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mimima:
If am in this woman's shoe,

1. I will not add my money in the any investment with my hussy.secretly i will invest in my childrens name becauase u dont know tomorrow.The man might agree with the wife today,tomorrow he will take side with his people.

2. if for any reason i decided to put my money,the property must be held in trust for our kids.we must execute the documents.

but the man must be sincere before i could risk taking the second option.

Joagbaje:
Pls explain

Joagbaje:
Well for those who say self-service is a sin against God , what do you say about  Fluid test.(sperrm). After all you have ton self-service to bring the sperrm out

Is it a sin to do Fluid test?

coogar:
it's simple biology.
every man wakes up with a wood every morning - is that because my mind is perverse or because of my hormones?
now if someone with little threshold decides to act on his Situation and w@nks in the bathroom, has that man sinned?

would you rather have him fornicate or r@pe an unsuspecting babe walking across the street?

Joagbaje:
The mastubation thing is a biological matter, dealing with urge or pressure. But the imagination of the mind is a different thing , that can be termed as lust. A man does not need to have imagination to mastubate . What of virgins who mastubates , do they have any intimate experience to Imsgine? What of those who have wet dreams?

Sex is God's invention. He is the mastermind behind it—and His creation is worth far more to Him than it is to us. This beautiful expression of love was created out of His own heart, as a gift to be experienced between a husband and wife. It is only in marriage that this manifestation of intimacy can be fully enjoyed in the depth for which it was created.

"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4, NIV).

"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4, KJV).

The more beautiful and unique something is (like intimate intercourse), the more power it holds over our lives, either for good or bad influence. That is why it is so easy for the devil to corrupt the most precious of God//'//s gifts. When we become more in love with the gifts than the One who endowed them, the things that were designed to bless us begin to destroy us instead. Yes, God cares about what we do with our bodies, in public or in private. He doesn//'//t want us to abuse ourselves in any way.

In fact, an older definition of self-service is "self-abuse." Although more modern dictionaries may no longer carry this definition, they are still linked together under self-abuse:

Self-abuse noun[/b]¹

1. Abuse of oneself or one//'//s abilities.
2. self-service.

1 Corinthians 6:18 (NIV) further confirms this, saying that unlawful intimate relations defile our own bodies. "Flee from intimate immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body."

[b]"Isn't it still better to self-service than to commit fornication?"

The easy answer to this question would be, "Yes, it is better to self-service, because at best it corrupts only one person. It certainly is the lesser of two evils." However, why would a loving, holy, all-powerful God abandon you to a situation in which you have to choose any evil, whether it be "lesser" or "greater?" To really answer this question, we must again go back to God's original plan for sex.

First of all, self-service will not truly relieve the intimate pressure that one may feel. It may for a short moment, but in the long run it only creates a deeper desire and capacity for sex, which will lead to more self-service. If you let yourself become enslaved to a intimate high, you will find that you need to go to increasingly extreme acts to maintain the same degree of excitement. There are even ungodly sex therapists who recommend self-service as a way of increasing intimate desire, not lessening it. This creates a vicious circle, like the junkie who craves a "fix," but is only temporarily satisfied. The more he indulges in his dependency, the more ensnared by addiction he becomes. This is the nature of all sin. That is why Jesus declared that all who sin become a slave to sin (John 8:34).

If anyone sees his brother commit a sin that does not lead to death, he should pray and God will give him life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that he should pray about that. 1John5:16

Wexelion:
i see who the hell is medussa?

ndu_chucks:
Was Bobby Brown at the service?

cap28:
r kelly appears shaken and out of it.

cap28:
Patricia Houston - married to Whitney's brother (the guy who just came up to put his arm around her)

mukina2:
he has left .

Stevie wonder performing now.

otokx:
Is her husband there?