Sometimes you guys need to understand that there are guys out there who barely talk to ladies , they are not that good in jumping from one girl to another and most likely, they're the one suffering in the hands of these heartless Nigerian girls. The op seem to be one of them. He's so pure with his intentions but you see most of these Nigerian girls , they're very very wicked. Ask her why she did what she did , you'll be shocked at what she uses as an excuse. Go for a girl that has already tasted money a bit. All these broke girls with their entitled mind set will destroy your life. The good news now is that she has overstep her boundaries and the Bible gives you the opportunity to decide whether to keep her or send her away. Bear in mind that people don't change, they adjust at a certain point to meet their target. She's a cheat and forever, the urge for such is constant. Hope this will help

Kobojunkie:
You are not making any sense!

2. the very fact that it is not your call means it is a gamble that you take each time you try to have a baby. Leave God's mention out of it and focus on the topic.

You're probably seeing me as someone who is trying to argue with you on this topic , or your enemy. Seriously, I am not your enemy. There is a spirit that controls most of these things and trust me, gambling has a direct link with the devil. God has nothing to do with it. The devil is very wise, he has strategies, he gave them names and make them seems harmless in the society. A lot of people refer to it as business, some called it investment but deep down on your mind , the still small voice will always advice you to put a stop to it, because it will eventually destroy you. Life is not a chance. We all have purpose in this life, money is not all that we came here for, so money shouldn't drive us insane. Judas Iscariot thought it was okay until it was too late to redeem himself from it. Lusting after money is a source of all these things.

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling!

You gamble each time you try to have a child with your wife. You go in expecting and hoping that the child will not come out with a birth defect. It is all a gamble really as no one is guaranteed a healthy baby but we all try our luck anyways. That is gambling! Basically, everything that is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God is a gamble. Even your marriage is also a gamble. you go in hoping that it will turn out great and bright but the probability that it will fail is there.

The problem here is that you don't have faith in God. Learn to trust God in all things and your life will never remain the same. Have you ever wonder how this babies are formed and fed for a period of nine months in their mothers womb through umbilical cord? You can't do any about this, it's not your call , so learn to know your limit and after learn to trust in God. Don't gamble because you think you can be a God .

I see this as opportunity to share my experiences with those who want to learn. This life is very simple if you chose to listen to what God advised you not to do. The danger in fornication is not just something you can quench in a simple way. when once you've quickened that part of Brain, the memory remains your enemy even when you wish to put a stop to it. The reality is that, it's never a sexual satisfaction, but past memories of sex with drugs and doing it with someone who has gone far beyond normal sex habits. Right about now I wish I never tasted it. The peer pressure is another source of all these things. Now I have to learn how to control the animal in me. God knows that the day you taste of it, you will never remain the same , that's why he said you shall not do it until you're legally married.

The longest way to success is short cut. Not that you cannot gamble, but gambling encourages short cut. The scripture said "" Lord forgive us our trespasses " .. short cut! No matter how much you win , you'll always remain a poor man . So therefore, gambling goes against the commandments of God.

Be careful about what God didn't approve, the consequences of such thing may be the end to your generation . God created male and female for a reason. Know your boundary. Learn from Brazilian carnival and its consequences. God can't be mocked

Homosexual is an abomination before God. Not that God is not aware of it, or its urge, but you're expected to use the word and the spirit of God to grow above it. The problem here is that , we claim to be so wise even more than our maker. When the devil engaged Christ in temptation, Christ never claimed to be wise but rather he sacked the devil instantly without delay or trying to accommodate him. The law of nature laid by our maker disagree with homosexual but humans try so hard to accommodate it. Have you ever seen a man with pregnancy except the one that human philosophy and scientist made? No! It doesn't happen naturally! This is it. Nature does not approved it because it is a taboo in the kingdom of God. All of us have challenges, your kind of challenge may not be the same as mine but that doesn't mean I don't face trials. There are time I wish I never experienced it before, but I have to choose the right irrespective of what it is and where I'm coming from, I have to choose the right. Impure thoughts is what we all experience but we must ignore it and choose the right. Fight it and be a winner .

PrinceOfLagos:

You're losing in all fronts and you're still deceiving yourself

The labour Party members are seriously winning the house of reps and Senate seats all around the country ... While Peter Obi too is dwarfing Tinubu in Abuja , Anambra, Abia, rivers, Lagos, Benue, Enugu, Akwa ibom, calabar, Edo, Delta and other states
Guy , Peter Obi is your next President

Labour party is winning thrice the number of other parties in every unit here in my area

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How true is this information please?

Fira09:


Dem don ban your two 'VeryWicked' monikers.

Now you have returned to VeryWickedUncle, next it would be VeryWickedWoman.

You people will not kill me with laugh. The most funniest sect of black men on earth are Nigerian

The worst thing you will do for yourself is to allow emotion to contribute in making decisions in your life. You shouldn't have accepted her back, she's a thousand time more damaged than when you first caught her cheating. Living with a girlfriend is as bad as slow poison, the emotional attachment is the problem, it's almost the same thing as divorce which is worst than dead, you won't be able to see so many thing as they are even if you're warned. If you got someone cheating, just let him or her go in peace than to create a time bomb in the future because she will never respect you ever, she will spend her time punishing you for not allowing her to go. My advice for you is to locate a real prophet and let him settle this case. Don't take it as a child play please.

AlphaTaikun:

SKhanmi,

Would you have married her if you knew the truth about how she was conceived and born?

There is a lesson to pick here. No matter what happened to you, always remember to "keep it down" . The stress in life is always going to be there in different colours, but always remember to keep them down. When you decide to carry it always, no matter the weight, you'll be paralyzed, and you won't be able to do anything with that hand until you keep it down. The lady here is not having any problem with where and how she came to this world, but how she allowed it to paralyzed her and deny her the opportunity of having kids.

hopefulLandlord:
Nonsense!

Christianity is a religion built on lies so these Christians have to lie to maintain the illusion.

All these testimonies that sound like dreams make me laugh. 60M, 120M, paper, cultist lol

The field is wide, and is ready for harvest. The Lord is looking for people like you and I, you equally can test this and see for yourself, I've heard and I've seen it happening to people, even a mad man preached the Gospel and many people were so touched. This work is for all of us, and you're part of it.

obedience4:
So when did literacy becomes a yardstick for choosing wives?
Love should be the standard, if a woman truly loves you. It doesn't matter if she is literate or not the marriage will be Peace and will stand the test of time

Love you said is not a guarantee for a successful marriage. Love can never help you through, but knowledge and understanding is the only key to successful marriage. When you allow emotion to make a decision for you in a case like this, you'll live to regret it.

wiseone28:
I wonder when the ring road opposite Udo Udoma avenue will ever be completed

The people of that community did something funny. They demanded money from the contractors and the youth rendered the place and the atmosphere unfavorable for the road to be constructed. I think they have come to their right senses and wrote a letter of apology to the governor.

Life is so beautiful, red pill or not you can still live a responsible life mingled with heart breaks and lessons. You didn't make yourself, you were created by a person. The vulnerability is always there, you can't cheat nature. Honestly speaking, you're given more attention to what is not necessary when you dwell on topic trying so hard to be a so called redpiller. The the thing is demonic. Yesterday or so a lady died in an accident because she was chasing her cheat husband some where in cross river state. It's absolutely vice versa. Women were not created to torture you, calm down.

Advocate500:
same with me,I have neighbors from akwa ibom who have disagree with me on several occasions, brother online performance is different from reality,obiano was the best online governor if you are not living in anambra,Peter obi did not work in anambra only if you are not living in the state.

Leave those APC people in akwa ibom state, they will never see anything good in the state. All these things posted here are real. I'm right here in uyo at this moment. The roads, factories, they are all real. That road posted there is what the local people called ring road three. The governor is just a silent achiever, he doesn't really make much noise about what he does. Some of your neighbors can't afford a transport fee to the their homes, they have been there for ages instead of coming home to start a real life and build on it, they're there hoping and hoping, expecting God to do magic especially those people in Lagos, some of them are so myopic thinking all wealth is in Lagos and. When they're old and useless, you see them returning with their Ghana must go .

NNTR:

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_{Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.}

Okay. Did late Dr Myles Munroe said that? Let me listen to the message

Happy new month to all of you guys here!
Yesterday night as I had my hair cut in my usual barbing salon in preparation for Sunday service, we had an interesting conversation on how to endure a woman at home so as not to lay a hand on her ( hit, slap, punch, beat). A man stood up and said; "it's only a fool that lay his hand on a woman". Wow! This saying got my Barbar so mad that he counter the man's words by rephrasing it this way; "it's only a fool that endures a woman foolishness". We're all guys, some married, some were not but experience was shared, we laughed our bud off, at some point, a guy said that it takes a higher level of grace to live with a woman without beating her to dead, that in the beginning it was the foolishness of a woman that causes Adam to lose the Garden of Eden and that God chased after her but she hid very well and pushed Adam out to face up with God. So many ablakatas was said, we laughed over it. As the argument got to its higher stage the big word came out. "DIVORCE". We brought a Bible out from our phones, one version after the other was read, some said Christ gave us permission to issues a divorce base on matt. 5 : 32 some said he didn't and that you can't marry after divorcing your wife or husband, so please inspired pastors in the house, did Christ give us a permission to issues a divorce, if so, can a divorced person get married again? Thank you.

Nephi’s Prophecies and Teachings
Part of the religious teachings in the Land of Nephi
Keys to Understanding Isaiah
Nephi admits that Isaiah’s words are hard to understand, this is because they require a knowledge of the manner of Hebrew prophecy.

Isaiah’s words are to be understood plainly through the spirit of prophecy.

Nephi delights in Isaiah’s words, and is informed by his knowledge of Israelite geography and Jewish prophecy.

Nephi prefaces his own prophesies; Isaiah words will be particularly relevant to those in the last days.

The Jews and the Messiah
All civilizations are warned before they are destroyed: Jerusalem will be destroyed by Babylon.

Jerusalem will be freed, and the Messiah will visit the Jews, but he will be rejected and killed, but he will be resurrected.

After the Messiah’s resurrection, Jerusalem will again be destroyed, and the Jews will be scattered.

The Messiah will restore his gospel and gather the people of Israel.

Jesus Christ is the only means by which salvation may be obtained.

The knowlege of the Messiah will be preserved.

Nephi tries to convince people to believe in God and be saved by his grace.

The Law of Moses and the Law of Christ
The Nephites keep to law of Moses as it leads them to Christ.


And, notwithstanding we believe in Christ, we keep the law of Moses, and look forward with steadfastness unto Christ, until the law shall be fulfilled. For, for this end was the law given; wherefore the law hath become dead unto us, and we are made alive in Christ because of our faith; yet we keep the law because of the commandments.

And we talk of Christ,
we rejoice in Christ,
we preach of Christ,
we prophesy of Christ,
and we write according to our prophecies,
that our children may know
to what source they may look
for a remission of their sins.

Hmmmm for all I know, no one has ever got evil for doing something good to a fellow being. Just be calm and watch out, she's going to be paid in hundred fold. It's inherent.

That's why is good to have a thorough analysis on your business plans, investments, even with the kind of woman you want to marry, because you may end up marrying what your family has always been afraid of. Puttin was trying to avoid NATO on his burder line but end up having himself surrounded by NATO. If you really want something in this life, don't chase after it, just do the needful. "LOVE" was the necessary weapon but Putin's analyst could not think of it as something capable of bringing back his brothers against NATO.

We spent much time before we get a license to drive and that's why our cars last longer than some of the marriages around us. Already you have a wrong mentality about marriage, you don't know why you should get married and your best place to ask is nairaland. This is wonderful! Do you know why you spent about 10yrs or more before you get out of high school? Have you ever wondered why you have to study up to 4yrs or more in university in order to prepare yourself for a job? Marriage is the oldest institution on earth and as such it requires information and understanding to build a successful one. Most of the people you see around you dived into marriage without proper information and understanding about their partners and that's why you see the divorce paper on every table today. The benefits of marriage is limitless. The promised blessings for those who diligently follow the guidelines are enormous. That's where the phrase " he who Finds a wife has found a good thing and obtained favor from the lord" come from. You can't find favor when you bring in a girl of whom you know nothing about , deceived by her physical looks and claiming you love her and bla BLA BLA....love and sex does not bring about a successful marriage. Some of you think love is the key and sex was the super glue. Information and understanding is the key. Do this and you will be happy you got married.

OlawaleBammie:
Even if my woman dey slice it for kitchen a go dey cry for palour. She always says my eyes get dirt, i dont know how tru it is.

But i have told her to always slice the bandit ahead of tym, onion wey u wan use for night slice am for ground in the morning abeg

It's better to slice onions when you're ready to use it, because it attracts bacteria. It's not good to slice and keep before use

The two elders on that photo are not Jehovah's witnesses op, they're from the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day saints. Look at the book of Mormon in his hand. I've studied with them for three 3 years and it was good. They help study a lot, get to know your Bible very well. I also realized that they're missing scriptures in their versions of bible .

Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! Holiness refers to the aspect of living in full compliance of God's Law. God is God of Law and His Law defines the contract relationships aka Covenant between God and men. God is Holy God meaning that no matter what the other party to the agreement does, God always holds up His end of His agreement with men.

Men on the other hand are notorious for violating their end of the agreement with God. When men choose to commit sin against God .I.e. disobey or violate the terms and conditions of the agreement with God, they become unholy by it in the agreement.

2. Wrong! God's expectation is that those who wish to benefit from His agreement will be holy/perfect even as He is Holy. For this reason God sent to us the Law called Jesus Christ, an easy Yoke and light burden to bear - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 - stating that when we live in continuous submission and obedience of the teachings of Jesus Christ, God's Law and Truth, that that become His followers. When you know the Truth of God, the Truth in turn sets you free from bondage to sin transforming you into Sons of God - John 8 vs 31 - 32 - aka Holy/Perfect vessels who God's own Holy Spirit can then inhabit and use.

3. Even during the time of Moses and Noah, God called men to Holiness... Exodus 19 vs 6 & Leviticus 20 vs 26 & Leviticus 21 vs 8 . God always demands Holiness/Perfection from those He gives Law or Covenant.

The thief on the cross, who was saved by Old Covenant Law, was vindicated by God's ruling in Ezekiel 33 vs 9 - 20..

4. Jesus Christ is indeed Holy, and those who follow Him are also called to be Holy even as His Father in Heaven in Holy.

The op told us that she's been faithful for eighteen months, and that she did it out of love for God. This is to show you that she's striving to hold on to what she believe is right. You came up with all this holy holy teaching which is not the point. You know when I remember the story about the adulterous lady in John 8. I marvel at that judgement by Christ. You need to calm down and see the bigger picture here. Is Christ . Nothing else. Not even your holiness can save you.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=111357240]1. That isn't true at all. It is indeed possible to be holy/perfect aka free from bondage to sin.
Okay let's see this in the right way. Holy in the side of God is not what you think of, neither would you ever be able to understand. He accepted us just the way we are. You can't be holy , he make you holy. Have you ever heard this saying? " to whom the lord calls he qualify" He purify you and make you worthy of His presence. Think about Moses, think about Noah. He's not looking for the holy people but those who have a broken heart and a contrite spirit. This was the beautiful art that saved the thief on the cross.
Christ is our holiness. Without him we can't do it. Remember the rich man in the scripture?

Kobojunkie:
If God is really who you claim to want to please by your choice, then you want to make sure you have the right information to help you on your path. According to Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, what is sin is not what you refer to as sexual immorality- fornication, masturbation, homosexuality etc. - instead sin is the lust in your heart towards another - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - those fantasies and longings for sex are what constitute sin in the Kingdom of God.

So while you claim you have not physically engaged in what is sexually immoral activities in the 18 months period, that all means nothing when you consider that the sin is that committed in your mind/heart and not the physical activity itself.

I understand the angle you're coming from but it's impossible to live without impure thought. She has been in it for quite some time and her body has been conditioned to those things. She need a therapist. She's trying to be careful. Bad habits are so easy to start but later on, it becomes so difficult if not impossible to stop. At this point I'll say the situation is delicate. My advice to you is to allow yourself to be loved, get acquainted with people. Always , always pray about it. God loves you so much and He knows you personally, I'm sure a good man is on his way. Don't give up please, just hold on a little bit.

This is the more reason why they hate the west. The western culture does not in any way tolerate this nonsense from them. Putin is also doing the same thing in Ukraine. Without the west, the whole would've long gone. Ye shall know them by their fruit. They're nothing but terrorist, that's just the truth.

You're not alone in this my sister. Me like this, I can't even remember the last time I went to church but we have to be honest with ourselves and share the truth for only the truth will make us free. It's a commandment to go to church as much time as you can afford in a week. There are two things that mostly happened when we go to church. You either being strengthened or you becomes a source of strength to somebody. Sharing your testimony is paramount as this is so precious to God. I remember back then when our bishop would asked me to share a talk on the coming Sunday , I will spend the whole week going through a lot of books and scripturres that relate to the given topic and at the end it before Sunday I realized that I've learned so much in the process of preparing the talk. As a Christian you're nothing without a church. This is who we are and that why he built a church in the first place. Think about Ephesians; Ephesians 4:11-13 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:

Joshua 1:8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.

Dr Myles Munroe explained this scripture in his teaching on "10 keys for personal success" and I realized that I need to learn the law of God and abide in it . It brings about promotion, protection, direction and order in life.