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freethinker01:
no, I'm right. I started dating her not up to 2 months only cuz I was single and my friends kinda helped me get her. Prior to that, she's shown me her true colours but still went ahead to date her. I feel I'd rather remain single that to date the money mongering selfish bitchh. She reminds me everytime how her ex used to treat her like a queen. I feel I don't need the whole thing countless times it the sex was good though. That's the only thing tying me down. I've seen the push I need. Thanks for the advice though.

Oh! Now I get the perfect picture of the kind of lady you're talking about

Some ladies are just like that. They can't stop telling you the goodies their ex bought for them. They are very greedy and they always went to be at the receiving end

freethinker01:
I'm surely breaking up with my current girlfriend. She possesses all the characteristics the Op stated above. We're both broke but I'm not really broke, (I do some stuffs that fetch me money once in awhile so I'm still considerably OK but I still consider myself broke by my standard). To buying her undies, I provide but what does she bring to the table, her vee Jay. Dating a broke girl surely brings financial retrogression.

Let me advise you bro.. Although every lady is not perfect but never use what you read on Nairaland to take decisions.

Not all broke girl are leeches and not all of them have no moral values. Even if you date a financially buoyant woman tomorrow, she could be worse than your so called broke girlfriend

Seriously, I wonder how you guys come across these kinds of ladies.

pureheartlady:
So sad

I'm glad you can see the direction I'm coming from.

We are now in a generation when nearly every woman wants to control every man under the canopy of being an ambitious woman.

In fact, some daughters do not even respect their father because they grew up seeing their mother always insulting their father. Do you think these ladies will grow up and respect their own husbands? No I guess.

In many homes today, the decision of the man cannot stand because the woman is head of the house. I just can't imagine myself going out in the morning to provide for the family and then return back at night but my wife or daughter won't be able to do my laundry because they see it as slavery

Dj8064209091:
U are even talking about girlfriend when most wives even wants their husband to wash their baby's clothes. girl friend things are better than most marriages today. Good girl is a good girl, training matters. some girls are always claiming equality with man so they will not do those legitimate works they ought to do.

And this is what is killing most marriages of today

I used to have a Landlord back in Ilorin.. This man is a workaholic.. He goes out very early in the morning and returns late at night, only for him to return back back home at night and start washing his clothes.. The man labours so much for his family but his wife controls him and this is also telling on his children.

Meanwhile this man has two daughters who will sit down and cross their legs while their dad is washing his clothes. Sometimes I feel I should help him but I couldn't.

All these Nairaland ladies are silly. They're just trying to justify rubbish.. Imagine someone saying he's not entitled to wash his fathers clothes and that he can wash it himself. Arrant nonsense

Eeeehyah sorry dear.. Congrats anyway

Ladyhippolyta88:
Let us hear word Jor.
Feminism ,this that must she be domesticated what happened to the guy.Before my parents started using washing machine I can testify that my father even today never for once allowed anybody wash his clothes even my brothers wash their own clothes according to them they do not feel comfortable with people doing things for them a man being domesticated and a woman refusing to wash a man's cloth has nothing to do with feminism.I have never washed my fathers cloths since I was born and I am not ashamed to say it.
I am not refering to the topic but people should know how to take care of theirselves which includes domesticity.You should not wait for anyone to do that for you.

You're the one that should go and sit down.. Stop trying to justify laziness and dirtiness probably because you're already used to that lifestyle. You forgot to add that you also need a machine that will bathe you and brush your teeth everyday.

A lady from a well trained home will never be comfortable seeing piled up clothes and dirty plates smelling in the house. No she won't! I know of some ladies that will start complaining each time they come inside a guy's room and will try to tidy up the whole place.

I used to have a female friend like that. This lady used to help me wash dirty plates and curtains each time she visited me in school. We weren't dating oooo

My dear, all ladies were trained differently.. Some ladies need not to be told before they help you with chores. They are already used to cleanliness

I repeat! Only lazy girls see it as slavery to do chores

Youngjohnosas:
it's pretty sad some ladies just want a one sided relationship,they can offer nothing and u can't please them as well.they ask for a favour and you decline, it automatically makes you a bad person but u ask for one they feel they are not slaves and therefore not obligated to you...i am currently facing such in my relationship, I try to make her happy to the best of my ability but she simply can't reciprocate.when she comes visiting, she always wants me to join her in all chores.its compulsory for her because she is not a slave,i should join her prepare the meals or do it my self and she will serve and I will clear the dishes while she will clean it.. we having been dating for over two years,I treat her well and till date I haven't gotten a dime from her when I am broke but I don't complain that I am a slave.its bad.

Eeeehyah I feel your pains bro

lefulefu:
my brother most cases its really not about feminism. Its just dat some ladies dont know how to do any domestic stuff cos their moms never taught them when they were younger. Probably when the mom was in the kitchen cookin the dauther was in the sittingroom watching keeping up with the kardeshians or zee world. When it was time to wash her clothes it was either d mom washing her dauther's clothes or telling a maid to wash it. So how do u expect such a lady to engage in any domestic stuff when married. Does a lion change to a hyena?.

You have spoken wisely bro

Even as a man, I'm very domesticated. I can't stand the sight of dirty plates and unswept floor, so I don't expect less from a lady

Some ladies are just plain lazy. To bathe sef na war. You see some of them outside and they will look glooming. Follow them to their room and you will be disappointed

These people and attention seeking sha

I've only been privileged to date a lady who was very domesticated. Her visit was what I always prayed for because it used to relief me of many stress but I never took advantage of her. I respected her so much for that

Feminism is already taking over Nigeria. It's a shame that some ladies can't even wash their father's clothes even if they see him washing it. They see it as slavery to go a a man's place, pick up dirty plates, curtains or bed sheet and wash them.

This lady you pictured is obviously not ready for marriage. She never ready at all

OP, are you on Scorum?

Technology addiction no be here oo

Mordson:
There's definitely going to be a clash of interests. You cannot serve two masters. Light has nothing in common with darkness.

Honestly, I'm fed up with this country.. People are only carrying certificates but they're still mentally enslaved. So, because a white man branded his religion well, every other African religion is darkness?

Seriously, you really need to get out of the bonds of mental slavery

Looks disgusting to me

justice12000:
Kannywood? LOL...Nollywood will be laughing at them, with no single film that makes sense! Sad for a country that embraces mediocrity because of tribalism; promoting nonesense! Ask yourself when last did Buhari host Nollywood, a well known global movie organization?

Haha funny u

myettiallah:
Your people

I no come from Rivers bro

I still don't know her purpose for making this public.. Celebrities no get life I swear

What a tragedy.. RIP

GrabHisBalls:
Is that what you say to console yourself? None of you goes to school with the mentality to get a paid job.

And who mentioned government jobs?

All I'm trying to tell you is that you should learn how to celebrate good things with others without being pessimistic

Na she sabi jawe.. It's none of my business

GrabHisBalls:
Do you want me to say she tried? carrying a first class with a HND certificate is practically useless in Nigeria na.

And you think life revolves around government job?

So, one must go to school with the mentality that he must work for other people right?

This mentality is absurd and this is what is killing Africa

GrabHisBalls:
Overall best graduating student with a CGPA of 3.89? Smh. That's a second class upper in Federal universities. The other students must be very dull.

And again, she needs more certification 'cause poly edu is practically useless in this country.

Common! She made 3.89 out of 4.0

Edum13656:
the guy that disvirgined her virginity is Adekola Adeyemo

Na the level be that

Xavier5:
tosyne2much, your damn hilarious.
no 5, 7, 8 and 9 are so on point most especially the dressing part.
#Xavier.

Thanks bro

chigoizie7:
u never see anything, I have been a body count to a lady who has dated more than 11 guys. she is just 24 as at the time we met. and she also said she started FUUUCKING when she entered year 1 in the university, also that she has dated a guy for 2 years and some months without cheating. she read a 5year course and I met her during NYSC. SHE left secondary school at 17. and I was like. 11 guys? 24 years?

I did the maths. I had to run .

probably she is a bad person , if not why all the guys leaving?

24 minus 17 is 7 years, and she has dated a guy for 3years, I was like, 4years for 10 guys.

Hmmm.. This one weak me bro

You wan cause wahala

During my undergraduate days, we were three who moved together as friends and we were very close to this lecturer. We used pay courtesy visit to him and we were very close to his wife as well. He wanted to marry this lady in my class as his second wife and was already proposing a secret introduction. One way or the other, the wife heard about it and this caused a brawl in the family. The man concluded we must have told her since we knew about the parole.

Unfortunately, he happened to invigilate one of our exams and he chased the three of us out of the exam barely thirty minutes into the exam. Only three of us
had carry over in that course. In his own course, he gave one of who was his number suspected due to his vocality and he spared the two of us by giving us "40"..

The effect of this cruelty on our GP was devastating as it crushed it badly.. Well, karma played its role and he got sacked barely a year after

Lalas247:
whoa....
opinions of a non bearded ninja ... who cares.. my back.is covered in it and a special.area if u know.u know
spiritual KO...na only naija witches n wizard dey worry una...



olori buruku make forever gf kill u there nonsense.. can u imagine y'all didn't see that trash abi ... smy.....

Jesu! Na you dey shower curses on person like this?

ImaIma1:

U laughing?

franchasng:
This guy is a genius, damn it, guy I need to give u some bottles

Thanks man