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ojonugba2014:
let her will be done and end the relationship, failure to end this relationship will later ends in tears for you.
a word is enough for the wise

Gbam

SangoOlukosoOba:
Just let her visit a standard hospital with competent doctors.

Since it's her family doing the abortion, you need not worry. Just make them put in paper if possible.


As for you, after the abortion, just run for your life. A girl that needs a big wedding will leave you when Eze Ego come her way.

A lady that got guys to want an abortion can kill you without thinking about it.

Run for your life. This is a warning sign

Standard hospitals don't do abortion....that's one of the reason why it has a high mortality rate.

Eagleword14:
Abortion is murder no matter how u wanna paint it. May God have mercy on u both

God bless you for this.

KingEzo:
Hello Nairalander,

please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.

She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.

She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.

She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.

Sir-Ma should I support this their action?

Grandma wan help person terminate a life, How ....bros I'm not a saint ooo but u need to reconsider the family you're marrying into......So many signs in what you said bro...pls I'm begging u not to proceed now ooo to avoid stories that touch in Nairalands Romance section...The real reason be sey her momsy wants big wedding. Ur feelings are not even a matter of concern. Her health is no biggie to them as long as she do big wedding.
If u marry her, be rest assured that her family will be her husband, nah figure head u go be.

Vega100:
The Poverty in Nigeria is really terrible, now I understand better like WTF!!! So for someone to pay another just about 210 pounds monthly, the person is a ritualist Poverty is truly a disease! SMH

True, and for someone to accept to date another just because of £210 it is really endemic. that money may even make her the breadwinner of her family. Messed-up country.

Kingosytex:
Despite the fact that Tinubu is the best definition of greed, I must confess that he carries everybody along. He is an astute politician and his sagacity is top-notch.

He still stands tall among his contemporaries.

The definition of greed had his state allocation blocked by Obasanjo for yrs because of personal reasons. Tinubu still did not owe a single salary, he immediately brought up all revenue collection agencies that we have in Lagos today. He's very influential, but I don't think he's as greedy as people think.

Smithkafors:
I don't think you know the meaning of a leader..... Nigerians are joker's

#Hater. Define leader sir....You can argue that Tinubu is a bad or good leader, but to say that he's not a leader is a joke taken too far.

kachistone:
How does a governor sitting under a tree make news?

Haba! We should be seeing serious things like reconstruction of roads, schools and bridges that were destroyed by BH.

Not this nonsense...

Please let us stop celebrating mediocrity...

So you haven't noticed that he did everything you wrote there in less than a year? he started projects and completed them in six months. Just google them biko.....

vincentjk:
After sitting on a tree, he'd dine so well later, send his people out of poverty with your money and then deny some of you salaries and you call that humility??

Well na u sabi

Are you being bitter or you're describing zulum?

Dangote is a businessman. if it is cheaper to order from Innosson, why won't he? Dangote has his own Automobile company (Dangote Sinotruk automobiles) and he abandoned it. soo what the f......?

livebyday:
Everyone believes they are super powers till they get hit with a barrage of missiles

Russia just playing around dangerously

No sane country will hit Russia, neither will any sane country hit US......dem dey fear each other.

We should have Nigerian English, after all america has American English.

Fake news will destroy Nigeria if care is not taken....Office of the National Security Advicer approved of the security outfit. If ONSA can approved it, then buhari must have given a go ahead.

A church is where believers gather, and there can't be a believer (in christiandom) without the death of Christ, so how could Christ have gone to church.....BTW, Jesus went to Temple to learn on multiple occasions.

OoniOfIfe:












How come Boko haram only attacks nd kill southern officers?
Gen. Biu is from Borno, DCP Abba kyari is from Borno, burutai is from Borno nd they always visit home, how come boko haram has never attacked them or even d governor, his deputy or any of his cabinet members or special adviser.
I know that the man's life will be at risk when I read yesterday that him nd Borno state governor quarrelled yesterday.
A Yoruba General is La

that is the theatre commander....the entire boko-haram war is under him....he has to be the ultimate target of boko haram

Jochabed:
Iran will be wiped off the map if they don't thread carefully.

How, the US will kill 90 million people by sending nuclear bombs?

If I was to describe the sectors they touched on, there won't be any difference.

Deathtk:
Iran and through proxy

If u know Iran's geography, you'll know that no nation can successfully invade that country....Iran might not be up to 10% as powerful as US but the casualty on the US side will run to hundreds of thousands.... That figure is not good for any nation

FlordFlorez:
Iran with less than 500k active military personnel wan fight USA with 1.3M active cammandos (full kit and third largest in the world). We never talk about their reserve o. again, more than 3k airfighters mainly the F35, F16, F29, F17 etc...abeg leave matter for lawman.

Statistically US needs 1.6 million troops to invade Iran successfully....Neither US or Iran is ready for any full blown war....yes Iran will retaliate for sure...US will also retaliate...it will go on and on like that ...Iran is know as a Fortress because its surrounded by swamps and mountains.

mercyville:
Maybe Iran does not have drone detector systems

Remember that they shot down a US drone some months ago? This attack was effective because it was done in another country not Iran.

Bigflamie:

You can't love US of A less. They are very compassionate people.

They know Iran isn't match for their country but they still want to allow peace reign despite Iran's provocations.

They don't want suicide bombers in their country.

Richdad50:


A war scenario between US and Iran will play out like these in the battlefield but, do remembered that it will be remembered as the shortest and most brutal (on one side) conflict in recent history. The US will drag Iran just like a father beats up his neighbors son. Even Iran know they stand no chance whatsoever in the event of an open warfare. Let me clear that neither Russia or China will risk any confrontation whatsoever with US because of Iran. Never!

Iran's will first release their first grade missiles (mostly antic Russian missiles and a few SU300 missiles into Isreal and US bases. These missiles will 100% be intercepted by Patriots defense system and the most advanced missile defense system in the world known as the Aegis. With powerful ground base and air missile interceptors, the USA will be able to track, define, and eliminate the direction of the missiles minutes from launch.

Now, the USA will launch their precision (by far the most advanced in the world), laser guided cruise and ballistic (may not need intercontinental)missiles from different launch locations around the middle east. This will also include the ship frigates, submarines, and strike groups. They will hit Iran defense systems, military complexes, strategic posture and positions, energy, and power. Do know that the US have the Russian SU300 in their arsenal strictly for the purpose of testing.

After the heavy bombardment of military positions (not ground troops), the B-1, B-2, B-52 (Stealth bombers) F-35 (Fifth generation and the most advanced fighter jets in the world) will enter into the Iranian airspace. With their ability to be undetectable by radar, they will drop heavy payloads on more Iranian positions until the entire Iranian sky becomes dark with smoke. There will be no day but night for many days in Iran.

I just laugh when people talk about WWIII. Please from where? Iran! Lol. Iran is too little. The weight, power, and advancement of the US military technology far outweighs any its closest rival (Russia and China) by 10 years. The level of research and innovations from Lockheed Martin, Boeing, Northrop Gunman, Raytheon, General Dynamics, Boston Dynamics, etc makes them the most technologically advanced, advantageous military in the world.

Some replies are saying things like I am watching film...I laugh. You have no idea that most of the things you see in Hollywood are just a sample of the things the US military wants you to be aware of. There are so many destructive (within contained distance) devices at completion stage that US would very willing to try on Iran. It would be devastating and the news would send shockwaves all over the world.


Richdad

Iran's geography is treacherous. It has small mountain ranges along some of its borders. Entering from the Afghanistan side in the east would mean traversing two deserts. Trying to get in from the west could also prove difficult even with Turkey — a NATO ally — as a bordering nation. After all, Ankara wouldn’t let the US use Turkey to invade Iraq, and its relations with Washington have only soured since.The US could try to enter Iran the way Saddam Hussein did during the Iran-Iraq war, near a water pass bordering Iran’s southwest. But it’s swampy — the Tigris and Euphrates rivers meet there — and relatively easy to protect. Plus, an invading force would run up against the Zagros Mountains after passing through, just like Saddam’s forces did.

A Yankee private intelligence firm Stratfor called Iran a “fortress” back in 2011. If Trump chose to launch an incursion, he’d likely need around 1.6 million troops to take control of the capital and country, a force so big it would overwhelm America’s ability to host them in regional bases. By contrast, America never had more than 180,000 service members in Iraq. Take what it could do in the Middle East. Iran’s vast network of proxies and elite units — like Soleimani’s Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps — could be activated to kill American troops, diplomats, and citizens throughout the region. US troops in Syria are poorly defended and have little support, making them easy targets.

US allies would also be prime targets. Hezbollah, an Iran-backed terrorist group in Lebanon, might attack Israel with rockets and start its own brutal fight. We’ve heard this story before: In 2006, they battled in a month-long war where the militant group fired more than 4,000 rockets into Israel, and Israeli forces fired around 7,000 bombs and missiles into Lebanon.

About 160 Israelis troops and civilians died, according to the Israel Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and about 1,100 Lebanese — most of them civilians — perished, per Human Rights Watch, a US-headquartered advocacy organization. It also reports about 4,400 Lebanese were injured, and around 1 million people were displaced.

But that’s not all. Iran could encourage terrorist organizations or other proxies to strike inside Saudi Arabia, the United Arab Emirates, and other Gulf nations. Last year, it planned and executed drone strikes on two major Saudi oil facilities deep inside the kingdom, convulsing world markets. Its support for Houthis rebels in Yemen would mostly certainly increase, offering them more weapons and funds to attack Saudi Arabia’s airports, military bases, and energy plants.

the Islamic Republic likely has sleeper cells in Europe and Latin America, and they could resurface in dramatic and violent ways. In 1994, for example, Iranian-linked terrorists bombed the hub of the Jewish community in Argentina’s capital, Buenos Aires, killing 85 people and injuring roughly 300 more.

That remains the largest terrorist attack in Latin America’s history, and the possibility for an even bigger one exists. In 2018, Argentina arrested two men suspected of having ties with Hezbollah.

The Islamic Republic’s submarines would also play a huge part in trying to sink an American vessel. And the nation’s anti-ship missiles and drones could prove constant and deadly nuisances.

Should US troops try to enter Iranian territory on land, Iranian ground forces would also push back on them fiercely using insurgent-like tactics while the US painfully marches toward Tehran.

Put together,a US-Iran war would be “a nasty, brutal fight...... its going to be the toughest in modern-day history.....it going to be very long, you cant win a war with only airforce and naval equipments, you need ground forces. and that number of ground forces needed is just impossible for US to muster for now.

iswallker:
[[s]quote author=kayjay69 post=85531879]The whole thing has turned into one big joke honestly.

So let me get this straight, the US invades a very stable and somewhat calm Iraq with Saddam Hussein as its President under the pretext of having Nuclear and Chemical weapons. They kill him like a dog in the street then Iran has a field day because Iraq is a Shia majority.

Not happy with this outcome, the US, Saudi Arabia and Israel establish and empower ISIL (or ISIS whichever you choose) to primarily limit Iran's growing influence via proxy and contain them within their own borders. When the whole thing starts getting out of hand, Russia steps in to save their buddy Syria via military pact, Iran steps in to limit the spread of ISIS (this was what Qasem Soleimani did and did very effectively), then the same USA steps in pretending to fight ISIL (or ISIS).

ISIS gets kicked in the teeth mainly due to the Shia militia groups led by Soleimani, US sees their influence waning in the region, in Syria they are not wanted, in Iraq nobody needs them. And they know for sure with a Shia majority led parliament, it was only a matter of time before they were asked to leave. So Trump does something only Trump would do and assassinates a high ranking Iranian General who has led to their diminished stature in the region and after the Iraqi parliament passed a resolution asking them to leave the country, they label the Shiite Militia group responsible for fighting and limiting ISIL a terrorist organisation.

My conclusion really is this, the United States of America is the biggest Terrorist Organisation in the world and every country that values its existence and heritage must work to ensure they are strong and independent to standup to their tactics.[/s]

So you believe the rubbish you wrote up there. Just smh for you..

Can you comprehend what he wrote....don't just say "SMH for you," tell him where he's wrong if he is... let's argue intelligently.

JJOF:
And who the heck do you think is sponsoring Hezbollah? In case you don't know, there are sunni Islamic terror groups, and Shia Islamic terror groups, a d both of them are enemies.

;DIran sponsors some organizations that are deemed as a terrorist organization by the west, some western countries like germany sees hezbollah as a terrorist organization but not all. Hezbollah is a millitant group sponsored by Syria, lebanon and mostly iran to fight ISIS in Syria and that axis. they are at the forefront of fighting ISIS in Syria and yes they are mostly Shia

crownwealth:
Which Iraq parliament? Check well, those are part of the terrorists group...

lol...its actually true.......apparently Iran helped them defeat ISIS, and the general that was killed was in charge of that force.

the organization that is at the fore-front of stopping the most brutal terrorist organization in the world (ISIS) is now a terrorist organization. Something is not really adding up here.

doggedfighter:
Co-ask. Lack of empathy

So u won't thank God if your brother survived a fatal accident? Pple sef, hypocrisy of the highest other....

sassysure:
People should help him thank God because he is alive while 6 died

Are Nigerians this insensitive and selfish always?

I'm so sad that his brother survived, he should have died with them...hope you're happy now.
If it was ur brother that survived that kind of accident, tell me will you be crying or grateful that he survived...
We sympathize with the bereaved, and we rejoice with those surviving.

Christmasdon:
A TRUE SERVANT OF GOD, WOULD NOT REJOICE IN THIS KIND OF SITUATION. HE SHOULD BE SOBER AND REFLECT ON THOSE OTHER 6 INNOCENT LIVES.AND CRY WITH THE BEREAVED.

SMH...why do u guys think like this sef..someone's brother no die, he thank God, nah problem. He no thank God, nah problem.

cucumbae:
So na only the reverend father God love?

Continue! He talk so? ......he's thanking God for saving the life of his brother, how is that wrong?

CharleyBright:
Oshimole thinks he is the only mad man in town?
Let Obaseki deal with him and humble him.
Useless fool

U shouldn't fight a war u can't win...