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Haha...u really need emotional buffering.
As I have said earlier, you won't achieve anything in marriage with a feministic idea. U can insult all you want sha.

Magnoliaa:
Why are you now shouting, and most importantly, who are you scaring with these half-baked fear tactics? 😂

What exactly is responsible for the acidic burn in your tommy over my relationship choices or otherwise? What is living in your stomach that's making you blurt all these assumptions about me? Where did I even talk about 50-50 on this thread??

Ahhh, now I know you're sniffing some shxt. "Harrysong just married 30 women" 🤡. Ohhh, I feel so threatened 😭😭. Who would ever want my feminist ass? 😧

Disrespectfully get the hell out of my mentions, dude.

The guy dey sing reasonable songs sometimes.
Just his razz behavior

Hezzyluv:
.....And what's the lyrics of the song that made him won?? Or, it doesn't matter?

Congratulations anyway

This is a fight you can't win. You can continue looking for a man that will be doing 50-50 with you but one thing is for sure, you won't see any. He might pretend in the beginning, but he will later show his true color and if you are
not submissive, he won't think twice before marrying another wife. It's a win for him in the end and the woman lose in the end. There are thousands of women out there looking for who to marry them. Harrysong just married 30 ladies recently. You ain't going to achieve anything in marriage with a feministic mentality. It will never work. Unless you no wan marry. Even if you no marry, so far u dey relationship with a man, you can't get 50-50. The best way is to avoid men and that is if you can. Those elderly women that are submissive ain't fools.

Magnoliaa:
The same society used to deem twins as evil. The society has many taboos and regulations for people from don't look into a mirror at night to not sitting on a mortar or drawing lines on the floor with a stick. With the exception of societal sanctions that protect humans' lives and dignity, every other norms are relative. You can choose to break them, but there'll be no physical punishment for it. And they're not necessarily right.

On the holy books part, I will ask you for a personal evidence. When you tell me how much of a spiritually devout person you are, I may consider listening to you on submission, 'cause I am not accepting y'alls cherrypicking.

Women make better decisions than men Who told you that? Women that easily get emotional? It's only when they want to manipulate men.

pussyphilia:
Men should be the submissive partners to women in marriage because women make better decisions than men so it'll be much more beneficial to the family and society if the mantle of leadership in the home rests with wives.

Men are only meant to work and bring home bread and money for the wife to run the family with.


Nofsaid.

What of our social norms, culture and traditions. Is there any African traditions that didn't demand the wife to be submissive to
her husband?

Magnoliaa:
If I asked you to oblige me on your Christian journey and faith now, you will chicken out like your fellow guy above. If I asked you if you've had a personal experience with Jesus Christ, I doubt if you'll have something reasonable to tell me.

When you got saved? When you got baptised - both in Spirit and in water? Or how diligent you've followed the Great Commission?

Your moniker alone itself is sus.

Because you want to take the Bible on what it says about marriage, meanwhile you probably haven't taken other things it says about salvation, condemnation, etc., as truth.

The society, the holy books demandsociety that a woman should be submissive to her husband and that's it. Listen, respect and be loyal to your husband. You can't be telling your husband to do chores for you. Although there are some ways in which men can help their wives as well but the woman should understand that the man is just helping her and not his responsibility. Na women dey do chores since time immemorial but today's women think they are woke and want 5o-50 which will never happen. The man's primary responsibility is to provide, protect, guides his family and not some chores. Any woman pushing for 50-50 in any aspect of marriage is not ready. And most of them 96% of women like that are divorcee who couldn't manage their home.

Magnoliaa:
And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

But still yet people are getting married. As I have said earlier, feminism has nothing to achieve. Whoever is a feminist is just enjoying it while it last and that is if she dey even enjoy it. She will still go back to default. It has no place in this world. I have them as friends on Facebook. From Kenya, Ghana etc. They post about feminism today then tomorrow they post another contradicting stuff. I hear say Harrisong married 30 women recently. I don't
know how true it is but if it is true...30 women over 1 man rings a bell. As for those women that are opting out of marriage in Italy or Europe as you have said, they will still go back when they meet a supposed nice men. It has happened over and over again. No be today e start.

Zooposki:
Haven’t you learnt about the low birth rate in all developed countries. That’s because the women no longer want to get married or have children, even though the government has been trying to introduce all manners of inducements. They are tired of patriarchy/their male counterparts. No new birth in Italy in the last 3months. It will get to African soon. As I said change is the only constant thing.

Sure. Let's see how far it goes

Zooposki:
Ok, change is the only constant thing in life.

It doesn't change anything. Either you like it or not, it will always be like that. Women think they are doing the most just by doing chores? The society has evolved through that system no be today e start. And you can't change anything. Unless you no go marry. That's the bitter truth. If you can't do chores or you think you dey do the most, it's better not to near men at all. Nothing can be achieved with feminism. People have tried it in the past and they failed or later earned a bad reputation. Even Medusa in the Greek methodology didn't achieved anything reasonable with it.[quote author=Zooposki post=126929072][/quote]

Oya tag me nw

Hezzyluv:
I go tag u back

Na so una dey talk am. Later una go dey give us excuses

Hezzyluv:
If man city no win chelsea, make I c wetin cause am

Too much nollywood movies. Continue deceiving yourself. If you can't do chores better remain single for the rest of your life. Abi u think na by speaking Grammer or stats.

Zooposki:
The type you do when there is no wife in the house.

Even if dem no support rigging, na still the same fate in the hands of those beast called politicians. Once dey enter office, dem no sabi anybody again. Even if the candidate was a good person before he enter office, once baba step in....he is a new person.

FalseProphet1:
Most Nigerians supporting rigging today don't know it's effect on the country yet. They think it's by party, very soon they'll learn the hard way that these politicians don't care about them.

This I have seen.

Oga there was no democracy in the first place.
Na mumucracy dey naija since 1960

MichaelSokoto:
Democracy died Feb 25th, SC buried it patapata!

emilokan can NEVER allow democracy!

Knw dis & knw peace!

Lp candidates are always naive. They don't know how election is being won in this corrupt country.

Na pikin wey no know him mama boyfriend dey call am uncle. U too dey make mouth.

wonder233:
One on one, no single person can kill me with a knife like this, we go drag am, kill ourselves.
You have to be at least 3 or 4 to take me out.
Fear makes people submit and die. And that is so common with Africans.. So cowardly.
C'mon fight for your life! That is why I like whites, you can't kill even a fragile white teenage girl one on one like this, she will fight you with everything.
But see a grown up man meekly submitting to a single fellow man of same size, no single scratch on your assailant....

I don't know the answer oga. Tell me the good leader dem for support.

Bobloco:
You already know the answer


But because of tribal and ethnic bigotry, you would want to support a notorious narcotics drug trafficker, a certified certificate forger who was a guinea pig student of government college lagos used to test run the school four years before it was founded

And you think what I said is not true Say something else biko

Nice2023:
I lived among u guys and what I said here is just the truth.

U guys hide under the cloak of religion to perform evil.

Chest beating don start... enu lasan bi ti ajakara

Bliss4Lyfe:
Killing of Igbo school children by fulani in Igboland is the most henious of crimes reminiscent of the starvation sufferrd by Igbo children during the Biafra War.

This is a declaration of war and one Ndiigbo must make clear will not be tolerated.

Even if it means locating Fulani settlement and destroying them all across Nigeria.


This is very similar to Hamas attack on Israel, and today they are paying for it with their life both them and their children.


Fulani must pay with their lives.

Or possibly owerri, onitsha, okija, okigwe,ohafia, oba. Money rituals business is booming there as well.

Whalis:
I haven't read this. But I guess it happened in the south west. I may be wrong.
If I am right I can further bet that it happened in either Ogbomoso, Oshogbo, Owo, Oyo, Ondo, Osun, Offa or Ogun.
The 'O's in these places stand for human head. The more the Os the more dangerous the place.

Stupid talk. When it comes to rituals, igbos are not left out.

Nice2023:
Almost all homes in western part of Nigeria are involved in rituals like this. Most of them are using church or mosque as a cover up.

They support bad leader, who is the good leader dem for support? Is there any?

Bigkoko:
Tufiakwaa! I can wager a safe bet that 90% of people from that side don involve their self with rituals where humans were used. That is why they are cursed to actually support bad leaders because in their psyche, if you dont do one or two evil things, you no go make am. But the Igbos and minorities from Akwa Ibom, Rivers, Delta etc have proved them wrong.

How these people get these kind cold, heart simply amazes me. I dont accept free stuffs from these people, you no know wetin dem don go involve themselves with.

Elubo....

Karemarealty288:
Some bigots will not know that Amala is called Alibo in Igbo....why the banta?

Wereh...ajokuta ma mumi

Beverlyjean:
They should not carry that yoruba washy washy enter east

Talk is cheap

mariahAngel:
YES! TALK!
And keep talking when something is not right.
That is what we expect of you, Mr Peter Obi.

Don't give this fraudulent administration any breathing space.

U've been brainwashed way before Biafra started gathering troops. Talking about "he never stole government funds" did you think a thief will confess or tell you willingly that he stole something except he was caught or being tortured? Have any politician ever open his mouth and say he embezzled public fund? Peter Obi is a politician and not a pastor. Even pastors self dey chop church money not to talk of a politician. Continue....

rinzaugustine:
Peter Obi is an exceptional human being. I can’t even believe a man like him joined Nigeria politics Nobody have ever inspired me more than Peter Obi. He took Labor party from obscurity to national limelight within six months and never spent shishi, or government funds or donation, something no Nigerian living or dead had ever done! I sometimes go back to his speeches and play it most of the time. I have his potriat in my house. The man is a genius and would have made a big change in this 6 months the incompetent mandate thief is wandering around like a lost baby…a new Nigeria is possible with Peter Obi

Na only babalawo, dibia and other ritualists fit explain better

Atarakpa:
Where are the billionaires. Sometimes I ask myself if truly is there anything like ritual money. If yes which cbn print the note for them. And why do the money mix with our regular money. And thirdly during naira scarcity why can't them roll out their naira to impress us and gain members.

As your moniker implies...whatever comes out of your mouth is fake

boldtruthalways:
Because you think Nigeria is a banana Republic. This is democracy not Autocracy. Get some sense.

Pot calling the kettle black. Bunch of thieves, drug barons, liars and monsters

Oga, no be only this year. Na so e be every time election is conducted. It's not a new thing

SeeWahala:
Yes I agree with daytime and all sane Nigerians worldwide.

Everybody in this universe today knows that what nigeria had in February 2023 wasn't an election. . .

It was simply a SELECTION

And the worst thing is that we selected expired goods