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Wbb with more pictures.

hope bad belle people will learn to ignore the thread if they have a problem with it.

if its photos of butts you dont hear any bad belle from them, and neither do they tolerate any dissenting opinion.

Are you a pastor?

You both need Jesus.

Babyosisi is really keeping tabs on this family.

does that mean you are a regular brothel customer who also jumps on the bandwagon when your ilk open thread to denounce the sin of the day?

^ why did you type this in sexuality section:

Bosch10:
I went to a brothel today bt the ashewo dey complain say i dont know how to bleep.She complimented my dick as huge,bt she says that i dont know how to use it.It has become 2 to 3 ashewos who have been saying that.moreso i found out that having sex is not as easy as people think.i feel pains all over my body and i feel so tired and sex becomes boring to me.if i dont do anything to it,i know that my future wife will have cause to complain.pls how do they bleep,help a brother

and then deleted it after i called you out on it?

as we count down to feb 14 or the nigerian elections . . . . . . . . . . .

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LostMermaid:
You're really right....

I just can't help but feel (SOMETIMES) that if that woman hadn't lied about being on birth control pill when she actually wasn't, and then not understanding pregnancy until 4th month, and all; I would have had the chance of forming a more problem-less life with the man who I believe is the one for me. When I think about it, it makes me angry.... It's like that ex stole that show from me. I dont know how to express in the right way but like... stole my chance of being a family with him and experiencing having a child the feelings of becoming parents together, for the first time.. Do you understand me? Tell me, how would you feel? And how can I stop this from annoying me sometimes?

But it's not like when I see the child these are on my head. When I see the child, I view the child as something lovely, innocent and fun, I don't base my behavior on what I think about the past relationship or his ex or whatsoever. People adopt kids; they don't know who their moms are; maybe the worst person maybe a prostitute, a sinner, anything. A child is not the same thing as a mother. I'm not the same person as my mom. I know that.

aunty, have you ever thought to ask your boyfriend why he did not use a condom.

as per the rest of your rant, I just have to believe it is evidence of an unsaved mind. You really should accept Jesus Christ into your life so you can be delivered from these demons that haunt you.

i would also like to ask- where are you from? You are not Nigerian, right? I'm suspecting perhaps in your culture your behavior might not be considered strange.

Is your boyfriend aware you are not happy he has a daughter?

LostMermaid:
Do you have anything to tell, on how not to feel a little bit sad that he experienced that with someone else?

must you date/marry a baby daddy?

Is the man rich?

Its not clear why you refuse to date elsewhere.

LostMermaid:
If the man is spoiling the child from his past relationship

seems you have it in for this girl.

zaragal:
I try to remember wen my dating all the Nigeria men part of ur fricking business....i cn choose to date the whole world, it's my life not urs my sexual purity of promiscuity is my fucking business and I cn assure u re not better dan I am, so u hav no right to judge me stay out of my business!!!

i am not saying anything is wrong with your dating as many men as you feel like dating.

all I'm saying is since you identify your dates by tribes and states (instead of as individuals), then just list them all in one place instead of dropping the hot juicy gossip here and there.

That will make it easier to follow your paramour adventures.

this op again?

tonychristopher:
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did you read my post to you on the other thread?

Will you accept Jesus into your life?

Mbilla:
Don't mind that cheap hopeless slut. My concern is that she is claiming that she is from my state Akwaibom but I knw that she is frm South West where a woman will proudly give birth to many children frm different men. We Akwaibomite and Igbos inter marry and our culture forbid woman giving birth to many children frm different men like those lousy bleaching Yoruba women I knw in Portharcourt.

she said she's from akwa ibom though.

and nowhere did she mention yoruba women in her write ups, she said she dated yoruba men, so how are yoruba women involved in this matter.

am I missing something?

this one wey una dey show each other una pictures while raining insults on yourselves, se na like that una dey toast for akwa ibom or what?

if you want to abuse, abuse, which one is adding picture of yourselves again?

make ona no scam us for here o!

zaragal:
Jesus!!! hw did u knw dis....my dear dis happened to my jst ended relationship, d guy isn't exactly igbo he is warri but d mom is igbo mehn...... once d woman heard am akwaibom l, she freaked out and started seeing tinz...since den I swore not cross an igbo man's part or a guy who has any parent as igbo, dat tribe cn frustrate love....dey decide for their 50year old so absurd...

yet another boyfriend?


why not just post the full list of your boyfriends ma, instead of dropping tidbits here and there and making us wait for the information?

the other day didnt you say you dated all over the southwest? If you have sampled different parts of nigeria then share all this nah, so we can know.

thread title says misconceptions, not facts.

is the op still here hating on the 4 year old?

better make sure your boyfriend is not making another baby with that or another baby mama while you are busy raining vituperations on his little daughter.

a man spends 90% of his time with you, badmouthing his ex, and you are happy, not knowing what that means is his mind remains on the ex while he is with you.

^ almost all your posts, comments, views and opinions, eventually end up reverberating around one single theme, which is working or non working women.

Is there a reason why the matter pains you so much, or that's just your handle same way virgin is onila's own.

even if you comment on sports, sooner or later you must bring the issue around to housewives or stay at home mums.

AreaFada2:
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The problem is we look down on our tradition. Luckily enough it's all there for anyone curious enough to know.

It doesn't make him feel dead, it KILLS him. There is a case going on right now. A young man suddenly got seriously ill on returning from visiting his wife in 9ja.

Even the best medical docs in Europe can find no reason for his illness. Meanwhile he's in hospital for months now. I have gone to see him and examined him too. All parameters seem ok. But he can't eat or get up from bed.

The wife, a Christian never believed when her in-laws warned her about her suspicious ways.
She thought she could mess around anyhow, under guise of born again.

Let me tell you how they say it works. It's not magun style.

A woman commits adultery. The man is safe if she doesn't cook for the man or sleep with him. That is, no wifely role towards him. If she does, problem.

Look, I spent over a decade having clinical evidence & empiricism drilled into my head. But there are things we see that confound science. One can believe it or leave it.

as usual, its only the black man who juju dey kill pass, when oyinbo came all those centuries ago, juju nor fit reach them because they have no black skin.

so, in all those years when things were being taught you, you did not include the possibility of the man's ancestral or current enemies intentionally seducing his wife or girlfriend as part of their overall plan to attack him?

and even assuming they used other means besides the wife or girlfriend, how hard is it to stalk people these days? Witches and wizards no dey fly overseas?


Do you have evidence the people wey dey do the man, are not those closest to him?

una just no wan gree for Jesus sha.

and you feel even if he were single, his enemies cant reach him abi?

the point here is if you know the culture where you come from, then you can never be too careful because sometimes all you have is the one chance.

Even the bible says the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom to devour.

I am not exonerating the wife if indeed she was a fake christian messing around, but sometimes you know these things are not exactly how they look on the surface.

did you type that in sexuality section today?

Bosch10:
well,u might not see trousers in the bible,but simple xtian instincts wil make u to understand that it is nt proper.I am yet to see any true prophetess or born again sista in trousers.its also a no go area for me.the spirit of God in me hates it

spirit of God in you?

Bosch10:
I went to a brothel today bt the ashewo dey complain say i dont know how to bleep.She complimented my dick as huge,bt she says that i dont know how to use it.It has become 2 to 3 ashewos who have been saying that.moreso i found out that having sex is not as easy as people think.i feel pains all over my body and i feel so tired and sex becomes boring to me.if i dont do anything to it,i know that my future wife will have cause to complain.pls how do they bleep,help a brother

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aunty op

go through your write up again and read what you wrote.

few examples [in case you don't get it] :

I find myself resentful that he loves the child of such a slut so much

I think she will be an outsider, kind of like a secret agent; not exactly from the family; representing a slutty mother, and maybe sometimes reminding her, or defending her. Kind of like a dark cloud above the happiness of the family. Keeping us from behaving comfortably, or keeping us from just being the family

for example preventing me from telling my children how I met the love of my life, their father, my future husband, because she might get jealous or something

I'm the woman he's in love with; then if he makes a child with me, he should love that child more

has it occurred to you love utterances might have also passed between him and his baby mama same way it's passing between him and you?

I guess until you see what the baby mama saw, you'll still continue to rain fire and brimstone for that little 4 year old baby who did not send any of you message.

lastly, why exactly are you with someone with kids, since you don't like the idea of baby daddies? Is he rich or something.

and have you checked to see if there are other kids from this "soul mate" of yours besides the one you know and are abusing here. maybe other women tricked him also.

as per slutty, read your write up once again, its all over it, no offence. But if the man likes that type, why are you sensitive about it?

Moana:
Instead of spending half the courtship period figuring out how you will dance shoki on top of him

make dem dance nah, I think most of the males here insist that's all there is to a woman or marriage.

There was a thread where a guy was criticizing females who to him, are not serious if they do not make boob job and butt augmentation a priority.

when he marries, he'll later come back to whine about this and that.

Be attentive and discover more about the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with.

should have thought that would go without saying.

coogar:
you mean a woman that accepted the proposal of a 49-year-old american citizen should be applauded?

she musta been blind not to know what she's getting into? maybe we should just agree women cannot handle responsibility. every time they err, the man gets blamed for it.

more like the other way round.


seems most of you like living in a fairytale where you refuse to face reality but instead do ostrich style and blame everyone but yourselves for your problems.