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Spaxon:
Yeah

Whatsup u ain't posting ur ten things to do updates again unlike 2014, 2015 when u posted like twice a day

Oooops.. I'm trying to get back at my feet

I should drop one tomorrow sha

ubunja:
stay away from single mothers
stop rewarding the loose ones

Bro, this doesn't make sense

Are you trying to say that single mothers don't deserve marital fulfillment?

Spaxon:
wow. That's lovely

It's good he knows she has a kid outside... Than finding out after the marriage..
I believe the lady did right... Mm


I booked the last space..... Lol....

LTC

obataokenwa:
I was surprised the day my girl told me her happiest moment is whenever I'm angry and mad at her. She loves seeing me angry and cautioning her while I always feel guilty after every annoyance....from that day I knew she intentionally makes me angry...

A times she will cook rice and refuse to prepare stew knowing fully well I will soon be back just to see me angry and shout...


I weak for girls matter.

Some ladies programmed in such a way that they don't value responsible but irresponsible men.

Imagine a scenario when you as a graduate woo omo alata girls, they will surely take you for granted and will rather channel their attention to garage boys who know how best to handle them in a local way . That's exactly how some ladies are

Jupxter:
One thing that astonishes me is our character, it's not a woman problem, we pray to God for a kind of person, somehow we meet them, when we meet them, we don't do what we ought to do, when things start deteriorating or the opportunity has passed, we remember the person was exactly what we prayed for. We start rushing to make amends because we were blinded all through the relationship lasted. We become victim of missed opportunities and chances. It has happened to me twice so i know it's an issue that affects both genders. We need to be smart in relationships so we can make the right calls at the right time, other we soon fall out of love even after finding it.

On the other hand, people are victims of their past relationships, my next one will seal the deal i'm sure. But i'll ask how many past relationships have you been in. Once it's more than 5 i may bounce, many of these ladies have been spoilt and damaged by their past relationships and tag along with them, one would end up dealing with alot of needless baggage !

Jupxter:
They see abuse as the norm,which is why when they meet a gentleman, they feel like i don't deserve such niceness. What is it? What does he see in me? What does he want to do with me? But one attribute of nice guys is they have sharp eyes and see what other guys don't see in a lady. They don't just understand. Any lady that has this issues should be left alone, they've been bastardized by the bad guys in their past relationships and no matter how nice they're treated, they want to return home, " to receive the bad guy's treatment". Leave them bro when we see such species, let them go, imagine going through 7 men and all seven are bad, and the eight treats the lady nice, it will feel unnatural, like he wants her for her goodies, money, beauty, sex and whats not. In the end, the good guy if he tarries a bit, will find a lover that would reciprocate all his acts of love and gentility. This is how it has always been !Every one with what works for him/her !

This is where you nailed it bro... Sometimes, I do not blame guys who treat ladies badly because some ladies'characters actually warrant such treatment. I have personally come across ladies who say they can only be handled by guys that can use resounding slap to call them to order

Nice guys are mostly taken for granted for their calmness and gentility and that's why ladies often take advantage of many of them

walepackage:
that was when a lady i met in benue also told me if a man has never hit her during the period of dating, its a sign that he dnt really love her.I was like'you mean it'.Some of these ladies are just confuse, or due to their past abusive relationship which has reshape their thinking faculty to see it has normal.Thou,i dont support 'weakling' as a man,you should react to some certain issue but dont hit,abuse or inflict physical pain to her.If she didnt apprechate you for who u are, someone else will do.

ammyluv2002:
It doesn't make sense to spend 2 years of one's life just like that....I won't subscribe to it!

vicben27:
a real man should naturally know how to calm his woman down with some level of psychological/emotional control. infact it should be both ways. the love you both shear should be proportional. if you show a woman you , women are different if she the understanding n well behaved ,then it won't be necessary. it should only be done if you notice some adnormalises.

IamKashyBaby:


Uummm..

Juz let me read all the comments coming from these men

So what's your own input on the matter?

JayKayMaybachz:
Some links don't even download with ucweb browser sef

That's why I love adm

The way you people talk about ADM ehn, seems I will give it a trial ooo

vicben27:
E be like say you never understand women! man women are complicated beings, a relationship where is all sweet without let it exceed that very day! it will help you understand her better! above all there is no standard formats or formula wen it relationship. different stuf works for different folks

But what if you purposely initiate a quarrel but her reaction is what you never bargained for?

fuckboys:
please brother, I can see you use chrome alot, please how do I save images from nairaland in chrome. When I download them, i don't see them as images in my gallery it's was in an unkown format. How do I go about it?

Khonifer:
Lol... This one is madness

My man is calm and gentle and respectful and I like him that way biko. Before somebody will comman be formin dominant nonsense on top my head

Sunnyshinylight:
Some of society wedding forget it, there is what is called inordinate affection, if you are not trained on how to live life, there is no way you can stay in marriage. After sex, attitude resurface,after Creator and ensure you stay at his house Always..

BiggyB242:
When you find yourself in so many abusive relationship, you finally thinks that's the norm.

Many MATURED ladies are looking for you type of person, don't become a monster because you want to impress a lady.

This is where you nailed it man.. When a lady is already used to being treated like poo, no matter how much you try to shower her with love and affection, she won't still appreciate it.

It's just like clothing a pig in nice attires, it will still seek solace in the mud

ammyluv2002:
I like this....but then, the FG should scrap the NYSC for this to make full sense.

kay29000:
I don't know o! Women are so complicated. I can never forget this girl I liked so much (as a friend) back in my teen days. She had this guy that used to beat her anyhow. One day, I saved her from the guy's beating, and she was so thankful and all. The next day, I saw her on Okada with the guy, holding tightly to the guy and smiling. I swear, the Gala I was eating fell out of my mouth.

It is like that movie, The Last American Virgin... The virgin guy helped the girl get an abortion when her 'bad boy' boyfriend abandoned her. He cared for her till she got better, and the next thing he knew, she was back with the bad guy at the end. Men! The nice guy cried his eyes out. The movie was actually based on a true story. Most women don't like nice guys. #Fact


To be honest, I don't understand women, and I am not trying to understand them. I would rather try to understand money better.

Hahahaha

I have friends who treat their girlfriends harshly and I know how these ladies humble and submit themselves and this keeps me wondering my brother.

From my own little experience too, being a "Mr nice guy" sometimes does not keep a relationship

seunadebisi:
hurry nw bcuz lalasticlala is on his way

kay29000:
From experience, I have noticed that most girls don't like nice guys. It is almost like they want to be treated like shit. But when a girl treats them badly, they come online to say all men are scum. I just don't understand women sometimes.

Iamfrank:
One funny tin u dnt know about women is dat dey love dominant men, men wu r always in charge... Wen I started dating my gf, I always hv a say abt everything in d relationship, I got tired at sum point thinking am just controlling her anyhow until sh said sh likes me like dat n a woman should b under her man.... Bro dnt form sisi for a gal, dey hate it alot.. I hv sum female frnds wu says dey can't date a guy wu dnt beat dem(not saying u shud beat her).. Try exhibit dat manly trait n c how sh will love u endlessly...