Cos they will come a time she will stop rejecting offers & start accepting offers,
A hunter hunting antelop has a plan, just like a person growing chicken, or a guy growing his dk have a target..
A girl using social network or media to advertise her boobs & ass is street property
This really got me concerned cause I can remember debating this few years ago with friends.
My mom is above 55 years, I tried explaining to her why women are no longer faithful just like during their own time 40 to 30 years ago. I keep telling her if I don't get a women who has at least 75% of her traits, I won't marry, we laughed about it. She asked if that is so difficult and I tell her no, it's not about getting her quality is the case but rather getting her quality with an exposure of today's social media.
Attention is intoxicating, just like every other harmful habits. An average girl sees herself as a goddess on the internet.
I blame the men more for this, because out of sexual lust we give this girls undeserved attention.
We have so many males on the internet with uttered psychological mind, these guys can say anything to any girl even when it's absolutely unnecessary. Example, here on nairaland a single mom was complaining about her broken home and how she's being scared coping as a single mum; some guys where boldly offering to be her intimacy gadget, it was weird to me because what the said woman need the least at her circumstance is sex!
This has really placed an average guy on very low scale, and has led many living a fake life, these girls with absolutely nothing to offer will get a lot of attention that will only be available for a guy who's either a celeb or very influential.
It's just like saying every girl is a hoe, forgetting their clients are male who encourage them with a humongous pay! So why will they ever wanna be faithful.
The question is how do we stop giving this girls so much attention? If you talk down on a twerking video(which is one of the ways to less promoting it) you'll see 100 guys coming at you with so many name calling and bashing! You will be shocked and no guy will wanna engage 100 guys on the internet supporting a "thing". Since most of these men are not exposed or educated, little things usually move them, and that's where all the cheap attention comes in.
Could go on and on, but... It won't change anything.
Suspect33: Reminder; Manchester United dominated and beat this wolves side earlier this year while having Ole as coach.... No excuses will be accepted.. if you want to chill with the big boys, you have to measure up to the big boys
Yet you ain't even in the top 4 table as it stance.
You guys should calm down with this hating biko.
How many times with you guys learn.
Was this not same Chelsea that carried the Champions League? If you could have bet, I guess last year by this time you won't even think Chelsea will make it to top 4 tallk more taking the Champions League cup.
Ishilove: If this section's moderators were doing their jobs as diligently as justwise in the Travel section, this poster and his ilk would have been run off the forum a long time ago.
hahaha. I can't stop laughing. Calm down my sister, he might not actually be right, but there is a point in the post. Though he made it sound hateful, blunt and hard for the other gender to like, he still made a valuable point for a wise man to take into consideration.
WoundedLamb: Congrats. You'd probably not like it (biased me speaking, lol). I'll always prefer Android OS.
And why is iPhone considered a mark of opulence anyway? Samsung high end products are more expensive than Apple high end products. Whoever does the marketing for Apple is a legend.
The marketers are to notch, I can never I ain't myself using iPhone. Samsung are more expensive with higher hardware quality. iPhone dey use juju market lol... Just imagine is Ford, a US based brand car was considered an opulence, just like Benz is seen in Naija as the kind of luxury car..lol
Lol... I can't tell you how to dupe people of their hard earned cash but will tell you this for free...
Back up your main contact and delete all of them, the replace it with any regular number. Clear your call logs and messages too, always make a backup of all these so you can reinstall afterwards.
Your private information is their collateral for the loan, now imagine a sensitive message being licked, because they have all that, and from my observation, it states in their data base forever! Even when you no longer patronise them. They sell mist of these information, how do you think random people can call you, state you name and bank without ever knowing them?
Just stay away from loan app bro, those people don't like you. Hope you watched Squid game
Martinez39s: Not all loan companies are the same. I believe each company has their terms and agreement and each company is not forcing anyone to patronise them and imbibe their terms and agreements. It is up to the individual to decide if he should proceed with a particular loan company after reading their terms and conditions. What I don't like is when people approach a loan company, agree to their terms and conditions, default on their agreement and cry foul when these companies come after them. Nigerians must learn to take responsibility for their actions. I don't know why people don't realise that defaulting on an official agreement puts you in a wrong spot and it is nothing to be taken lightly.
People will do well to read terms and conditions of the loan company they are patronising. If they don't like what they see, nothing stops them from rejecting the loan and going elsewhere. If they accept what they see, it is their decision; and it is their duty to abide by it. Loan companies have the right to draft any terms, interest rate and conditions they want as long as they are not forcing anyone to patronise them.
Loan companies don't have to have anyone's best interest at heart; it is a business. Loan companies are not criminals for setting any interest rate they deem fit as long as they are not forcing you to patronise them.
Notice how virtually ALL of the issues people have with loan companies started with one thing: they didn't pay at the appointed time. That should tell you something about Nigerians who love to play the victim/pity card when loan companies come calling.
I like how you tryna be optimistic and none sentimental.
Your second to last paragraph got. You really haven't seen this people in action. Force you said, let me tell you a story, couple of months back I kept getting a call from a particular number about how they just open a new company and that I can go ahead to collect 10k loan straight from the app, I just decline after asking how they got my number and was told the telecommunication sold it to them.
The matter didn't end there, this same person, a girl precisely invaded my WhatsApp with same off and advert, I read and ignore since I wasn't interested. But she kept bugging my phone, with "hello sir have you applied"
Long story short, I downloaded the app. But as a developer I made sure my phone was very safe and my information secure before give them permission, only for them to offer me 10k to pay back 15835 naira in 6 days, I just laughed and went on the block the girl from my contact.
Now imagine a desperate soul given such opportunity, only few people in nails now can collect a loan if 10k and payback in 6 days with 50% interest. These people know! And that's why they resort in blackmailing!
There is no job you can do in naija now with 10k that will will give you 15k in 6 days (I stand to be corrected) unless you gamble!, and believe me that's what most people do with, or maybe to buy food stufff and wait for tomorrows judgment. Lol.
Martinez39s: You can't deliver many Nigerians from playing the pity/victim card when they are wrong. You can't exorcise self-centeredness out of most Nigerians.
Why go to the loan sharks, agree to their terms, default and then cry foul or play the victim when they employ all sorts of tactics and coercion to get their money back? It doesn't matter what prevented from you from paying, I understand life happens, not paying at the appointed time is a breach of agreement that shouldn't be taken lightly. Once you don't pay at the time you agreed to pay, you can rightfully be considered a criminal and the loan company owes you no consideration; a deal is a deal and no one forced you to patronise loan sharks. Learn to take responsibility for your choices; don't borrow if you know you can't pay and don't play the victim when the loan sharks come after you after you default.
If you were a loan shark and you were lending money to Nigerians of all people: most of whom can be stubbornly treacherous, deceitful, highly dubious, ungrateful, selfish, wicked and inconsiderate, would you take it lightly when a Nigerian defaults on a loan? People that look for ways not to give you the money they should pay you. Some will even do shakara and give you attitude when you keep asking them to pay up; some will heartlessly keep stalling hoping you will get tired of asking for your money and forget about it. Some take pride in being this dubious and treacherous and they will inwardly praise themselves as people that have "sense" and can survive life when they keep pulling such wicked stunts. Despite being this wicked and inconsiderate, they will still play the pity/victim card when the creditors start brutally dealing with them.
Knowing this, how can anyone expect loan companies to take it easy, politely or give a pat on the back to Nigerians who default on their loans? Would you do the same if you were in their shoes? Do you selfishly expect them to assume you are different and hence don't have dubious intent? Would you do the same? Where are they suppose to get the money they gave out as loans? How are they to keep their business afloat if they slack and Nigerians keep defaulting?
Stay away from loan sharks if you won't pay them back. Stay away from loan sharks if you are stupidly looking for people that will handle you politely with kid's gloves and a smile on the face when you fail to pay them.
Have you heard of "Branch"? Go and check how they deal with loans and handle defaults. They are the only app ill recommend for any sane, good spirited, and genuine person to patronise. And yes, their loan duration is the most considerate of them all, less than 20% in a full month and still give you extra 2 weeks to replay with no overdue, I repeat, no over due fees.
Well, I really blame them a lot, most people people are salary earners and are paid at the end of the month! I've seen one given 10k to payback 16k in 5 days! 5 days oo.... That's over 50% interest rate in such a short time!
Anyone one who give such a loan is criminal and doesn't have your best interest at heart.
LZAA: I can see some eediots up here supporting these Chinese clowns Don't worry their time is coming Other countries have chased those clowns out due to this rubbish One day dem go do this thing to one big man or Im pikin then c'est fini
Yeah, the big man pikin stuff na true, I've actually read one terms and it specifically states you should not borrow if you have any politicians or relation contacts. I knew something was fishy lol...
From what I've seen on this thread, seems most of the commenters are working with this loan people.
I'm an Android developer and I can tell you, this guys do some really shitty work with their app, very inconsistent and unreliable.
You wanna payback loan and the app ends up misbehaving, a stranger text you on WhatsApp saying his from the same company and sends you a bank account to make the payment, after that only for another pressing to call saying your koan has not been paid.
Well, I've told victims, if you wanna borrow, make sure you change all your contact to fake numbers. And don't every leave the app installed on you after borrowing. Reinstall the app when ever you wanna payback, simple.
These apps request almost 10 permissions from your phone, they monitor everything you do and can even turn on your camera without your notice as long as you have granted them permission to it! It's crazy cause I feel they could easily wipe your account but just don't want to.
I could go ahead to tell you how to deal with them, but that will be a secret ill have to keep off online.
Nigerians are one of the most mistreated humans on Earth, as in... Anyone will just treat you anyhow and expect you to take it because, after all, are you not a Nigerian? They tend to frown when you try to act a little decent.
People believe we are already form the gutter so we can take shit.
ThickSharon123: Then I'll rather remain a flirt, and be a single mama because I can't be with a man that lacks good reason and does not have the physical attributes.
I don't want to be with a man very big and he has anger issues. I don't know how to fight and I don't want any man to leave a mark on my skin, or kpo kpo my face. The highest I can do is break head, but men are robots when they are angry, throw bottle on their head, and they are immune to it (my senior brother is an example ) I don't want such.
So, I'll rather be a single mama and flirt with the men I want.