₦airaland Forum

Dhotseal:
Please quit being so bitter and strive to be the bet you can. What have u achieved by dragging your pastor to NL for other like minded haters like you to have a field day.

Be warned, the part of bitterness ends in pains and agony.

shineeye1:
OP's experience is commonplace in our churches today - unfortunately!!! That man should be anything but a pastor. Leadership in churches today has followed the worldly patterns where they act as overlords over God's flock. I have always said that personal success is a necessary but not sufficient qualification for leadership - especially spiritual leadership. A leader is a man who replicates and multiplies his personal success in his followers through painstaking mentoring, not making a showoff of his personal success. Braggarts are not leaders. The measure of your leadership success is determined by how many followers of your quality or higher quality you can produce.

Nov6:
i think i agree with you... "only the ones with low self esteem"

Narldon:
Tosyne2much..

Job don show oo

Dnockeror333:
Wonderful man... Wallai, this just did justice to our rest...! Come chest me!

SACI:
Dat one na issue.u guys have different homes.... today is Chuka's home, tomorrow it's Segun's

lepasharon:
Eyya. Is that all that makes you prideful?

Nickymezor:
Yawns

djgrafiti:
Oaths with the bible indeed,ur sister and the guy need two jobs...nonsense,what does a 17 yrs old know about relationship let alone marriage.....abeg who get Nokia 3310 battery.

SnowJay92:
Was reading in awe, one was even quoting 3k daily for feeding, meaning they'd be ordering in everyday? This our generation shaa, and some will get carried away by these Internet standards.

rash47:
happened to me twice,the lack of money then quench the little confidence I needed to make things work,so painful I couldnt handle things properly they both walked away...ohhh Mr money where are though. From those experience I learnt a great deal.

blip:
You can have an income of 450k and it will never be enough depending on the type of woman you marry. I'll simply say marry a lady who knows how to manage your finance well and is not an exorbitant spender.

Bigsteveg:
This your analysis is outrageous!
Do you even know what u are saying?
Cloths every month 50k?
family 100k?...are u their lord and saviour
food 3k every day? una no dey cook


Na wah o

iamrealdeji:
tosyne I used to think you're intelligent. and who told you secondary school students don't sleep around,rape,etc? what is stopping you from marrying now so that you wouldn't chase anything in skirt or raping around? leave bachelors alone and go into marriage if you want to. marrying early or late has nothing to do with creating nuisance or whatever. everybody has his own plans. to some,a 24 year old guy must be married,to some,a 26 year old guy marrying is late marriage,different strokes for different folks