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StilmaVsBorn2w:
Update:

Sorry my people I asked for financial assistance.
am at her fathers compound presently,. I know everything will fall in place.
God works in mysterious ways, thank you all for your comments.
once again thank you

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7102223/want-me-marry-corpse-refused

Edipet:
'Might' be murder case

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened

She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.

I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony

I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.

Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.

I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody.

habsydiamond:
Another lockdown loading......

ntipro:
Nollywood star actor Yul Edochie has made a shocking revelation of his new wife and son on Instagram

Let's see how this will go down with his fans.

Ishilove:
Very confusing gender They are quick to scream that women let themselves go in marriage and use it to justify their adultery. Now this one was keeping fit, but it did not stop her horseband from cheating and marrying another woman. Shior.

Ishilove:
Very deep.

dre11:
Man films girlfriend being raped by one of his friends in Ekiti after spiking her drink, posts video of act online



SOURCE


Man Colludes With Four Friends To Rape 28-year-old Girlfriend In Ekiti, Posts Video Of Sexual Act Online



http://saharareporters.com/2022/04/27/man-colludes-four-friends-rape-28-year-old-girlfriend-ekiti-posts-video-sexual-act-online

Ishilove:
You never know with men.

'Chop and clean mouth' gone wrong. Yul's wandering glorious gbola got hooked the way two mating dogs sometimes get hooked and can't disengage afterwards, no matter how loudly the male screams in pain and terror.

The brideprice was paid on Sunday, and his wife May found out on Monday. We live in interesting times

Like a social media commentator remarked, some men deserve to be dragged 'wotowotoly."

https://www..com/2022/04/everything-to-know-about-yul-edochie.html?m=1

https://twitter.com/Gistloversblog1/status/1519437065330569223?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet[/quote]Humans ought to have more sense and stop forcibly trying to disengage two dogs. It should hurt.
GOD made it that way, when they are done, they will disengage by themselves!


Yul Edochie and his first wife had grown to look so much alike like twins. They had become truly one, a feat that the media make seem a little herculean these days, and he ruined it. Now he will start afresh.

1Sharon:
Oh really?

Aren't you the same Nigerian that would run and grab petrol for a man caught stealing a necklace?

theamazonguru:
This was how we lost my sister to the hand of something similar.
Not exactly the same situation but here she was sick. Her husband was jobless, she was the one working and doing everything. Paying the rent, feeding and all. Yet she was dieing of cancer. She was undergoing chemotherapy, she was loosing her body immunity and strength everyday. Yet the husband was not supportive, this sick woman would go to work, from their go for her chemo appointment, return home only to meet the house dirty. She would do all house chores and still cook.
Yet the husband was there. Never offered a helping hand, never assisted, chaiiiiiiii.
This lady died eventually.
So so so painful.

Well God sees and knows all.
But we self, make we dey take action when we are supposed to.
It is well for married couples with similar cases.

Bobbyjay001:
Thanks. Family first.

theamazonguru:
God bless you.
And you will see from his story that some of mama's other children are just plain selfish.

Bobbyjay001:
This is another suggestion I need to look into. Thanks for this.
The last child who happens to live in a one bedroom self contained apartment is the only make among them. He comes around at least twice a week and he's the one in charge of their mother's account and spendings.

He gives my wife money for upkeeps and buys necessary things mama needs.

His only complain is that his apartment is too small to accommodate mama and his family of three. He got married last year.

Bobbyjay001:
I am also in this dilemma. Wifey has been very sick and managing so CE over six years now. Though she goes to work (health officer).

Her mother who was very caring and understanding fell ill last year and has been with us since last April.

Though, we have someone who comes around to clean and take care of the house and they pay is on MIL. (She's a retired civil servant)

Mama has four children. My wifey is third and has a younger brother who for married last year.

MIL's first born is divrcee with three children in their hometown.

He second born lives on the same city with us lives in a rented 2 bedroom apartment with her husband and four children. MIL stayed in her place for two months before she's dumped with us. ( Heard she's been maltreated by her daughter and SIL)

My wifey the third born has been battling with ulcer since over six years and has grown lean. We are family of five living in two bedroom rented apartment. Gave one to mama.
Despite the fact that someone comes around to clean and help and goes back when done, wifey still does a lot of work taking care of her. At times I feel pity for her, with her health condition.

Last born who's ismale also lives in the same with us but claims he can't accommodate mama cos he lives in a room and parlor self contained apartment. He's been so supportive ensuring we lack nothing. He's in charge of Mama's account and drops money regularly for upkeeps. He also comes around at least thrice a week to check mama.

My problem is my wifey's health. She isn't fine and still takes care of her ailing mother.


I don't want to sound like I don't want my MIL around. My children are still young (first being 7yo and last 4yo). The small wahala is taking toll on my wifey.

Don't know how to say it even to my wifey that mama should leave so as to take care of herself.
I don't want to sound ingrate or so.

1Sharon:
It isn't. It's logic.

abeniagbon:
How will a sane person allow his wife's junior brother to come for holiday only to turn one of the guess room to his permanent room...

I have asked my wife many times when is your brother going , she will tell me not to put mouth in her family matters..

It getting annoying. Okay I got him a job at a filing station only for him to turn it down, said that work is not good enough for him ..each time I got back from work is either I see him hangin pillow in between his legs sleeping or chatting on facebook with white women.

I don't know who to report him. I don't know how to deal with this kind of issues... My kitchen had no peace ever since when he is around, even my bathroom cos he bath all most 4 times a day.... He gives excuses both here and there and this is making me to hate him the more...

Please I don't know if anyone had been in my shoe before, how do you handle it... ??

akpunda86:
Guy I was in your shoes,
u never gave a timeline,
my wife kid sis stayed with me then,
wify said is a month,
from a month was 3 months,
from 3 to 6,
I woke up one day made up my mind and told her mrw you going
wife said if going going with her,
I laff,
nxt day took her to GUO bought ticket,
came back no see wife ,
I sleep
Nite come reach madam come bk .
case closed

toujurs:
All these big men, they sure do know how to discipline other people child, while theirs behaves anyhow . That was how one was complaining about my hair cut, when i visited him at parkview estate while his son has a tatoo on his body

Georgejeez:
Hopefully she said
Better pray say you no marry good man like me with Marlian vibes .
Cos my squad be like PDP , dem de give God him share ,de cut Caesar own give am accordingly

MeghaneMorgane:
. I no get those kind of guests. Except they come from my husband side. But hopefully, he shares the same principles like myself

duality:
How will a D J with mop on his head take instructions on the kind of music to play.

ebakhaiyhe:
If you are not principled in life, then you can take anything.

What I don’t like may be good for you; why want me to like what you like

I once witnessed a wedding were the DJ was strictly warned on what to play but because he wanted to show skill, he disregarded the instructions he was given