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Jupxter:
My spirit keeps telling me its a lie, from the moment i opened the thread.

Truth is, if it wasn't very tight, Tosin it's a lie, no need painting it in shades of grey

RealPMer:
Okay real advice guys.
OpIf she was very tight when you penetrated then she's not lying.


Wasn't very tight .

RealPMer:
Ahn ahn.. This shouldn't be a problem now, only if you don't love her.

Always learn to embrace HONEST ladies and never let them regret telling you their past



How do I know if she's being honest? She even even made me promise not to talk about it again.

Jupxter:
No Tosin, if a lady was raped and din't have sex for a long time, it will be tight, very tight

Ishilove:
Cardiac arrest. He was probably unfit and over exerted the heart in order to impress his young and agile partner

madridguy:
A popular pastor of a Pentecostal church (name withheld) Mtchew

Road side journalism

I think it's the name of the parish that was withheld not the name of the church

lazinny:
Are you seriously asking this?? the only thing UC browser is good at is downloading. sucks at every other thing. I was glad when I read google removed it from playstore.
if you wanna enjoy chrome, use chrome based browsers like TUGA it has powerful adblock and many cool features, doubt if it's on playStore, just google it. you wont regret it.

nairamaniac:
I love UC. But recently I'm having problems downloading with UC.
When I try to download videos, it doesn't move at all in the downloading horizontal bar.

oluwaseyi000:
for me as a web programmer and software developer, chrome is not just the best, it is the only browser.

omoadeleye:
ADM for android, you will be surprised

omoadeleye:
No way bro, UC is not the king of download at all

Boxer007:
Brother.hello.pleasd can u suck dik good?

biacan:
so you Don wise

Before nko? I don wise up nah

Jupxter:
Tosin, i want to tell you a few things. One, a man may likely fall in love with a woman that has one " trait " a man hates, it's a testing oh. It's a test of character, to choose to walk away, or to endure and work on her, but it takes two to tango, most times people are not aware of their own conditions, and treating their issues would require some will power and commitment from them, what do you do if they don't agree? Can two work together if they don't agree?


While i advocate run from a woman with red flags, i also encourage patience, people are in phases many times, and character can be fixed. If a lady knows her weaknesses and admits them, don't throw such a lady away, a lady that refuses to acknowledge them is stuck in [b] " na so God do me, run from such"

Oyindidi:
He is right though

To some extent sha

Blonchilli:
Lol. Man could also mean female too as in 'MANKIND'

Assuming you made that comment on the first page, many guys will lash out to you

Jupxter:
I found myself with one....Haa Tosin, which kind question you ask me this afternoon?

Nobody wise finish now.. I'm already thinking if "10 Things" can come out of this little discussion

Blonchilli:
I'll also say what no man on nairaland will come out to say. Everyman is a potential rapist. Your father, your husband, your brother and even you and I. As a man you battle with your sexual urge every day. A girl comes to visit and refuse to have sex you're constantly battling the urge to storm to her and rip her pants out because she's in your house. A young girl (house help) is living with you and you see her in the morning when she just woke up and you have your early morning sexual urge and at night when she's wearing skimpy clothes (innocently). You just finish a conversation or come across something that gets you extremely Hot and you see Glory, the maid, looking fine with boobs, ass and you bet her pussy is just what you need right now or worse it could be a cousin who plays carelessly with you and you can bet it you can get down on her but you don't. You don't not because you can't but because you want to look at yourself in the mirror with a clear conscience and you're also a father or would become a father of a girl someday. You don't because you don't know what this little girl will become tomorrow and what she would say about her friend, uncle, guardian,father, brother, cousin who raped her. You don't because above all its the RIGHT thing to do. If people could live with THE RIGHT THING TO DO, the world will become a better place.
Oyindidi, tosyne2much, Lalasticlala, Mynd44

This one you objectified every man as a potential rapist ehn

Jupxter:
Tosin. I've been an admirer for the last two years and read your comments. E ti e me lo?

Never ever date let alone marry a woman with an untame tongue. It's in the scripture, an untame tongue is precautionary to deeper problems. Mark it, observe any lady with an untamed tongue will fall out of marriage even if she finds one. There are lots of good women to choose from, we need products of good homes.If you dig deeper, ladies with untamed tongue are products of an absentee father or fatherly figure. It has rooted so deep into them that making changes is difficult. Even for we guys, many don't throw out insulting words even when angry, i wonder why it's the norm with many ladies. Let them keep their rotteness for desperate men, there are better ones ahead if we are patient.

Jupxter:
It's too shameful to see a beautiful lady throw out curses. They feel it's normal. Though different ones have different character problems. They see it as a normal because that is the circle they were raised in. Chai. Even as a guy, i don't see myself acting without rational thinking. At worst, anger which everyone is prone to by some extent, but insults? Any lady that doesn't put her tongue, body and actions in check may find a man but won't last with him. Life ! If they find love, they will keep falling out of it, till they fix the defunct problem, character, tongue and actions

This is not my first time seeing ladies (educated the ones at that) throwing out curses and all sort of vulgar words that illiterate people normally use and the most surprising thing is that they usually blame it on "anger". ("you know say na so I dey do if I vex" this kind of attitude)

My brother, there's even one in my CDS that has defunct problem (mainly inability to tame her tongue). You need to see the way this girl lashes out to everybody at any slight provocation and it keeps me wondering the kind of man that would ever cope with such a lady. Nobody dey near her side ooo because she is always quick to lash out to anybody (both young and old) when her madness starts (a corper for that matter oooo )

I wasn't surprised when I was told yesterday that she married a very calm and gentle man but the man later sent her packing due to her wahala leaving her with only a son. She's now a single mother

Jupxter:
I agree. One of the features i look in a lady is her character. The character can't be hidden for too long. And character is a product of a lady's association and upbringing, we shouldn't invest too much time on people that are less-deserving. Spot ladies with issues, no need trying to save if there's unwilligness on her part to make changes, we need to move on. No time to check time bro. Wedding bells ringing soon. I can feel it

Your head too correct sha

Jupxter:
Too much wisdom in just one single post. Nice job Tosin.

Once a relationship isn't stable, it's best to cut the chase and move on ! No need to wait back and wish, and hope. It's unwise to waste emotions and energy on fruitless relationships.

The oP should learn from the expreiences of the relationship and get the next one right

ultimate77:
I see sense in your response.... She told me ones that non of her ex treats her the way I do.
Like non of them. Gives her advice, non even asks if she prays, non ever cookd, all they do is take her out, and don't care about other parts of her life.
And I do all that. But still wonder why she can't just let pride and hauty responds off.