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PaigeTaylor:
I swear on the life of my child, it is real. Had to create another account for this.

God forbid bad thing..your poor innocent husband thinks he married a good woman because he divirgined her not knowing he married a h.o.e that cant control her self begging desperately for another man that rejected her like the trash she is and craving to be another man’s cum bucket without shame. Ask yourself why the other guy NEVER WANTED TO DATE YOU..il give you the answer for free,because he knew and saw you were very very cheap and desperate to date him and you have no class as a lady, because a classy lady wouldn’t beg to be dated,if she gets too desperate then she drops subtle hints to the guy and show him green light.

He knew another bigger guy and cuter than him could easily bed and Fvck you silly too if he made the mistake to date you.I bet your kids would be ashamed of you. God pls don’t give us hoes as wives that are forming virgins because they didn’t get the opportunity to be disvirgined. Tufiakwa I hope your husband God would open his eyes to see what he kept in his house thinking he has a trophy.

I detest men and women like you who don’t value people who love them. I hope you find out somehow that you disgust your husband and he is craving for another woman so desperately.

ItisWell22:
I’m glad you know I’m indecent.

Do have a great day… 🥱

Don’t flatter yourself..I couldn’t careless whatever the fvcckk you are.

ItisWell22:
I wasn’t and I’ve never been against people marrying virgins, or as virgins; NAH.

Was only making an example to the post I quoted, to buttress the point.

So rest Mr Man!!!

Whatever the fvck your preference is or preferences are, they are yours; not mine…

Yeah so let people be with their preferences and stop trying to discourage people from wanting what they want like the O.P,and down playing the value of Virgins and decency because your fvckking lifestyle isn’t as decent as theirs..That’s witchcraft because that’s exactly what the devil does to people..Downplaying the value of good and purity because he CAN NEVER BE AS Good as humans,God will ALWAYS CHOOSE US OVER HIM..

I spoke to you earlier without cursing at you but you decided to curse so I only returned the Favour and I bet you are not too jolly about it..

ItisWell22:
I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…

And SO WHAT? does that happen to Virgins alone?even Oloshos have these experiences so your point is invalid..so because some people are not lucky in their marriages then decent girls should become hoes?what a joke..Are you also aware of women who got married as virgins and are very happy in their homes too? Just pray for Gods grace and mercy to marry a good human being Virgin or NOT..but we would always prefer virgins simple as that.

lovediehatelive:
Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics

My brother I know how you feel,getting married to a virgin is great and will always make the man value her if he is a reasonable man.However some cheat in the marriage or long run and same also goes for non virgins cheating too, because my ex ,na me disvirgin am and I valued her and respected her more than almost all other exes of mine, until she cheated so last last we all hope and pray to marry a Virgin that will be a good wife. We can also settle for a good non virgin too but we WONT place her on the same respect level as we would have if she is a good virgin. I wish you luck sha.

Ignore all these females making fun of you because you want a virgin..they are pained because they will NEVER EVER truly have that respect from their man or husbands that would be given to a virgin. No be you ask them to go dey mount different cockks for their life so don’t mind them with all their sarcastic responses to you and your story. Virgins will always be the NUMBER 1,most reasonable men will ALWAYS want a Virgin for a wife if they had the choice to pick. I mean who will want an Old used car compared to a brand NEW TEAR RUBBER? It’s a no brainer.

mediclife1987:
Listen to me and listen well.

If you press me reach limit, it's either I kill you, you kill me, or we kill ourselves.

The 2of us no fit survive am together.

And if I succeed killing you, I'll end myself also immediately.

I see myself in people that spray innocent souls bullets in malls, shey na one idiot I no go fit lay down my life to kill, and pass a message?

I no dey try form any bad ass commando, I'm a dead man walking already, I got nothing to live for.

I'll end both our miserable lives if I succeed first, and if I don't, you've done me a favor by helping me out of my own misery.

Everything no be muscle or craze.

Bros na wa o you dey vex o..but I am curious don’t you believe in the after life bros?if life here no Favour person then won’t you try to do things that will make the life Favour you in the after life just in case there is an after life?it’s a gamble worth taking na don’t you think so?you already have nothing to loose here so it really wouldn’t cost you anything taking such a gamble just incase there is an after life because somany things can’t be explained..how man sperm way be liquid go take form complete human being with hard bones,different liquids and bodily fluids,flesh,blood vessels brains,beating heart etc? Just take time out to think.. even if you have a terminal disease Bro hope still dey o no go Just waste your life like that. If I tell you my own life story ehnn you sef go shock but I still dey value life.

caandi:
When I hear things like this I’m perplexed
But I’ve seen it once or twice
Wen I was a kid my uncles wife would beat him up, and when he gets stitched up he would tell people that he fell down or fan hit him or something.
It was so funny….
Another was in uni.
My ex roomie den would beat up her yahoo bf and smash the windows of his car, break all the plates in his house sef.
Atlast he dint marry her after she’s had like 4abortions or more than for him.
Well she’s also married to a diff guy now so I heard, she didn’t finish school
Some women have immeasurable strength, though some are possessed and controlled by the marine o
But really I wish I had strength to challenge a man aswear no one will look down on me as a weakling…

Lol see you,as if even now you don’t challenge men anyhow?every woman challenges men almost always, women shout on men on a daily if they get upset and some will even say you want to beat me knowing fully well the man would not want to touch a woman so it’s just the way it is everywhere. Women are allowed to challenge men and shout plenty o even when them no get power to fight. But we love you all been feminine so you are good and not a weakling..

When will this Old man understand that we don’t really give a rats ass what he says or thinks anymore?

Simeonjoe1:
Learn brother, learn.
Every part of your body are connected and just one complication can lead to multiple organ failure.
Important organs shutdown first and present first with complications, brain= confusion, seizures, coma. Kidney, liver and others some which cause death with few days despite your best efforts at treatment

Yes I know this trust me I do,Just that I feel the Doctors could have been more careful, because there was no underlying medical condition before the birth so such kidney complication isn’t expected or imagined a possible outcome from childbirth. And the hospital management was and is still very insensitive to the man’s plight so it’s just a natural thing that people will get angry at the Hospital and Doctors involved. People will NOT understand this sort of pain until it happens to them which we always pray against.

danilmo:
I don't think u read and understand my submission. In Nigeria we enter theater not knowing the blood clothing profile of the patient, we only order for it wen we are clinically suspecting a possiblity of uncontrollable heamorrhage. Same way so many other things to check on. But the fact is this is Nigeria, because of finance we still manouver to "riskly" help out. Trust me if we are to do the 100% risk free which is not even obtainable in Europe, u will b paying Millions. Ure cursing after u read where I said something that should be charged for 1Milla all things equal, we charge 350,400k and take risk because of finance, trusting our skill to manouver for the good of patient incase of complications, u're here cursing,lol. Go and ask how much patient pay for health in that europe and compare it, u think health delivery is cheap? It's costly but we still survive here base on we we. See I've helped patient financially, donated blood before surgery as patient couldn't afford the needed, and she needed surgery done to save her life, u're here cursing, lol. Guy calm down o. We just know it's Doctors against the society. Whatever suits u, talk.

Chief my younger sister is a Certified Doctor so I can’t hate Doctors and no it’s not Doctors against the society because Doctors have the most important job in human existence and are valued. The reason some may feel the society is against them is because most of them are proud and arrogant especially in Africa.

We all know surgery is dangerous and there will always be a slight chance things will go bad normal, but a case that from childbirth to kidney complications as a result of surgery done is not common and hardly expected to be a complication from child birth. Those who operated on her were probably careless.

An orthopedic CONSULTANT for that matter performed surgery on my dear elder sis God rest her beautiful soul and he forgot cotton wool in her and puss started coming out, after numerous complaints and tests/investigations ,we took her back for another surgery to check ,and behold a cotton wool was in found in her.

As if that wasn’t bad enough he stitched her up and mistakenly stitched the drainage pipe to her skin AGAIN O after taking out the cotton wool,only for him to apologize latter arrogantly when we went for dressing and found out the drainage pipe was also stitched to her saying the stitching was a mistake,. His arrogance , pride and carelessness caused my family a lot and his actions affected my dear sisters life until she passed away.

A lot of Nigerian doctors won’t settle down to do a good job and will be in haste to finish the procedure hence making a careless minor mistake that could be life threatening, which may most likely have been the case with this man and his wife.

danilmo:
U sounded naive and at the same time have a point. Any mistake in the world is preventable, ur claim exactly which is right. And if we must prevent all single mistake before carrying out operation trust me only rich men will afford Medical bills. What do u mean by right under ur watch U think these things are done by gods and not human? Can u urself afford to raise 1million to cover any medical irregularities now now? Even if u can, how many Nigerians can? Imagine Doctors telling u they can't start until u deposit 1Million just ensure no single risk. For a surgery we have being attempting with 350k with 75% risk free. Asking 100% risk free is ridiculous. Can u afford it? Let's just pray we don't fall victim bro. Amen

Going by your responses you are saying if one isn’t rich then they shouldn’t expect the doctors who by the way are morally obligated to do all in their power to save lives,one shouldn’t expect them to do and put in their best but to expect a botched job? You are not even fit to work as a tailor with that mindset, I pity anyone who engages your services whatever it is you do. Go and tell that crap to people in America and Europe na.

People did a shitty Job and you are bringing sentiments into it, don’t worry it will happen to you too and when it happens to you or your relative then you will be taken seriously when you come and make dump submissions like you doing.

danilmo:
U sounded like an illiterate sha.

Dunce, it’s YOU not U..Ode who is actually an illiterate.

God will Punish you people..what rubbish did you people post?how did a woman giving birth now have complications that you want to take out her womb and as if that’s not enough you went to her kidney?how womb take affect kidney bayi?you didn’t even tell us anything reasonable here just saying it wasn’t a student that did the surgery..omoh the guy should Sue that Hospital..Anyone in their correct senses now know better than to go there for solution to their health issues.

Plenty mad people for this country sha

DSC7:
Well if she doesn't open up no one will know... Except me and her.....

If only she can cope without feeling guilty...

Except you are not related by blood,but if you are related by blood and you have the mind to contemplate telling your own brother that you had something with this girl in the past then you are Very wicked..if you decide to be silent and they get married how long do you think you both can keep the secret from your brother?and I hope you know that if he finds out on his own then that’s the end of your relationship with your brother so just keep that in mind and if that’s something you are willing to gamble then goodluck to you.

Nonsense..I can bet that her boss has Nyashed her many times that’s what is giving her the mind to feel entitled and the boss is a mumu guy sha..

twang414:
I have been with my wife for 11 years, and throughout this period we have always had trust issues. The trust issues emanate mostly from her. Issues like not being accountable, not being transparent and disloyalty at its core. Eg, claiming shes at location B, whereas shes at location A, like calling her and not picking, but will pick other number calls and much more.

We have communicated in ways to make things better, she would promise to make things better but will at the end of the day backslide. further issues deepened, I got tired and couldn't tolerate more of it, so I repeatedly asked for a separation, but yet she disagrees. One of the major that happened now is here in UK, as we relocated last year Sep. She had met a new lady friend at a party, apparently they got to know more of each other after the lady forgot her kids bag at the location so my wife was asked to take it that she will come over to ours to pick it up since we live close to each other.

To cut long story short, the woman is into beauty products marketing, she involved my madam in the hustle and they seem to pair along well, invites her to events held in hotels and all that. The one they went for 3 days ago, after the event, she called me that she was done, didnt want to take uber prolly cos it was expensive, so she said the lady claimed she will drop her off. An hour later she called she was on her way that the ladies husband have come to pick them up, 40mins later she said there was traffic at woolich that it might take time b4 she gets back. Because of the trust issues we always have and haven't been sorted, I checked her lcoation via her findmyiphone and lo and behold they were at the womans house. I waited at least 15mins to see if maybe it was the traffic, but it wasnt, because her movement was at a complete halt.

So I called her, she didnt pick, gave her another 3 missed calls she didnt pick, so i called my daughters phone that was with her, she then picked saying that she was on a zoom meeting with some clients thats why she couldnt pick, but that shes in the car still heading home,though i could hear TV sound, so i was like babe, it dont sound like ur in the car, she was like the ladys husbands car is a Porsche car, you can hear any sound, so i said i was going to call her on video call, I called she didnt pick, she then called me back on video while showing she was in the car and it was at that time her movement on the map started showing she was moving, this might be too much to be doing, but it just seem glaringly obvious that there is something she is hiding, but the most painful part was that she now handed the phone to her friend to defend her that she was truly in the car bla bla bla, i had to cut the call off.

I felt so embarrassed and felt maybe I would not have told her that she wasnt in a car, or that she would have handled the situation better by not handing over the phone to her friend to talk to me.

Do you guys really think trust issues that havent been resolved over the last 10 years can still be worked out?

A woman you don’t trust why did you travel with her out of the country?Hmm your matter is really complicated because you have kids together but obviously your wife isn’t a good person..very selfish woman and you are in for a bumpy ride with her o..

This people are so cursed beyond redemption..imagine what they allegedly did to THEIR OWN,a fellow officer o they are accused that them still collect bribe from the guy and still locked him up illegally and killed him too.. Godforbid the Nigerian police force,I and relations will never want to join such people…there are jobs that are worse than toilet cleaners, and the NIGERIAN POLICE FORCE is one of them. spits.. well I don’t feel sorry for the dead Police either because he is just as bad and evil as his colleagues,he was just unlucky they turned on him

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically(complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Na God go punish you this bloody weakling and simp..so you choose a wicked stranger to your own innocent blood in that little girl?who a not worthy to be among men, absolutely disgusting.

The yeye man that wants to marry this one is a dead foooool..he better run after watching this video of his ho.e who obviously want his money alone.

KanuSE:
EVERYONE of you is messed up, insecure and paranoid.

I'm not like you all.

Yeah sure..just like a mad man thinks everyone else around him is mad and he is ok while everyone else see him mad..Goodluck weirdo

Lee99:
my bro, this girl wan chop my eye, but e hook am, funny enough she had only 20k in her account now she has 2k 😂

She fit come find you with Police for your house and put allegations on you so be smart..keep us updated sha. Just imagine the hoe

KanuSE:
This is the point exactly. You don't know me but here you are calling me unprintable names.

Cant you see that EVERY ONE has a different opinion to yours?means your mentality is really messed up,your type is what is the problem of the world.

iSense247:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

Bloody simp..I hope you have written your will sha because heart attack no far from you anytime she no dey house your mind will be imagining how she dey ride another man dickkk like bull rider and moaning like a wielder beast.. the lord is your strength oga. You really should be ashamed to write this in public sha

Intoboy:
If no be say nairaland fit block me I for swear for you, simptuous mugu

I swear that guy na thunder go strike am..Godforbid. This one too will say he is a man.

josephm456:
Thanks so much!

You are a very big SIMP..continue sending the money,maybe na your babe my guy de fu.Ckk on a steady and still collecting money from her wey her bf mumu so called fiancé dey send her from Australia walahi e fit be your babe. Pls keep sending money while we help you maintain her punna and also help you spend your money.. una Must learn by force.

My guy always tells me how him and the babe dey always yab her Fiancé..the guy na very mischievous guy and he says he enjoys fucccking peoples girls especially when they are chatting their babe or on call,that’s when he enjoys it most because he will be listening to their conversation while Knackinggg the babe. I use to vex for him when he use to gist me but it’s really none of my biz sha. Funny thing is he justifies his actions by saying he is not even the only one Nackking the babe just that he is the main side cock sha. Dey play just dey play.

Lawl:
You speak out yourself
No one is looking at your chat


Don't you see he's the one that first bring the matter up after it has been solved before she's reply the best replys for him why would he be blindly suspecting her always let just trust her everything would be okay as she said read the chat well.....

Bloody Simp.. I pity guys like you.KOROKORO you are seeing cheating and red flags and you are trying to find a dumb explanation for it?lol smh..if you like no wake up o in your own relationship because I am very sure one girl somewhere is using you to do kalukalu with this type of your mindset.

Bordey:
,infact one was even disvirgined by me and they still cheated and got caught. . Wow.things dey happen. How did you caught her. Kindly share bro

Bro na one of her simp ex Chat me up with hint,I think na her first bf but nothing happened btween them so she come friendzone am and opened up to him that I was the one who disvirgined her bla bla but she latter go fu,ck one guy like that so he say Make he hint me after she gist am, so I checked her phone to confirm what he told me,the hoe even got fu.cked skin to skin by the guy o first time she dey fuc.k am..

He still wanted her back based on the Simp that he is even after she tell am say I mess am scatter and she still fuc.‘kk another guy but the simp still didn’t mind..the guy Ugly sha so I guess that’s another reason he couldn’t forget about her and wanted to scatter us..omoh me sef no send the babe again so we come latter scatter few months after I found out and she did all her suicide drama bla bla..

We still knackk for like 2months while I started dating another babe and come finally scatter during covid lockdown,Imagine she dey form vex say I dey with my new babe during lockdown while she dey her house lol..Bro just leave matter this hoes ain’t loyal bro. It doesn’t mean there are no good Nija girls or Edo girls o..there still are but are very scarce to find so bro no be every Virgin make sense o..but even with that sha Virgin na still my first choice anyday,but the truth is good woman can be a virgin or a non virgin and a demon can also be a virgin or a non virgin. Just pray for a good virgin.

Ingriid:
Can u guys just stop all these for Christ sake. Is it every Nigerian lady that's bad according to u guys here on Nairaland.
Did u read d chat where d lady was telling her supposed boyfriend that she's suicidal? Oh gosh!
This guy isn't even bothered about that! What sorts of generation is this with no human sympathy ! Damn!

Sorry you are offended but the lack of sympathy didn’t just happen over night,it has an origin and MOST Nigerian girls arnt loyal not just Nigerian girls tho so don’t take it too personal. Truth is most are selfish and want to eat their cake and still have it.

I am speaking from experience, I have dated girls who cheated and threatened suicide like twice,infact one was even disvirgined by me and they still cheated and got caught. They always threaten suicide so they can blackmail men emotionally. There is a video trending online of a married woman who cheated on her husband with his bestfriend and as usual she wanted to blackmail her husband Emotionally by threatening suicide to drink sniper even with her kids in the other room.

Her smart husband just started recording the whole thing so the world wouldn’t blame him for her death,sure enough she drank it and threw the mug she poured it in on her husband and still came and sat close to him,few mins latter the poisons effect kicked in and she started grabbing her chest and stomach and groaning in pain foaming from the mouth,her husband called the kids and one brought milk to give her to drink and she still rejected it even when her little boy came around looking confused and trying to help his mum she still refused the milk because of how wicked hearted she was. You did wrong and still trying to emotionally blackmail the innocent man..she sha died. Men can forgive almost anything but cheating hmm it takes the extra grace of God and that almost never happens ,and in this case she cheated with his best friend so I have no Sympathy for people like that.

As for the O.P and his cheating girl,he is better off without her,she will still cheat on him again if he lets her back in his life, a cheating woman is more dangerous than a Venomous snake.

Sorry bro..this hoes ain’t loyal..