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This is to counter a thread created yesterday titled

Ladies, What Is Your Take On Jobless Guys
Who Chase You?

www.nairaland.com/2646599/ladies-what-take-jobless-guys

In the society we live, anything associated with financial responsibility, is usually mounted on men. However, in the society we find ourselves, it's normal for a guy to be rich and chase after jobless, lazy and poor ladies, who in most cases have nothing to offer other than compensate you with what they have under their skirts; while it's no big deal for a lady to be jobless, poor and broke yet expect renumeration from where she did not invest.

In recent time, what we hear is, "I can't date a broke man"; "I can't date a guy who doesn't earn up to N100, 000 per month, but you will barely hear them talking about what they've got to contribute, yet you see these ladies in the society always clamouring for gender equality everyday. I mean what's the essence of the FEMINISM agitation by these lazy ladies ?

To a large extent, it's expected of men to be very hard working and improve on the standard of living, to at least earn respect from their family members, neighbours and most importantly, their parents, who have invested so much in their life.

As a person, one thing that annoys me most is that why should the driving force of a man towards money making, be for the sole purpose of making himself attractive to ladies ?

This notion that ladies like and easily fall for rich dudes has lured many young dudes venturing into internet fraud, money ritual, stealing and other unlawful practices.

Without shying away from the truth, ooooh yes !!! every lady has standard and it"s expected of her to seek financial security in a man but the level to which Nigerian ladies have taken it, is something else


One thing I believe is that, a man should strive hard to make money so as to improve his standard of living and live a quality life, rather than giving yourself unnecessary worry of trying to impress one yeye lady out there.


Even though you are a rich dude, it's very risky to date ladies who are always quick to mouth-thrash hustling dudes whose joblessness is subject to the increase of unemployment rate in the nation. Infidelity and grediness are the watchword of such ladies and they can easily be banged by a richer dude anytime any day

I drop my pen at this point

So to the guys, what's your take on ladies who are obsessed with money ?

Swissheart:
......bro,did you get the mail?

nobeku:
Very silly mentality coming from the womenfolk of my people, the igbos.. It has to be when the men is "paid"... How much does your sorry female ass have? So a man that doesn't have a job cannot toast a woman and still get her and get a job later? How did it happen for us married ones?

zaragal:
Lol ....u are sitting on a loooonnnnnggg tin

zaragal:
Na swear??...dem no go see me sef

emancipation1:
Bro I guess u have had some friends that were pain to you but became so close that you can hardly wave them off....this guy is a fine example.....crazy his lies are specially manufactured and I wonder where he buried his conscience when he was actually given one.....you have said well, but sincerely i need the best strategy that wont involve this guy that much cos he is my own problem.

Yeah I have had such friends before



Bro, just apply wisdom to whatever measures you want to take to make justice

zaragal:
U ke?....i hear make I bend say u faithful..Men....i knw una no be today nah

Oyah date me nah lemme show you the kind of love you have never been shown

zaragal:
Wouldn't it be nice if u use the word "some" ...Cos it's not in mine...I knw it's in urs no. Doubt

Hehehe see u


Tosyne is not as bad as you think.. No be say I dey praise myself oooo, but I'm one of most faithful boyfriends a lady can ever wish to have

zaragal:
Chei...ladies...smh...I cnt imagine cheating in a relatnship not to talk of marriage...the very recent why celibacy rocks...She don too knw man so Tey she dey find better size dan her husband..

Btw y do women cheat

zaragal:
Viewing dis post toysemuch......oya contribute

I have done the needful

donem:
On point Prof.

darkskingoddess:
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Wonderful response! Puts things into perspective.

raayah:
Oh tosyne, you make my black heart happy!

chimauk:
you re a big fool.u call urself a graduate and u talk like shit.most matured girls can't date broke guys but they don't say it out.and to think DAT u responded to every comment makes me wonder if u really have a job.if u can't date someone without a job pls STFU and allow pple DAT re doing it live.graduating with a 2.1 doesn't make u smart.ur comments on this thread shows u re plain stupid.before u quote me pls know I ve a job and l m leaving well.talking abt broke guys asking u out,na as goat dey stand na im dem dey price am.

raayah:
Exactly, those jobless guys that are fucking for free, is it invisible pusssy? Some Women will bang whomever they want to while some women will consider financial status before banging. I see nothing wrong with both choices.

My quote that you mentioned, I said I would happily bang a labourer who pushes wheel-barrow. Do I seem like the shallow type to you?
Please next time before you mention me, make sure you have a grammatically correct and reasonable reply. I hate responding to ignorant posts like yours.

all4naija:
I can see one of the reasons many young Nigerian boys are drug peddlers, scam, criminals, etc around the world because they want to make the money to impress somebody like the OP.

You are going to end up in jail if that's what you want. You are all criminals!

juche:
GUYS I WONDER WHY U WASTE YOUR TIME ON THIS TYPE OF THREAD. THE OP AND HER SUPPORTERS SIMPLY SHOWED WHO THEY ARE. HUNGRY, BROKE, CLASSLESS, JOBLESS AND WORTHLESS. IS ONLY INDECENT LADIES AND HUSTLERS THAT GOES FOR ANYTHING PROVIDED THEY CAN PAY THE BILL. A WOMAN WITH WORTH AND CLASS GOES FOR VALUE, LOVE AND FOLLOW THEIR HEARTS. THIS OP IS THE TYPE THAT YOU ALWAYS SEE THEIR LIFELESS AND MUTILATED BODIES LYING IN STREET CORNERS AFTER BEING USED TO PAY FOR THE MONEY THEY HAVE ALREADY COLLECTED. IS A SHAME THAT SOME LADIES MONETIZE RELATIONSHIP AND STILL CLAIM CLASS. OP TRY ANY BROTHEL AROUND U. NO GUY WILL BUG YOU WITH RELATIONSHIP RATHER IT WILL BE PAY AS U GO.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

TheMainMan:
.. I swear bro.. You can see them all around stl sayin the pastor wud av accepted the money if it was millions.. Imagine!...

TheMainMan:
.. ..

sotel:
. At least not as broke as ur fada.

TheMainMan:
.. Nice one.. I hope those pastor-bashers see this now..





Meanwhile..

alexis007:
Once upon a time, he rocked. Now he is getting stale. ...You can actually guess who I am talking about.

His pals should get him to change his channel anyway, if they really like him......Because right now.....

He is almost at his wits' end.

Yeah you are right. I suggest his friends talk to him