sukkot: See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.
But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.
So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.
Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.
Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.
But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.
Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.
It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.
So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.
I concur. I had this same experience also. I've learned. We move
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Badassniggga: lol. All inter has to do is borrow the tactics Ancelotti used in the last match against City and City is done.
Just mount a brick wall on the flanks and never let Grealish and Bernardo have their way past.. keep someone to be attached to KDBs hip and City is confused and done!. Tuchel did it, Ancelotti did it. Can't wait for the the final showdown at the Etihad.
Ajisebioyolaari: That thing is evil. It needs to be banned. I've lost over 6m myself. Even when I had abstained for months, I still fell into the trap again and lost close to 2m extra.
Now, things are a little tight for me and ironically, I am happy about it. Because when the going was good, I wasn't doing anything meaningful with the money but gamble.
Government must ban all these betting companies. Youths are losing their minds on a daily.
it can't be band. It's a WW thing. Moreover, the same government are benefiting from it.
Just like alcohol. It's rated 18 and above. Betting is not for everyone. There are people that are millionaire now cause it.
He has been a great leader. He has the qualities. He has taste for excellence. You know to lead the senate it's not beans. We don't want a rubber stamp SP again.
obembet: Nigerian man cries out for help after losing N400k belonging to his mother on sport betting
Here is what he wrote
Good morning sir, please help me, Iost over 400k of my mom's money. I keep chasing my lost. Please, I swear I will stop betting if you help me. Please I've messaged others no answer. I'm having panic already. I have all the evidence
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Commissions The 14,444 HA Kano River Irrigation Scheme by Tonytonex(m): 1:29pm On May 13, 2023
