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SIRmanjar:
Nice writeup I agree with sum of ur point but I disagree with number one..Helping a frend ad borrowing a frend money has broken strong frendship more than any other thing and am telling u this based on experience..

A frend meet me for a bizness loan I borrowed him the money,,he promised to pay up within six month..omo before I know waa gwan six month turn to 2 good solid years and to make matters worst he started dodging me ad my calls.And the bizness was making profit o.
To cut the story short when I changed it for him the money fell out by force,after that he accused me of impatience..We ended our 16 years frendship becos of money..Many People regret helping frends at times even relation.
And again hadid bin I was a weakling am sure the guy would have sent assassins against me or poison me when I mounted pressure on him to pay me back..So ur number 1 reason would have led to numbr 8.Frends have killed frends that borrowed them money they don't wanna pay back.

Why depend on ur frend?abi dint ur frend hussle from scratch na mostly lazy man dey sleep wake up depend on frend.

Some friends can be so desperate though. If we are talking about people borrowing money and refusing to pay, I think that should be a story of other day.

But on the issue of friends helping each other, I think that should be the basis of friendship. Any friend that can't help you when in need is not just worth it. It has nothing to do with you depending on your friend or something. So we can't base our conclusion to cease helping people because money actually dissociated you from your courteous friend. I also have a friend that has the same trait as your friend. Anytime he borrows money, it's always a thug war of contest getting your money back.

You can't survive alone without the help of at least someone. And I believe friends should be in the best position to give assisting hands to who they call their friend but recently, the people you call your friends are enemies in disguise of friends.

Happy Sunday bro

Crixina:
Sometimes one can't just fathom how these things happen.

I'm telling you bro

ITbomb:
Why all of them dey get the same face

It has always got me wondering too

saasala:
If this thread no reach fp, call me bastard

Everybody know say e go enter FP nah

teemy:
healthwise though, the breast should be cleaned up after daddy-feeding before baby-feeding. a pair of breasts produces enough for twins. factory production is based on demand. it would be enough for both the little and big baby. wink*

Hahahahaha funny u

Mubbyleey:
light skinned ladies always get problems sha.

They will soon be here for you bro

Juliearth:
I feel you bro. These were the signs my ex friends exuded and I did not think twice to distant myself from them. A friend that cannot be happy about my success and be there for me in my trying time is a foe. Fie! #saynotofoes

I'm glad you took that decision

lazygal:
Your point is right however I beg to disagree on the part where u stated that they dominate conversationss. There are aom people who just love to dominate conversations either vecasue they feel they know it all or simply like notice ,this however doesn't make them bad friends

It's not that dominating conversation actually makes them bad people, but the truth is that you should always be mindful of people who always stand on their right even though they know they're wrong

godquality:
If these are your reasons then you never come across enemies of progress. Just thank your Star and pray you don't ok. But the reasons stated here are more like secondary schools friends enemies of progress situation.

A bad person can go to the length of acting like a secondary school just just to bring you down.. Ooooh! You think enemies of progress only act like university students?

Haxine:
lolzz.. Dat wrapper things dey vex die.. gurl of under 20 dey wear wrapper mtcheeew

No be only you the thing dey vex baba

Phinity318:
enemies of progress wateva u af plan on me, my famz, and my fellow landerz...Jez know that tosyne2mush gat his eyez on ya.Ur harm kole werk on us

We've got our eyes on them ooo bro

OGsteven:
That are called frenemies and they kill you fast than your enemies..... It better to keep a very small circle

Keeping a small circle is much more better. A good friend is better than 100 enemies

solasoulmusic:
I totally agree with the points you raised

Thank you very much dear.. I hope our quarrel has now been settled?

Diplomaticbeing:
The Difference between people of noble class and those of small-minded class is that while the former hardly have more than one friend - of course with multitudes of associates, proteges and mentors - the latter class has multitudes as friends - in reality, those he assumed friends out of ignorance of not knowing what constitutes a friendship are indeed his enemies. . . Frenemy ish. More on this small-minded class people, they hardly have associates, proteges and mentors because they lack understanding.

Nobel people builds their hope and future around their ambitions not around friends while small-minded people always build their future around other human beings, thus the reason why you'll always hear them whine about disappointments.

There's everything wrong to have hope on a fellow mortal. But there's nothing wrong in hoping that fellow mortals can be of help to you in times of need.

That's very good bro

aderosh:
The impact friends have made in my life ,i just have to distance myself from them.

My sister you're not alone

queendoreez:
Please ignore your friend, just like i did to mine. Do not get discouraged. All you need to do is have a plan and stick to it. 90% of Nigerians are very selfish and want others to always look up to them while they "form bosses".

The truth of the matter is that, though, it may not be easy to survive there but not to the extent at which Nigerians exaggerate it.

boiz2men:
i never start sef... if i begin yab... u sef go give 10 reasons why guys yab girls.. na advice i dey advice am..

Egbon, you really finish work ooo

ZarZar:
Lol, say nothing, cutie pie

You know why I think you're the cute? Because you literally are! You have that innocent, sweet boy nextdoor look

It's not that I have that sweet boy innocent look, I'm actually a sweet innocent dude

Synord:
Contact a lawyer first.. if possible, get one of the eye witnesses to accompany you and corroborate your claim..

Do u have access to this truck driver ?? if so, contact him also because he is a prime witness..

Make sure what the driver ,witness and yourself write includes the part of the police officer dragging the car with them..

If possible, engage in a conversation challenging them about the report of the eye witness and carefully record it on your mobile..

if also possible, request to see the dpo himself of the office as he may be more ready to deal with any officer involve and ensure your car gets back to position !!!

Nice one bros

Tajbol4splend:
Hmmm, I feel like make I give u one Klitchko punch

Baba you wan comot my jaw be that ooo baba

Haxine:
That Moment when she starts wearing wrapper up and down...

Hahaha can't stop laughing

naturalwaves:
Wow, col. male or female? Most people always end up taking my bottle, making me go buy another one.

A male ni ooooo.. We call him ashawo guy

BTW, I'm yet to see your mail bro

ZarZar:
I think tosyn2much is cute lol. No, I don't want him. I just think he looks adorable.

Oooooh!! What can I even say?

Mine was shorthand.. Writing 120 words per minute wasn't an easy task.. Thank God it has all become a story

naturalwaves:
CASABLANCA....the white bottled one. So light and cool with a unique fragrance. That has been my trademark perfume for close to 10 years now.

That's what my friend uses too.. I like the unique fragrance sha

salford:
my village people indeed. dem hold me for work seriously. Thank God they have released me sha..mid to late 2000 was tough....i remember how i cried the first time i burnt my palm with the big mac toaster..that shit hurt so bad or my dishwasher job at man united, i did that shift once before i ran..i have never seem so many plates in my life..... ..I miss the UK sha..

I remember a particular night shift at walmart. Everyone sat at my desk at lunch about 8 of us were engineers from different countries.. we joked about setting up our own consultancy inside walmart . Two of us moved on to security job and some other to care jobs. These jobs were heavenly compared to walmart jobs....

Eyes have seen despite being legal in these countries..I thank God sha cos i finally broke even...i cant imagine what ilego go through in these countries.

You don suffer no be small bro

Tajbol4splend:
So when you have grown up, have you attempted to ask why they said so?

Na joke I dey joke bro

queendoreez:
bebe2, bless your heart for this post.

I know a lot of people who discourage people from moving abroad. Recently i had a chat with 1 of my friends, he's in Singapore, and i discussed with him about migrating abroad, and he was like "You can't make it abroad", "taxes are killing us here", "bills are too much here" etceteras. But the next minute, he's like "I have just built a student hostel off campus in FUTO", "I just wired 300k to my mum last week", "I wire 200k to my girlfriend in Nigeria every week for her make-up" etceteras.

Well, i have made up my mind to migrate out of this "hell" called Nigeria. I have filed in my papers, waiting for my permits. And the last thing that will happen to me is to get discouraged by any Nigerian in diaspora.

Nigerians in diaspora, make una fear God!!!

Can you just imagine? SMH

Each time I talk to my friend in New York about my interest in traveling out of the country very soon, he will start telling me how hard it is to survive abroad and how tax is killing. He tells me how Nigerians roam about the streets helplessly just to discourage me

boiz2men:
It appears you are so full of demeaning statement.... My problem with you is how you are not seeing how horrifying you look.... Your ugliness was rescued a little by your artificial make up ... if not, you would have been so devastating in looks and appearance.... Do you have broken mirrors at home cos you would pass as the very definition of UGLY. if oxford dictionary was to define ugly, your face would serve as a perfect illustration.

Just yesterday, you said the dark twin was unfortunate being dark... yet u have a pacific ocean for a stomach. I noticed you had to change your dp cos u figured your GP tank stomach was horrible to sight. You must think you current dp is any better.... if anything, its better now that you have concealed your pacific ocean with a wide gown... But am sorry theres notthing you caan do to your face.. its a horrid sight to behold... i threw up looking at you face.. How can someoone be so ugly?

Bros please take it easy

kuuljay:
with this your amoeba face with hockey sticks legs naim you dey call somebody ugly

Nawa ooooh

chronique:
Ok. It would cost him just 90k to fly on that jet so it's not so much of an issue. His folks should advice him to spend the money carefully though.

How did you arrive at the conclusion of 90k?

Just curious

ikombe:
Baba i have always known you as sumone who has something to say

But this one pass me this night