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Dont mind this caricature print media..they will always make up a story from a genuine story just to come up with a catchy headline in order to drive sales...congrats my brother

I was passing through the road in a commercial bus when the accident was still fresh. The occupants cheated death. They were just fortunate to survive the fatal accident.

INTROVERT:
sauce

Introvert, you and this your sauce. Sauce as in source or what?

Wetin we no go hear....

Elantraceey, Gaborone, caracta,Tosyn2much, onisimate

I follow him on Facebook.... He is my business mentor. He's gotten inspiring and life changing experiences in business world. I'm happy we have such a business legend in our days, giving hope to the righteous in business that there is enough room for them to prosper without soiling their hands with corruption.
God bless strive....

Ebukaobi:
Interesting

So the Vanguard purposely manipulated the actual events to suit their own agenda

This is disgraceful behavior from this PDP apologists

So from what is written above, anything better than what has been reported earlier.... I think your sense of judgement has gone blind...

It looks like Funaab, however those chanting road1,OAU, might just be right

Gaborone:
Good one.

I thought lawyers don't support jungle justice.... Lol

greatiyk4u:
Does ur rant justify the fact that there is differences in figures from ur links?.........op's blatant ignorance is not an excuse for u 2 confuse the public the more.....................

U don't cast stone on another wen not clean......don't allow,sentiment, pity and emotions guide ur sense of reasoning

You probably didn't do mathematics in your school days... You are just dumb my friend. Over 900+billion in journalistic language can be approximated to a trillion in order to make the news catchy... Go and learn and stop promoting false information. 198billion and over 900 billion are not in the same league in mathematics..

Good Communication is very important between both parties.
Husband and wife should make out time to commune together... This will help to address the problem of assumption...
Assumption has ruined so many homes because clarifications were not sought by either of the parties.
Both parties can not 'overcommunicate' if there is anything like that.
Keep the communication line open... Always create time to discuss....

I just want us to share our opinions on the subject matter.... How to keep the bond of love intact in marriage.
Considering the rate of divorce and separation in marriages which is on the rise in this society of ours, there is need to discuss on how to keep the bond of love intact before things fall apart...

Let us learn together, you might be helping somebody out there...
Let's set the ball rolling....
Onegai, Gaborone, 4tunebest, efiko, lalasticlala, toks37, introvert, viviangist4, explorers,oyinprince, etc

Hkana:
I thank the OP for creating this thread and I thank all the reasonable commentators thus far, onegai damiso acidosis (I no understand this guy sha... Lol) Thank you everyone. I've learnt a lot reading your comments.... Bless.




Bottomline: it's about time people are allowed to do what works for them. Your life, your choices. Don't force your opinions on others.

Most welcome... And thanks for your comment too.

Gaborone:
If I should think of the amount of milk I consumed to calm down my brain when I was studying then, my conscience wouldn't even allow me become a full-time housewife.


I would certainly not date/marry a man who would want me to be a full time house wife, NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE'S READY TO PAY ME MONTHLY.

My reasons:

1. I worked hard and long for my certificates, as such, in this life, they must fetch me money.

2.I love my profession and I do not think I would be a satisfied person if I abandoned it completely.

3. No house can contain me 24/7 , year in, year out. I love going out every week day or thereabout to solve problems, and get paid for solving them. I love the feeling.

4. As a single lady, I have my own dreams, of which building a career is one of them. That dream isn't going to die because I got married or had children; I believe all I have to do is create a balance, and always remember that family comes first. I believe with God helping I can do just that.

5. I believe there's a high chance of a full-time housewife becoming mentally rusty, and I do not want that to be told of me.

That's pretty much it.

Being who I am, if a man tells me he would want to marry me, and then he goes on to say I'll be a full-time house-wife, I'll immediately tell him he's not found his wife. I'ld probably join him to search for her if he allows me. lol

Career woman to the core... Lol
Striking the balance is the key
Can't imagine my wife sacrificing her career for being a full-time house wife after all the degrees and certifications she has acquired. It will be unfair to her abandoning such a wonderful career. However those giving up their career for their children really deserved to be commended too.
Striking the balance for me is the key.. Follow your career path and see the family as no1. One can still marry the two together without one affecting the other.

Tosyn2much,elantraceey, caracta, naijaboy, oyinprince, onismate, onegai, Gaborone, 4tunebest,efiko,lalasticlala, toks37, introvert, viviangist4,explorers,

...........

Miami11:
I have a career, but for the past almost two years I have given up momentarily to take care of my kids a toddler and an infant.
I'm stay home mun but enrolled full time for a masters degree program online, so I'm gaining not loosing. My kids are well taken care off. This is a temporary situation but I will do anything for my kids.

Hmmmmmm

I just want to know your opinion guys. Would you want your wife to follow her career or stay home to nurse your children?
A barrister friend and I got engaged in a discussion and he said he won't give his daughter out to a man that would make her a full-time house wife after spending a million/term on her in university. His argument is that why spend so much on her if she won't make use of her certificate to build a career.

Another twist to it is that a friend told me about a friend of his who pays his wife 250k/month as salary just to take care of the children at home.

Ladies, you are not left out, will you marry a man that will allow you grow your career or make you a full-time house wife?
Let's hear your views.

ASP, Assistant Senior Prefect.

Gaborone:
You had time to educate free2ryhme.

I left him to himself after the insult, so when he goes out in public, he'll disgrace himself with his unrestrained expression of his cluelessness laced with ignorance.

Gaborone! Hmm, you don't give a shit... Lol.
Just giving it to them today... Insulting them politely for their ignorance..
Trust your judgment sis.

Gaborone:
Goodevening totalhouse.

Saw your mention. I really don't see anything wrong with his question, not even with the timing. I feel that's a valid question to ask any lady who is/has been sexually active. It's better to clear certain things in a relationship early on, to save both parties from wasting time if they discover something they can't deal with

Trust your judgment sis.

Gaborone:
Goodevening totalhouse.

Saw your mention. I really don't see anything wrong with his question, not even with the timing. I feel that's a valid question to ask any lady who is/has been sexually active. It's better to clear certain things in a relationship early on, to save both parties from wasting time if they discover something they can't deal with.

Trust your judgment sis.

MzPecs:
You have a point there..

The girl flared either because she's guilty of the question or like you said, she felt insulted despite her good virtues while with the OP for 2mnths.

The OP still should not have asked her that question considering the fact that the relationship is barely 2mnths old.

The earlier the better for both parties.

Caracta:
Yes i'm caracta

OK you are welcome....
Ask the op what he is upto?
Diary thing, mature comments.... Lovely things about the supposed crush of his... Is pointing to one diarylander..

Caracta:
Hian. Is that how to offend? Just wondering why you mentioned me.

I only wrote 'i don't like the op's character now....'
Oh are you caracta? .. Lol ..

Anyways just trying to read the op's mind...

Caracta:

Why Dat question mark look caracta... I no want offend u oooo... Waiting I do now...

I know know knowooo

I don't like your cha.. Caracta

Cc. Gaborone

MzPecs:
The reason I called him is that, a silly guy once asked my friend this question and she didn't consider him again..

Me thinks OP shouldn't have asked the question so soon. You don't throw such direct question to someone.

The girl might feel bad, she might have this feeling that, oh! Do I really look like someone who was pregnant before? Maybe my tummy is big or i'm not in shape for him to ask such question.

These thoughts will be going the girl's mind.

Even though the question sounds absurd, it still remains the reality. Nothing should be held back when it comes to knowing much about the person you are settling down with...
For me i have questions for the op

Have they had carnal knowledge of themselves? If yes under the 2 months then the question is in order.

Has he noticed anything in her pointing to the question raised?

What is op opinion about her?

If the anwers to the questions are not negative then it could be that she felt insulted despite her good virtues at the full 'glare' of the op.

AfricanFinest:
This should have been the best answer to your foolishness... No hatred either

It is clear from your comments that you don't reason or think before commenting. I'm not interested in any e-war bro. Learn to understand simple English.
The summary of what the op wrote is, don't pay offering in rccg if you are not sure of your salvation. Pay when you are saved.

AfricanFinest:
This is a game of psychological dominance.
I pity the gullible poor BC they are foolishly ignorant

Offering can't give you salvation.
Salvation is independent of offering.

I am ashamed this is coming from a respected popular man of God.

I'm ashamed too that simple English you don't understand. Though the information given by the op was not complete, with what he wrote you still couldn't understand his primary 6 English. Was it written there that your offering will give u salvation or if you are not sure of your salvation don't pay offering.?
Oga don't rush to comment, read and understand what u have read..... No hatred, just go thru the thread again.