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MrBrownJay1:
after 10yrs of friendship, the best answer you could come up with is "someone special"?! whats that?! a fukc buddy, your future wife, the mother of your future children?!

this is a faceless forum bro, enough with the BS and just answer the question honestly.... WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM THIS WOMAN ?!

Thanks man... Had the same question in mind for him.

Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder.


Me personally don't like been monitored with calls or monitor another with calls, I prefer it twice in a day unless say you travel abi you sick ehen I fit call you like every minute.

But in this case
Let your guy take a vacation on the calls.

If she feels your vibe and miss it she will definitely call, then beat around the bush before asking you why you didn't call her.

And if she doesn't, you have your answer niyen.

Yeah sure. I know that.

Tv122:
If you like be with one guy ,, who go leave you go still leave you �

Do you know what it feels like to be vulnerable? To trust someone and then they end up betraying your trust?
Cheating comes in various ways not in relationship or marriage alone. It can be with a trusted friend, siblings, parents to name a few.


Nowadays, cheating just revolves around marriage especially. It's now something we normalized instead of fighting it.
Some generalized men has cheat but it work both ways.

Just like men were murdered for cheating so is women to, you can't just face one person and leave the other neglected. Some take cheating serious like their life depends on it while others just see it as nothing. We aren't cut from the same material.



I am not of the opinion of going extra miles to prove a point when you're been cheated on.

Murder is so extreme in proving a point. I see cheating as a hard lesson learnt for you to know your worth or how the other person perceive your trust.

Epeegee:
If you a guy and posted this,you no go die better

Why the thing pain you like this

I understand why sha.. E pain me sef say I farabale read the thread

Sure na
As per say she get VG

shege45:
even blind go know

Xwizard:
Chai I’m in trouble, pls can I just dump her off and live on but honestly she doesn’t know she do all these acts, else she will have to sacrifice her cumin saga to safe this relationship.

One more thing, she confessed she has never felt that way, which means she has never cum through out her previous sex life. I’m her second man tho, I made her experience cumin and now is either I make her cum or no sex……


No I’m not the submissive type during sex, i bang her very hard but when it time for her to cum, she over powered me.

Don't make hasty decision now. You can just ask her when she's more relax how she feels whenever she's coming, then chip the question.
You: Babe do you know, you always choke me whenever you come, wait for her reaction. Her reaction will either tell you if she's doing it intentionally or not.

Then try other method.. Just like gadafii proposed. If that one no work, my guy japa japa. Your experience don do be that

Depends tho


Companionship
H**ny
Add yours

Do you know if she's into BDSM?
Maybe she's a dominant and you are the submissive partner. Maybe she's a sexual preference different from yours. You can't know unless you asked her.



Don't take time in asking her so that when she's coming with joy you won't be going to the otherside. E no good if you end up at the otherside with a blue balls or choked orgasm

I nor know when girls go start to manifest sense....

Women are always at the receiving end of everything...
Who lose now after countless abortion. Don't know why they can't stick with one person instead of whoring around, on top how many body.

If your conscience is disturbing you, just call her and make peace with her. I believe you know how to put igbo for her head.

Is she blind? She is deaf and dumb not blind

RedCentaur:
My problem is, how did the girl know what sex is all about? She's deaf and dumb right?

AC +AS=can't marry
AC +AC = can't marry
You might be wondering AC as genotype, yes it's a genotype equivalent to AS. I happen to be one.

Healthyway15:
Genotype and its appropriate suitor:
AA + AA = excellent
AA + AS = Good
AA + SS = Fair
AS + AS = BAD
AS + SS = Very bad
SS + SS = Extremely Bad.

There are 3 major types of genotypes: AA, AS, SS, & others – SC and CC
Compatibility:
AA+AA can get married
AA+AS can get married
AS+AS shouldn’t get married
SS+AA can get married
AS+SC shouldn’t get married
AS+CC shouldn’t get married
AA+SC can get married
AA+CC can get married

For both parents with traits, there is a 25 percent chance of having a child with sickle cell per pregnancy. That’s why some could have all kids as sickle cell while some none. The reason why certain genotypes like AS and AS, or AS and SS shouldn’t get married together is because of the risk of having a child with the SS (sickle cell) genotype.

COPIED

If love is blind not in this case.


Just break this relationship.
Cry
Cry
Move on


Don't continue with it ooo so you won't have to cry forever when you see the pain your kids go through.

A word is enough for the wise n I want to hope and believe that you are.

I had thought of not dropping a comment


On second thought I would...

Did you offend?
Lose her trust in you?

Some wives believe in equal rights in a marriage.. Some believe in the husband doing everything while they stay and lived as a prim and proper wife ie a trophy wife.

If you want equal rights with your husband, you should be able to come together talk things out. Make plans, share house chores, share bills and share your time with the kids together. You don't leave the job for one person alone.

Sorry to say, Op your marriage lack 3 Cs
I see no cooperation
No communication
No compromise

Your wife prefers doing her thing to get outside approval. She thinks she is making you suffer but she's actually losing the trust of her kids. When mummy is not always around how do you think the kids would grow up to see her.
For her prayers, if you can't bear it just go to the other room.

If hiring a nanny will make her see reasons with you pls do unless you agree before marriage to always do things for her be it little.

Like I always say marriage isn't a do or die affair.

Just rub am with anointing oil the shoe glory go come out

Please continue your novel

Just 5 years old.. Just 5


What was her offense? For her being your pupil? For her beautiful and calm face?
Why does things keep getting worse this days?
The perpetrators will never know peace. If the government refuse to get justice for this beautiful soul wasted, her spirit will haunt them.

I find fault in the way you both handled things.

I fault her for going on strike with sex for 2 months without communicating the reasons to you when you asked.
Is it that you both don't communicate at all? Do you tell each other things, relevant or not?
I fault you for handling the situation with violence, you shouldn't have slapped her not to talk of raping her.

Rape isn't just a walk in the park, it causes emotional anxiety, trauma. I believe never in a million years would your wife thought you would treat her that way.

Please just give her time and space because they say time heals pain.
As for your daughter, continue your responsibility don't stop no matter how your wife or family's reactions.



Lastly, never lose focus on your job, self worth... It wouldn't be nice if you're at the verge of losing your home plus job again.

I pray you will never know depression or sorrow. Your home is restored

Wow! Really appreciate your help, thanks. Guess my dad was right after all.

Rrchrd:
Run for your life , its neoliife people that impersonating that company so its fake except you want to waste ur tp & time

Oh! Was confused with the period of a thing. Thanks for clearing that up.

Kwinesther:
She's right! She thought it's her period but it is just spotting, other wise known as implantation bleeding which is caused when a fertilized egg attaches itself to the lining of the womb.

Good morning NL
Please I need your help with getting the location for Gill Tech Global Service.
My younger sister got an invitation for interview with them tomorrow by 8:30am tomorrow. All my effort to get their location and information about the company proves abortive. My dad said it's probably GNLD.


I don't want her to go alone, please help if you got any info about this company.
Thanks for your help

Really wish Nigeria has a delete and restart button... All this so called leaders for don dey formatted a swear.
To sign bill is now a cat and mouse game for them, it's well.

That's number one rule my mum gave me has a teenager, never go into covenant with anyone. Don't day because of love you have a covenant with someone, let your No be No and your Yes be Yes. Because for every covenant made, the devil is always at the side to alter it.
In your case, you are the one altering the covenant because you saw someone else.
Above comments from other NL members have been asking Why Now? Did he maltreat you? Abused you in any kind be it mentally or emotionally? Or is it because you saw someone else? You should know nothing last forever, love is a feeling that changes like a disorder cycle.

Informing the police won't change his mind. Were your family or police there when you both had the covenant? Put yourself in his shoe, how would you feel if reverse was the case.
I implore you to talk to him in a very humble manner, trash out the differences between you two that actually made you feel you love someone else then from there you might get a positive response.
My dear covenant isn't an easy thing to do or keep. It takes the grace of God to come our of it.

Thanks for bringing this write up here...
We live in a perverse world where we can't be ourselves afraid of the world turning and judging from left to right.

Your write up is an eye opener for everyone concerned irrespective of your belief or not.


God bless you

I don't support homosexuality but that guy is stupid and a born murderer. How did he abuse you? He said you should massage him and you end up killing him with cutlass and cart away all his belongings.

You kill am because na gay still carry gay properties again.
Smh
Cook up story for Nigerians to gather sympathy.

That one sef dey.... But still the guy F up big time... Truly story that touch the heart

ruggedboych:
He wants someone in his life, they can kiss and romance and do there stuffs in bed, I can't give you bed lecture here nah

Seems you be expert for bed lectures

Just passing




Buh before I go make I branch talk my own.
Firstly, apologize to the girl, e get why because you go need to break that promise. If na you person hide secret from you go gree? No be just secret oo but belle. But if you reason am the babe tell you because she want make you jabo for your friend and she won't stop chatting you until she get a positive answer that the guy will accept.

Secondly, I am confuse with her chat. She said something about having her period that day n her period stopping that day. Guy her story doesn't add up, your friend might actually not be the father. Because for her to keep such secret till 8 month before she tell you hmmm there's something missing.

Thirdly, that your friend need serious beating aswear, unprotected sex? For this Era I tire

Just be a good friend, show him the chat and look away.

Congrat bro

What is the world turning to... No small pikin again o. Parent should endeavor to train their children and always stay vigilant.

What are you saying? If na you wetin you go do... You dey talk about good woman. What if she told you she doesn't have a VG won't you cheat on her. For this one sex is not overrated at at

ruggedboych:
Marriage is for better or worse, sex no be food, if na good woman, she gonna stay and keep the secret and use IVF to have children, after all we have sisters and REV fathers in Catholics church who don't give a damn about six. Sex is overrated

Even if there won't be sex before marriage at least the guy should have told her instead of waiting till wedding night. But my question is... Shey the guy cannot do or father a child?

Wonders shall never end. Exotic cars say una graduate, what if na Pop? You go call convoy or aides.

Congrat to them anyway, your hustling await.