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Imstrong:
In summary they become reasonable and get better understanding as they age, imagine a lady about to marry a struggling man and she was asked"emeka is just coming up ooh he is not fit to settle down o“she replied 'I don't care whether he lives in the store we will start from there and succeed in life' but seriously it's really not funny for them at that stage, family and social pressures sets in I think is better not to succumb to them

You're very right brother

Nickymezor:
my own no dey dere o.

Make you dey deceive yourself, sotigbo?

skarlett:
I just came to wish the op happy birthday

Oooooh thanks dearie.

mrdreams:
I tire for this babe own o

No mind am jawe baba

An 80 year old man? Oma se oooo

And they keep deceiving youths that they are the leaders of tomorrow

Lashort:
Not entirely but it does. I'm 15 BTW

No wonder.. You're still viewing life from ignorance perspective.. When maturity sets in, you will read your comments on this very thread and will remember you were only arguing out of childishness

Lashort:
I don't know anyone who's hardworking and yet broke but I'm yet to discover them today

It depends on your occupation when your mates choose maths and science you opted for something easy innit? Then you'll keep working small small jobs and see no reward from them and who's to blame for that? Nobody but yourself

So the course someone studies determines how rich the person will be in life right? How old are you?

Esepayne:
me nor dey the same page with you bros

So you no fit date broke guys like us abi?

Iamdmentor1:
Made your day around 12am? Happy birthday! Hope I made your night

Yes you also made my night bro

Where are those feminists always clamoring for gender equality?

Esepayne:
and who is talking about rich dude here

We are still on the same page

Esepayne:
I cannot, in fact God forbid, have done it before i was even the one supporting and he later cheated on me with my friend. I can't, I can't, I can't, God forbid

And what gives you the impression that if you throw yourself at a rich man, he won't do the same?

There are still ladies that believe in the dream of a man no matter how broke he is, just that they're already going into extinct

You already have everything in this world if you have a woman that stands by you despite your financial incapacitation

Nickymezor:
Hmmmmm, very funny...Quite true sha.

So which category do you belong?

Nairalanders, today is my birthday.. Please show me some love

[quote] In this part of the world, especially Nigeria, no matter how pretty and career oriented a lady is, when she gets to a certain age yet unmarried, the pressure to get married is mounted on her by parents (mothers especially) as well as the society who places negative stigmas on unmarried ladies.

This is the period when frustration and circumstances usually coerce many of them into considering men that are below their class or status.

Without wasting time, below are the categories of men ladies normally consider as husbands out of martial pressure.

1. Conductors/Vulcanizers/ Okada Men

In as much as I don't want to discriminate against these categories of people, the urge to get married borne out of impatience sometimes make educated ladies consider men that are below their class or status. When their friends and younger ones are already married, they become uncomfortable at home and will do anything to make sure they also leave their parents house too. This urge sometimes lead them into the hands of danfo drivers, vulcanizers, okada men, etc

2. Promiscuous Men/ Baby Daddies

Many will agree with Tosyne2much that most arrogant ladies usually become so cold and humble when they are due for marriage. This is the period of humility when they treat men with fairness and wouldn't hesitate to give listening ears to guys they would have bashed when they were still the hottest girls in town. This is when pride is thrown to the wind and will embrace any man that shows interest in them. They may consider baby daddies/ polygamous men, in a bid to bear the status of married women

3. Thugs/ Area Boys

This may sound funny, but it's very true. We have seen cases when ladies usually go for men that are below their class or status due to due the fact that they have chased good guys away out of ignorance and insatiable desires. When they are getting aged and no guy is proposing, they see any man as husband material not minding if he's below their class. They may consider thugs or area boys as husbands out of the marital pressures.

4. Stingy Men

As we all know that most ladies, if not all, ladies have stingy men and will never consider them as husbands but when too much peer pressures and intimidation set in, that's when fate recommend husbands for them. Even if they find men that have PhDs in stinginess, they will embrace him. This is just to bear the status of "being married" and start their family too.

5. Abroad Based Guys

Most ladies that are overdue for marriage are usually obsessed with abroad based guys and may use fetish means to bring these men home. At this stage, they become very active on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram just to increase their chances of finding future partners . They accept request from random men and are quick to give out their contacts. This is due to the fact that they stand a chance to travel abroad if these men marry them.

6. Men with Low Financial Status

When a lady is due for marriage, her perception about marriage changes and she stops talking about her disgust for broke men. This is the period when they no longer talk about elaborate wedding and aso ebi, and are ready to start from the scratch with a man. This reminds me of a lady, out of martial pressures, wanted to lure me (Tosyne2much) to bed and trap me down with pregnancy, despite the fact that that she knows that I can't boast of one square meal a day let alone feed another woman.

7. Over-aged Men

Some parents (mothers) are not helping matters and will frustrate the hell out of their daughters to marry a rich and wealthy man who has spoken to them about their interest in their daughters. They force their daughters to marry this men for selfish reasons even if these men are Buhari's age grade.

8. Men with Small Joysticks

Many may laugh at this, but believe me, it's the very true. Sometimes, ladies consider settling down with men with tiny joysticks or men who can't even last up to thirty seconds in bed , unlike before that they ridicule and discriminate against men that are not good in bed. These ladies will always say that they will sex is not food, so, it shouldn't be a criteria for choosing a man.

9. Uneducated Men

Most educated ladies always want their men to be more educated than them but things like this no longer counts when the urge to get married is being heaped on them. At this point, they wouldn't mind settling down with a man even if has a degree in "Lion Rearing" or "Snake Hunting". Even if the guy is a drop out, they will say that love is all that matters not a degree.

10. Gamblers/ Football Bet Addicts (Virtual, aja n sare, 1960, Baba Ijebu, etc)

Despite the stereotype ladies place on men that are bet addicts, some ladies may even consider these men as husbands out of martial frustration. They hold firmly unto these men with the hope that he will one day will millions and send these bet companies packing.

Ladies, please make hay while the sun shines. Playing kites good men will later haunt you. Don't treat men rudely because you think you've got so many toasters. If you do, you may find yourself in any of these categories

I drop my pen at this juncture

Feel free to add yours

Written by: Tosyne2much



http://www.tosyne2much.com/2017/04/10-categories-of-men-ladies-consider-as.html

Make person borrow me Chinese rubb abeg

The first picture tho.. Make I no talk before dey call me Commissioner for Woman Affairs

Olu317:
So, today is your birthday!. Happy birthday bro. Long life, fulfilled dream and established sound health is yours by the grace of God.



Enjoy your day.

Cheers

Thanks for the wishes brother mi

Olu317:
Assumption isn't what I postulated because I made reference to certain things OONI OGUNWUSI did in London, which need adjustment and remain as fact. Irrespective of the flaw that you see, which is POSSIBLE, with due respect to your opinion. Whether it is an assumption or a reality the reason for this issue will soon come out in one way or the other to public domain. And when it did come out, kindly do me a favour of informing my school of thought on the reason. My reason for this is because I am a humble Learner.

Now I know better bro.. I didn't even know you were the one I quoted

Phunkyposh:
Tosyne .....Happy birthday....My friend from since ....Good boy back then


Wish you your utmost desires

Tosyne you friend since the days of 2go

BTW, when last you enter 2go?

MDCCCXXXII:
Tosyne Tosyne, how market? Happy Birthday oh. Enjoy your day.

Hope you'll open a thread about Ten Types of Birthday We Have In Nigeria.

Be like say I go open the thread this evening baba

CyberGypsy:
guy ! no dey lie, you code this girl nih.. yiu don programme am with better C++

Code wetin? Baba no whine me oo

legendte:
Abstinence remains the best solution.

OP your ways are hunting your mind.

90% of Nigerian youths are always scared of test.

What's your problem if they include or do it in the moon or sun?

Abi you want go manipulate am for private hospital.


Say No to amorous life because the 30 minutes enjoyment doesn't worth it.
Modified: The advice is for everyone including me.

Hahahahaha.. People are coming for your head

I wish some Nairaland ladies can do this just to inspire other ladies, but they won't

Deeypeey:
I tot OP said "Graphic Pictures" ..all I can see is a piece of liver that is ready to be roasted...hehehehehe
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Happy Birthday to me..show some luv guyz
cc Tosyne2much...happy bday too brodha...and every celebrant of the day...love y'all

Happy Birthday my birthday mate.. May we live to enjoy great things of life

Olu317:
Trade caution my dear, because, no one know the reason OBA OF LAGOS did such although there is no smoke without fire. It can't be ordinary for the OBA OF LAGOS to have been bittered in his HEART. I am tempted to believe, ILE IFE CRISIS could be one of the reason, if a Yoruba king was arrested at ILE IFE by DSS for not directly involved in a fight between YORUBAS and HAUSAS . Ooni's voice is too diplomatic over this issue. OONI isn't outspoken as he ought to be. No Emir or any Islamic leader as such can be arrested for crime committed in his jurisdiction without him being participant. It is totally despicable that it is happening in a era of a man, Yoruba massively voted in as President. And up till now, no known Fulani herdsmen marceneries have been arrested or jailed as need be. It seem OONI OGUNWUSI doesn't know his role as SUPREME KING OF YORUBA. Perhaps, OBA of LAGOS isn't happy about his role in the issue at ILE IFE. It baffles me to see or bring out any sane reason, OBA OF LAGOS, will do such a thing without any concrete reason. OOni need set up and be more proactive to his calling. So, was the other time, OONI went to LONDON to collect tithe or offering in a church. This is totally out of BOUND for him. OONI can bow to GOD but collection of offering or tithe doesn't MEAN OONI IS HUMBLE. Infact ,money is the root of all Evil. However, it may be another issue but I truly don't expect such attitude from OBA OF LAGOS is outrightly unacceptable in YORUBA LAND irrespective of OONI's action in recent times.

Bro, this your assumption is flawed

Loisemm:
Immaturity at its peak. There are subtle ways to greet people politely even without shaking hands. His countenance was so off like they had a quarrel before. As Kings, always try to maintain public decorum na. Haba.

He wanted to form "I old pass you" but he has brought upon himself public disgrace

adaksbullet:
are u mind the op? These op his suffered infinity compress has his no trusted his wive and his father



Bus op, am no u we die soon cos off whot u are thinks too ur wive and ur father in law


U are an shame too brotherhood.... We deson u!!!!

May God have mercy on him

mrmrmister:
This guy again.
You're really insecure.
Honestly, You shouldn't be married.

The thing tire me bro.. BTW, thanks for the wishes

What a ridiculous thread.. Baba, what motivated you to come up with this kind of thread?

CyberGypsy:
how i wish a bitçh can stay awake just to wish me happy birthday .. that kinda girl can give you her life saving + her kidney

Shey you sef don see say better babes still dey Nairaland?

If a friend can go to this extent just for ordinary birthday, imagine if she be your wife