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reddingtonblack:
whats wrong with being a child ? you must have fallen from the sky as an adult

If you have nothing reasonable to say, kindly visit mushin market into trade insults with pepper sellers

Ok. Please go and buy a book called Brighter Grammar and thank me later…

reddingtonblack:
Ohh now you can suddenly dig out google search But when i ask you to mention one famous person that got poor before he/she did give away you were shifting goal post.

Sometimes people refraining from spending there networth on sickness becos under such circumstance getting help is more feasible, if Mr ibu spends all he has on sickness after recovery what will he fall back to,
Even at some point 50cent declared bankruptcy to escape some billing so be mindful what you fall for,

The bob risky you posted was it not from net you picked it, Oga you are ignorant about so many things

You are either a child or a very dull adult. WTF!!!

Dream25:
Chiefs...

What's the best thing to get for a girl on her birthday

A car!

emmanuelewumi:
Indians Japa to do business in foreign countries with less than $20,000, an average Nigerian will Japa with about the same amount of fund and start looking for minimum wage jobs

Please stop capping abeg. Enough Indians dey japa to go do minimum wage just like Nigerians. Infact na them be Naija people biggest competitor for odd jobs abroad. Stop misyearning with confidence.

Na their large population dey make am look like say all Indians are entrepreneurs but it’s not the reality. Na only minority of Indians dey japa to start business after dem no find job. The others are hustlers. Same for Nigerians. You will find a few Nigerian entrepreneurs abroad.

ahiboilandgas:
am not !it shows the resilience ,sustainability and usd earning capabilities of NNPCL . For Any firm to access 3 bn USD loan tell a good story ( 41bn barrels of sweet crude plus 260 trillion cubic feets of Gas reserve. NNPC is no more but our state own Limited liability firm NNPCL . Saudi aramco supports the saudi Arabia it valued at a trillion dollars and remit 25 b USD to the saudi state to stabilized the riyal .

Ahib, wetin be this jargon wey you write so

Smartb0y:
Normalize saying things to women just to lead them on and in turn making them feel like they're leading you on, just to turn the tables on them later on.

A woman finds it difficult to pull away once she's invested in you. Use it to your advantage.

Truth is,most modern women hardly make any effort investing in a man cuz these guys make it all too easy.
They've bastardized the system.

Just sort through the trash and focus on the ones willing to invest in you.

As a short ugly man wey no get money, you are better off focusing on your education. Mugu

Miracood2:
All the pros in the bed game.

Drop some tips for boys.

Your mates dey school dey try get good grades and good jobs for a bright future, you dey hear dey find tips for bed game. After when God nack poverty on top that your bald head, you go dey blame village people. I feel like giving you life resetting konk for that rough bald head I swear

Pukkalolo:
You are asking the wrong question. The idea isn't to just confirm a girl sexual attraction.

Before I tell you why you are asking the wrong question, let me first answer the question regardless.

There are different ways to find out if she's attracted to you.

But one way to find out is by simply asking for compliance. I mean, asking her to do something. For example, like--> asking her to come hangout with you, or ask her to accompany somewhere, or asking her buy something for you, or asking her to follow you on Instagram or whatever.

Just make a demand, if she comply, then just take it as a sign she might be attracted to you. It's no big deal.

Like I said, attraction is very primal. There's nothing special about it.


In fact, if she's still interacting with you after you've indicated interest in her, then you can just take it as a sign that she's attracted or at least somewhat interested.

Here's why you are asking the wrong question.

Like I've said on this thread several times, attraction is not a big deal . A girl can be attracted to 10 guys but will do nothing sexual with any them because she's not sexually comfortable with them.

In fant right now, there are girls around you that already like you. It's no big deal. The reason you're not smashing any of these girls is because they are not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

I stopped worrying about creating attraction in a woman when I realized that attraction is different for all women.

A female is already attracted to certain trait and qualities in a man, and this attraction is highly dependent on her current circumstance.

When she's in high school, she might be attracted to the pretty boy types. But when she's mature and educated, her taste changes...she might now be more attracted to the busy 'coperate' man on suit; the man doesn't even have to be handsome.

You see, change in circumstances leads to change in taste.

The game that will work on the 18 years old 100 level student, might not work on the 25 years working class lady who's an accountant in a bank because this woman have different priorities, life experience and personality. Basically, she has a different circumstance.

That's why Stella might enjoy naughty chat, while Cynthia will despite it. It's her circumstance that made her despite it.

Circumstances are huge. The alpha game that worked on a girl that didn't grow up with a father figure might never work on girl that grew up with a masculine dominant father.

This is why you can use the same game strategy on two different ladies but it will produce different result depending on their circumstances. If a game strategy works on one girl but doesn't work on the other girl, it's not because the strategy is faulty... it's because her circumstance doesn't tolerate the strategy.

Attraction will always be affected by the woman's circumstances. Circumstances like her age, education, values, self-esteem, experience, physical appearance appearance and so on. This is why, despite all the apha moves and game you are spitting, she's still refusing to drop her panties. She's not the one refusing you;. It her circumstance that is refusing you.

This is why when meeting a woman, I'm not concerned about creating attraction or making alpha moves or spitting games. I'm more focused on building sexual comfortableness.

Why?

Because I discovered that her sexual comfortableness isn't affected by her circumstance.... This allows me get ladies with different ranges of circumstances: I'm not a Muslim but have dated couple of beautiful Muslim ladies; I have dated a woman who was my total superior in an office environment; I have dated women who are quite older than me and younger than me;
I've even got "invited" by a celebrity, duh...
I think I talked about how I first met her on this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/7453206/experience-celebrity-yesterday-big-shame

The reason I was able to get these women wasn't because I was busy spitting games... It because I was simply building sexual comfortableness with them.

Attraction is important, but Attraction is limited by circumstance..and circumstance can prevents attraction from turning into sex and intimacy...

But If you can build sexual comfortableness with a woman, you become unlimited.

Lack of game or not being alpha enough isn't why she's losing interest in you. Most problems men message me with about their issue with women somehow involve their inability to build sexual comfortableness.

I hear complain like:
"She was giving me greenlight before, but now she's suddenly losing in me and she's now giving me attitude."

Wait, let me ask you... Let's assume you like fried rice.
One day, you walk past a restaurant, then you start perceiving the smell of fried rice. You decide to enter the restaurant to buy the fried rice.

In the restaurant, instead of serving you on the plate, they put the fried rice on the floor and ask you to eat it from the floor.

Urg!!

Won't that make you lose interest in the fried rice?

Of course.

It's for the same reason that girl lost interest in you.

Yes, you are attracted to fried rice, but it doesn't make sense for you to eat the fried rice from the floor. If they want you to eat it, they need to put the food on the plate. But since they didn't do that, you lost interest in the food and move on with your life.

Yes, she likes you and will like 'eat' you, but it doesn't feel right for her to eat you simply because she likes you... Giving you the pussy just because she likes you is like eating fried rice on the floor. She would never want to do that.

If you want her to 'eat' you, then you have to put yourself on a plate.

That plate is called "sexual comfortableness."

If you want to learn how to create sexual comfortableness with women, then click the link in my signature or profile to learn more.

Stay blessed.

This hungry Mugu dey find as he go scam gullible small boys wey dey find toto instead of focusing on chasing their dreams for a better future. I really pity any lazy youth that gives him money. Idiots

Philosopher1979:
I have read some of your posts in your profile and your ideas are actually TOTALLY TRUE

1. Getting a girls number has allways been easy for me simply because i am confident. Thats all.
There was a space of 8 months in which i collected 100 phone numbers and i became scared of myself.
But a lot of guys have confidence issues and are scared to even approach. Like you said, it shows in their
body language and the universe responds to them like that.
2. You are right in your write ups. A lot of men beleive women dont enjoy sex and they need to spend a lot
of money and be supper impresive like discover the cure for cancer or be a milloniare before a girl can sleep with them.
Simps have this ideology that is basically false. For God's sake nature and God himself wired humans to be
basically sexual (and that includes women).
3. If sex was so hard to get and women hated sex how come the population of the world is 7 billion?
Simps have a foolish ideology.
4. Its even against God and nature to think women dont enjoy sex. God told eve to multiply and bring forth.
So God put sexual desires inside both men and women.
5. The sexual desire in humans is instinctive and not logical and so if you can trigger it under the right circumstances, a man can easily get
sex and even get paid for it.
6. Well, this is Africa and we lack a basic understanding of human nature.
7. This is because we only read to pass exams. Courses like psychology, sociology, philosophy etc explain human nature, politics etc
to us but we study them in school and foolishly beleive they are useless
8. To beleive women don't enjoy sex is to say they are Lesbians
9. The problem with we Africans is that we dont apply knowledge. We only use it to pass exams

Once I read your number 3, I realize say you are just an inexperienced Mugu writing trash to try to look wise. And you are over 40. No wonder the oyibo man say a fool at 40 is a fool for life.

Instead of fooling your old age with all these small children wey lack of toto dey vex them, Better go and hustle if you don’t want God to hammer that your coconut head with poverty in your retirement years. Nonsense

armyofone:
If the combinations in the picture was your lunch or dinner, then you didn't learn anything during your schooling in obodo. Beer/egusi/poundo/semovita

I’m much fitter than anyone in your entire family even with the so called ‘combination’….

For your info, I played football in college. Running Back

Simplecity:
low self esteem dan finish this useless fellow....how many fake picture you wan post dey repost...continue your madness🤣🤣🤣

Show me where the ‘fake pictures’ were stolen from and I will send you and your broke family 10k USD to change una life. This is a promise…

BlueRayDick:
Please stop enabling that boy to derail this thread.

Who this one dey call boy? Anyway, can you blame the guy wey dey try do CID hustle in order to win 1 million to comot him miserable family from harsh poverty? I no go surprise say you dey try comot the guy from setting in order to win the money. Olofo

Ajay7411:
My man quietly removed the stolen photos after getting caught 😂😂🤣🤣

Instead of trying to live fake life on social media, email me & I'll help your life because you're still a small boy.

If you were wise you would know that the pictures were not stolen. And that na me get the pictures. But you are not wise and broke and jobless at the same time so I leave it like that.

My offer still remains sha. I’d like to change your miserable family’s life with a token of a million or 1k usd. All you need to do is to prove that any picture I have posted here is not mine. Very simple…

Ajay7411:
You have changed story already?😳🤣🤣

Link to the original owner of the stolen photos https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1752#118069191

I repeat. Prove that those are not my pictures and I promise to change your miserable family’s life with a million naira or 1k dollars. Anyone wey una prefer. That’s a promise…

Ajay7411:
These photos are from November last year.

Keep lying & deceiving yourself!🤣

Oga Jobless CID, whose pictures are they? You must be a slow poke wey no get job. Send me your cv make I find you job. While you are at it, also do detective for the other pictures o. Walahi, if you can prove that any of the pictures I post are not mine, I promise to change your life with 1 million naira….Mugu

Make I chop jollof rice jare. Life is really good

richforever123:
I don't know why everything about Nairaland is fight, once someone disagrees with your opinion it is war with very irrelevant statements, I mentioned in my statement that a digital bank was suddenly closed down by CBN and people where not able to withdraw funds, I also mentioned that the owners of Piggyest are first class graduate, these are simply un-biased facts and does not mean I want to put my life savings with them, people can use this facts to make the decisions they want

And I’m also trying to let you know that only an idiot will decide to keep his money with some kids that say they are first class graduates of covenant university. That’s a very stupid thing to be looking at when investing….

Simplecity:
check yourself...the fact a total strangers activities not directed towards you dey make you act like this show say omo things no dey sup for you mentally and even "financially" 😂😂 ...na phucking ceramic plate and picture dey make you catch feelz....tueh...failure

Having an amazing night

GboyegaD:
I will keep encouraging your dream as I know all things are possible to them who believe. The fact that you think one person's lifestyle is better than another shows that you are yet to make it because for those who have a life they appreciate, they don't go about trying to look for who they are better than as they are enjoying their lives. If truly you live a great life like you claim, you wouldn't be running around attacking people. This is the first sign of how miserable your life is at the moment, and I pray once again that God gives you peace. Please if you can, sign into a neuropsychiatric facility so that you can be checked because it is very obvious you are losing it faster than you can imagine. You know what Yoruba's call your type, 'a je gbo do'.

It will be good you stop disgracing yourself forming what you are not. For the records, I do not think it is a crime if people marry here provided, they are/were genuine and there is no need shaming them because this is where they found love. They are living their lives while you are here crying like a bush baby whose mat is taken from him.

Does this look like food that someone forming what he’s not will eat?

Guyman, deep down you know you are talking to a legit guy wey better pass you 100 times…

I know say na depression dey cause you to dey post picture of every basic meal including beans at your advanced age

Better go and make friends and find a hobby. That’s if you even get time. You wey dey work two shifts per day to make overtime. Nonsense

leisuretym:
Room service ! Stop deceiving yourself, send me another picture of that suite from the bed angle , let see if then born you to sleep on that bed, or you get fired from that hotel.

How can you claim to be relaxing on a bed you couldn’t sleep on, how can you claim you are already living the life he wishing for?

With that bed still that way untouched, I can boldly tell you my d!ck is already living the life your d!ck ever dreams , how can you go out there alone just to go and self-service? Guy! You are a room service maid.

Room service maid with iPhone 14 pro max?

GboyegaD:
Since this is the life you hope for, I pray God favors you and you don't miss out of the opportunity to enjoy such a life. This you enjoy on a public holiday is what some people enjoy bi monthly and even in some cases, weekly, so no big deal. There's none God has not been graceful too however, some are not appreciative enough.

Lastly, if truly you schooled in the US as you claimed, you will know that many Nigerians don't work as CNA. Many who are into nursing do accelerated BSN and work as RN. Besides, many who even came in through 'japa' as you term it live the life they hoped for once they settle in which attest to the fact that in your case, you only speak based on what you have read about those that travel abroad. Be humble, and say amen to the prayers and I wish you the best in life.

Guyman I am already living the life you can only dream of. Better pray for yourself to leave that yankee rat race wey dey cause you depression sotey at your advanced age, you dey snap every picture of something as basic as food to post on Nairaland just to feel good about yourself. Even beans sef oga dey post

Read wetin? I dey enter yankee steady for holiday after i japa from there after school and I dey see your type all the time. I repeat. And this no be bobo. My lifestyle in naija is much better than yours in yankee. Fact! You wey pay fat woman to collect iwe. You think say I don’t know your type?

Better go and care for those old people before them sack you o. Nonsense

GboyegaD:
If I give you summary of my life, you fit go craze. If you say you get life as you dey claim, you no go dey give yourself headache for another person life. It is very obvious you are idle and if you need someone to blame for this, blame yourself.

If you are posting for validation as you indicated, shame on you and those who validate you. You all are suffering from low self esteem. You bitterness changes nothing and trust me, when I get back home and I cook or my wife cooks, I will snap and post it on nairaland. It is my food, my phone, my data, my time. If na my ceramic plate dey vex you, no be my fault say for your life, na only plastic plates dem take dey serve you. Go vex buy one and learn to hate the game and not the player.

As for my age, na my cross. Anyhow I like, I live am as far as I no use am disturb anybody. If na dat one dey pain you, pray for grace make you fit find joy in life instead of attacking everybody.

Lastly, if na fear dey worry you say how your life go be, I pray the good Lord to send His Holy Spirit to grant you peace on all sides. I pray He delivers you from envy and bitterness that has eaten deep into your soul and help you appreciate the little things you take for granted such as the grace to see. May He give you a vision of His plans for your life and help you live a focus and fulfilled life. All these I ask in Jesus Name.

I no get time to read this useless epistle. Wetin be summary? You japa go yankee to go hustle for old people home wey you dey pack old white man shit and collect insult from them.

Me on the other hand, go yankee for schooling and run back come naija cos life here too sweet. And I’m doing much better than you will ever dream of. You really think you are doing well? With that your old ceramic plate. Old man wey dey snap every food picture.

Guy let me just give you small glimpse into how I’m living this public holiday. Nice suite for correct hotel. No time for nonsense

Simplecity:
GboyegaD dey post quality food meehn..which shows financial freedom to some extent ..something which can cause a lot of envy to an imporverished soul😂😂... GboyegaD dan pepper their spirit so tey dem no fit rest😂....imagine say dem see Prestonn posts...omo dem go cry blood

You must be a slow poke. Money is not a problem for me. I can’t envy a fool that eats with ceramic plates. Take it or leave it. But when a grown man in his 40s is busy posting every damn meal, is he not a fool at 40? Do you know the effort it takes to grab your phone and snap then upload on Nairaland every meal you cook and eat?

Abeg make una dey tell people true and stop being foolish just because una dey find food to salivate on. Hungry hustlers

Maysdevices:
A man in his 40’s?


He should look for his age mate with equal body count or buy a mumu from the village.

Na wa o. Seatrade don suffer for this world

Maysdevices:
I didn’t want to reply this but the way some of you use your experiences to judge another’s is quite annoying. I am not a kid that will tell someone is something if they’re not. Also, they’re grown women with fat bank accounts, what exactly are they hiding and why do they need to hide it? Do you know how the whole family has begged them to acknowledge the opposite sex? You think we like their behavior? LOL. If I didn’t know better I’d think they were lesbians.

There are people called hermits, those set of people are my sisters. They don’t even know how to talk to men. I have to beg them sometimes to communicate with the opposite sex. They are bookworms, extremely smart and core church girls. Yes, such girls exist.

I can vouch for my sisters with my life because I see them everyday since the day I was born. They never go anywhere without me or my mom. In public they grab my hands because they are extremely antisocial. We all went to school and it was same; they beg me to escort them to each and every one of their classes and back, I knew of their whereabouts at every second because they never go anywhere if they’re not in class. Several people in our hostel did not know they were even in my room until their final years. Everyone who knows them knows this fact.


Don’t use your experience to judge another’s.

Please introduce them to Seatrade. He’s a man in his 40s and has been looking for a wife for years. He even went to Muslim thread and yoruba and Hausa thread say he dey find wife.

As he has given up on finding wife, he has started blowing his life savings on traveling and going to stay in hotel so that he can at least enjoy his savings before he die. I pray he hasn’t killed himself sha. And I hope your sisters go like the man. Seatrade over to you. You can thank me later

GboyegaD:
Unfortunately, I am not the source of your misery and you can read and act like you never saw my post.
However, if my food dey pain you, smash your gadget screen. No be my fault say you no see better food chop. Instead of make you dey vex for me wey you no sabi, go vex for your people wey no gree train you well.

E pain am. Hahaha

What I am sure of is that deep down in your heart of hearts, you know say my observation get truth and that a lot of people agree with me. An agbaya that cooks and snaps every meal to post on Nairaland is sick upstairs. Even ordinary beans, you go snap and post with that your old ceramic plate. Haba!

Guy, get a life and start acting your age abeg

Maysdevices:
You talk like Nigerian men keep to one girl. Where men lead, women follow. Nigerian girls know the Nigerian man mentality. Keep a good girl at home, spend on beauties outside, take them to fancy places. Nobody wants to be that foolish good girl, they would rather be the one taken out on fancy dinners and trips at the expense of their values. They don’t know what it means to be a woman because most of you don’t have respect for the women you keep at home and show more Iove to the ones you keep outside.

Also, talk about the girls you know and stop generalizing. I have been with one guy since my university days. The problem with you men is that most of you are looking for cheap sex, you see decently dressed girls, core church girls, and ignore them, even call them boring because you know they won’t give you easy sex. Some of you even laugh at them that they must be virgins because many times they’re not attractive to you or ugly. You go for the pretty ones that all men want and willing to empty their pockets for then complain when they date as many as they can.

Do you really expect a girl getting attention from all corners to give it to just you? If you got attention from different women, would you be with just one? If you say yes, you are a liar.



My younger sisters in their 20s have never dated because they are scared of Nigerian guys and the fact that many of them have slept with prostitutes, my 22years old sister will rather die than mistakenly sleep with a guy who has slept with a prostitute or date a guy who carries girls who expose their bodies.


They are very well raised and are waiting to leave the country to see if foreigners are better. They are virgins waiting for their husbands. People are shocked when they see them because they don’t come out of the house for anything except my to go out with my mom. They are extremely light skinned and beautiful.


I know many girls like this.

Never ever vouch for your sisters. Cos e go shock you when you find out the things they do on the low. Trust me….