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ugodson:
What d guy sent is totally unacceptable i get it. But when u ladies come here to say Marriage is not an achievement which i agree sgain ITS NOT, but u dont have to come here to say it as of u are sad . From your tone u are definitely not married.
If u are proposed to wont u marry?
No offense, if it came out wrongly.

And Yes i know is not always sweet i get that too. Have a nice day

They say all those stuffs in the public but go home at night to a silent room and cry secret tears.

Marriage is not achievement yet they will not allow the ones that believes in it to enjoy their husbands.

KingOfTheDamned:
E pain you ba? Why are all you below average looking , over aged, will die alone, Nigerian women always bitter ?

Tell them.

Beremx:
there’s nothing to prove she’s still having his contact. It is actually the other way round

Also there's nothing to proof that she's not having the man's number.
Two side to every story.

Ventura1:
You are ignorant

Ignorant of what?
Did you hear the man side of the story?

Dmacqh:
Online sympathizers , advisers , this is one side story.

Why is she having contact with him after seven years ?
What stopped her from deleting his contact and blocking his line since seven years ago ? Clout chasers.

She’s advertising.
Likely, men will be sliding in her DM for marriage.

Thank God am BBC reading matured response now unlike the ones from ladies that have given up on marriage already.

DriverX:
There are two sides to a story

Thank you.

Toriagirl:
So after all these years he still has the lady's number, and he's a married man, is there something they're not telling us?

And did the old lady denied having his number too?

Islandlady:
When did Marriage become an important achievement that is making this Mumu man to mock the lady

I bet he is not really happy in that marriage sef...A child in adult skin

So said single women approaching menopause.


Deep inside you,you wish.

Kwanza:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/gemade-may-replace-alia-as-benue-apc-guber-candidate/

Gemade will never rule Benue state.
Gemade is a failed politician.

There's no road to Gemade local government.

What have Gemade did for the people of Benue state in all his yrs in politics.


If anyone try to remove Alia, elections will not hold in Benue state.

abobote:
Tiv man, you are pained coz they are trying to give an Idoma man chance

Is Gemade an idoma man?

PavillionEnergy:
This girl is constantly on my WhatsApp status with her tiktok videos but she ignores my calls.

That girl scam you.... She was never in Abj.

The guys that dress the way you described above are local Yahoo boys.

michlins:
first thing first, what skill do you possess amongst the ones I mentioned?


You can keep making excuses for your criminal acts or decide to go out there to grind it hard knowing that no one cares about whatever thing you're going through. I deal with my own wahala like every day. Sometimes I cry but I don't steal

pls stop all this na, op never states anywhere in his write-ups that he's jobless pls.


Read again.


Most of you just have problem with giving yet on Sunday you shout more than the preacher man.

Stop looking for excuses if you cannot help.

Deltawarri:
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CfG4HM8g7sr/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

See unity in Biafra land. yet they look at Yoruba and Hausa as their problem.






Chaiiii.

truthsayer009:
What struck me so much about this thread is women are so much willing to marry something they really hate all the rest of their lives because they want to settle down quickly. This isn't even fair on themselves not to talk of the other person.

After all this her previous post you listed there, It is completely obvious that she detest short guys which is nothing new. So why she wants to marry something she detest so much is beyond me!

Pozehnani, every thing you mentioned about this guy has been terrible so far, you're borderline disgusted with this guy and irritated. But you want to walk down the isle with him because you're desperate for marriage?

If I was your parent, I will flog you!

You said it all.....
Most of them do not understand how God works...you said you detest short guys not knowing that God's plan for peace in your marriage is only thru short man,say no and end up with a beast.

check that post you will understand that age is not even on her side.
she even describe her self as a beautiful girl that people are falling for.

ManirBK:
Source Russian MOD

https://www.newtelegraphng.com/russia-38-nigerian-mercenaries-killed-in-ukraine-12-still-fighting/

Russia's robots turn propagandist.

Lastmankc:
The simp said she's from auchi

He's not serious.

Soon pusssy go carry him go begging the daughter of Jezebel.

Lastmankc:
Nah Edo babe ooo

The name is blessing... Who?

smartidemudia28:
Is Peter Obi Gradually Breaking The "Structure Jinx"? By Smart Idemudia


https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/is-peter-obi-gradually-breaking-the-structure-jinx-by-smart-idemudia/

Oga who structure epp?


PDP had structure yet it laid foundation for the destruction of Nigeria.


APC has structures yet is killing us on daily basis all thanks to ugm and Fulani terrorists.


We do not need structure again.

We will better waste our votes on obi.

frozen70:
Why you wan kill yourself to convince sohow much you love him

How are you even sure he realy loves you, not that he wants you to be his bed mate

A guy that listens to gossips[color=#990000][/color]

Well keep trying until you can't try again

why do you have to gossip at all?

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

I saw this and it was posted by you where you refers to short people as been below society standard and I wonder why you are crying here today cos a short man is not taking your calls.








You know.....when you're that hot chick that has turned down so many men in your area and work place, there's this high expectations from everyone to see the kind of guy you would end up with. Some will even tell you to your face.

Now, if it happens that you end up with someone not up to society standards for a partner or what he should look like, say... a short man for instance ( considering the way society see them), then there's a problem and you'll hear things like, "after all the shakara, see the short man she married."

Or

They'll say "Maybe no normal man is coming for her again, so she has no choice but to settle for anything". These are the kind of remarks you get to hear at such times.

One was like, for someone her height and Class we didn't expect anything less but alas all that forming was nothing.

So, I begin to Wonder. Are short people of low standard or not considered fit for good things just because they are short? Or is there something missing with them?

Don't they deserve better like every other person? Im baffled and I want to know.

Any lady here dating a short guy?
What has your experience been like?
Are you missing out on any action?

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

Ths reason I got married early is to avoid evening newspapers like you.


Now you are claiming you love him because the pharmacist of a guy refused to give you attention yet you don't want to admit, why?

You disqualified him cos of his height.... then you suddenly like him when the pharmacist guy reject you... Vagina people ehh.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
Blessing

just blessing?

DOWN2HeartLoved:
Bro she hears and speaks Yoruba too,her ex did her father's burial, bought her a car,still yet this girl moved with his properties,and didn't look back,am suspecting that's what is going to happen to me too

What do I do?,the child is just 8 months old

just go find an affordable accommodation somewhere and Waite,any day she's not around come move your belongings.

tell her you will be sending her money for upkeep.


only people with liver and those who do not prioritize that borehole can do what I said.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot,have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month,we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child,now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background,only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo,we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her,the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year,am thinking she's close to 40,why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled,her mother isn't showing any concern

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now,even if I die

Problems:-i have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin?,she lied too,she has turned my people against me,right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her,she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere

Am shocked this is happening to me

what's her name ?
make we do back ground check for you.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

You are in relationship with Olosho...

why do u have to move out of your house for her?

Did you people married legally ?

why do you have to run when she threatens with vigilante?
Is she responsible for your success?

Why don't you eject her?

Are you sure she's not the one paying bills?


Eject her nothing will happen to you.

[quote author= post=113984979]Important thing to know about Joint Account
: While no account holder can remove another account holder from a joint account without that person's consent, few banks will stop you from withdrawing or transferring the entire balance on your own.


Na for where you read this one for her story?!
Some of you people here sha.
Una go just type rubbish and annoying lies with so much confidence.[/quote]But the story is in complete pls...she's economical with truth...make we hear from the guy first.

How man go just wakeup one day just begin the force joint account on him girlfriend.....think natural

Conwarden:
Why did my mind ask for autopsy to rule out possibility of rape or any other foul play 

God rest her innocent soul.



All scammers should be serially raped




Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

you are right about rape side of the story.... Take a closer look at her pants is inside out.... Someone remove the pant and wears it back in a haste...


But this is Nigeria.

Adasun:
I did as u said,I called them and they requested for valid means of id and bank statement for three months.


that I should send it as PDF to there email address.


now the email used to open the account is is available since I saw it on the account profile. my problem now na the password. we no know am.


the boy told me he would try to contact the guy who run the matter.


they went ysday but the guy said it's her sister's phone he used,that he would send the details today.

also I would be waiting for my uncle's bank statement on Monday.

went I called them, they told me the account is restricted. so I can't transfer any funds out of that account.

yes it's true.
But u can reset password using the number associated with the bet account.

Demobbb:
Help me please. Me & my husband got into an argument. He said something that made me think he is putting a female friend’s feeling over mine

I guess i got so jeolosy & so angry withought thinking my immediate response was to raise my hand as it to throw something i was holding at him. I quickly realised what i was about to do & i stopped myself. I didnt hit him.

He was shocked too & he just said what kind of a wife is this. He also stated that action shows that i dont value him. I apologised yesterday but i woke up today feeling regret, and shame. Should i apologise again? But then the initial argurment i still feel like he was in the wrong?

My marriage means so much to me. We have come a long way from not having a cent , gave up my career to support his own career, raise our kids. Now he is a successful man . But i feel its now in vain.

Madam you are too jealous and insecure.


The best way to know that he's not cheating is to believe he's not cheating.


The devil was about to scatter your home but God intervene.


My friend tried that to her husband today the marriage is over.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Check the meaning of "submission" and come back to edit this post.

we are talking about biblical meaning of submission.



Just as someone earlier said.. Marriage is not for everyone.

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

what are you saying?

Are you confused?

Love comes before submission or submission come before love?

helinues:
Which should i supply you with this over flowing of water? Bucket or storage tank? Both are actually for free. The choice is yours

Enjoy your time under your leader in aso rock while it's last, but he can not stay beyond next yr, just believe that hard times for Fulani terrorists in Nigeria lies ahead.