Your brother is not a serious person..didn’t he know about these hooligans enforcing seat at home in the east?why will he decide to travel on a Monday?smh
adetula148: There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.
We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.
You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.
Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.
Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.
Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.
So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .
Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .
She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .
Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .
Here is my question, why are witness like this ?
This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?
So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .
Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.
I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.
Do have a nice day .
What a looser and SIMP U are..so u want to quit ur job because of community Pussssy?smh ur family should be ashamed of u
Another cow in distress. Oga u must be very ugly,deformed,impotent and have a very VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM because ur mumu no get part 2. u are an embarrassment to the word SIMP..ur own simping is out of this world sha and I have no sympathy for u. I detest men like u
Interesting how their male counterparts never get this lucky, just the females magically become successful and richer..smh pusi business is good business
Interesting how their male counterparts never get this lucky, just the females magically become successful and richer..smh pussssy business is good business
I never liked this bit.ch called Jaruma, I also am not a fan of Regina but in this case I stand with Regina and Ned 100% cos Jaruma is a FRAUD and an opportunist and a wicked bad selfish individual. Because you paid Someone common 10m then you want to destroy the persons reputation and life?you are MAD..
Regina asked her politely to bring down that defaming post yet she was acting wicked and stubborn so let her dance to the music now, person wey pass you PASS YOU,you are Just a millionaire who is trying to fight and old billionaire?lol you are a learner. Sowore I love you but pls don’t get involved in this case, don’t add sentiments to this issue because Ned has been an Ass in the past to some youths in his village.
As for those always disturbing our ears about Regina marrying her granddad yal should shut up and get a fvcckin life,na Jealousy de do una cos Regina is an adult and she is happy with Ned. Make una go drag all these Muslim clerics and people who marry 12year old girls na if una reach,rubbish..Every guy wants to fvcckk young fresh pvsssy and Ned is NO different,he has the means and money to do that so why shouldn’t he? Abeg Ned carry on jare I want to be like you when I grow up sir,more fresh pvvssies to your diiick.
Thandiubani: Nollywood actress Julianna Olayode has made damning allegations against her ex-foster father, Pastor Timilehin Adigun.
This is a continuation of accusations she made yesterday that he took over her social media handles and refused to release her passwords.
In a new post, Julianna accused him of sexually abusing her sister, demanding an#l se.x and lodging her in a hotel.
In a video she posted on her Instagram page this morning, Julianna addressed Pastor Timilehin's claim that she came by his office and was shaking because she knew she had wronged him.
In the video she posted, Julianna clarified that she was shaking because she got to find out that Pastor Timilehin had allegedly invited her sister over from school, lodged her in a hotel, and was touching her inappropriately. She also alleged d that Pastor Timilehin even asked her sister to allow him to perform anal sex with her. She said this was what was making her shake and tremble in anger when she went to see him in his church.
She said she suspected a while back that the clergyman was touching her sister and had visited him to ask him never to touch her sister. She said he denied the allegation, accusing her of using his ''weakness and struggles'' against him
''I told you Timilehin, you must not touch this girl. What did you do? You told her to come all the way from school, outside Lagos to meet you in the hotel for three days, watching her have her bath, sending her your nudes, even begging her to have anal sex with her and you think that my sister will tell me that kind of thing and I will not tremble and I will not be angry?'' she said in the video
The caption that accompanied the video she shared reads
''Timilehin Adigun, I can not make sense of the videos you did. Just when I think I have seen it all, you reveal another side of you. I thought I knew you but I didn't. You have no heart!
Your videos brought back memories, sad memories, painful memories, I have not been able to stop thinking about them, I can't even sleep.
Did you listen to yourself at all? I don't think you did.
You manipulated and sexually abused my sister and you thought I would be calm, you expect me not to be furious, how are you processing the things you did and the things you said? How? I don't get you.
You talk about apology and forgiveness.Forgiving you is a process for me. I forgave you then, for may sanity, just when I am trying to move on, you do something else that triggers me and I get mad at you again and I beg God to help me forgive you again.
The hurt is really deep, the pain, the trauma, the disappointment, the sleepless nights, the tears that drenched my pillow, the shock, the entire experience is indescribable.
Like I said, there is so much to say. I don't have the words yet.
My book Rebirth is full of your praises Timilehin, I spoke about all the things you did for me.
Even though then you had done it with two or three people that I know, but they were in good terms with you and they had forgiven you and everything seem to be okay.
We all thought it was a thing of the past for you and it will never happen again. When you told me it will never happen again, I believed you, I thought it had stopped.
Hence the reason I chose to focus on the good things when I wrote my book.
I saw you as a Father then, so I couldn't write a book and talk about your past.
You kept telling people, ' if Juliana ever talks about this she'll ruin herself and her career, she'll never be able to say it, she will be contradicting herself, Rebirth will speak for me'.
By the way everything I said about Timilehin in Rebirth is true, and that's why the hurt was really deep for me.... and I didn't know what to say and how to say it and I didn't want to look like the ungrateful person.
I couldn't talk to anyone, I remember talking to somebody I respect so much for the first time about it because I wanted to get help and feeling guilty I did, processing the whole thing in my head and hoping I didn't do wrong by telling someone about it, different thought in my head, you meant so much to me that I couldn't say anything bad that you did and not feel terrible.
Wo...oro po....there is so much to say...
You know your children Timilehin, don't ever call me you daughter again! And don't ever call yourself my father again!
I don't know why you mentioned Jenifa's diary, you want people to drag me for the mess you made.
You are just wicked honestly, what has Jenifa's Dairy got to do with passwords.
You sent an email and messed up the whole thing. Never said anything about it, people said all sort of things to me then, some are still talking till today.
You messed things up and I paid for it, who did I tell?
I almost went crazy when you started put the blame on me, as you have a habit of to blaming me for different thing, you just never take responsibility for the things you do.
I had to talk to the person who was present the day you sent the email as I thought I had amnesia.
I even had to chat with the director, because it felt like I was going crazy....'' he said
Pastor Timilehin is yet to respond to this allegation.
This is not the first time Timilehin has been accused of molesting young girls. In December 2020, he tendered a public apology after he was accused of sexually assaulting a number of the teens in his ministry known as MINE Teenage Ministry. Read here.
Comon get out of here olodo ..watin carry in and ur foolish sister go meet man wey una know say de molest girls?yal are just foolish idiots and I feel zero pity for u..u were even telling him that he must not touch ur sister ,like are u kidding me?u did u sister meet him in the hotel sotay he was watching her bath?bunch of liers.u carry goat keep for lion cage come de tell am make he no chop the goat abi?rubbish
Because most of it are left unreported doesn't mean men are not raped as well. However, that doesn't mean we should justify rape. It most be frown at and every every perpetrator should be thoroughly dealt with.
You also sound as one because I am 100% sure with this your hatred you WILL rape or probably kill any young male. This hatred has eaten you up and made you less of an animal.
I wish I could like ur comment 1million times bro,that lady is just a lunatic, it’s best to just ignore her, she is so damaged
Oga u are talking plenty plenty,u are the cause of ur problem as a SIMP wey u be..so u are not ashamed to want to give 20k to an olosho who is also going around to tarnish ur image?y didn’t her bf ur neighbor give her?na so be captain save a hoe na..sense is Farr from u. If na man ask u now u will find stories to give and I’m also sure ur family members are in need of help somewhere and u are here forming rescue to a hoe that ur alpha male neighbor is f.vcking left and Right..
Oga fv.ck outa here jare u disgust me. If to say na reasonable woman sef it Willen understandable but a clear hoe that was shouting about sleeping with men for money which she did intentionally for u to hear and that would have been another red flag for u to know she isn’t a good person or worth it still ur brain no help u work well..u deserve worse than embarrassment sef bloody simps who never learn
lecturer50: A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.
I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.
Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"
I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.
I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.
She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.
I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.
She thanked me and left.
I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.
That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.
I wanted to stop greeting him.
But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.
So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.
He said nothing at first.
Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.
He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.
I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.
I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".
I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.
She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.
Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.
They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.
Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.
I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.
At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.
They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.
Can you imagine that?
I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.
So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?
Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.
Men would rather defend the female gender.
But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.
What goes around comes around.
Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.
Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.
If you like abuse me.
Oga u are talking plenty plenty,u are the cause of ur problem as a SIMP wey u be..so u are not ashamed to want to give 20k to an olosho who is also going around to tarnish ur image?y didn’t her bf ur neighbor give her?na so be captain save a hoe na..sense is Farr from u. If na man ask u now u will find stories to give and I’m also sure ur family members are in need of help somewhere and u are here forming rescue to a hoe that ur alpha male neighbor is f.vcking left and Right..
Oga fv.ck outa here jare u disgust me. If to say na reasonable woman sef it Willen understandable but a clear hoe that was shouting about sleeping with men for money which she did intentionally for u to hear and that would have been another red flag for u to know she isn’t a good person or worth it still ur brain no help u work well..u deserve worse than embarrassment sef bloody simps who never learn
Rubbish cum bucket..When e set ur eyes go clear but then it would be too late for u. Girls like u always learn the hard way and always when its too late.Ok o let's wait maybe ur news will also be on NL how dem comot ur eyes or womb. Nonsense thing.
Jenny1010: The story below is not my story, it's a story of a married woman living with her husband and 4 children (4 girls ) in a store room attach to my premises, where she also sales foodstuffs. Her husband works for a private security company and is attached in one the bank outside the state, he often comes around on weekends to spent time with his family. I don't know this woman well, all I know about her is that her children often comes to greet me whenever I come home and I often give them money and sometimes foodstuffs.
Yesterday, I was at home when the woman knocked on my door, when I opened the door and saw her , I was surprised what could have brought her to my house. She told me that she is sorry for bothering me but there is a problem eating her up that she wants to share with me of which maybe I could be of help. I thought it was the usual financial problem not until she started telling her story.
Below is her story:
"my father is not a poor man, my father is a rich man, he is a landlord. I have an elder stepbrother who is living big in Abuja and an elder stepsister who is married to a banker living comfortably in another state. My father married my mother (an orphan) at an old age after his first wife (who gave birth to my stepbrother and sister) died. My mother passed away while given birth to me; 9years after my birth, my father died. I was left solely under the care of my step brother . When I was in senior secondary school 2 , then I was 17years old, my stepbrother brought an old hausa man and demanded I should marry him; he said the man is very rich , and that if I marry him that the man will help him grow his business and that I will never regret it. I rejected his offer, i told him that I want to finish my education first. After numerous pressures from my brother to marry the man had fail, he angrily withdrew his financial aid on me, and warned me ever to call him on phone again. I want to stepsister to complain to her, but she told me the worst thing, she told me that am not her sister, that the only connection between us is our father, and that since our father is dead, their was nothing else connecting us. She advised me to marry who ever my brother wants me to marry."
"After so many trial to survive, I had to drop out from school. I had a boyfriend then(whom later became my husband) , he was young and still managing his life, he was doing business then, but the business wasn't flourishing as expected. Rather than die alone of starvation, he demanded I come live with him, which I accepted. This was how we started living together, and started bearing children."
"After many years of no communication with my step brother and sister, one afternoon , my step sister surprised me with a visit, she said she was able to trace me through some friends. She apologies to me for everything and promised to help sponsor my kids in school up to university level, and to help my husband financially with a sum of 3million. Although, I was glad to see her again after so many years, but her new attitude was strange. I asked her what is behind her sudden generosity to me. She want down on her knees in tear and starting begging me to help her bear children. She said all that was needed is few eggs from my ovary. I told her that even if I accept her offer, that my husband wouldn't allow that. She told me that the process will be a secret only between me, herself and her husband, and nobody else ought to know about it. After considering the tremendous offer she made to me, I accepted to help her without my husband knowledge. Later, during the weekend when my husband was home, she visited us again, brought a lot of foodstuffs and gave my husband the sum of 20,000naira, after which he demanded that my first daughter follow her to live with them, she even promised to do more. My husband unknowing the deal behind the generosity was astonished and wholeheartedly welcomed her. He sees everything as a miracle from God."
"After my husband had gone back to his work place, my stepsister and her husband came that morning to took me to a hospital , were an injection was given to me which made me lose consciousness, before I could regain myself, eggs had been collected from my ovaries and placed in a tube. The eggs were later on fertilized with the sperm of my stepsister's husband. After which the developing egg was implant into my stepsister's uterus. Everything was successful. My stepsister's husband gave me 30,000naira that day before I left the hospital. The baby started growing in my stepsister's womb, everyone was thanking God for finally given her a baby after 11years of marriage. She went for thanks given in the church. Nobody knew what happened, I kept my mouth shout as I had promised."
"Few months after the implant, I called her on phone to remind her of her own part of the deal, she told me she hasn't forgotten . That I should hold on until after she had delivered. I accepted. It's three and half years now after her successful delivery of a bouncing baby boy, yet nothing had been done for me. She had brought back my first daughter staying with her , claiming she is possessed by an evil spirit and making her son fall sick all the time. I have gone to her house several times demanding she fulfills her promise to me, but she kept telling me that she and her husband had no money, that they will help me whenever they got the money. The last time I called her on phone i pleaded on her to forget about the 3million she promised to give my husband, she should just sponsor my girls to university level as she promised, she threaten to arrest me and lock me up in prison if I continue to pester her life.."
"Right now , am scared, I don't know what to do. I can't go public because I don't want my husband to know, he will be devastated if he finds out I did such thing. My stepsister's son is growing up, he is fair like me (whereas my stepsister and her husband are dark in complexion). Anytime I see the boy, my heart jumps, I feel like am seeing my own son which I never had. I feel like I have been used and dump."
"Should I tell my husband what happened without minding how devastated he will be? Should I tell the whole world the truth of how my stepsister got pregnant without minding how it will affect the son? How can I make her pay for her wickedness toward me ? "
What do you think this woman should do?
Foolish woman indeed..Why didn’t she tell her husband from start?very dumb woman trusting her step whole heartedly,they should have paid 2m first at least before anything..well all the mumu can do now is first tell her husband then next threaten to expose her sister and then let her know the police is aware of her threats so she won’t be able to harm her and watch how fast her sis will pay her up with even more ontop
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..
Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.
The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary.. I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.
I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.
Mumu,i have no advice or sympathy to simps like you. Death to all simps
Smh..Kai mehnn see finish na bad thing o,your wife say you are irritating her and she even relocated and you gave her money to go and get fv.cked by other men who don’t irritate her?I pity you. And you are mumurishly doing celibacy while your wife is doing monkey style on someone’s dick in the east..sorry ehn ode
You and your wife need sense..I have no advise for weak ass men who are simps.I bet You noticed some of these her behaviors when dating but yet you overlooked them and married the lunatic so enjoy you wahala
Hanibbal: U.S is jealous because the hypersonic missile it is finding hard to launch and deploy North Korea is already mastering it
By now one would think they should be tired of these sanctions that don't produce results other than suffering for the innocent civilians but as usual...Carry on Kim, continue to pepper them.
Kai who do u this thing?sense farrrr from u sha o bro
This fool seems destined to fail o,u narrowly escaped trouble that ur stupidity and loose mouth caused u,Ud think u have learnt from that but obviously u still haven’t learnt still and ur loose mouth will be ur downfall
You see this reply guys?it’s a long story..when a girl says so that means na her fault and she probably got caught cheating and got served so when asked she wouldn’t want to say it..Well the good thing is u can still find love again sha it may not be as sweet as this one sha,and this time if u do,u better behave and do right otherwise na 3course meal them go serve u next not only breakfast
ukaface: mtcheeeew. This one don jump into conclusion on top story wey e no Sabi. Guys are always saints. What a mindset
Abegi that is probably what happened and she will come and be forming victim here..I’m speaking from experience,mine sef even told my mum and was saying since then I have been cheating non stop on her as if she na angel,I shock as de talk to my mama dey cry after me and her fight..your gender ehnn the good once’s no pass 5 again.
Mtcheeew once an olosho always an olosho..I just pity your kid..Anyway how far,I for like cum inside you too for national tv o but I no like puna wey de smell like fish fish so come and be going to Boma,na him de like fish puna
The self-righteous heterosexual man threatening me... How typical? I'm so scared...
What would you do? Rape me? Like you straight men do... It's almost a fine art with you folks...
You're sexually attracted to women... Yet you can't respect them... Only to treat them like your servants, demand sex!!! The lynch people who actually know how to love...
Rape You?youd like that wouldn’t you?SORRY,NOT EVEN IN YOUR WILDEST DREAMS WILL THAT EVER EVER HAPPEN.
First off I DONT RAPE women,Never had the need or urge to cos one, Iam NOT a rapist, secondly I have no problem getting laid whenever I make serious attempts, even if I get turned down by one, there will always be another to oblige my request. And also,YOU ARE NOT MY TYPE, I don’t f.u,ck Little girls who barely can count 5strands of pubic hair and bash their heads on the wall to relieve stress , Sorry I am attracted to sensible mature females ONLY no offense it’s not about you but honestly that’s how I am.
I am sexually attracted to women YES and women ONLY, I am a lover and I respect women, I would never physically harm a woman,Except in cases I may have to defend myself against an attack so NO I dnt treat women as slaves or lynch anyone who shows me love,never have and NEVER WILL,that’s NOT my style.
If your belief encourages you to lynch people your God created simply for the sake of their sexuality, forgetting the murderers, rapists, ritualists... Then curse your bloodthirsty God and fuçk you!
You've mentioned 'white' so many times... Don't project your inferiority complex...
Hateful being like you... So unlike Christ... The man who dined with tax collectors and the lowest in society, the most prosecuted... He didn't discriminate... He taught you to love, no matter how difficult it is...
The prostitute he forgave... The punishment then for them was death... Can you do the same? Can you go in the midst of prostitutes and gays? Love them for the sake that they are humans...
Don't preach to me... I know better how to be like your Christ than you...
The only people he criticized? The religious... The Pharisees, they were the highest order then... Because of your Jesus's hate for them, the word now means hypocrite... Your pastors, you think Jesus loves them more than the gays? I truly pity you...
He said, "What ever you do to the least of my brother's, that you do unto me"...
Keep killing... You can take gays out one at a time... Better still, follow in the footsteps of your Muslim brothers... Eradicate them all in the name of your God... Then burn in hell...
You are so so Stu.pid and fooli.,sh at the same time, don’t worry idi.ots like you always get to learn the hard way. Come on carry your smelly cu.nt and f.u,ck out of here..Community losers cum bucket
updatedws: Mr man u think u know it all... are u trying to say there are no bad fathers? stop thinking everyone's case is similar to yours
Nairaland is littered with stories of fathers impregnating their daughters. what's ur defence about such fathers?
there are bad father's and OP is likely a victim of one. stop generalizing and thinking u know it all.
and for u living on ur own and owning a car in ur 20s, thank ur stars. there are people who work hard day and night but find it difficult to make meaningful success for obvious reasons. this is Nigeria
time and chance bro. stop blowing ur trumpet and more importantly, stop thinking u know everyone's conditions
God bless you jare..that guy just de missyarn anyhow
dichvu: Well, i know i really fumbled right now. my mind and spirit have left the relationship already.
Pray for sense and balls in 2022 cos both are very very far from you..you better collect ur shop and send her packing from that shop and ignore those people telling you to free her,cos listen to me shop is different from phone o,if you let her stay then you are a confirm idiot and will mean you will get ready to see her anytime you come to see your mums shop and ofcourse you will see all the new guys f.u.cking her pus..sy your Choice man
GurlFriend: They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes
Abeg make we hear word jare..don’t come and transfer your aggression from your f.uc.k up to innocent men who are genuine,if you dated him for two good years and didn’t notice he was gay till days to your wedding then you should be mad at yourself and not men. You say you are done with men?who cares?na you go loose na and die lonely. How can you be with someone two years and didn’t see signs that he liked men?abi you blind ni? You make it sound like all men are gay cos you failed to notice what’s up with your man.
Better carry your aggression and anger back to your gay man and don’t even dare judging others based on your man’s lifestyle. Mtcheeew can you imagine?even trying to say men are scum as if all men are same with her man..incase you don’t know straight men who love Pu.s,sy are so much more than gays and not same at all,but ofcourse you didn’t notice just like you didn’t notice your man was gay for two damn years.
jmoore: Fabricated story to paint virgins as unfaithful. Fake story is mostly about a friend. When will you use your parents as characters in this type of virgin story?
A virgin woman has no previous experience. Therefore, her husband will be the only experience she knows. If a man marries a woman who is not a virgin, she will definitely keep comparing him to all her exes.
If you believe the op, you are gullible.
Exactly…Fabricated shit from someone who is jealous of virgins.
gift0123: Take his son? Do you think it's easy? Even if he struggles to take the son away from her do you think he will find it easy to train that child all alone?
She was willing to abandon the son before now so taking him wouldn’t be a problem cos seems she isn’t intrested in her own son. Well as for taking care of the boy and training,he must create time for the boy,it’s unfortunate he is in this situation,it needs to be done or he will die early as a result of living miserably
Rtk5: Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.
I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.
There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.
In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.
Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.
The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.
Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.
Better for you o, divorce her ASAP or be ready to die early..honestly I don’t even know why you have not left her since..take your son and love him and when the time is right he will understand why you had to leave his useless mum.
This same lady again??she made this post some days ago and Nigerians did their normal FBI thing and found out that her baby daddy who dumped her ass is the actual owner of this house she newly made claims to. This girl is really not ok sha,second time she is claiming people’s houses,I’m surprised this is just getting on NL..it was trending a bit some days ago na
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