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NaijaCoverBlog:
What Is Really Happening Why SUICIDE Na?

If na you, would you be alive. To suffer is it not better death takes all the shame away. Instantly.

Ode, it's the universe serving you karma. It's just the beginning, so save this tears. Because the main chapter hasn't started, Ekiti will be taken over by the fulani's.

JayyXXX:
Not a fan of Nnamdi Kanu, but with news like this, you have to agree with him that this country is exactly the ZOO he described it to be.


Very Shameful.

Same here, i initially disliked that man, because his words were always said violently. But this last election opened my eyes.

He was actually right, about Inec declaring who ever they want as the president and no one can do anything about it.

Thank God for social media where evidence can be traced as far back. So our children could quote them.

It's a big shame, Nigeria would have been like mali so niger, the luck we have in Nigeria is that there areso many natural resources.

JayyXXX:
Not a fan of Nnamdi Kanu, but with news like this, you have to agree with him that this country is exactly the ZOO he described it to be.


Very Shameful.

Same here, i initially disliked that man, because his words were always said violently. But this last election opened my eyes.

He was actually right, about Inec declaring who ever they want as the president and no one can do anything about it.

Thank God for social media where evidence can be traced as far back. So our children could quote them.

It's a big shame, Nigeria would have been like mali so niger, the luck we have in Nigeria is that there areso many natural resources.

Anguldi:
Lolz

Meanwhile

A virtuous woman deserves all the love. Not these bitter hungry women looking for where to reap from pockets they sowed nothing in it.

The girl is you right?

Ashawooooooooo

money121:
Better

Alot are walking psycho's o!.

Like seriously .

And so? I see nothing wrong here. Cicioflagos. Can cook, she can knack.

So because you are her friend, she should loose her opportunity of getting married.

Madam Rest, go and look for your own man!

People must be allowed to take their time, to choose their partner. Even at 35?

Even Mrs mary njoku. Won't allow her daughter take so much time to choose a life partner.

Can her daughter be single 35, and she won't be worried?

This opinion of her's is to massage the ego's of single women at 35, deep down, Mrs mary won't allow her daughter to still be single at such age.

So automatically, marriage is an achievement for women.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Dude, the broke men are the real scum if we are to go by your logic. I would rather a man who is in wealth be scum than a broke one who has not yet realized himself and true depth choose me and swear with his might that he is not scum. I do not trust the logic of a man who is not there yet. Not to say that a lot of them are like this but a large number of them are. Talking like the broke ones will treat you any better. Sit this one out. Lol.

The same goes to women.

You see what am saying, about women always having an agenda. And always after benefits. Madam you are not an exception, it seem you are even the queen mother.

So you prefer a rich man who is a scum, than a broke scum. Kai. Men have suffered because of money. Am not surprised young boys now go into fraud just to make this money, so they can earn respect.

Any man who has money, would have women at their knees. This same like you initially said, never goes to women, it's always on men

UyaiIncomparabl:
There is nothing I will say to you to make you see things differently. You already have a preconceived mindset, so, have at it. Lol.

You know am saying the truth, women say men are scum, who are actually the men that are the scum. If not just 30% of the men, about 80% of women are struggling for. Obviously the rich men. Because relationship now is billing.

The day, i was shocked, was when my then ex, told me she would want us, to always connect emotionally to each other, and be vulnerable to ourselves.

I was even happy, thinking atleast, there would be more understanding, i don't understand why women demand for love they are not capable of giving.

So back to my shocking experience, she pleaded i give her money, to buy clothes, see me o! Thinking since we were vulnerable to each other, she would understand i just have little money to support her with, while she uses her money to complete it.

When i told her this was what i had to support her with, if you see the rage and insults i got that day, i was shocked.

For someone who suggested we become vulnerable to each other, and express ourselves more often. Is this inconsiderate, over money. I could give her someother time,in as much as i don't have now. Hmmm. May God help us.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I do not know if you are referring this to me or women in general. But, either ways, I would say you typed what you just did from the abundance of your experience or that of the people you know. You have not met selfless people (women) with zero motives and agenda and until you do, please, quit the generalization. Thanks.

I was referring to women generally, including you. There are no selfless women, it always ends up with a return on investment if a woman helps a man. And these women are like 3% . I don't even have an issue if a woman requests for, or expects a baby girl treatment, after she must have support her man financial, if there are more women like this, it's best. But a typical Nigerian woman would never bring out money from her purse to support a dash a man, without the man paying her back, even when it comes to the rent, they both live in. And women, about 80% would always be eager to settle down with men, financially above her. Because relationship to a Nigerian woman, is what can she benefit. Either the man, gets her a job, or he starts up a business for her. Very stingy and selfish gender. It's even better a man, helps his fellow man, he will forever be grateful, and call sometimes to say a hi, but women, once she meets another guy, that gives her more money, she forgets there was a time, you as a man gave her money. Her levelz has changed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Low quality indeed.

As soon as you have an expectation for an act of benevolence, it erodes the initial intent of being "humane". Why do people make "giving" news? Should women talk about the men they sponsor financially too? Or should I speak for myself and the things I have done? It is nothing really. Lol.

These dusty and emotional men will do anything on God's green earth to make other well meaning men look like bad people. If I had not met men who have been good to me in the course of my life and I came here on NL to read about these wicked agenda these "boymen" are striving hard to sell, I would have thought that men all over are despicable. It is well.

a woman sponsor a man? Stop playing. If a woman tries it's always for a selfish reason, with the expectation the man spoils her later, or probably the man marries her. And if it goes south, trust me, the man would vomit all what he got from her. Women are selfish being. A good man to you, is someone you can benefit from, someone who is successful, and had resources you can extract from. Because obviously you can't marry, with same financial capacity as yours.

I heard traders now change and extend expired dates of products in the market. . Why are people so wicked.

Reduce the purchasing power.

Negroid001:
That's what made me quit online dating. Met this babe on Facebook, chatted for a month and things got serious in the process. We were really into each other. Did video calls and all, [/b]was really happy i hit the jackpot[b].

She finally had the confidence to come around, went to pick her at the bus stop. Didnt see no one like her. Got angry and wanted to bail when my phone rang. Someone was waving at me. Got closer and couldn't believe my eyes. [/b]She was nothing like her pictures. Not saying she's ugly[b] Took her home, we watched couple of cartoons and conversed extensively. [/b]Couldn't bring myself to have sex with her[b] even as she was clingy, her hands were all over me, she's the touchy feelings type. Escorted her back to the bus stop. Promised to call her and all, kissed her goodbye.

On the way back the dots began to connect. Realized i got worked over her because she was so good at talking, her pictures were mostly misleading and heavily embedded with filters. Even the video calls, she always covered up with poorly lit environment complaining about power outage. I had been catfished.

After i confirmed she had gotten home. I deleted her number, deleted the Facebook app too, stopped picking her calls.

If our initial connection had been physically, tbh i would have no objection being serious with her. The fact i had high expectations only to be let down killed all feelings i had for her. Why should i date someone I'm more physically attractive than. Ever since i switched back to associating with real people, i have rest of mind somewhat.

This experience is from 2018.
My views have changed somewhat, i priotize women who have interest in me now. Never went back to online dating again. It's a scam, for me oo.

These are the points, just same experience. My moral dropped. Asap. So disappointing

Justkatty:
You people won't kill someone in this forum 😂
What you ordered was different from what you got Pele Sir

😭😭

NPFLADMIN:
Funny how some men thinks paying for a date makes you a simp and smashing on the first date is a must.

BTW OP, sorry. Next time perhaps start chatting with a lady and then ask 4 video call before going on first date.

Thanks Boss 👍.

Namaster:
Nothing is wrong with married women.

It's the men who marry them that are INSANE.

You are right, Some men are very foolish. And weak minded when it comes to romance.

You have seen signs, that this woman is for the streets, you still used money to get her to love you, and get married to her. How do you expect such marriage to last.

I believe you, Men are the problem, learn to value genuine women, stop marrying women who sexualize themselves online. I see alot of these young girls sexualizing themselves on twitter with revealing clothes.

Havesomesense:
Men should start emulating women, women don’t help men at all if it is not beneficial to them,
So this year I’m not going to help any girl if it’s not beneficial to me.
[/b]I’m not counting sex as benefit, men be wise in 2024[b].

Thank you for this, Most men see sex as a reward. Very low quality men.

DaddyRochie1642:
- So you admit to us that your intentions for taking her out was not genuine... You wanted to fatten the cow first before slaughter

If i wanted to slaughter, i would have paid for the take out, so we could end up at my place.

But i have outgrown, that level of taking a lady out, for a smash. Character matters.

DaddyRochie1642:
She did not force you, you chose to spend your money even after seeing the deception, a man that truly knows his worth will leave that environment fast because of the deceit,

You behaved like a very thirsty bloody simp.

See the way the bloody simp is lamenting,

You can continue weeping and gnashing your teeth

the issue isn't about, the spending. But the personality of the person i spent it on.

Common take out, you can't even pay for yourself. Haba!

If i had walked out, don't you think that's mean?

For a lady, who took her time to dress up for a date.

If i was thirsty, we would have still ended up in my apartment, regardless i wasn't impressed about what i saw.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the real truth,

You were disappointed because of the styles you had already planned in that your coconut head to give her when you guys finally meet but you were disappointed she looked masculine

the so called styles, it's funny how you feel, it's a reward for taking her out. Styles she wants too, as well. If she doesn't want it. Obviously i can't persuade her, and it won't happen. Even the styles is not worth what i spent. Don't feel she will be doing me a favour, agreeing to the styles, because she wants it too.

Seun:
She looked different how? Not wearing makeup? Posting an old picture online?

She wore make up, but wasn't still looking as attractive as i admired her online. She looked different.

She is not that fine 😭, i have wasted my money 🙆🏾‍♂️

I had a very disappointing experience yesterday, i should have walked out on her, after expressing how she doesn't look even close to the pictures she posts, than wasting my time and money on someone deceptive.

But i kept my cool, and behaved like a gentle man

What even got me offended, was her greed, to have a taste of every meal on the menu.

I had to tell her, to pay for her take away, which she took alone, can you imagine she started giving me an attitude.

I don't understand, should i also pay for your own take out as well

Preach from today till thy kingdom come. Women would prefer to open their thigh, to get bleeped, for a baby girl treatment from men. Than go through that hustle which she isn't even sure if she would make it.

You are just one frustrated old woman, whose her time has passed, you are broke, bitter and still single. It's so unfortunate

You said 2% of men only can help for free, so you expect a man after, going through sh*t in life to make it, to help a lady for free just like that, when she is not his family member, it's a wasted effort for a man to help a woman for free, i will rather advise the man to help his fellow man, because men appreciate helpers, men value help, unlike a woman, it's just an avenue for that woman to disrespect another man.

You talk about hustle, like it's a guarantee if someone hustle he or she must make it, take for instance your life, all the hustle you did, what did you achieve. Are you proud of what your finances so far.

It's not a guarantee you will make it while hustling, alot of men loose their lives in the process, and you expect those who made it to help a woman for free, you must be mad.

You talked about men that lure women and kill them, are you telling me there are no responsible men, there are over 55% responsible men, but most of you women are greedy and selfish. Always pushing yourselves to stay where you don't belong, because of money and influence. And you think these men can respect and value the broke and poor lady. They will knack the lady tyre.

Women who fall victims to all these ritualists, was as a consequence of their actions, stop all these victim card. Like she never knew what the guy was doing. But threw a blind eye at it. You want to use an iphone 15 pro, an apartment at lekki, a spa treatments, uber rides always, beach outing. Ontop your empty pocket.

Those who work, to earn are being stupid abi. Preach from now till forever, there are a lot of girls who don't want to work, but want baby girl treatment, if you were the guy dating this type of girl. You think you won't be knacking this girls however you like. Knowing fully well, it's your money talking and not genuine love.

The girls into hook up alone, is so many, it's now girls dating one guy, for his money you are complaining about.

It's silly, about how, most women are, after the rich. After the rich boys must have done her dirty, she will then meet a responsible guy and pour out her frustrated broken heart on. And the cycle keeps going till she turns, 35, and then start crying about how men are so irresponsible.

The victim card as usual. Even girls in their 23 now do abortions, at 32, you will begin to see them in churches, and an innocent guy would think she is the right one, unknown to him, her past had too many scars all over her body and embittered her heart and mind.

Men are endangered species. Men should be protected against jezebels.

You wrote about, men being demons, are women not demons too. Women date men based on what they can benefit, based on what he has. What do men date women for, if not, with a plan of starting a family, with the right woman. What is more demonic than this.

Mtcheew.

illicit:
Oh sorry

I don't do home lessons


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I see why your hungry mouth runs like tap water. You should have been beaten to pulp. So common sense can locate you. It's even locals that would patronize your business.

So enjoy your quarter tuber of yam with sugar. slowpoke.