₦airaland Forum

I'm an ashawo...... etc

Our overtly large size is the bane to the good life in Nigeria. This doesn't make the successive leaders nationalistic in thinking. If the yorubas for example were an independent people owning a country, I wonder if one omo ale leader will have the audacity of embezzlement, and not be eager to develop the country and better the people's lives of people for posterity sake. But the setting of Nigeria encourages parochialism
People just look at Nigeria with commercial eyes which benefits far less people. Even USA and other large countries devolve power

pharmagba:
I need to be blunt with you since you asked for my advice

You are not wise at all.
Look at the reason you are giving, that you are not praying regularly

Praying to God is a test of humility. A great man once said, "if I want to humble a man, I ask him how long he prays"
It simply means you are full of pride and very disobedient wife. You are even considering your marketability when you eventually leaves his house.
If things continue like this let me tell you what will happen, he will definitely throw you out of his life, not only his house and he will get a better lady and live happily ever after and you may also get a another husband who will also throw you out after some time. Why? Simple. It is because you will display your rotten character.


My advice if you really want to make things work
Be humble to your husband, respect and obey him. It is not to much to pray even if it is 100times daily. Any woman that humbles herself and respect her husband especially if the man is Godly, will always find favour with him. In fact such men will go out of their ways to satisfy and make her happy but if you don't respect him forget about getting any dime from him.
You have wasted so much time, start the amendment today. Thank God he had not told his parent.

A word is enough for the wise

why should women be subservient and pray because of men. What if it's the other way round

Osagyefo98:
Ekpeyong will still win.
Akpabio hold your ministerial position tight ooo before you lose both ends.

Now this is serious.

Akpabio will have to step down as minister to contest and what if loses by then the position won't be for him again because Buhari won't give him another chance.

Same reason Timpre Sylva refused to contest Bayelsa governorship election because he might lose at both ends.

Ngige refuses to contest the second time when court nullified his election for fear of losing at both ends.

This Judgement is a heavy burden for Akpabio. Let his advisers advice him well on this.

A win for akpabio is an extra vote for Apc. I believe they should be able to make provision for him to get back his ministerial position if he looses the election results

Buhari is party to all the nonsense. He reached out to his deputy and instructed him to move to Niamey for the meeting instead of reaching out to the erring and overbearing aid of his and mete out punishment accordingly. This man is the one undermining his vice if he's treating their misdemeanor with kid's gloves

It took someone who is not a Nigerian and who doesn't fear the cabal to right the imminent wrong. This government is insincere

ikorodureporta:
Seun kuti naeim worst pass. v.promising guy then, up till now I no know any of him music.
Hope Burna's success won't lead to jealousy

Lol. They sing rubbish, apart from sorry sorry o I know not even one song of theirs

This illegal son blow pass the legal ones

ursullalinda:
So what he is trying to say is that it's only dead vehicles they have been removing on the street......see lie na......Ambode chased all of them out including road safety......now they are every where like wolves......making driving difficult unnecessarily

Real wolves
If they flag you down lasan
Know say you go hardly go free

NigeriaIsDoomed:
His folks don't see anything wrong because of their subservient tendencies

Mumu. See a nobody who might amount to nothing in life talking about subservience of a people

chrisxxx:
I did and e dey pain me every day. Though we are both married to our respective spouse we still remain friends. I am glad she still talks to me.

Ahh

State funds??
Printing past questions in 2019!
Ah my God this man na chop I chop oo
Rewarding his people with state funds!
Whatever question and answer can be circulated in soft copies

Florblu:
Well... It depends on the agreement between us. If he buys a property first and choose to put his name only, when I buy mine, it will definitely have my name ONLY.
But if I'm included as a co-owner, of course we can co-own mine too.

In a situation where I get a property before him, i will add his name to all papers and if he can't do the same when he buys his, then I might not wait for the next hour to remove his name from documents of my property. Since we both wants to be petty.


But really, regardless of whose money is/was used in buying a property, once we are married all funds/properties belongs to US.

And i won't understand why most ladies(both married and single) do lie to their spouse to collect money. I mean if your spouse go bankruptcy you will suffer the loss together and if there is boom you will enjoy it together. So why do you have to lie?

I would've said you're no different or better than the Pharisees but I can see you're immature and talking theory and jargons.

ChoCho54:
Meanwhile the former Health minister kept all these anomalies hidden when he was in office. Shame on APC!

Means he is not clean himself. He dares not talk, if not he will be axed. If not so he's a coward if he doesn't have skeleton but is just scared to talk in order not to loose his job

And so fkn what?!

idesylvester:
This one that my wife will soon born now, maybe, I'm just thinking ooo if I will name him churchill Cubana chief priest...

Audiovisual money confirmed

noble71:
Nigerians can complain for Africa!!!
Price of rice has increased! Yes! Why not go into agriculture and make millions.
There is stock fish scarcity why not go into fish farming and make millions.
They will complain that unemployment rate has increased but I see lots of opportunities to make money in this closed border.
China developed because their government ban importation of many things.
I support this border closure! It's just that the timing was wrong.

Banning importation without incentives to from government is not good.

Even the low budget event still be news yet some imbes will run into debt and still not get noticed

Why did the FG wait till now? It's long overdue
ASUU has no valid point

The two finest igbo men of their generation.

StupidNLmods:
Naira Marley my nigga..
I remember when i met him at a show and he offered me a jumbo sized weed and a slim watery yansh bitch. Turned down the weed cos i ain't a smoker.

Watery yansh LMAO
Why nairaland no get love struck smiley

iammo:



As if its not big booty that got dolapo promotions during IGP transmission (same IGP transmission promoted his corporal girlfriend with nice booty and o level certificate, to the rank of a supretendent which are meant for graduates or people who had spent atleast 10 years in service all within three years) .... mschew!!!

well i dont support Naira Marley but then again if mercy of bbn had used the money for her plastic yansh for a masters degree, she would still be searching for jobs now


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Too much sense

themosthigh:
All these southerners traitors complaining. The worst thing that happened to Nigeria is that the m red flaming sword of Usman dan Fodio was not used to cut through southern Nigeria. If that had happened, all these talk will not be here. We will have the sultan of sokoto as the absolute ruler of Nigeria and his word shall be the law of the land, obeyed without questions. The heads of traitors will be harvested like oranges and impaled on spikes along souther roads. Hausa would have been our academic language in schools while Fulani and Arabic will be the Language of the elites and liturgy respectively. The sultanate of Nigeria and it’s comprising kingdoms would have been the greatest in Africa.

Mumu

nnanyereugo:
Things like this

Where did you get this one

derrydinny:
Proper definition of evening newspaper

Fool. You are shortsighted. You forgot that you will also grow old soon

koolaid87:
Igbos will never stoop so low to mob a lady for wearing a skimpy outfit


There has to be more to the story

I've seen it live and direct in an Ibo market and I felt like rescuing the girl I was among those who spoke for her and against the idiot mob. Illiteracy is a disease no matter where uyou come from

peepydelano:
You are having a very good lady as your wife,count yourself very lucky.Why not fast forward your white wedding and have free access, and its not a big deal if she turns out not to be a virgin,appreciate the fact that she's God fearing. Respect her Godly wish and wait for the abundant blessings that follows,she is blessed amongst women

A good thing my black ass. Then she's a scam and a witch cos something she did and lied about, she refused to oblige her betrothed in order to hoodwink him

BlackfireX:
The handiwork of PDP under Jonathan .....

Did you read at all?

iammo:



PDP and evil contracts... that Adoke needs to apologise to Nigerians on what he and Jonathan did



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Are you mad? Can't you read? Adoke refused consistently to ascend to the request in the face persuasion

See the rubber shoe this young man is wearing oo. Yes na the rubber one

rossovu:
Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.

Did she offend him?
There's nothing to forgive. She didn't sin against him.
I wonder why the things a girl did in the past makes a difference. As long as she's not a virgin, and you're OK with it, you're not there so you can't even know whether what she tells you is true or not so why are you bothering your head and acting God talking about forgiving her

Logan95:
She just said I should forgive her that I don't deserve her.

Oga she didn't offend you so there's nothing to forgive.
If you're OK with marrying a lady that's not a virgin what's the dilemma you're in, whatever she's done in the past is in the past, no difference
She's stupid to have told you all that bullshitt. There's absolutely no need for it

I prefer a girl that will look me in the eye and tell me I couldn't control my hormones, wanted to fvck and I fvcked.
We're all humans
Rather than all these emotional blackmail of saying I supported him, I only fvcked him cos we were in a relationship bla bla bla. OK so you were married, and now a divorcee. Carry your load go front front

Your own don meet you.
Imagine he's even an ex now.
Omo world don spoil oo
Girls have no dignity anymore.
They just fvck and go
No more beauty of preserving themselves for the special one
Chai I just can't understand this mystery