₦airaland Forum

solasoulmusic:
dude bashing a particular sex is not the truth what you are doing is adding to the problem your addressing stereotypes already infused in society that people that make mistakes in life should be left alone and looked down upon and not find happiness because your not happy.

im not even bothered but decided to just speak my mind to you today your not God everyone has their soulmate what your doing is just showing just how incredibly shallow you really are your type go marry chain for ground

You think because I'm bold enough to confront you in somehow frustrated my dear unlike you I don't spend my time trying to pretend like I know it all be willing to learn in life that your prejudice will always show in the fine print

You're just coming up dear... Come up with a better punch line.. I need you to bash me to the point of deactivating

Make it hot this time

It's a very bad thing for a lady to have numerous body counts.. Well sha, most ladies are as guilty as this lady,. However, every lady has a cockroach in her cupboard, just that it only becomes a news if people see it

solasoulmusic:
Yes until married I'm single but between both of us who is trying to hard to sound smart but really comes of as a judgements and a little biased against women so men are no longer frustrated

If you got paid self I would understand na income but to make it your mission to keep talking about women we will know when you meet one nothing go commot

I can see how pained you towards this subject matter.. I speak then truth no matter how ugly it is... Whether I was paid to do that or not, that should not bother you, you know? At least I'm not complaining

solasoulmusic:
Sorry that your jilted marraige must be clouding your judgement you must think everyone is as desperate as you writing articles at least I'm single and silent

I don't even know you but have been reading NR your bitterness towards women is too much

Once again, I can see how frustrated you are towards getting married... You don't need to tell me you're single before I know.. Sorry ehn! God will soon listen to your prayers

solasoulmusic:
If you spent the time you spend writing articles actually making a difference around you ... you won't be so judgmental

Eeeehyah! I feel your pains... Don't worry you will soon find a man that will propose to you... Pele sotigbo?

solasoulmusic:
Don't be so intimidated by a woman with wisdom that you would feel the need to give me a whole new gender

You're just a very funny person.. Make I just dey look you sha

solasoulmusic:
So because of my opinion you have to call me bro ?

I don't blame you should have kept walking

Hahaha.. Sorry I referred to you as 'bro'.. It was a mistake

Humility017:
Lol...abeg pretend not to see us ooo
it will be a great thing... to have a good friend from your thread on nairaland.
don't u think so?

I will be a thing of joy to me if you find your wife on my thread

Humility017:
let me know if you have seen it so that I can delete it

Make I pretend like say I no see you baba

pweeryambre:
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Hmmmm.. I'm just speechless

Bumbae1:
Yes pressure is the main reason we just settle to avoid anymore agro

When konji wan finish you and you don't want to sleep around, na marriage go dey your mind

fotosmith01:
mention 1 man u know way no dey any of this category

You nah I know you no dey any of the categories

pweeryambre:
Mr Tosyne.. what if a lady was hardworking and very humble, became rich and made life a lot easier for her family and close friends but still decided to not marry but want to have a baby or adopt and raise them by herself, wouldnt that be considered as an achievement on some levels...
and if it's so why don't you create more topics on stuffs like these to broaden the minds of people in this part of the world... since you are aware the society in this part of the world are so closed minded when it comes to women and marriage that they would prefer bashing unmarried ladies to the point of them committing suicide or living a miserable life which is very wrong.
Please create threads on something new and not Re-inforcing the old and usual tales of desperate single ladies that we already know about.

I leave it up to you to come up with topics that will enlighten the close-minded society as regards women and marriage

solasoulmusic:
i couldn't care less about a society that isn't just and fair to all talk less of unmarried women

Nothing can change it bro.. I pray you don't find yourself in this circumstance

lefulefu:
iyam expecting a counter thread

I know ladies will be planning their own too

BoosBae:
Number 6 is so true!

A lady's perception about marriage changes when she's due.
All the tall, dark and handsome talk will slowly die down in her head
What about the naira loaded talk?? She'll start saying "as long as the guy can take care of me, I'm okay, he doesn't have to be rich" Lol

The hustle for "husband" when you're due is real.

I admire your sincerity dear

Imstrong:
these external pressures can cloud their judgements or reasonings and can influence a wrong decision that's the point am trying to make here at the end I suggested they shouldn't succumbed to it, am not ruling out a personal desire to marry who am I to fight nature? Without that humanity will not be sustainable, that personal drive, urge, desire will always be there else humanity is doomed I know where you are coming from we are talking about a particular age where funny enough the society wants to help out when a lady is not taking decisions on time as expected I hope you got my points?

May God bless your reasoning bro.. In this part of the world, a woman becomes a subject of mockery and pity when she refuses to get married

lovethchioma:
Tosin Marriage is not an achievement. I disagree.
How can you say marriage is an achievement for the ladies? oh gosh...
OK what Is an achievement for the men?

Let's take men out of this.. Whether you agree or not, our society places so much emphasis on marriage, which invariably makes it one of the greatest achievements of a lady. Remember we are talking about "Nigeria'' not Yankee

Cleopatra4:
I guess you went through my profile that is why you have the guts to call me a child. God why you give me baby face na. Anyways you know better. If I prefer big joystick is it your business? I guess you are one of them with small joystick. Please don't spoil my morning for me ooo!

Eeehyah.. Sorry dear.. May you find a man with a pleasurable joystick

solasoulmusic:
I have dated a Well to do guy have also dated a hardworking guy honestly your topics are a little biased nothing like frustrated choice it marriage nowadays people conceal a lot

And you get what you give in life

I see nothing wrong with people going for people who have had failed relationships or children don't be immature who says that single guy wont hurt you as well.

Take your time some of us are in no rush the decision is for the rest of your life plan to live long by Gods Grace once someone admits they resent you....whether na argument leave that union.

Tear rubber tire fit burst before used one

Our experience teaches wisdom don't let your experience cloud your ability to be fair

I don't think the topic is based because, I know you won't dispute the fact that, even if a lady is not in a rush to get married, there would be a time when society and family pressure will begin to mount pressure on her. . My dear, that's just the society we find ourselves

shinarlaura:
Exactly mum. I really don't know why we (especially Africans) sees marriage as such a big deal. I ll rather be single than to marry someone I don't like all because in the name of marriage. By the way is it by force to get married. As if marriage is a lifetime achievement

I believe you're only talking from your own perception but the society don't see it they way you do.. And yes, marriage is the greatest achievement of a lady in this part of the world

lovethchioma:
Tosin this your write-up is sha. How can someone be that desperate? Marriage isn't a do or die affair. The question isn't about getting married, but it's actually about staying happily married. I don't want to believe someone will open her eyes and go into marriage with any of the guys you've listed knowing what awaits her in the marriage. This is called desperation at its peak.
This is not to say that it's not happening though, e dey happen.

Happy Belated Birthday.... why you nor tell me say you dey do your birthday? it's been long I heard from you.

Although, marriage isn't a do or die affair, but in this part if the world, it's one the greatest achievement of a lady. The pressure usually mounted on ladies towards marriage is very much compared to the male folks

Anyway thanks for the wishes

Bumbae1:
Its true

As females lol we want more but sometimes end up marrying someone we would never pick
Anyway not me .. will rather die single than marry what i dont like .. no be by force and trust me mama will understand ..
when ur parents are educated to a level, travel and seen how the rest of the world opperate the pressure not that great ...

I admire your sincerity.. When your patently are highly educated, the pressure is very minimal

And you're sure they haven't automatically migrated you to another plan?

justmenoni:
Tosyne'2much, come and marry

Give me two years bro

T2best:
this can b corrected and possible mk a thing of the past if all this girls forming sisi can bury their pride, reduce their pursuit for instant riches and focus on d needful

That's what it is bro... A woman who doesn't have thirst for insatiable desires is a virtuous woman bro

martphreak:
aswear op is in all the categories technically and clinically..

Tosyn ah just the look u

I no fit fit in for all the categories nah

dadabashua1:
Hahahahaha haha.....@OP that your number 6 experience got me laughing like mad....God nairaland no go kill person o...lolz

Bro, no mind me jawe

henrimoto:
@tosyne2much. You! you ehnn, For your own good, The Single Ladies Association of Nigeria - ( Nairaland Chapter) headed by @Safiaa dey plan wicked meeting for you.

Kwantinue.... Lol

Brother, you know say me I be one man MOPOL

dalass:
She would not mind if the man is younger than she is. Age will no longer be an issue or barrier

You're right my sister

modelmike7:
Interesting......
Tosyne don come again o!!
Many Happy Returns.
Hope you enjoyed your day?

Baba, I don land again ooo.. Thanks for the wishes, and yes, I enjoyed my day