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Physical looks wrinkle with time, a partner should be able to hold a conversation on most frontswithf his/her significant other.

dipopooo:
Mr customer dada just wasted his time, resources and money( hope APC will compensate him)... LESSON DERIVED: Don't ever rely on flatees. They have nothing good to offer. If you want to succeed in life dont associate with them. I guess Atiku has learned his lesson as well... I would forever cherish abok! and afonja.... It's time we chase and frustrate flatees out of Lagos they have nothing good to offer. Awon omo ale radarada

Mo*RoN spotted. It's so unfortunate how retardeens are let lose on this platform.

Arabians! If they had the capability, world citizens would be there slaves. All they do for sport is to dehumanize those lower the ladder. If you think what happened In Libya was an isolated case then you don't really know these breeds.

[quote author= post=76485010]Tho, the video was only audible for the first 4 seconds and went with no audio for the remaining seconds,
We can't say we heard her saying that at this particular time, until we are able to get another clip of this episode.

That being said,
Below is FOOD FOR THOUGHT for TRUE IGBOS of our nation,
Truth is always bitter tho......

(Written 5 months ago)
SOUTH EAST: IS IT NOT TOO LATE?

I have read the recent transmissions by Senator Bukola Saraki directed at my Igbo tribe. I have deliberately kept mum on this as I had earlier resolved to speak less on Igbos as regards the 2019 Elections and 2023 Presidency having said quite a bit. 

However seeing as some of my brethren have swallowed the cheap bait, I will chip this in just to keep the reality before us, at least for posterity sake. Truth is bitter but it's still the best medicine. 

My people say; 'He who does not remember where the rain started beating him, will not remember where it stopped'. 

REWIND TO 2014. 
A new National Party was being conceived. Political Parties, political players and Regions were being wooed to the new alliance. 

'We' Igbos (read South East) vehemently refused to touch it even with a long pole. We packaged, sold to ourselves and bought the baseless propaganda that it was an Islamic alliance that would birth an "Islamic" and "Hausa" Party. Simply because those our brethren heavily invested in the PDP at the time were afraid of losing their vested selfish interests.
Till today I'm still trying to fathom the basis for that wicked and twisted deceit especially as many of those Igbo elites who sold that dummy have since ported to the same APC.

We failed to even identify with that new Alliance. Hence the Party, APC was birthed without any remarkable input from us or presence. The few amongst us who aligned were called all kinds of names and abused to high heavens by us even when they were proven right afterall.

Thus the few Igbos who were part of it were at best fringe players as they didn't have the required clout to make serious demands and do the necessary political wheeling and dealing required in Politics to strike the hard bargains since politics is all about interests and numbers. They were even suspect, so much so that it was only their personal political sagacity that gave them whatever they got.

That Party went on to win the Presidential Election which in truth, most of us never believed it could or would, because of our half baked permutations and poor understanding of Nigerian politics. But it did. 

Curiously we turned up at the fore front of telling this same Party how it should share it's 'spoils of war'. We became hypocritical moral champions with an over bloated sense of entitlement. Who does that, in all political reality and practicality? But we did, even while vehemently and vociferously still refusing to shift our position, style and rhethoric.

We dug in. Supported every bad thing and person against the Party, the elected President and the Administration while denying any and every good done to and for our Region.

Fast forward to where we are today. Almost four years after the 2015 misadventure, we have stayed put at 2015, refusing to move forward, refusing to shift grounds, refusing to play pragmatic politics, telling ourselves the same lies we cooked and bought in 2015 and some more. 

Now barely 5 months to another election, we have started again saying "APC cannot give Presidency to Igbos in 2023". "Buhari cannot hand over to an Igbo man because Buhari hates Igbos". "APC is deceiving you", bla bla bla.

Of course. We will believe Saraki, who has only but a fanthom dream of becoming President and whose only known record is selfishness but we can't believe Buhari who's already President and who has a record of voluntarily picking two great Igbo sons as running mates in the past? Chukwu aju.

It is interesting and vital to note here that the PDP which many of us still proudly support and adore was in power for 16 solid years and in those years there were 4 Presidential Inaugurations and on none of those was an Igbo man found worthy by the PDP of even Vice Presidency and we are still bold to say it is the APC that has not even finished one tenure that doesn't want to give power to Igbos. Odi nma. 

NOW; Seriously, let's be sincere. As things stand today politically, why would the APC even hand power to us Igbos in 2023? 
On what grounds? 
On what records?
On what politics?
Is power given to anyone? 
Is it an appeasement or a gift? 

The APC is a political party. The main focus of a political Party is to hold power and keep it to enable it deliver on its agenda. So if the APC reads that the SE does not want the Presidency or does not have the capacity to help them win and keep power, they will stick with the regions that can and work with individuals who are interested. 

Make no mistake, I have always said, I do not blame us Igbos for the decision majority of us took in 2015. It's our right. But continuing to pretend that it was other regions, Buhari or the APC that made us do what we did then or remain where we are today is purely self deceit and I refuse to play that ostrich game. 

As far back as 2014, I and many others made that argument that Igbo Presidency was very feasible in 2023, ONLY under under the APC, ONLY IF we did a couple of things right politically. I personally continued to speak loudly on that even after the 2015 elections until when I realized that we were not ready to play the politics that was required and now I dare say it may be too late. Or is it not? Time will tell.

For now, we can continue to tell ourselves that we cannot hold the Presidency of Nigeria. I heard and read many of our brethren go from PDP to Biafra/seccesion (read IPOB) to Referendum to "Igbos do not need Presidency but Restructuring" etc forgetting that all that didn't lie squarely with us alone. We think other regions are not reading our body language?

I really don't care what Saraki writes or says because they've all come to realize that it's very easy to play us like a flute. So like Saraki, like Fani Kayode, like Fayose, like Atiku, even Jonah Jang of all people, they keep playing us.

I've learnt not to bother myself anymore to avoid unnecessary abuse from nonentities . As some of us have said, it's good governance we want, even if only one village will be producing the Presidents. So be it.
Ka Chineke mezie okwu. 
Dr Uche[/quote]PDP was not a Yoruba party in 1999, yet it was used to appease them as regards Abiola. Any leader that seeks equity for his people is pleasantly judged in posterity but he who does not withers away.

Include your contact.

Capensis:
Very married and my home is an Empire. Building an Empire requires teaching your wife the 100 years goal of the family and how generational wealth should be sustained in the event of your death.

Most men are timid. You can not have time to keep teaching different women these Secrets of Bloodlines if you keep divorcing. Marriage is greater than sex. Building a bloodline is something beyond the level of understanding of an average black man. So, when I say marriage is huge, I mean it and you must learn to control the waves, the air, the sounds, the lighting and the emotion that flows at your home.

It is even my responsibility to stop religions from infiltrating the mind of my family and ban news that shouldn't filter in. I do not even let my family watch Nigeria news or monitor the elections. So they do not lose hope.

If they know, they are on the next jet abroad and I will have to finance different homes. Money is just a tool, wise men know this. But for a poor man, once he has a few million, he wants a woman to be his slave because he does not even know why he was born, neither does he know why the world exists.

When you get to my point of understanding, you will understand how and why you must use mind control, positively to keep your home safe.

You write quite well and have logic behind them words but pray not to encounter an unreasonable fellow be it man/woman. Every book tells a different story.

Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

Dude, if you are married and do all these to your partner then your are a rare piece but is you are not married and living with your wife, just let quiet abeg. Easier said than done. The problem with some of us is trying to be traditional in a conventional arrangement or being conventional in a traditional union. Take a pick and stick to it.

Houseofglam7:
Hmmmmm

Hope you voted?

bigtt76:
If you were born in September, know that you were your mother's gift to your father on Valentine's day that year

Madam haba, Feb + Nine months is November nau.

contigiency:
You know when a child engages in an unfinished fight, he beats his chest and prides himself as being brave and strong. Atiku, Saraki and the entire PDP will be thought the highest political lessons this Saturday. but for now they can continue to engage in media hype attributing to themselves influence they don't truly have.

Who are you to know what the outcome of the election would be? You sit in your miniature space to make spurious statements. Abeg shift.

StupidInyamiri:
Beautiful
They acknowledged Atiku is corrupt but they claim Nigeria is corrupt so Atiku can’t do worse. Sad argument. My take, some of the educated southern elite just want business as usual. Back to the PDP days of sharing the booty. Anything less wont do.

Dumb a*ss, what has your lord at Bourdillon been doing to Lagos all these years.

XaintJoel20:
We all owe our children and grandchildren some explanations on why we allow a demented and senile PMB to oversee the affirms of Nigeria in country that has over 30 million intellectuals.

They won't blame Buhari but the youths of present day who folded their hands and watch with disdain for a dimwit to rule Nigeria.

Buhari is not mentally and physically fit enough to be the head of his village elders council let alone Nigeria...

#IWeepForNigeria...

Blame re-tards like Sarrki, Madridguy, the SUYA GRILLER and Co. May posterity not judge them kindly.

Who says Ghana's population is 13 million? You guys research before misinforming people. Ghana has a population of close to 30 million people.

tsephanyah:
There's only so much of you to go around. It's not a crime to be selective who you give your time and attention to.

You would definitely be a tasty relish.

kirajustice:
@POLITICSNGR

President Muhammadu Buhari Friday in Abuja appealed for accommodation and tolerance among cattle herders and farmers throughout the country.

Speaking at the State House when he received the leaders of the Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association on Nigeria, MACBAN, on a courtesy visit, the President appealed for calm among all citizens, saying that his government will give equal respect to all citizens irrespective of their ethnic, religious and geopolitical backgrounds.

According to President Buhari, “I appeal to all farmers and herders for restraint, mutual respect and tolerance for one another as people destined to live together in this great country. I appeal for patience and understanding as the administration works towards lasting solutions to these conflicts.”

He also urged the herders to support him in the task of bringing lasting peace to the country.

The President called on state governors to work with the Minister of Agriculture, who he said, had been mandated to work out a solution with the states by which herders will have access to water for their livestock, and farmers will have security against destruction of their farmlands.

President Buhari attributed part of the conflict between the two groups to the climate change phenomenon and population explosion, but regretted that its politicization by selfish individuals who did not mean well for the country did not also help matters.

He emphasized that this conflict was neither religious nor ethnic, but one that his administration has foreseen and warned about.

According to the President, “Before the Benue and Taraba crises, I called the Minister of Agriculture and the Governor of Central Bank and asked them to work with the state governors on rediscovering the gazetted cattle routes, clear of farmlands that had made for peace during the First Republic.”

President Buhari expressed strong confidence that a way around the problem will be found, working with the states which have an important role to play in finding a lasting solution.

“Whatever it will take, I am determined to bring peace between farmers and herders. I urge you all to be patient and exercise restraint while we are working for an enduring solution,” he stressed.

MACBAN, led by Alhaji Mohammed Kiruwa, informed the President that the 20-million strong body had sent the delegation to endorse his bid for a second term of office on account of the administration’s achievements in office which included, the successful clampdown on kidnapping and cattle rustling; and the fight against terrorism and corrupt elements in the society.

Alhaji Kiruwa said President Buhari’s personal qualities of honesty, integrity and his unparalleled commitment to the unity and progress of the nation, also informed his association’s support for a renewal of his tenure.

https://politicsngr.com/2019-buhari-meets-miyetti-allah-aso-rock-photos-details/

Who ever you are, please shush it. Buhari only talks gibberish. We've seen him being interviewed and on campaign grounds yet nothing he says is comprehensible. You all slow pokes should just wake from your dreams if you think that man will win another election here. Maybe in Daura.

maputohq:
Serena 4 d ladies, roger 4 d men

No man, not with the likes of Zverev and Djokovic.

neutonbabs20:
Maria sharapova is going to win for the females

Maria's fire would soon burn out. She doesn't always go beyond the fourth round. Age is telling on her. My favorite of all time though.

21Bandit:
Bianca was too strong for her....
The class was seen despite Bianca having to cope with a back pain for the second and third set....

This 18 years got me glued.

Whitney at 17 still has much to learn to peak as the likes of Venus, Serena and wobbly Sloane Stephens.

sholay2011:
Didn't know there is a tennis community on NL. I am watching this tournament like crazy.

Rooting for Djokovic (the best ever for me, not Federer) and Serena. But there are lots of ways things can go, especially for the ladies' draw: Naomi Osaka, Aryna Sabalenka, Petra Kvitova, Angelique Kerber, Sloane Stephens etc.

Nigerian American Whitney Osuigwe was beaten today.

Fynline:
Old pictures

Check these sources out.
https://www.nairaland.com/2239266/battle-field-discussion-picture-video/684#71586064

https://www.businessdayonline.com/news/article/mamman-nur-boko-haram-factional-leader-shot/

Really old pictures. NA sha.

tsephanyah:
I'm an old soul. From a different dimension and some other planet. And i know this fighter jet doesn't belong to Nigeria,. Fake picture, it might also be a fake news

Which dimension are you from young lady? Which of the star star systems, PLAIEDES?

babsbolad:
Where did you get this your questionable statistics from? Are you really kidding here or something?? Igbos are more than the Yorubas? Did you truly type this or slip of the fingers?

Ask ifa.

ClearFlair:
Honestly, I only know and remember PDP for two things...corruption and greed. I'm not saying the APC is filled with saints but I've seen people with really good intentions in APC. The kind of plans these people are putting together for Nigeria are mind-boggling. I am convinced that given another fours years under APC, Nigeria will blossom.

From your comments here, it's obvious you are a paid clown. I have no biases for any of the parties but truthfully, the present government has underperformed. Go check the stats for jobs created and lost and I'm sure your sleep will be filled with nightmares.

When the west provides counterpart funding, its mainly as their citizens coming in to earn money through the funds provided by the host country. Paul Kegame of Rwanda got wise early and stopped such practices. Knowing the expatriate upkeep and allowances would remunerate dozens of higher level staff of his country's people.

chicoMX:
Same thing they did to Thomas Shakanra

Not just Sankara but any African leader with a vision to liberate his people from neo colonial tactics gets removed. They equip a rival group from amongst his people and just sit back and watch the damage. We deserve better.

Xisnin:
He initiated nothing.
Even China and Russia who has the military and economic resources put up such money have attempted to
do it. So it is one tiny country which can't produce its own toothpick that will make such attempt.
I don't think you know what 500 billion dollar means.

Africa remains a shithole because the citizens are easy to fool.

Your intentions as regards this thread are surely not sublime. If you don't know what Ghaddafi was killed for then no need discussing. Bye.

IamJix:
I wan learn something from the emboldened.

He initiated the African bank, pledging his more than 500 billion dollars worth of gold bars as 50% start up. His greatest undoing. That was the reason he had to go, just hope our young generation would read more about conspiracy theories.

safarigirl:
i feel bad for her.

As old as she is, she is acting like one of those 19-year old instagram thots that rap artists pass around for fun. This is a lady that purportedly has a career in TV, but still, she feels the need to reduce herself to an object just for IG likes and morally unsound men to hail her.

Says a lot of her self esteem.

Ouch! Safarigirl this is as blunt as it can ever get.