those who asked you to go home to avoid Cs are dey aware now you are spotting? Which is better you and your baby alive or something going wrong because you stayed away from hospital because you no want Cs? How were dey even certain your labor won't progress fast?

Please don't take my comment or mama AlphahandMaidens reply the wrong way! If everything else we wrote is offensive to you abeg just pick the
SAFE DELIVERY part and case closed.

I understand ur point but am human and believe me I have the right to frown at any comment that doesn't go well with me.I was in dying need of helpful answers last night.I was even surprised that twas only 3mamas that answered me,but that's not even my problem.I called my Dr before I posted that my question, he said I can go back to the hospital wen the contractions becomes unbearable and regular,just that I needed more answers from sabi mamas here.Or maybe my questions are always not important. I honestly felt embarrassed last night.You dnt know how much I believe in this group especially as a FTM.Anyways I appreciate the fact that you were trying to making me laugh but sorry I still don't find it funny.Well no problem sha,mo ti Ko gbon grin

Thanks.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 11:05pm On Sep 19, 2016

Liftedhands:
Tipsyjules you no wan born for house Abi? And you still dey house? I wish you safe delivery hope say you get sterile scissors for house weh your mil go use cut cord?

THANK YOU VERY MUCH

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 11:00pm On Sep 19, 2016

AlphaHandMaiden:
Hehe he

You fit sterilize with alcohol.... vodka or any other min. 40% alcohiol will work... betta one oh not all these funky ciroc and co thinz...

What a joke.Na me wey ask question it's really funny indeed.Sorry I won't repeat this again.Besides there was nothing funny about my question. I only asked for help and not to find out about kunu and zobo.So what's this dry joke about? Anyways am out of here.
@Tipsyjules... we await your good news. All the best.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 8:28pm On Sep 19, 2016*

Blessedmum:
Mummyife, Simababe, Chizeal, tipsyjules, peggygee and other remaining September mamas.
Just checking up on you guys, how's it going at your end? As for me have been having irregular contractions and it's not strong. I went for ANC yesterday and was told that if there is no show by next week I should prepare for induction. So na beg I deh beg Lo now.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:20pm On Sep 05, 2016

Blessedmum:
We're in the same boat o, anytime I noticed am wet na to check pant to confirm whether na show.I no longer use elevator in d Oviz am now team staircase. Am seriously praying for baby to show next week or upper week, can't wait to meet my Lo after years of ttc.

Lol .me too o.Am missing sleeping on my belle and doing my pedicure myself grin

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 9:43pm On Sep 05, 2016

kemesty:
Congratulations uglyBetty1. Your baby will continually bring joy to you and her life's purpose shall be achieved.

Adorablewifey, God Almighty will surprise you sooner than you expect with His blessings that add no sorrow. Be calm even though it's hard to be.

Don't mind that doctor tipsyjules, he is a sohcahtoa ( whatever that means) lol

Abeg wetin e mean mbok? I like learning new
English grin

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 8:22pm On Sep 05, 2016

peggygee:
Congrats @uglybetty1,God is indeed grt.
@tipsyjules....it seems we r in the same boat ooooo, couldn't stop laffing @ ur wiping vjay gist..... Lols. My dea God Wil see ur n the remaining mamas tru. When the thing go start we won't evn knw it.....

It will sure end in praise.... Ur EDD still far sef.

#teamseptember for swift n painless delivery.

My sister no be small tin o.Shebi na one of the major sign be that? Me wey sabi use water wash up,now na tissue just to see blood cry

.as for my edd am seriously praying I don't reach that date mbok.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2016

Florena:
na so! We no see her self, be like say labour eyaff catch her!
Cc tipsyjules

Folash,florena,nggie,liftedhands and other mamas thanks for the love.If I hear say labour gree catch me cry

the kind long trekking wey I dey do daily ehn!! I even had to bring out my pocket speaker and was playing songs last night, see me twerking na,thought I had lost my dancing skills,no be small dance o, just for labour to start cry

.I was busy wiping my jajaina in the night just make I see blood for where!!.Honestly I don tire o,because I don't want to reach 26th September @all.Dunno what else to do or eat to hasten labour cry

.No night wey I no dey cry for fone give DH.I don scatter my baby things re-arrange am again just to feel better.
With all due respect to all the medical personnel in the house ,abeg why some Doctors dey lousy like dis? The agbaya that attended to me during antenatal today really got me pissed off.Imagine him saying I bought my husband with money,just because I told him he's a medic huh

,he was just talking trash that am one of these rich women that use their money to buy men, I was like what huh

? The man said so many things that I can't say here.He was like see this woman o,she marry doctor o.I was honestly embarrassed and angry because he made me feel like I don't deserve to marry a Dr undecided

? I was just praying and holding myself because him no sabi who him dey deal with .DH is still angry sef because he dsnt like someone talking trash about me because he knows what he went tru before he could get me to marry him grin

.Enough of my rant jare Sorry for my boring post o jare.Congrats to all the mamas that have offloaded. How market my teamies??

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 2:50pm On Aug 31, 2016

[quote author=pintoxx post=48940916] cheesy

Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.[/quote

Mama how market? Hope ur gud o.Waiting for the gud news dear.

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 7:38pm On Aug 30, 2016

Twogreatnations:
@ PrincessKF, you really are one pretty mama. Preggy fits you well. Thanks on checking on me, I am here oo; Now I know that I am pregnant! the tiredness I feel these days is something else, today was antenatal, so tired. Safe delivery to us all.

@ tipsyjules, you rock and you are really beautiful.

@Blessedmum, smooth sxy bump, you've got there.

Good evening all

Thanks mitchy twogreatnations and other mamas kiss

Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 5:13pm On Aug 30, 2016

Liftedhands:
It's a gamble sis, you could definitely birth a 3.9 via vd! though most hospitals won't allow a FTM to. Induction like you've been rightly told may also end in you having an ECS, so depending on how close you are to your edd you could try some things to help baby descend.

Secondly you said your pelvis is smaller than baby that alone in my opinion seals the deal for an elective Cs! cos no matter what process you try to do to get baby down if your pelvis can't accommodate the size it could lead to many complications if forced to.

May it end in praise for you mama! Awaiting your testimony

Fabmummy amen sis! May God remember your sister and bless her with another pregnancy that will stay in Jesus Mighty Name Amen.

Herteenuke26 sorry love abeg vent and rant more o make you no go para for your Ds for house don't worry baby go come soon, but did you ask why your baby is measuring 36 instead of 38?

Tipsyjules the mama whose moniker reminds me of ogogoro you look breathtaking!!!! Lovely pictures.

Make you no just bother your pretty head about all the jajaina your DH sees as a doctor o! They are used to it jare.

Princesskf nurrin do you always and ever looking sweet, tender and beautiful! You are blessed sweetie.

Thanks o I appreciate. He's always deceiving me with " your jajaina is the most beautiful one " I go just yimu for am.

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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 3:16pm On Aug 30, 2016

Lemme use this opportunity to thank all the mamas here and congrat to the mamas that av dropped their babies .I don't want to mention names so I won't leave out some names out.God bless the day I stumbled on this thread.This thread is really the best aswear.I call it my "GOOGLE" .If not for this thread how I for prepare my mind for VE huh

.Well I had contraction yesterday as the Dr was attending to me during antenatal ,he asked the nurse to rush me to labour ward o ghen ghen!! I started begging him that I don't want to born that I wasn't ready o,and this is me that av praying that I want to port to August o.Wen I got the labour ward, the young Dr say make I comot my pant o,hmmmm I just remembered all the experiences wey mamas here dey share about VE, so I form big girl na, closed my eyes and before I knew it he was done in less than 2mins.Twasnt painful sha just that I was feeling uncomfortable with small pains.I wasn't in labour sha, but baby is coming very soon. As I dey there I was just imagining all the jajaina wey my husband dey see everyday for hospital cry

.In other news this is me @ 36 weeks 2days,the other pix is me few weeks before belle.

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