We don't set our priority right in this country.. How can you be disbursing 50k to people and for this they must employ one person and open business account and get their business registered.. Can the 50k even register a business in Nigeria.. This government is just wasting money. They are just making a mockery of themselves.. Who is giving this phoolish economic advice?

To balance such statistics, there should spending power of the nations put side by side of such statistics. If Guinea Bissau spending power is more than us, then it means that they will be able to afford it.... Spending power is always determined by the minimum wage..

Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me

Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.

He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room

My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .

Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.

We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do

I will advise that you pray and commit his heart in the hands of the Lord to touch him and make him a better person.

It is high time you gir his attention by dressing sexy at home.

Identify his love language/mumu button and use it to get his attention.

Look out for his finest mood and capitalise on it to engage him in discussion that will be beneficiary to both of you.

May God give you enough patience and spirit of wisdom to deal with him.

Don't lose your good manners and keep yourself from temptation

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Talk to your wife about your concern and sure she will make adjustments. Don't cheat on her for anything. The repercussions can be damning. God be with you.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Inform your wife and get your sister in law another accomodations away from your house before you fall into a mess. No one sleeps with fire on the bushel.

Please, I am new on this thread...

I want to know if mtn can be sold now or it is still going to peak even after payment of dividend?

Moreso, is ChAMs good for trading or which stock is good for trading on short term?
Thank you as I anticipate good financial advice

PuZZyNegro:


Not at all

The poster was sitting at the back seat of the Bolt car. That is the quickest way they profile people by police.

My advice to young guys is to if possible sit with Bolt drivers in the front seat if you are journeying alone with the driver. It saves you and the driver from some harassment both from police officers, VIOs and miscreants.

Once you balance at the back as the car owner, you attract all kinds of attention.

You probably didn't read his account. It was when they stopped the car that he was asked to go to the back seat. He was probably set up by the bolt man...they work together sometimes...

izito:
*

In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

Though it will take time to heal on this trust matter. I salute you for your maturity. My advice to you is that as you are taking time to heal, please forgive her since she has already realized her error at least for the sake of your kids

Bayern vs Paris

Real Madrid vs Liverpool

macnino399:
Good day everyone
Please I need a guide on how to grow spiritually besides just going to church. Thanks.

1. Identify with a Bible believing church if you are yet to join one.

2. Make your Bible your companion as you study to understand the mind of God through it.

3. Cultivate a prayer life by finding time to talk to your heavenly father about your thirst for growth and God's guidance to lead you on how to effectively grow spiritually.

4. Find a spiritual mentor who can help you to grow and you can be accountable to.

richiemcgold:

Christians, YES!
before you counter my claim, know that I'm a christian and I'm speaking from personal experience.

What personal experience? How can a christian be fronting a jihadist agenda...are you sure you are even a practising Christian because I don't understand what ideology you are propagating here. Oga Christians are not boko haram members. You can say another

wale377:
Femi Kuti, who is one of the sons of fela anikulapo kuti has revealed that his father used him as a lab rat to test the importance of tertiary education.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3Q31SMq_as



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2020/12/05/why-fela-did-not-send-me-to-school-femi-kuti/amp/

This contradicts what fela said about you sir. When he was asked in one of the interviews he granted during his lifetime about why you didn't go to school, he said you are a dullard.... I am sure the clips of the interview are in the public space

This for me has got to show that cases of covid19 in Nigeria is very insignificant. Just less than 1%. Hopefully with God's mercy, we can keep it low until we get out of the wood of Covid19.
This for me is a true representation of the prevalence rate of covid19 in Nigeria since these corp members are part of the society coming from every part of the country, assembling in different camps that cut across all the states of the country, FCT inclusive. This is a cheerful news statically speaking for me compare with what is happening in the global world presently.

raquel97:
Wait o, am I the only one reading that he died on the 20th of November and was buried on the 8th of October?

You are the one not reading correctly. He died in Nov, 2019/and was buried 3weeks ago..

Duru9:
Oga curfew started 9pm what were your men doing at lekki by 7pm

Oga burning of station and freeing of prisoners started after lekki shooting


Stop lying

Can you imagine the lies...they thought since it is about a week after, we would have forgotten what really transpired. The protest has been peaceful until after the massacre. This people think they can fool Nigerians.

oluseyiforjesus:
Naira marly n tuface come and see a woman with liver her boldness is from Jamaica, she's not even a celebrity but now she's an hero.......

My surprise is dat she's from the north where they are against#endsars#

She is not from the north o..she only grew up in the north and married to a middlebelter (Kogi/Kwara). She is original Niger delta woman

I mistakenly transferred into Kele-Chuks Nig Ltd., 1013702011, zenith bank since 2018, I am yet to get a refund.. What is annoying is that he withdrew the money and zenith bank.conspired with him so as not to make a refund.. By saying the account has not been funded ever since then...that is simply a big lie ....

BarrElChapo:
Get the number of her husband and tell him all the crap she's been telling your fiancee and then quit the relationship. They're not over themselves. The day they'll meet in person they must commit adultery. Good luck

You are not nice at all...lol

davidhobo:



When the past comes back to haunt a RunZ girl or a woman with a sordid sexual history. Sorry. Eh

This is absurd...must you insult someone for being honest with her past...more so, it is not compulsory you comment, she is just asking for people's opinions not insult...

EmagNig:


https://hollywoodlife.com/2020/08/17/melania-trump-pulls-hand-away-donald-plane-video/

Watch the video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtxKdVTQFps

This headline is misleading. Her refusal for hand locking with her husband was because she was covering her skirt to avoid breeze blowing it up for unwarranted 'film show'.

I celebrate with the minister. So happy, God made him whole. May your healing be permanent.

Though physical presence can't be compared with virtual, however, this virtual has a wider coverage... and for me, the convention euphoria is already being felt through the virtual arrangement. I am loving it..this convention will be loaded with unprecedented miracles and manifestations...

And for your information, over 2000 cows are slaughtered yearly for the convention..

It seems the hydroxychloroquine video by Dr Stella Emmanuel is doing the magic...just thinking... This covid 19 is already taking a break...may this grip loss by covid 19 be permanent.

This season of wonderful will not elude us ...wonders shall be our lots this week and thereafter.

Very cool and clean video...you can as well venture into documentary by way of advertising for big brands in Dubai.. You have what it takes to soar. I celebrate your achievement.

Is okay. But he is older than Buhari from the ages declared by both of them..at least about 2 years older and he is called Buhari's nephew. He just confirmed that by Calling Buhari his uncle....na was o...Buhari must have been born by her mother in old age...my submission though.

hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

Some things are not adding up about her confession but that is not to say that she is lying.

You can carry out your findings by going to her office without her knowledge and have one on one discussion with the 'office father' to confirm her confession. It may even be a consensual sex or probably he didn't even meet her as a virgin. You can speak to him responsibly laden with subtle threat about you informing his wife and the company if he fails to tell you the truth.

If he did rape her, he will act responsibly by giving you attention so as not to escalate issue, if not, he will request that you let her stand be around for him to defend himself. I am sure that, if he did rape her as alleged which is not impossible, their closeness in office should have reduced with her distancing herself from him.

You can as well let him know that the act of rape has made her contract STDs, I am sure your eyes will open and you will see the light and decide on what next to do.

Fake News....

Such an interesting and inspiring read.

I hope ighalo will be used today as substitute... Just hope they don't end in draw again this time...hopefully, they win the match..

Let's give ourselves a chance. How about if it works well...of course it may not be perfect but at least it will still serve its purpose..let's believe in our own too..