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Nairaland General › Re: Good Old Days( Pictures) by Totiemide: 6:00pm On Feb 09, 2022

dfrost:
I tell you. Have you forgotten Amusement Park? Bata? Tales by Moonlight and Things Fall Apart?

I don't know if you know this song then, Apoche na im dey reign, ebano titi go buy your own.

Then you go see okirika first grade of 20, 50 naira. No be now wey 1 shirt or top na 5k with mumu design.

How time flies..

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Nairaland General › Re: Good Old Days( Pictures) by Totiemide: 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2022

HYDEEE:
I still remember watching igodo, egg of life and many other nigerian movies, we had a very huge pile of these tapes in our palour then.

Yoruba movies such as Ile oro, iwofalenu, koto aye, esakaba etc..

We were ignorant of the the evil lurking around. Na your Ma le and pops go make decisions for you, provide for you. No be now when person go use worry kill im sef.

Adulthood is a big scam..

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Education › Re: Makinde To Rename LAUTECH To LAU by Totiemide: 5:50pm On Feb 09, 2022

UncleAyo:
You are correct but that has become a thing of the past for that school.

I started predegree program in 2008 and obtain a degree in 2015...

Was a jambito, started 2011 obtained my degree 2018.
That's good news then. Intimidation I condone not.. Haa! Learnt a lot from LAUTECH not now that the school is for G-boys and the likes.

Quick question, is the degree going to be Bachelors without the Technology?

Education › Re: Makinde To Rename LAUTECH To LAU by Totiemide: 5:44pm On Feb 09, 2022

Nicoswit:
That's in the past now

Bless God for that then... Cause I soon as I graduated I stopped listening to news about them.

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Romance › Re: by Totiemide: 8:16am On Feb 09, 2022

All ears

Education › Re: Makinde To Rename LAUTECH To LAU by Totiemide: 8:01am On Feb 09, 2022

Clementoons:
Ok na thanks but what of Uni of ibadan

U I is good, they rarely go on strike.

Romance › Re: My Mum Is Against My Relationship by Totiemide: 7:56am On Feb 09, 2022

Loewe:
Maybe your mom has consulted a spiritualist on your behalf without your knowledge, hence her adamancy on not allowing you to marry him.
By the way, most of those spiritualists are demonic manipulators.

Another thing is: has your boyfriend been sending money or gifts to your mom? You said you've been dating him for 7 years, if he has never given your mom a dime, she might think he is either useless or poor. That's another way to see it.

True that.
Ask her why she insist. Some parents pray or consult spiritualist when their children are of marriageable age, so ask her what she saw or heard concerning your spouse.

You should also pray about it too

What was your spouse response to this? 7 years you've been in a relationship with him right, does he visit out of that 7 years? Does your parents know him closely? Abi he's only in a relationship with you but not in a relationship with your parent (does he see them as his in laws).

Because my dear love isn't enough when it comes to marriage ooo. Na the planning before you enter easy, to keep 'forever' takes everything you've got be it mentally, spiritually, emotionally etc.

You should both pray about it, God ll see you through

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Education › Re: Makinde To Rename LAUTECH To LAU by Totiemide: 7:43am On Feb 09, 2022

Clementoons:
why won't you

Graduated from there, 5 years course turn 7 years cuz of strike.

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Crime › Re: Young Lady Caught After Stealing Wrappers In Benue. Her Hair Shaved With Razor by Totiemide: 6:35am On Feb 09, 2022

How is she a SLAY QUEEN..

I only see an athlete. You know see the muscle ni.

Abi na Ankara she wan use chill with the 'big boys'.

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Pets › Re: Pls What’s Wrong With Me ? by Totiemide: 6:23am On Feb 09, 2022

Xwizard:
Woooow well I sold mine cos I don’t want her to suffer but if only I had waited a little more, I felt really bad. I don’t want to get her back yet cos, now I’m use to going out of the house anytime.

I understand, there's no point in bringing her back if yu won't have time for her. Don't beat yourself up for it, you did what you had to do.

Crime › Re: Teenager Caught Trying To Cut The Throat Of A 3-year-old Girl by Totiemide: 11:08pm On Feb 08, 2022

TheSourcerer:
Nope , he's just killing her for the rush , for fun

He should better still look for goat or chicken.
What am I even saying sef, guess he's an expert. He's graduated from goat to human.

Demented soul

Nairaland General › Re: Good Old Days( Pictures) by Totiemide: 10:28pm On Feb 08, 2022

PIXSPEAKS:
U Sabi better thing oo..
Triplet fall on you

Naxo

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Pets › Re: Pls What’s Wrong With Me ? by Totiemide: 10:23pm On Feb 08, 2022

I have and it hurt so bad..

Reason why I sold mine was because she had a cut on her ear that refused to heal. I tried different medication, it wasn't working.

She was getting leaner every day.

It was as if my dog had a premonition of what I was about to do to her, started barking at me, won't eat the food serve by me. Still didn't change my mind, I sold her the following week.

I could say she wasn't barking, she was crying. After the guy left with it, I cried for weeks. Went back to the guy to see if I could get her back, I was told he sold it to dog eaters..

O boy, my tears knew no bound.

I thought selling and getting another was going to be easy but it wasn't. Even till now I don't have a dog cuz it feels like betraying to me.

Parting with a pets hurt so bad. You just have to move on or if you have the money, get your dog back.

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Nairaland General › Re: Good Old Days( Pictures) by Totiemide: 10:06pm On Feb 08, 2022

PIXSPEAKS:

My favourite that year

You enjoy it most if you stayed in face me I slap you... If light no dey, na wetin we dey use catch cruise be dz or after we come back from school...

Miss those years like kilode

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Crime › Re: Teenager Caught Trying To Cut The Throat Of A 3-year-old Girl by Totiemide: 10:00pm On Feb 08, 2022

Some Parent of this present generation no longer act like one, they are only focused on their career and meeting the needs of their wards money wise.

What happens to charity begins at home?
What happens to knowing the kind of friends your kids move with?

They just neglect them and make them do whatever they like.

Yes, parenting is hard. It takes the grace of God to train a child well but some parents of this Era don't care about that, they don't even want to try.
Why bring them to the world then if you know you won't be able to handle them.

At age 15, he already knows how to slit throat.
At age 15 then, some of us are ignorant of the evil lurking outside. Trying to make our parents proud by studying hard not now that ritualist disguise as yahoo yahoo.

I wonder and imagine what could be running through the parents mind when they heard the news... Will they disown him or pretend they don't know him at all.

Pray our children make headline news for good things not bad things.

Education › Re: Makinde To Rename LAUTECH To LAU by Totiemide: 9:42pm On Feb 08, 2022

I saw this coming... When dey don introduced course like economics, marketing I know say dey go comot the technology.

Make it LAU or whatever, sha ensure courses are 4 years with no stress and unending strike.

Even if serve in a platter of gold, I won't let my enemy go there.

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Family › Re: Please Advice! I’m Having Multiple Issues With My Marriage by Totiemide: 8:00pm On Feb 07, 2022

Deal with your flirting and whatever negative you have.

Then you get a good result from her

But if you continue with it, don't bother taking a leap abroad because it won't end in your favor.

God will help you

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Romance › Re: What's The Easiest Way To Win A Woman's Heart by Totiemide: 7:48pm On Feb 07, 2022

We all believe ladies love money

But not all of them...
Not all ladies are money conscious
Not all ladies like flashy things
Not all ladies mark register on social media

To some ladies, your maturity, confidence, being real and sincere count.

Some guys hide their insecurities and immaturity behind money and sex, thinking with this they can have any girl they want. But you only attract savages and irresponsible girls.

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Romance › Re: What's The Easiest Way To Win A Woman's Heart by Totiemide: 7:47pm On Feb 07, 2022

Hmmmmm

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Romance › Re: My Friend Is Dating My Younger Sister by Totiemide: 7:19pm On Feb 07, 2022

Hmmmm!
Those above me already said it all.
No let am pain you too much, naxo e dey be sef when you sef dey service another person sister...

But
You see, giving a teenager advice is like you trying to force a goat to drink water. If you talk from now till tomorrow, she go do wetin she wan do until her eyes clear as per say she don taste am already. Teens don't take the advice of older ones until they fall victim.
Beating her won't stop her from yanshing around, if she stop with ur friend, what makes you think she won't get serviced elsewhere.

For your distance-close friend,
Talk to him one on one to know his plan for your sister because I bet you that guy isn't ready for love. He's only experimenting with a free pussy seeing that your sis is all about feelings. This kind of guy take advantage of vulnerable girls.

Then let them be...
At least you know if anything sup, you know who to hold responsible.

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Family › Re: The Only Secret To No Divorce In Marriage by Totiemide: 9:04pm On Feb 05, 2022

Talking about your past experiences doesn't make you feel weak, it shows how strong you have become to relay the truth about yourself, it makes you a better version of yourself.

You made bad decisions, you learnt from it.

Not talking about it with your spouse isn't a good thing to do because unspoken past always come out to haunt you one way or the other, it destroys whatever future strength you think you've acquired.

Be on a safe side by talking about it, be open. If he/she want you, they stayed back or leave at the end of the story.

Romance › Re: How Do I Control The Urge To Have Sex by Totiemide: 7:19pm On Feb 05, 2022

Candidlady:
You can't control it your genders are beast...

Hopefully you rape someone and get caught... Then they insert a broom stick into your penis... Pour a lil gas on the crown of your dvck and lit it.. Then clip your nails one after the other...

Babe you dey work with mafia?

TV/Movies › Re: What Are The Best Movies You Watched In 2021? by Totiemide: 7:14pm On Feb 05, 2022

Venom 2
Outpost
Outside the wire
Necromancer
Fast and furious 9
Red notice
Friend request
Black widow
The crood
Luca
Awake
The protege
Infinite
Afterlife of the party
The grudge

For series
Squid game
Vincenzo

Romance › Re: What's The Worst Thing A Woman Has Done On The First Date? by Totiemide: 8:23pm On Jan 28, 2022

WowSweetGuy:
We met online and fixed a date at my hotel room...She came in and entered the hotel bathroom immediately to go pee and then suddenly she came out stark naked...E shock me

No long thing. She came prepared.

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Romance › Re: What's The Worst Thing A Woman Has Done On The First Date? by Totiemide: 8:22pm On Jan 28, 2022

chatinent:
We go Crunches. What will you eat?

Nobody:

Absolutely nobody:

Bae: “Do you have fowl?”

Its the fowl for me... Mehn

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Romance › Re: Help! Her Ex Moved Into Her Compound by Totiemide: 6:25pm On Jan 27, 2022

What is courtship meant for? If not for you to talk about things you've both done in the past, likes and dislikes.

Paradventure if she'd share this with the husband before now it ll be very easy to just say babe that ex I told you about.

She ll be the first person to initiate convo now that memories is involved bayi...

Just tell to mind her business and treat him like a stranger because e get why.

Romance › Re: 18 Terrible Mistakes Every Woman Should Avoid In Marriage by Totiemide: 7:34pm On Jan 26, 2022

Well said

Romance › Re: Dear Nairalander, I Need Your Advice by Totiemide: 7:03pm On Jan 26, 2022

Jahbless03:
You sir are really one of the most impressive commenter I do ever meet here that give straight advice.
To say the fact what I really want from her is a [b][/b] SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP [i][/i] and is it okay starting with the way I think.

Regards,

I second this.... I like the fact that he gives it straight without mincing words.

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Romance › Re: Dear Nairalander, I Need Your Advice by Totiemide: 6:59pm On Jan 26, 2022

Jahbless03:
Yes bro I told her about taking the relationship to the next level but her response to me was that it is okay, it's not too late for that.

She said it's OK on the phone. Wait till you get to see her face to face, then ask the same question again. Yoruba adage says, Oju loro wa.

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Romance › Re: Dear Nairalander, I Need Your Advice by Totiemide: 6:43pm On Jan 26, 2022

Jahbless03:
Me and my girl has been friend for over 10 years but distance separate us apart and there is no any romantic relationship between us yet, she is still single and I'm still single, me and her are planning to meet soonest, should we take the relationship to the next level like I mean romantically that will lead to having s*x.

Please a friend of mine just ask me this and he need your advise.

Regards,

Are you meeting her after 10 years to talk about sex? Do you have developed feelings for her? Is your sentiment returned?
Is there a mutual agreement to taking the relationship to the next level? Do you just want to Bleep her and be done with it or you see yourself settling down with her? This are questions you should ask yourself before you open your mouth.

To avoid been embarrassed, don't assume you know what she wants oo.

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