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Cossy can't be 34.. Ko possible

Toyinsbtc:
Live up to the responsibility bro.. If you hv got a serious babe..... Spend on ur woman in the best way u can..... That u cannot spend on ur woman is a sign of u not having enof........ My woman does spend her cash, even to the smallest data, I make sure she gets it once it's off her phone.... Let's pray to be rich..... Forget those facts that u can't do sumfin..

You're on point bro

I know the pains of these guys so I won't really blame them. I know how painful it is giving money to someone who would probably not appreciate it is. Some of these ladies don't know how hard it is to make money so even if you give you collect your salary and hand it to them, it will be like a normal thing to them.

MichaelBlake40:
Why should i,shebi she has been taking care of herself before i met her.That i am her boyfriend doesn't mean that anytime she wants money she should come running 2 me.It iz not her right 2 collect money 4rm me

That's not how to play love bro.. Just pray you find a lady that will appreciate every kobo you spend on her... Not every lady is an ingrate as you think

BCISLTD:
bros who wants to find out if it was done or not?

I dey tell you... Who ran risk that kind thing?

dingbang:
I have done that bro,but don't get me wrong, it shouldn't be a right! Don't let these ladies use you bro. Be smart!

Yeah you have a point

dingbang:
Nobody owes a lady anything, esp stuff like money for making of hair, ah mean, even before you met the guy, you have been taking good care of yaself so why now dump such on the nigga

So you mean you can't give your woman the money to make her hair?

Countrygirl:
It's been a while, how are you doing

I'm fine dear.. How have you been too?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bros don't blame the guy. Since they are not married he owed her no obligation to be faithful. The same thing applies to the girl.let her do whatever she likes after all they are claiming no commitment until they are married. So what's wrong in a guy doing same?. Did you not see their comment on the other thread where the girl is claiming she won't do the guys laundry because they are not yet married? She should stop going through his phones until they are married. Chikina.

Honestly, the comments of ladies on the other thread weak me gan

vidicious:
Spot on bro.I feel so passionate about this matter cos I fell into this trap and was not smart enough to realise it early cos of the good sex.
In fact everything she owned was gotten by her ex, so I instantly was under pressure to meet up.
I blindly followed suit chesting bills, she once told me she dosent want to hear about me not having money,that i should keep it to my self.
only to find out she was a big hoe to my old friend back then and guess what the guy also said she was too demanding, intact that was the first things he said.
All through the relationship there was zero impact she left behind.
The truth if all a girl brings to the table is great sex , you can hang in there after all who no like better thing but always have it in your mind not to mix the two feelings.

Na sex dey make most guys take wrong step and decisions nah

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't mind all these hypocrites,lazy and selfish people supporting the lady. If I may ask,what's she offering in the relationship if she cannot help him do laundry?. Sex I guess.If one calls her a sex object now,they will say you dont have respect for women.And she will be the first to call the guy names if he decide to stop taking care of her welfare. I also blame the guy for not telling her to start taking care of herself since they are not married.

That's very true.. If a lady is already telling you now that can't help you with your clothes because she's not married to you, believe me, she will still not do that even if you marry her. The same way these dumb ladies will tell you they don't owe a man faithfulness because he has not paid their bride price.

Most of these ladies are fairy tales ladies. You can hear most of them shouting dry cleaners and washing machine. How many people even have washing machines in their homes in Nigeria? In this Nigeria, how many men can even afford giving their clothes to dry cleaners? Do you even know that an average Nigerian worker can't afford giving his clothes to a dry cleaner?

Like I said earlier, most of these ladies are living in fairy tales. They're not married but have always pictured living in a home with fitted AC. A home where someone will wash their pants and bras for them

Things are getting worse and that's why marriages don't last. Some ladies are even saying they're not obligated to cook for their husbands because they're not slaves

Akuruoulo:
The girls in this thread are more selfish than the girl in question. All empty headed beings

You should know Nairaland ladies are one of the worse ladies you will see on cyber space.. Most of them have poor sense of judgement

Most of the comments of the ladies on this thread said it all

Looks like a serial player.. It's very obvious