Your style of politics is old bro, what counts is the manifesto, your capability not photo or video circulation, I can see you are a jobless tout that's why u can do anything to be in your master pay roll, if you really have a legit hustle, u will understand, you are not fit to speak to where we are because your are a dog protecting your master but we are the masters, our generation knows we are working hard for a better Nigeria. Grow up and get sense
Very GOOD QUESTION. Such Threads should be allowed to soar. The Truth is, such is basically an African thing and most specially a Negro-African thing.
To a Caucasian, Traveling means leisure. He travels to explore and learn newer ways of doing things and not to create tornadoes. But most Nigerians leave the country for GREENER PASTURES and not for exploration. So, leaving Nigeria is now a huge source of employment & forex which will definitely extend to family members.
Caucasians are also excited & boastful of their trips to other parts of the world. In Fact, such serves as an integral part of their RESUME' when applying for Jobs. But not for Greener Pastures and such can never be said of their relatives who rather assume an oblivious perception of their siblings trips.
I had that insinuations until I traveled out and know that it's still d same thing, let me blow ur mind, we are in Abroad because of survival, if our useless politicians achieve what whites did in there country, nobody will want to leave Nigeria, I met some Nigerians that nationalized in Gambia, Ghana and Cotonou, we are here for money the least pay u can get in UK is 10 pounds or 9.6 pounds per hr, multiply it with 12 hrs a day, then calculate it a week or month and know how far, Naija is Scrap.
Sorry for what happened, I was depressed living in Nigeria, as I get to London, I feel relieved, everything is organized, just be law abiding and you will have peace, some Nigerians never wanted to go home, they rather go to Gambia and Ghana to live for them to have peace of mind.... Bro find a way to get out of that country
Soulflai: I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.
Why will u leave ur wife in Kaduna? Your wife is attached to him because he has money, she is not contented with what u have and that's a red flag, I advise you watch her closely and also save some money for your self incase of tomorrow....
He renovated the more than 10 hospitals, built hostel in some of them, before you get contract, you must be tested, he is the first governor in Anambra to refurbish schools and donated air condition buses to the while schools in Anambra, it's Peter Obi that increased the lecturers salary that made the state university not to be on strike, you cannot spend a dime without proper assessment and can never get an appointment based contacts.... I live in Anambra State,
H0711: I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.
The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.
I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.
I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.
Is the innocent child is your sister will u dump her because of her natural ailment, you want to quit ur marriage and go back to the village,? Women sef
I wonder who made these laws to favour women, as she is living her life, na to go Bleep one single fool out there, guys as I always say, live your life the way you want it because these devils in human can cut your life short
HarunaWest: Who locked SS and NC for LP. Don't compare Osun Election with Nigeria's Election. Gaskiya we all know that Oyetola was rigged in with remote control. Now the people just gave him a straight red. He was never a popular candidate so he can't command any followership. To win elections, you need structures in place. It will shock you to know that NNPP has a superb structure when compared to Labour Party. Obi is a good man, i don't know his antecedents, but if he doesn't have a solid structure, things will get rough for him. He should work on alliances and make compromises.
I am one of the structure bro, I can match PDP or APC anywhere, any how, thuggery, spending etc in the south east, bros na we dey here, till campaign start you go know how far.... I wish and pray to see MC Oluomo in US, let me show him what thuggery is all about....
DamnnNiggarr: My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.
So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.
That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.
Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?
Text her that you are pleased by her gesture but you have already sorted things out, your wife will be back any moment from now, thanks for her care. It might b a setup
YinkaOlusesi16: majority of women don`t know what they want.
Pure truth, I ve experienced that before, even at these stage, am prepared for anything, be at alert in dealing with your wife, just be good and focused, dedicate some money for ur self, make sure u take care of ur family and her too, always engage her in discussion everytime to know what she can do in future, know her friends and break any threatening friendship from her if u want to enjoy ur marriage
123guys: Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.
2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.
I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with
those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.
Oga no one will advise you except yourself,you know what you like as a man, what you can to relate too, search deep if she worth your time and suffering, virgins do fight because of there in experience, they do awkward things too, like I said, you know what u have, I guess u only lust her not love, be guided bro
It has always been a dream since I was 10, now 19 and my dream is reality.
I will soon work my way to NY to recide in Alabama.
My dream of becoming Governor of New York, U.S Secretary of State and subsequently becoming U.S President (after we amend the constitution to make naturalized citizens eligible to run for the Presidency) is materializing.
Just a week plus here, I know the difference between a first world country and a third world shithole.
I implore all of you to work your ass off to the U.S and live that shithole to your selfish politicians.
Fuckernizer: I had to create this new account. I can't sleep. I think I have committed a grave mistake, and it might cost me my life. I can't even type this with a straight face, I'm so ashamed and scared at the same time. Today was my girlfriend's mom burial. I love her so much, i really do, and the love was mutual.
I even introduced her to my mother, so did she. About two months ago, her mother died, and today was the burial. As a loving boyfriend, i decided I was going to be there by her side all day, because she needed me. Ever since her mother died, we've never had sex. So today while she was getting ready to attend the church mass (catholic), I kinda barge into her naked in her room (She just finished bathing) and was wearing a towel that was revealing her bust, and thigh.
I was full of lust, I leaned over and kissed her, and it led to a quickie, I won't call it sex, because it was a big mistake, and shouldn't have happened in the first place. It all happened so fast, and I have myself to blame. This night, I keep hallucinating about her dead mother. I keep seeing her face in every corner. I feel like she going to suffocate me to death while I'm sleeping. Right now, all the lights in my rooms are turned on.
Help me guys, it was a mistake, and its not intentional at all. How do I overcome this dilemma? Will her mother come after me?
Kikiki, I hope you are not high on odogwu bitters or Alomo bitters, you guys had a consensual quickie, you seeing her mums face meant that she is watching u and she will deal with you if u play with her daughter, I had that kind of dream when I was wooing my wife, her late mum came to me and warned me that if make her daughter happy that she will make road for us to be rich, anytime we had issues with Mt wife, things will turn very bad but when we are good, money will flow right and center, this is a true life story.
I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.
But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.
Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.
Don't start what you cannot finish, sharing room is very important right now because it will help in checkmating them, secondly get a 4 by 4 mattress each for them to manage, can they share room if they are in boarding school, Sir use your brain ooo
Unknown Gunmen was killed,they came to disrupt burial ceremony going on in Ihialla, they were killed by security forces of the town with the help of other towns, unknown Gunmen doesn't carry carry corpses of people they killed, let's be guided and change the narrative.
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