Romance › Re: Please Help! My Boyfriend Irritates Me by tomdon(m): 2:56pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
It has nothing to do with immaturity. They don't just meet up to what you want for a partner. When you get one that satisfies your soul, there won't be anything irritating about them, even their shortcomings will be acceptable by you. Don't forget sha that no one is perfect so you need to out in serious thought and consideration before calling it quit so that you don't end up regretting passing up on great guys |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Celebrates After Scoring A Goal (Photos) by tomdon(m): 5:02am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Has the girl gotten belly |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Mercy And Diane Accused Of Lesbianism, Here’s Why (video) by tomdon(m): 7:46pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
MEJOISLAND: I suppose you know the weight of this allegation and it's consequences. This is an anonymous forum but u have to remember that your profile picture is on display for the whole wide world to view and save for posterity sake. Lets be very careful of what we post here. It's a small world. Oga stop putting fear in the poor girl. It carries no weight anything abeg. OK let me even put it straight to you, You, with username mejoisland on nairaland are a homosexual. Buhari is gay. If you need my picture and address, let me know asap |
Romance › Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by tomdon(m): 4:21pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
ednut1: this is lagos. Hall alone na 500 to 700k. Deco 200 to 300. Dj and mc. 200k don waka. That's 1m already and things still dey to buy from food, bride price list, suit gown , natives, drinks So you work for your money, and then you use 300k to do decoration in a hall you paid 500k for for one day. Shey na DJ cuppy you wan invite or basket mouth. |
Celebrities › Re: Mike Ezuruonye: Don't Let This Dance Style Come To Nigeria (photos by tomdon(m): 2:03am On Sep 29, 2019 |
dapsin999: Hypocrisy!!! Keep publicising it mumu It's not that deep oga |
Family › Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by tomdon(m): 12:19am On Sep 28, 2019*. Modified: 8:36pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
You should've left out the part where you said because your mom is not educated. That doesn't diminish her in anyway and is not a measure of her love and importance in your life. That she can't help you academically doesn't make her less valuable than your pop who has that ability. Don't be delusional, with only your mom, you wouldn't have still lost your path in life if you're not destined to. That your father had the means is not the true measure of affection in itself, the heart is what matters. |
Romance › Re: Guys, Have You Ever Overcome A Sexual Temptation? Share Your Experience by tomdon(m): 7:34pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Preciousgirl: The Holy bible records how a handsome youngman Joseph was tempted by his master's wife and how he didn't fall but fled
Who knows, there might be several other Josephs here on Nairaland, let's here your experiences. I have personally tempted someone before, but he fell flat, its as if he was already looking for me
But I have personally passed several other temptations. Share your story, no lies o Hope you enjoyed it sha. I mean the fukk |
Celebrities › Re: Mike Is A Complete Gentleman! I’m Learning Alot From Him’ "Funke Akindele" by tomdon(m): 7:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
How exactly Because he speaks accent that's too sophisticated foe her abi Anyway that's your personal opinion. That actors have a wide reach doesn't mean they have more sense than someone who can't reach as much people |
Politics › Re: Why Vessels Avoid Eastern Ports — NPA Boss by tomdon(m): 4:39am On Sep 26, 2019 |
Edu3Again: East is not avoid, they just dont direct ships there.
Yet the east is where 95% of Nigeria's revenue comes from.
No worry, our eye don open. Day dreamer! You wish |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki's Foundation Hosts " Abuja Walk The Talk Health Campaign by tomdon(m): 4:39am On Sep 24, 2019 |
helinues: Saraki family's fine sha.. Even their bobo self Are you delusional |
Career › Re: What Do You Love About Your Current Job/Business? by tomdon(m): 8:37pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
GeeMeshin1: I am a passionate Physiotherapist who derives joy from being able to assist people regain lost muscle functions, get rid of pains and be educated on correct ergonomics at home and at work.
I like the joy and glow in my patients when they have achieved all they hope for through my assistance. Epp me |
Romance › Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by tomdon(m): 8:12pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Christopherrrr: Hello Nairalanders, greetings. My name is Christopher (pseudonym) from the Eastern part of the country, Imo State to be precise. I'm a man in his early 30's. I have an active account here but I had to sign-up for another account for this thread. Please pardon my grammatical errors and blunders. MOD please help move to FP.
Few months back, I fell in love with a pretty lady with a beautiful soul. She is 28. Though we are running a long distance relationship but the current in the communication link can power Kanji Dam. Lol!! We can be on calls for hours since the very day I met her. There is a fair share of the feelings, affections, respect and regard for each other. It's not one-sided. Though we have been opportune to be together thrice since the past 10months we met. I have had plans to go about engagement and marriage arrangements this coming festive period though I haven't made this known to her.
She gives me joy, she gives me happiness, she prays for me, she blesses me. There is a part of me she unraveled that I never believed existed. Above all, she gives me peace of mind.
Fast forward to last month, I invited her to a family event. I introduced her to my family as my girlfriend. Instantly everyone fell in love with her. My mum was allover her and she was indeed up and doing. She didn't disappoint me. Not pretence, she has a good home training.
When she left same day after the event, my mum proclaimed her love for her. She said, "Olee ebe isi choota udi nwa nke a?" (Where did you find this kinda girl from?). This made me drop a tear of joy thereafter because I've always prayed for such from her any day I introduce a lady to her. This also happens to be my first time.
Fast forward again to 2weeks later, my dad requested I confirm her community and kindred properly because we happen to come from the same LGA. I didn't even know they have started making inquiries for me even before I asked them to. I confirmed from her and informed my dad. Only for them (my parents) to break the news to me days later that we can't marry from their kindred because they are regarded as Out-Casts (Osu-Cast System). Right now, I can't contend my heartbreak. I'm so devastated and confused.
This has been a long-term tradition that has been for centuries that I don't think it's in my capabilities to do away with it or do otherwise.
My problem now is how do I break the news to her for a breakup because we can't continue like this.
I have never ceased to love her less since the very day I learnt of this. In fact, she gives me reasons to love, cherish and adore her every single day. I still do that to the brim and don't have regrets. Quote me, her type is rare. I love this girl with every breath I take. I just cry myself to sleep every night after our long calls.
Please advise a brother because I'm in a deep state of dilemma. Oga you're a liar. You can't say all those wonderful things and jettison all because of such nonsense in 2019. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Protestant Could Not Accept Catholic Doctrine Leading To Broken Courtship by tomdon(m): 5:07am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Lol |
Romance › Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by tomdon(m): 4:59am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Nonsense. Did he marry you before you had consensual sex which is enjoyed by both of you? What is the complain about?? Idiots be claiming victim when everything you did was consensual |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Ogun Govt Declares Free Education, Scraps N3,700 School Fees by tomdon(m): 4:47am On Sep 23, 2019 |
a little affordable stipends is In order |
Business › Re: Nigeria Spends $1.2 Billion To Import Fish Annually - Emefiele by tomdon(m): 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Sagay212: We really need to learn to produce and consume what we produce. If we continue to import everything and these countries just decide to show us small pepper by refusing to sell to us, what would we do? We should learn from this SA xenophobic incident.
We had nothing to use against them after them show us pepper. Imagine if we had better networks and better naija cable tv, shebi we for just ban them straight. But imagine the whole country depends on dstv. Shame Producers need conducive environment and government support. If there's electricity 247, that will help but government still need to provide more than just enabling environment to producers As for the Dstv issue, government is not ready to help. If government intervenes, those juicy programs that Dstv have exclusive and sole right to will be given to Nigerian TV companies and that will kill Dstv in Nigeria |
Business › Re: Nigeria Spends $1.2 Billion To Import Fish Annually - Emefiele by tomdon(m): 3:27pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
AZeD1: Emefiele is beginning to sound like a dunce... 1) There are some fishes that are not found in Nigeria and the only way to get it is by importing (Stock fish used in Nigeria is found in a village in Norway) 2) Rather than focus on solving the problem the right way, Emefiele and Buhari are trying to "order" a solution.
If after buying something outside the country, paying for shipping and import duty I can still sell my product cheaper than my competitor who produces in Nigeria, then the problem is not my importation, it's the cost of doing business in Nigeria that is the problem and that's what should be tackled.
The best way to end importation is not by closing the borders, it's by making doing business in Nigeria easier and cheaper. One really wonders if these people are not supposed to be experts or even if they're not, can't they consult knowledgeable people before making far-reaching decisions for millions of Nigerians? It's really baffling, more so when the kNowledge here is common knowledge. I don't need to be an economist or have MBA to reckon with your second paragraph. And in your first paragraph, point one is obvious but they're talking as if they're not in Nigeria let alone be at the helm of affairs over Nigerians |
Business › Re: Nigeria Spends $1.2 Billion To Import Fish Annually - Emefiele by tomdon(m): 2:25pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
seborrhic: Has Dangote entered the fishing business too? Expecting a ban on fish importation soon and an announcement that Dangote has acquired the biggest fishing industry or building the biggest fishing Mill in Nigeria. That's how the CBN,the government of the day and Nigeria rolls these days. What product did they recently ban importation of which Dangote is now producing? |
Health › Re: Help! Am I HIV Positive? by tomdon(m): 7:44am On Sep 20, 2019 |
You stopped cos you have kidney problen What if you are positive and have to depend on the drug |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija About To Get Crazier – Ebuka Reveals How The Last Eviction Will Be by tomdon(m): 10:13am On Sep 19, 2019 |
BrutusOj: Vote massively? business is real. I enjoy the show at my leisure time oo, but I will never, I mean never use my kobo to vote anyone. Except it's an online poll. Miracle is abroad empowering himself alone now, Efe is off the street of warri now, I don't think UTI Nwachukwu has employees, no one knows where that plateau boy Kelvin is now. Katung |
Romance › Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by tomdon(m): 11:17pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
This is the reason why many women end up heartbroken and blame anyone but themselves. Can't you allow him love you on his own after you have been unwavering in showing him your stance? And if he doesn't love you back accordingly, why not leave when nothing is broken. Are you that unworthy that you feel you need to push so hard or is he to fine that you can't let go of him and he's the only guy that possesses those qualities that endeared you to him? Make your own sufficient efforts with sterling performance and allow him make his, you can't make his own for him Give yourself some brain cos what you have up there is watered down. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by tomdon(m): 11:06pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
marvelous000: I'm sorry if i sound obfuscating, but it's my writing proclivity. Flabbergasting |
Politics › Re: Bianca Ojukwu Swimming As She Vacations In The Bahamas (Photos) by tomdon(m): 5:00pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
NaijaRoyalty: Always looking beautiful .
Remi Tinubu and Dolapo Osibanjo put together are no match to our ever glowing Bianca In beauty and brain.
Igbo Amaka The meat of ffk, an able Yoruba man. Yoruba amaka |
Celebrities › Re: "Isoko Girl & Igbo Man" - Janema Shares Adorable Pre-Wedding Photo by tomdon(m): 11:15pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
slawomir: Ehnnnnnn! Janemena That reminds me of one isoko girl when i dey bang for Uniben that year called ekemena
Always love fuckkking Delta girls be it isoko, uhroubo, itsekiri abi na ijaw
Those girls dey sweet to fuckkk ehnnn Them dey go wet easily because they are not circumcised They enjoy sex fully like men A delta girl can not stay a month without banging a dickkk When banging them they secrete different liquid Sticky, watery and forming liquid Na so them dey reach multiple orgasm anyhow
But the ijaws have big yansh  |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by tomdon(m): 11:09pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
J111333: Oga if you have the ability to help her get a job at your work place, do it without considering she's your girlfriend. What dafuq has girlfriendism got to do with a lady's future here?  All you care about is your silly relationship but what I see is a lady who wants to be useful to herself. Don't be selfish.  Don't mind the selfish idiot. He thinks everything is about him. |
Phones › Re: How Crazy Are You With Your Android Pattern Lock? by tomdon(m): 12:31am On Sep 16, 2019*. Modified: 7:02am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Flashh: It's old-skool to me. Anytime I see people using pattern to unlock their phone, am like; seems you are still a noob to smartphone.
The last time I made use of pattern to unlock my phone, was 2013. Why do you have to lie? 2013?? When did that tech become widespread in Nigeria?? It's choice. My phone has all security methods but I like pattern and use it alongside |
Politics › Re: Seun Onigbinde: Buhari’s Media Team Rejects Appointment Of BudgIT Co-Founder by tomdon(m): 9:52pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
magicminister: #freesowore
I’d rather die than live the way most Nigerians are living in abject poverty. Sowore is trying to fight for the people but we’ve turned our backs on him. The government spurn a story to make it seem like he was just disgruntled for loosing the election. Sowore has been an activist even during the time of military government.
Why are Nigerians not with sowore? Because he's fighting a personal fight. |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by tomdon(m): 11:16pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
If you've apologized and truly remorseful and are taking the right actions to make her happy and she's still unyielding, let her go and.......... Shey she be devil ni. Abeg bone ha if she doesn't want to forgive and forget |
Family › Re: My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man by tomdon(m): 12:54pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
truefood45: it is a tradition of love where people believe marriage is for better for worse, if your cousin consider their request a threat, she should consider divorce, but she should mind the impart of divorce to the sick man, let her accept people who may call her wicked, and get what she want, solution is always available but is not known, her husband is cause of his own sickness and has continued to sustain it, sickness cannot grow in a body unless the body supported it, ignorance is not always enough to stop any sickness but knowledge can, try true food today, you can from there see the reason why many sickness become incurable, it is dilemma she either give it or she leave but knowledge can always save. Omg |
Family › Re: My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man by tomdon(m): 12:53pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
gidob: What are you even saying ...after writing so much, you made no point Your comment made me scroll up and read his own. I'm rotflmbao |
TV/Movies › Re: Sir Dee Speaks On Tacha's 'Body Odour' Rumors. See Reactions (Photos) by tomdon(m): 9:41am On Sep 14, 2019*. Modified: 3:20am On Sep 15, 2019 |
There's no way that uncouth idiot doesn't smell Sadee just wan chop am |
TV/Movies › Re: Mercy Eke: Emmanuel Emenike, My Boyfriend Dumped Me - BBNaija's Mercy by tomdon(m): 9:33am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Ass- that's the only asset she has that emenike wanted to depreciate before moving on. Bet he paid handsomely, so no qualms
And is he the only guy that has ever fuckedd you, talk about the others too aunty |