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JoeEeL:
Am I right?

YEA

TimT:
Lol...The reason why I love listening to Ups and Downs in Mariage life is because every relationship has a unique problem.....
In this case, it's already obvious the man is running away from his problems/responsibility.....
How could you as a man lie to your wife about going to work and travel out OMG!!!!!!
Okay let's agree with the man that the wife is not a good person, how about the children? Why can't you take the kids and run to anywhere
Well naturally, Everyman can father a child but NOT EVERY MAN CAN BE A DAD TO A CHILD....
In my opinion, let him go forever.....
If he needs kids, he is still potent, and I'm sure there are women there; so he can conceive...

and what happens to the kids he already has with the wife?

Cutehector:
Disappearing aint cool in my opinion. Secondly, people must do all due diligence before getting married so that they can know why this person is marrying them.

Be bold to ask questions. Why are you marrying me? Observe patterns too, they do not lie. If he or she is obviously asking you for money all the time, then it means you are their ticket to financial freedom.

If they want you to do certain things that they themselves cannot do if they have money, then that should give you a redflag.


The other day, a lady asked me to send someone money and i had to inquire why she needed me to send money to a stranger, she didnt give me any tangible reason and i told her i'm sorry, i cant afford to send that amount of money now, she picked offence.

Lmao. Ontop my own money kwa? Why not vex for yourself that doesn't have money too?

At the end of the day, please, marry sensible people. Being a christian/muslim ain't enough.

I want to know if you are really sensible upstairs or are in control of your emotions. This alone matters to me.

you haven't met a diehard pretentious woman.

Especially, the single mothers and the desperate old single

Kobojunkie:
1. Regardless of the way he claims he felt, he committed a crime - marriage abandonment--- and the wife ought to have him charged for such foolishness.

2. Regardless of reason or excuse, it is a crime punishable by jail term.

I know you will be here to sp!t trash as usual

Wawelexy:
To me, I see that man as a coward!!! Why not brace up and be brave to let your partner (the mother of your kids) know you are not feeling her anymore, tell her what the issue is and if no changes, tell her straight that you want to quit but still will be responsible for your kids welfare... I think that's better than running into the thin air like a car exhaust...

Do you even have the idea of what would have ran through the mind of your family, wife and even your kids for that period of 3 months? How do you want the kids to see their father? A coward? An irresponsible man who runs away from his burdens? An unfaithful man? The list goes on and on... As a kid, I can't even forgive such father... cos if you can do this now for an excuse as flimsy as this, then my future isn't save with you when bigger challenges shows up...

shattap!

trash like this is the reason most men die prematurely in marriages.

Most Nigerian married men are seriously suffering emotional blackmail from their ruth.less naija wives.

very good


it long overdue

backnbeta:
Emesiere is not the one taking the decisions; it's Bubu and his cabal. They already assured Emesiere yesterday at the villa that we can't do anything. Unfortunately, we can't do anything indeed

Emesiere nde,enyeneka mi!

Mkpo abadie?

too fvcking long

Elliotwaveforec:
You get sense! Two fighting and the deceased attacked first.

The molestation case has to be proven.

the dead man died for nothing,but emotions won't let people understand that.


it's really sad.


Without evidence of the alleged molestation,the driver will walk free.

As for the dead man,na two fighting,and he struck first.

VinnyBaba:
Lolsss

When you and your Brother or Friend is Running with the 'Fan' and his Own is Turning

If Own does not Turn, u go come dey Cry.

omo life been dey sweet before o😄😄😄😄😄😄

olaeffect:
My thoughts exactly.
No three crown dad, like say na only woman become Mom all by herself.

I wonder why these demonic companies are so hellbent on promoting dysfunctional family.

You will see most advertisement now only show a woman and her children no father or man again.

the thing tire me aswear

in lucky dube's voice


'you shall reap,that what you sow"

Itisallright:
Loosen minor is not something too easy, may God be with her parents 🙏

tightening minor is

to snatch this gal from her husband just dey hungry me

Autobot05:
Have you seen me before ??

Poor wretched brainless evening newspaper... you're saving toward that but you want him to buy it suddenly for you

btw Marriage is not in my agenda

I haven't forgotten your begging thread back when your moniker was sweetplum

Tell your father to buy you a car and stop embarrassing yourself here

na one beokr5evening newspaper and single mom be that.😆😆

She changed moniker cos sweetplum don cast aje 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Biofil84:
which of the osihmen are you talking about abeg leave tribalism jare

just let you know he is from south-south, Edo state to be speciic

gets you facts right

He has maternal roots in Enugu ukwu,Anambra.

Osihmen mmaduaburochukwu Victor

VinnyBaba:
Foolish Mischievous, TRIBALISTIC fellow.

U want pple to Mock Igbos, right?

easy baba,
you are not the only one experiencing the apc hardship in Nigeria

correct igbo dude from Enugu ukwu

dem dey craze nor be small

Esirih:
Thats too bad your own flesh and blood

step daughter...say no to rape!

IamNat:
The way this Obi supporters dey reason sef. You 1 compare PSquare dead career with Seun Kuti that has been consistent since time immemorial? A Grammy award nominee for that matter.

You want to compare all that nonsense love songs with songs that has deep meaning abi? Now I know you people are not serious, that's how you abused MKO, Femi Kuti, Brymo, Macaroni and now it's Seun. I laugh in 3D, una all don forget say election go finish, either Atiku or Tinubu go win and una go still remain Yorubaland as your own place no go ever dey developed enough to ever contain you and your bigotry. Na then you go collect wotowoto.

shatttap and keep kwayet.



Rabble rouse r

ElijahIme1992:
aaaaaaahhhhhh aunty u sef na virgin?

😇

Tilumbu must be defeated,humiliated and humbled in lasgidi.



save this post!

Not news.


What is so special about saudi premier league.


Ronaldo fall my hand

Akin1212:
You cannot help but prove further that you are just a child, a mannerless one at that. Obviously, no content, so you have to reference my parents. What does that have to do with this?

Normally, it's a lack of depth that causes things like this and no surprises there, you don't have anything to say or a solid philosophy to back up your thought process. I honestly find it hard to fault you, child.

Now, because my parents did what they did, does not stipulate that anyone must do what they did, I am not really surprised you do not realize that, you may not even after reading this. Because the lady in question has parents who got married, does not mean she must follow in their footsteps. We are all individuals first, we have different desires and values, and virtues. And every individual should be allowed to live how they want without pressure. She is 31 years and is able to make her own decisions, by herself!

Now, if you do things because your parents did them, more grease. But not everyone will be docile like you are. Everyone is different, if you got married because your parents did, it goes to show how weak a person you are. Many people will get married on their own terms and time, whether their parents did this does not direct what they will or should do.

So, all those weak, kindergarten philosophies should only live in your head. You should not be posting stuff like this online, for real.

You are here talking about experience and determining age limitations on women, in 2023? Have some shame. There is nothing like a biological clock. A family should not be in the business of their relatives on how they want to live. Obviously, it has skipped you that pressuring people to do what you want against what they actually want can also cascade into a psychological mess. Let people live their lives and deal with the consequences, focus on your own life! Her family should focus on their problems, they can only discuss what she wants with her and not pressure her, it is her life. Learn from this, and stop singing about the experience you don't have.

from my revelation, I can see a product of single(mother) parenting.

Your parent(s) obviously didn't show you enough love as a kid.

We are not mates!

neztar:
get out you møron. Women flower moments run from 18 to 30 years where they enter their peak years.

So after the peak years,what next?


sense is really far from you!

Bravery is engraved in his DNA




Go Peter,the rock!

Akin1212:
Lol, the attitude of a kid is calling someone a kid because they disagree with you.

It is people like you that want to control people's lives and their happiness that feel shame because they are not married.

If you talk about experience, I am sure my log of experience doubles yours, but take the mic, express your mind let's see how shallow it is.

I'm sure ya momma won't have accepted ya dada had she been 'selective"

I repeat, 'you are still a kid son,experience will teach you"

Women has flower moments in their lives,19-24yrs.
And their desperation clocks begins from 30-34yrs.
Anything beyond that is very anti-biological and definitely must have reverse biological and psychological effect on the lady involved.

...and by extension, her family!

ahnie:
When sapa is not your mate.all thanks to accessbank frustrations.

E sweet sha

Very ugly looking sight
put graphic warning!




pukes

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

If you had married as a virgin,there wouldn't have been need for all these 'ex's" disturbances.

Ladies, preserve ya natural pride and be the toast of every man!

Akin1212:
Any family feeling shame because one of them isn't married is a useless family.

You are still a kid.


Experience will teach you,son!

Ideservebetter:
I understand that most parents want the best for their children but at the same time, they should understand certain things that are beyond one's control.

My parents, relatives even family friends won't stop troubling me about marriage. I can't have healthy conversations with my people without them bringing up the marriage topic and worse off in a controversial manner. They always accuse me of being too selective and other talks like that, making me feel awful.

I desire to get married someday even though I don't see it as a "do or die" thing. I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I'm being blamed for it or asked why I didn't just manage. My God!

I've been thinking of how to get away from all these talk, maybe leaving home or changing my line. I really don't know what to do.
I'm someone people know as happy and bubbly outside but when I'm with my people, it's the complete opposite, minimal joy because they won't stop stressing me. For now, I've stopped attending family events since they'll be gathered there and I don't want anyone messing with my mental health.

I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please.

Better marry and wipe away the shame from ya family.
Na ya family dey feel the shame nor be you
besides you may have become an evening newspaper and still selecting upandan when you aren't a virgin.
Only young virgins has the privilege and pride to 'select" men when it comes to marriage.
So marry that widower,hustler or farmer seeking ya hand in marriage now when you still can.