NafeesaAA:



I almost called u a big foolish fool with ur comment but I wouldn't want to judge ur stupidity and foolishness without actually knowing if ur really a fool in person or just on Nairaland

vote this guy to go and rescue our guys In Uganda

Nbotee:
It is only a classic fool dat doesnt know d govt now suppresses information. A govt dat has resorted to lying at every given opportunity jus to cover up it's failures. They'll sit in Abuja and deny any report. Till date Dapchi is now a forgotten case, and now over 600 boys were kidnapped right under the President's nose in his home state.. They will find a way to blame the opposition. I'm sure if the any foreign media have made dis fact finding reports, dey would have blamed the west for trying to destabilise the country with fake news

you are not completely wrong we have a circus for government in this Nigeria but it’s also possible that it’s a lie because these Hausa people how many of them go to school in the first place the Government might just set this up to secure more funds for themselves people are this evil

What is more dangerous than boko haram are shallow minded girls. #glovesoff

piippa:
That hand alone says a lot.

exactly the their just a �

See this animal so she should kill people because she wants to practice her religion I can see you are an extraordinary idiot with cheap data

Fabulouzjoseph:
Where is the freedom of religion.
if she decides to worship satan how is that anybody's problem?.
everyone has a right to practice whatever religion of their choice. Make una free that woman

*modified* if it were the same energy they used in capturing this woman that they used in capturing fulani herdsmen, and our corrupt politicians it would have been better.

*note* before you qoute me make sure you are a saint and you have not committed any thing bad before.

GOFRONT:
Chaiii....They should soft pedal it with E-money o.......Airforce1 come oh!!!! They wan put ya Oga in the Eye of the storm oo!!


Well, E Money has all the Money to QUIET/SHUT the IG, the CP, MAGU and those foot policemen he uses as his servants!!!

Money will do the talking and everywhere will be Silent in weeks to come.......

read his history the ig can not be bought with money

Davash222:
Why are they steadily deploying infected infidels to the South? Is North no longer heaven on earth

I am a northerner I but men wtf what is their agenda those people are just sick

Oga move to is real

gidgiddy:


Stop talking like a fool. Theres a difference between a Jew and Jewish worshipper. Judaism is a religion just like Islam and Catholicism and anyone who practices Judaism is a Jewish worshipper

Do you have to be from Rome to be a Roman Catholic?

Do you have to be from Saudi Arabia to be a Muslim?

So why do you think anyone has to be from Israel to be a Jewish worshipper?

Too many kids on this forum

You the strong and mighty go and join military now...

content208:




Nigerian soldiers that run away like scared dogs when they see Boko Haram?

The picture you post doesn't present Nigerian soldiers as strong; it only present them as weak people and cowards, who only become strong when dealing with armless, helpless people.

Igbo united �����

kollinz1234:
pained? That's why I call u dumb. With the microphone in Nnamdi Kanu's hand, he has unified the entire Igbo land and south south than Shekau has done with AK 47. The plan of the FG to label him a coward just so that he will return and get killed failed woefully. Nnamdi Kanu's refusal to show up further proves that he is not foolish like u and ur people thought of him

That's not the only thing that units us even women that are stupid also units us

goodnessme1:
Nigeria is a terrorist state.



Watch how yoruba
and hausafulanis will
support this injustice.

The only thing that units them is hatred for Igbos.

Sonoyom:
These were the original contributors to the Change Agenda, as it is often said change affects you either positively or negatively. Bukola your tea is served!

served hot sir

majamajic:
he must be very rich by now


but this exposure is not a good one

ft he army I am sure don't even know of his existence until now. Since his father is or was not a genrral

cjrane:


What exactly did Aguiyi Ironsi do for Abia or Igboland for that matter? Ot just honor him because he was an accidental Head of State and carelessly lost his life leading to an unprecedented slaughter of Igbos out of being totally careless and stubborn to heed advice that a counter coup was coming. Yet, he carelessly went to Ibadan proving silly bravado.

Abia should honor Michael Iheonukara Okpara he is an undisputed HERO and also did his best to develop Igboland including today's Abia state and Umuahia.

you are pained o

UncleGist:

A Nigerian military officer and his beautiful fiancee who is a serving youth corper shines in their pre-wedding photoshoot.

Gist from Gistmore : http://gistmore.com/pre-wedding-photos-of-a-military-officer-his-fiancee-who-is-a-youth-corper

is that you dont have the cognitive intellect to tell the difference

A change is environment and scenary will go a long way in the healing process

haaaaaaaaa:
Only side mirror dey make this one cry.
Oloshi

allow the coe if he had just stopped and waited for the cows to pass aall this for no happen. It's sad to even see cows roaming the streets but sin e they are there exercise small patience

oyin44:
Those soldiers are Fulani'rebel army .they knew in their hearts what they were doing.they too are kidnappers.

are a soldier

What these folks did is wrong on whole different level... let's come back to greedy and desperate Nigerians common how will the first lady tell you to send recharge card to register you for a loan of 100k..... gullible people

Small small they will start coming out of the closet.....

RIP

Paxie55:
Lol.
I love insulting stupid men that don't know their left from right.
It gives me joy.

You are just crying.
Sorry o.

this one can not find husband......

There's nothing to drop any useless jaw here......

GoTV:
It's shameful that these unscrupulous elements are role models to many Christian women. When that Kano actress was expelled from Kannywood, we Christians shouted at the top of our voice forgetting that Islam frowns at indecency unlike our religion of hypocrisy that allows women wear mini skirts and mono straps to churches to seduce pastors and male members. When Muslim women advocate for hijab and decent dressings, Christian celebrities preach celibacy and get pregnant out of wedlock or flaunt immorality shamelessly by twerking on social media or practicing feminism as against God's commandments. Yet we wonder why muslims are free of controversies. I'm really ashamed of been a Christian

stay tv if the actions of these few indecent women will make you ashamed to be identified as a Christian then maybe you don't deserve to be one. Covert to the more moral religion. I wonder what Jesus our Lord did when he read this post

AngryNigerian22:
when they don't respect themselfs why won't they get abuse

nawa o... come and see one woman beater

This needs money for treatment.....
You can't fight men of God and win especially those hat have the special calling of God .
Secondly this woman is shameless head to bottom but we are glad she has decided to serve God

SIRmanjar:
See her flat nose sef

I just dey wonder how dis wan take win beauty kween for akwaibom wey get plenty fine gels?

she must have knacker her way to the top....

So what now happen...

That's sad but the truth is I strongly think you didn't marry your wife .... that's all now all you need to do is build yourself up stop being a husband and start being or rather continue being a father to your kids your wife or should I call her your flat mate would find her way back to you women are attracted to success or someone with the potentials of being successful

kunleajaye:
Hello peeps. It's with a heavy heart that I have to say that my marriage is on it's last legs(or so I think). Sometimes last year I made a post asking for advice and things actually got a bit better afterwards (https://www.nairaland.com/3415462/dont-feel-attracted-wife-anymore), but alas, it didn't last.

My wife returned to her cold self and it just went downhill from there. We started arguing again over the tiniest of reasons. Some of the reasons for our petty arguements was the issue of her engrossing herself in school activities that sometimes took her attention from home duties. I told her a couple of times that i wasn't against her doing things like what she did and wasn't in the way of her achieving her desires and goals, but she shouldn't forget she's a mother and wife and one of her primary duties is her family. Sometimes she'd spend so much time in one fruitless meeting or the other, and when she gets home, she'll be too tired to do anything. It got to a point I had to do alot of cooking for the house so that the kids won't be hungry. It's not that she didn't do her duties. It's just the inconvenience of it all and the way her outside activities affected us that really got to me.

Another thing that got on my nerves was her attitude to her degree. Agreed, with all the things she did, she still maintained a very good GPA and was one of the best students in her department. Her lecturers would at times request she take their classes for them while they attended to other pressing issues. It was a good thing and i felt proud, but in her mind the main thing she wanted to do was business. Buying and selling like she did when we first got here and before she started school. She wanted to set up a store where she'd import and sell african prints. There were days during the summer when I'd plan on doing Uber to supplement the little I brought in as a paycheck, only for her to tell me she'd registered for one event or another to display her wares. I'll just have to stay back at home with the kids till she returned later in the night. It really did get me upset and I once asked her what the point of the degree she had studied for if all she wanted to do was sit in a store and sell stuff? We had this argument several times on end.

What eventually broke the camel's back was something she said that I'll never forgive her for. One evening, after putting the kids to bed, she approached me and said she wanted to apply for a loan. I asked her what she needed the loan for. She said for her shop. How much does she need? Ten thousand dollars. How does she expect to apply for ten thousand dollars when we have no way of paying back? Besides, where does she expect me to get the collateral from? She said someone would stand in for her. I told her I don't support the idea and she should be patient. At least after her graduation, she would be able to work full time and earn a better pay which she could then channel to doing whatever she wanted. She said no. She doesn't want to work, but sell her stuff. We started bickering back and forth about this cos I was already fed up of the whole issue, and at some point she screamed, saying I do not support her as a husband, and maybe she would have been better off marrying Awwal. [/color]


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Awwal was another guy who fancied her when we met during our youth service in camp; she had once told me that back then she loved him as much as she loved me, and if she had to choose, she would have picked him instead of me. I asked her why she then chose me, and she said her late mother had advised her "don't make a future husband into an ordinary boyfriend, and don't make an ordinary boyfriend into a husband." In other words, don't confuse lust for love.
***


[color=#000099]She realized what she said and immediately began to apologize. I don't know how I kept my cool, and I walked away quietly. It only got worse after then. We no longer talked liked we once did apart from the necessary exchanges. I let her do whatever pleased her. Our arguements continued and sometimes we wont speak for days. I started keeping late nights, staying more in the lab after school or sometimes driving to a bar to drown my sorrows. I tried getting a marriage counselor, but the damage had already been done. Our sex life became virtually non-existent. We just remained together because of the kids.

A man has needs, and if he wasn't getting them at home, he'd start looking outside. I'm not proud to say this, but during some of my late nights out, I'd visit a discrete gentleman's club. It was on one of these outings I met one of the girls who danced there. She was a young college kid in her junior year. Over the next week or so she gave me a listening ear and I poured my heart out to her. She invited me over to her place one evening (she shared a three bedroom house with two other girls), one thing led to another and she was giving me a full n@ked massage with her body. We didn't have penetrative sex, but she gave me the sexual release my wife had denied me for such a long time. I offered to pay for her services afterwards, but she told me not to, as it was just her way of showing she cared. We ended up making similar arrangements a few more times, and each time we took it a bit further. The furthest we went was the time we had a 69 on her bed, and she came all over my face while I splooged her mouth. I always had to wipe myself off properly and take a shower once I got home to rid of all the oil and smell of pheromones on my person.

I guess my wife suspected something was going on cos she asked me one day if i had been seeing anyone. I asked her why she asked, and she shrugged, murmuring something to the fact that it was unusual of me not to have disturbed her for sex in such a very long time. I told her since she had decided to control when and the frequency we had sex, I had accepted my plight. I told her if she wanted sex, she knew where to find me. That night, I woke up to her snuggling up to me. It was the first time in a long while she would come to me. Try as much as I could, I just couldn't achieve an erection. My time with the stripper girl had taken away the sexual affection I had for my wife. She noticed this and started crying, saying i don't love her anymore. I simply told her it was just the stress. The following day, she was back to her normal self.

Last month, she finally graduated. I was happy that at least she would get a place to work and earn some money. But what she told me a few days later came as a shocker. She told me she wanted to go back to Nigeria. Her plan was to fulfill her dream of setting up a clothings line and since i don't want to support her, she'd rather go on without my support. I asked her if she was joking, but i could see she was dead serious. I asked who would take care of the kids if she leaves, and she said she intends going with them. infact, she had already told her sister to start looking for a nice school for them at home. I just couldn't believe it. Why make that kinda decision without consulting me first? She just told me her mind was made up. I tried changing her mind, but she remained adamant. Unknown to me, she had already booked their flight back home a long time ago. I had to call my parents to talk some sense into her, but afterwards they just told me to let her come home, that she may just need the change of environment for a while. I called and asked her sister why she didn't tell me about the plan knowing how close we were, but she simply said it was her sister's decision.

They left two days after Christmas. To date I'm yet to receive a call from her. I've sent her several emails but she hasn't responded to even one. She told my mum she hasn't had the chance to get a line yet, but I know that's a lie. It doesn't take you more than a week to get a phone and a line in Nigeria. Sadly, I may have to accept the conclusion that my marriage is over.

Looks like jos because that's the only place you have a joint task force