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Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

Please bring your husband here we need to hear his side story abeg cos I cannot judge one side.

I know women well, when you guys start making money you intend to act bossy ur case maybe the same... I said may.....
Meanwhile keep listening your friends..

Thomthom:
Nawao how person go japa finish comot for Syria instead of to hustle send dollar go house Na to go bomb Nigeria Church for USA .. why these people like bomb like this?

An average Muslim is a terr.........


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. Orist.

Ikennaford:
I'm not a rich guy, just Wanna help.... But the problem now is I don't know how to do this, I want this funds to get to people proposed for this, pls I want opinions on how to disburse these funds, the payments will be made through b. t. c thanks and God bless

Please if possible, let the mods contact me, they know how to sort, I just want it to get to the right people that needs it

Good evening op, please I really need this money... as a student in my final year and a father of two it's not easy.
House rent in school and at home, project etc.
Pls help.

[quote author= post=118314309]Na sleep we go read about next tomorrow.
Peter Obi, him too sleep..........after so much lying upandan [/quote]As old as you are you don't know what's good for the future of ur kids....
Na for grave you come get sense?

Teaser4:
Russian Defence Minister Sergei Shoigu has ordered his troops to withdraw from the west bank of the Dnipro River in the face of Ukrainian attacks near the southern city of Kherson.

In televised comments, the general said it was no longer possible to supply Kherson city and proposed taking up defensive lines on the eastern bank of the river.

He claimed it was safer for troops to leave because Ukraine was planning to flood the city, but did not provide evidence.

The announcement marked one of Russia's most significant retreats and a potential turning point in the war, now nearing the end of its ninth month.


Source: Skynews

Please someone should wire me 2k make i take buy ORIJIN use am celebrate this news, Biko.
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CoronaVirusRelo:
The shithole is broke and suffering heavy losses.

The Kremlin dwarf started what it cannot finish, which is very common of short people.

They always over ambitious in ways to make up for the height they lack.

Putin has learnt the hard way and I hope he makes peace with the West.

You don’t have a 1% chance of winning a war against NATO, so why start it!

All these coconut heads will not tow that line, they will never reason like human.
Russia ran away from bucha, ran away from. Lyman at night, cross river dinapro on foot at night...
This is the same kharson that Putin incorporate in the Russia federation and dare anyone to attack it now they are on the run.
I pity the poor soldiers that are been butcher their everyday the by the resilience Ukraine army. You cannot defeat a United people under a leader like zelensky.

Eagba:
lol e pain am!
There's no single sense in that your master head. Instead of am to go learn from China on how to deal with America, e carry prick come out dey dance naked.
Now small Nigeria can frighten lossia.
Wait till first quarter of next year when recession sets in on Russia then you'll know your master is an insult to stupid people

why are you arguing with kids?

Opolopoopolonio:
Where are the pro-Putin luuunatics

Slava Ukraini

Comrade I am looking for money to buy orijin or igboya to celebrate this news.....
Russia ran away from kharson same way they ran away in under he cover of darkness in Lyman...


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Insidenaija:
Lady caught on CCTV poisoning her boyfriend’s drink.

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Wonder shall never end.

what if it's not poison but love portion?

Tokskob2008:
Lol, I was about saying this too. Let her contribute half while the man also do the same but then again she will say he isn't man enough to be requesting anything from her like it's written in the Bible that a man shall kill himself just to please his lady.

Imagine, one violated unsafe hole detecting for the man..... Chaiii
. The simp even say na God show him but God no tell you she will request for 3m wedding?
The op is not a man he just carry dik.

Jackanda1:
Bla bla bla.... Its nine months they are yet to capture and keep one Ukrainian city.

All they know is is to conduct military parades and threaten the world with nuclear weapons as if they are the only nuclear state.

Don't mind Putin robots and America's haters who feed fat on day dreams.
Before Russia is preparing to launch a nuclear strike America will know and guess what will happen next....
All this emergency war analysts who cannot predict or forecast what bandits and bokoharam will do next are busy talking about what's is beyond their mental capacity.

Besides Russia ran away from kharson yesterday, dozens of them ran away last night.

Dear Obedients,your fellow compatriot need some money urgent to settle rent in school ,pls I can no longer access my room.
This is my real username and my nairaland account,pls help

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Symphony007:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/11/07/obi-wont-attend-debates-where-tinubu-atiku-are-absent-okupe/?fbclid=IwAR1wtBNjN2aYvkQTo0Zz2vtXKdY7aTynAVbvyaVMJDXurKMMSMx6weTca7c

Dear Obedients your fellow compatriot need some money urgent to settle rent in school ,pls I can no longer access my room.
This is my real username and account,pls help

2019200363 kuda bank

femisplash:
fraud

after 8yrs of his administration that's all you can concert?
Guy abeg excuse me.

femisplash:
Because you are deluded to think Tinubu whom you hate would be affected but you speak ignorantly. I can confirm Obi using Fidelity bank to clean up corrupt loots.

will you judge shut up already if you don't have anything reasonable to say...
How many anti corruption agencies or police station in Nigeria ever invited obi for questioning concerning his administration?
Tinubu was docked here in Nigeria for corruption charges, he was also docked I'm the United State, true or false?
Do not allow hates to ruin you bro.

pepperdemzombie:
When dem arrest the idiot for unlawful snapping and send am to jail now, dem go dey disturb Abike Dabiri up and down.

Do you think Germany na Nigeria?

E Pain shall.

Tk4all:
That incarnation shii is real bro, i pity people who continue to live in self denial that there is no life after here.

Even some christians(jw) will tell you stories that are not true to some extent just because they want to prove a point.

For me, i believe that any thing that happens on this earth physically have spiritual undertone. And there is life after this one just that we can't explain it.

My father died in 1994 in Benue state, 2001 i moved to Nigeria state and while in the market I saw my father ahead of me i immediately tap my friend that knows my father well and was like this is a ghostbut as a son i followed him to some distance when I was about to touch him my friend said no that I should call his attention, I said baba ma so he turn look at me and disappeared... Omo my friend faint in the market.
I was confused and still confused 20yrs now.

Moh247:



Oga no bastard in marriage joor

The woman you paid bride price on and the children from such marriage are yours

You paid for all expenses during pregnancy, paid for school fees and upkeep from your hard earned money

If anybody tells you nonsense or come to claim your Son kill him with matchet and claim he is a kidnapper

Tell your wife you know the truth and if she ever dare tell anyone she's dead

Your wife gives you happiness and joy and also sacrifice for you... Don't let anyone or anything steal your joy


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so that the secret husband continues drilling the wife hole, right?

I must know the identity of the person sharing my wife with me.

asanausana91:
see foolish thinking. The Benue people are even angry with Ortom for not paying their salaries and pension. Infact those Foolish governors will regret it.
God bless Atiku the in-coming president of Nigeria.

Liar, minorities like you make more noise than the majority... who told you we are angry with our governor?

Do you think Benue people will vote Muhammad disciples again, be it atiku of tinubu?

Benue is for Free Alia and Obi.

Kobojunkie:
Take the child to a dermatologist and get specifics on what exactly is going on with her skin abeg!

ok Kobo, copy that.

Beremx:
Buy tribotan and apply on the area.

It's normally comes with stomach pain too.

Kobojunkie:
My mistake, I meant the comment that it happens to all light-skinned folks. It's never happened to me, nor anyone in my family, and I am relatively light than the pictured child.

Your responses to my question regarding diagnoses is vague, and hence the reason why I ask for specifics. Simply as that. I have had skin infections myself and there are specific names for each kind of infection. As a matter of fact, given that dermatologist is a well-established branch of medicine, telling someone it is a skin infection amounts to saying literally nothing. So, you have not really given me much to go on by saying that.

As for eczema, there are at least 7 different types out there but you didn't say the doctor told you it was eczema, leaving me to wonder if you even spoke to a doctor at all. You claim the doctor gave you an antifungal medication, which rules out eczema since eczema isn't fungal. However, you claim it is eczema...

Please take the kid to a good hospital and demand specifics abeg. If it turns out it is eczema, it is still a good idea to visit a doctor abeg! https://khealth.com/learn/eczema/types/

You sound vocal but you lack concentration when reading..
...... I never said it happens to all light skin people, I said according to old mamas the thing is always more telling on them and its do take time to leave them.

..... I never said it's Ezemas, I said it's usually appears "like" Ezemas failure to administered drugs it's spread just as other is in the picture above.

.... I don't think i own you more explanations on whether I have seen a doctor or not... I have a brother who's a doctor and a wife who's a nurse yet we have chosen to see a doctor in the hospital for medical advise.

I live in the North I do not think you know what's obtainable here.

Go and read what in posted again pls.

Kobojunkie:
Your first daughter also had it and it disappeared probably means it is connected with genetics or an allergy to products in your household.

There are 100s of different kinds of infections out there, so if you can be more specific as far diagnosis is concerned, I may be able to search up something close.

2. The statement in bold is utter rubbish..

Ok there's no statement in bold here.

Every mother knows what am talking about here, Yoruba called this (Ela) it appears like Ezemas and spread on the skin..
Kobo.... look I do not know how to satisfy you with explanation again.

Kobojunkie:
What is the diagnosis that you got from the hospital?

They said is skin infection which i disputed... my first daughter had the same thing but appears once and disappeared.. Never show up again but many women said people with fair skin are most affected and it do take time go permanently.

Kobojunkie:
Take your child to see a doctor and get the issue resolved before it scares her or something. In this year 2022, I see no reason why anyone should be asking some of these strange questions really when we understand now that there is no reason for anyone to suffer in ignorance.

Kobo this is yr 2022 as you said.. why don't you asked whether I have done that?
The hospital prescribed penicillin ointment for her which turn out to be ineffective.
The only thing that works here is fulcin and the Yoruba herbal, but the re- occurrence is what am saying.. It's cleared like 2-3 months then back again.

VeryWickedMan:
OP do you eat snake peppersoup?

I wish I see one, but no.

Foodqueen:
That's reaction to soap, either your washing soap or bathing soap.

Make sure you rinse off soap from cloth properly before sun drying.

Get ABF cream, it works like magic.

No it's not always like that its when i start giving her fulcin tablets while using antifungal cream that it changes colour and Peel off, it's also comes with serious stomach pain.
Some say is Ela.

My babygirl is 4yrs now. When she was one we noticed some patches on her shoulders that looks dry some said it's ELA, after using Yoruba AGbo the patches just peel off.
The problem is it's keep coming back.

DollarBag:
Thank you very much dear

Because that's what you want to hear.
Them tied your hands and legs to where she seduced you?