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NaijaRoyalty:
APC has finished this country

Let me go and service my generator

Yes they are only completing what PDP started.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Insignificant elements with only a hole within their legs as something important to those that values it.


Indeed,TheFutureIsFemale.

Nigeria don suffered, see the ape that want to rule us yet the youths of which 90% of them are jobless are following him.


Na who we offend?

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

If I catch my wife still contacting his ex I will forgive her on one condition and that is she will not use phone again.

If my wife fuvk her ex even if it's once I will end the marriage.

If she collect money from her ex I will forgive her under one condition, I will never give her shishi.

Any woman that can fuvk another man in marriage she will end you cos all your secrets are with him.

NOETHNICITY:
So USA is justified to intervene still in Taiwan and Russia should not intervene in Cremia?

how do you reconcile that?

Taiwan is an independent country whereby Crimea never claim independent from Ukraine.

God1000:
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Ah said it here before..

China cannot do anything but make noise.

Obiwank:
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Thanks all!

May God locate me in this Buhari hardship.

Richy4:
<< I understand perfectly what you wrote previously man...I would have stayed away if I didn't get it...
<<The reason why u brought up the issue is for us to look at it and air our opinion right? .. and it will be really funny and foolhardy if we all follow a certain pattern or a parallel line without looking at possible scenarios or "what if(s)"

<< Now, why did you call that individual a friend?..on the scale of 1% - 100%, what percentage would u rate him before you traveled?.. Is it all male individuals u introduce to your spouse as friends?

***NOW LET'S LOOK AT THIS SCENARIO***
<<You were married... Probably talks to your wife all the times from courtship to marriage..
<<Suddenly, u traveled..she misses you..
<<She had no one to talk to physically except u on the phone or videos which u and I knows it's different...
<<She ran into your friend and they starts talking... some women being whom they are jokingly accused him of not calling since you left,..he promised to call on her once in a while to see how she was doing..
<< He fulfilled the promises and called..Nigerian network being what it is, she was not reachable..
<< He tried the following day and told her he has been calling but her number was not going through... She now decided to give out her personal or private number just incase..
<< Due to the fact she has no one to talk to for a long time, she talked and forgot herself and overshared sensitive information..

Do you think this can be a possible scenario? Do you think something like this can never happen? Just be sincere.. remember u have no evidence that your wife was cheating.. if not, u would have presented it...

maybe u should have made a proper investigation before leaving the shores of Nigeria.. it would have helped your sanity because what u are accusing her of doesn't hold water in my opinion..

You sound like the cheating friend here.


I will not be surprised if you are the man in question.

Qtrpst4:
At least I have a father, but do you have, since marriage is useless to you am sure stupidity runs in your leanage

Why you come the dignify GAY with a mention.?

jeromestarks:
Simply put, a girl over the age of 25 is a nightmare. Spoilt pvssy, bad character, damaged womb, destiny used by yahoo boys etc.
Go for virgin girls who are still under their parents and have peace

Good morning virgin advocate...
I pray God give you a virgin so you come here after ten yrs of marriage for your testimony.



As for me I love already made hole but not borehole, I do not have strength to beg liking to open legs.

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

I have a policy.

I don't trust my wife with any pastor.


I do not trust any man aside her blood brothers.

I do not even trust her with my brothers.


Step brother, for what na?


Your step brother the fuvk your wife and she's cooperating with the guy.


She's comfortable with it.


Keep your kids away from the man for that's what is bringing your wife closer to him.


Let him know that what ever is going on between the two should seized.


But as someone advised you, be careful else if the wife love him you are a dead man walking.

YaQsGaYa:
Hmmm he should know better, there is no how Security agents will come and treat him like that, definitely it’s an intel gotten from someone. He should have known the dangers and the implications of such. May God Help him because they will use him as an escape goat �

Looks like you live on the Mars.

CockAndBullStor:
It's a case of unknown gunmen 1 vs unknown gunmen 2. There's no case actually! Rather let the wife tell us why his husband is loyal to different factions of the unknown gunmen. Forget about the 'military' in the writeup, those guys can do anything to implicate the Nigerian Army.

Next, please.

Your brain has only two white stones like ice fish.


The guy operates a beer parlour which is a public place for anyone that wish to patronize him.


You hails the dehumanization of igbos but keep mute for terrorists and bandits up North.

airminem:
Good one. Cut all their sources of refreshment and logistics, like we are currently dealing with all the terrorists in Nigeria

Can you say same to the northern terrorists and bandits?


Some of you are devils in human form.

Faiththatworks:
Hmmmmm....
Although I'm a deeply religious person with total belief in the power of Jesus Christ to save and deliver,I feel a bit undecided about this story.
Although we are quick to associate this kind of acts with demon possession, but I think it's very clear the women involved are lesbians.
Both women are married but aren't satisfied sexually by their male partners thus they always end up in the arms of each other.
I believe the man involved must have tried to seperate the two women,and as we are told in the report,he went to physically threaten the lover of his wife.
For the other woman,her husband saw the futility of trying to keep a lesbian under his roof and divorced her, giving her all the space she needed to continue her amorous act.
My 2 cents on this story is for society to keep debating the issue of homosexuality and lesbianism, although it's right to criminalize it,but we must keep on researching why any human being will feel more sexually aroused in the arms of someone of the same sex.
Why do people have this feeling,is it a sickness,or is it an act that can can outgrown,is it caused by hormonal defect, society must keep asking these questions and so many more questions.
For the deceased,may he rest in peace,for the jealous lover,l hope she will have her day in court.
God bless Nigeria.

How old are you?

Elistho:
It is another day for you to know parents owe their offsprings a lot. In the words of a singer, until they "stand strong", parents owe them a mighy edged sword.

Two individuals decided to start a relationship, get married, have sex and bring forth children. What was the plan? To come tell the kids in a few years that they should find their way? They're grown?

As an offspring, your parent owe you a lot, they owe you education, they owe you an average lifestyle, don't be ashamed because you're still under your parents roof and feeding from them? Where are we supposed to get all these from? Our ass?

You also owe parents a lot when you stand strong, at the end, it's a win win for everybody. Both parents and offsprings. Don't follow social media standards, they said you're 25 and living with your parents, a shame. Standards? Who set the standards?

Article Credit-- Elisha Thompson.
Coined out from Facebook.
10/09/2022.

You can announce this to Northerners.

BadNews:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/8/man-allegedly-stabbed-to-death-by-his-wifes-lesbian-lover-in-anambra.html

Even in my next life i will detest all this elephants that nickname themselves chubby.


Just imagine this ugly hippo with terrible characters.


. May God punish all gay and lesbians on this forum plus including world over.

Jeon:
ONLY A FOOLISH GIRL WILL ACCEPT A DAMAGED MAN.

How do you define a damaged man?


But is very easy to spot a damaged girl eg through their kpekus meter.
Sagging breast,poor manners,etc.

Stevenson20:
Ukraine don't want to learn, America keep on deceiving you guys. By the time Russia will be through with you, you understand that there is difference between Advice and Advise

I kukuma trust President Putin, man of few words.

when are they going to be through?

Ukraine is not Nigeria.

DrBrainstorm:
Is this a joke? Imagine blowing up your house and calling it good news.

There was no single Ukrainian soldier or civilians inn that ammunition depot you guys should stop spreading nonsense.

Mynd44:
Ukraine is bombing Ukraineand calling it "good news"


Is this playing?

No, they are bombing occupiers and any other Collarators.


You see my friend, that's why terrorists are festering up north, in the name of not killing our people.

Ukraine is not Nigeria.

Chidi2022:
From 2010 till date that i have known you, i know you don't have sense... and i do not expect you to grow one now...... go and sleep dear.....

So you are offended by my question?


Ok, sorry.

Chidi2022:
You never start... You go still cry blood...May that your scamming hands be amputated since you mentioned it... Idiot... cheap petty thief...

wait o,what made you think the guy is a scammer?
Did you transact business with him in the past?

If No then you are just looking for trouble.

I think the sane thing d is the ask how he intends to help the guy and not name calling.

WhiteIverson:
If you need or know someone who needs a kidney donor, I am willing to donate.

I am willing to do same.

Savageman:
Hi everyone, after wasting 5 years of my life in benin doing Yahoo yahoo, gambling and wasting all the money i made on clubing, women, drugs and police case.. I came back to my parents house in Abuja to start a new legit life.

I'm 24 years old, a phone technician. When i came back to my parents house, i use the little money with me to open a phone repair shop in my area and some making little money. After couple of months working i meet this beautiful girl, who came to my shop to repair her phone. We got talking, exchange movies and contact and we became very close. She always come to my shop almost everyday and anytime she comes she will ask me of money (sometimes 1k or 2k) for something.. We would talk and watch movies together(she loves movies)..

Story short after about a month, i invited over to my house(parents house, but my room is not joined with the house) we were together and watching movies, well we had s*x. That's how it started.

Well the thing is she always bill me 2k, 1k, 5k. And am trying to arrange my life with the little money I'm making from my phone repair business. I'm saving up to buy a laptop to learn programming. and this girl always bill me anytime she comes to my shop. and anytime she come over to my place we always have s*x.. I want to stop all this, we are not in any relationship, she told me she doesn't have a boyfriend. I'm tired and i want to save up for my future. Im just confuse, How can i tell this girl i don't want this kinda friendship/relationship?

Please help me move to fp

#FutureisFemale...... This is a broke and hungry olosho.


When next she visit be the first to ask her for money.... She will never ask you again.