₦airaland Forum

KingTom:
My God, what is wrong with our curriculum?

Royalty83:
Obi dey Jones... Even bet9ja give Jagaban 1.70 odds, Atiku 2.10 odds, Obi 98.50 odds

I don carry Jagaban with my house rent..

OYEDIPE:
You don't need to insult.

Klass99:
No criticism or judgment from me. In fact I applaud you for choosing a helpless child over a grown ass man and marriage.

You are even nice sef, I would have left his own 2 kids for him and walked away, after all I didn't go to his house with those kids, they were created with him under his roof.

As women we give up far too much of our lives for these two things (marriage and children) only to realize na we dey carry the suffer head pass. Good luck with whatever you decide.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children before my ex husband , my daughter was staying with us and my son was staying with my elder brother. I agreed with you same as me I don't expect him to love them unconditionally but i just want them to feel loved , safe around him and be comfortable in the house even if he will not foot all the bills I am hard working I will take care of the rest . When i was with my ex husband I footed 70% of the bills but still he didn't want my son to stay with us , he was not even the one that was paying their school fees and all i wanted is for my son to stay with us so he can feel loved , safe and comfortable around him he refused which I don't know why he choose to hate my boy for no valid reason. that's why I had to choose my son over him.

Klass99:
Don't let the past ruin your chances for a good thing. There's a chance for;

1. A new chapter of your life with an older man (I like older men sha, most tend to be mature and well grounded) what you fear may not happen, dwell on this thought instead.

2. Your children to have a male friend and mentor (hopefully a great one too) as well as new friends in their step siblings.

3. Sweet companionship between you and him. Children will grow and leave the nest one day or even sooner like when they are in boarding school. Your life shouldn't be all about your children, you are worthy of good things and you deserve good things too.

4. A nicely blended family, your kids may all get along well and you may get on well with him too. That's not to say there won't be challenges but nothing so bad or terrible that you both can't handle as mature/responsible adults.

Take a chance and see where it all leads to, you might be pleasantly surprised. Don't let negative thoughts or past hurts rule you. You guys can work out a living arrangement where you live close to each other (as a married couple) but in separate cribs with your kids, spending as much time as you can together......that may help reduce feelings of overwhelm and slowly blend both families.

Walai:
Okay, I even thought he's from Anambra

OfeAchi:
AA as a party has no relevance.
They can't even win a single polling unit in Rivers...

So their structure is like castles in the air ...

Finestgurlie:
shatap
is that why you're sending me unnecessary DM

Goodlady:
Maybe the wife was just teasing the husband. The husband too should tease her back with the money.
You tease me I tease you love flow, money flow relationship.
Normally, broke husbands don't deserve exciting sex and it should be once in 3months. The man should use his time to look for money.

Cleanway:
May God raise a kind hearted person to assist you dear, and may divine help locate you IJN

Roboto11:
This one don even know their state of origin and local government sef.

When they start announcing their names as Chibuike you would find something else to say.

Jashub:
This is treasonable and I don't know why Buhari is still slacking in arresting El-Rufai who has chosen to run a parallel government of his own . As for urchins supporting this , thread carefully because right now, anything can happen ...and when I say anything , I mean anything , including military actions in rebellious states

Siwisheswereesh:
There is no deadline for return of old notes to CBN right

tonykester:
IMOLE DE !

YoungLionken:
Cultism is like virus, it can only be contained but not utterly destroyed..

I have nothing against them, but you see the vikings...