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Andremalan731:
Hello guys
Please I need a quick answer
If you and a girl agree to link up and fvck on a particular day
But you and the girl neva talk since that day
Does it make any sense to chat her up to check if our agreement is still valid?

ubunja:
"I just smiled"
lmfao. legendary.

well life is short and the way men wanna live it definitely makes it shorter. small wonder we die early and our suicide rate is always the highest. the self-appointed burden is too heavy.

XshegzzyeeiX:
How about these

Kingsince95:
Good morning kings!
Welcome to the month of July.

I will be needing your inputs on this.

... So these this girl I meet around my hood, met her at my friend's street. Immediately I saw her, I approached her and collected her number within 3minutes(e no dey hard me lol). My friends were even shocked (asked if I knew her before)... I collected her number just to use her for experimental purpose.

I called her in the evening of that day... She kind of claimed to be busy (Normal female character), I just laughed it off.
Didn't call her for up to a week, then I decided to call her one fateful day with my other line... She recognized my voice. I jokingly asked her if she's still busy (she later apologized).

I told her I would like to see her in the evening, she complied. I didn't her word seriously, but on that evening she called me and I took her to this cool spot in my hood.
She was acting cold at first, but few minutes later she was being too friendly with me. Started telling me about her childhood experiences and family stories. Any one who saw us that day, would think we've been dating for long. She did more of the talking, I just chipped in words and listening...

I told her I like her and would like us to be deeply connected. She told me she is In a relationship, I told her I'm not asking for a relationship, let's just connect deeply. She agreed... After that day we've been talking on phone, she always shows up whenever I need to see her.
She calls me too and starts most of our conversation on WhatsApp. She called me on Sunday just to check on me( according to her)...
I can feel the sexual tension. It's left for me to decide...
I'm thinking of *kpanshing* her, but I have this feeling that she would start asking for something serious.
Most girl I meet always started like this, they just want to have fun and after the sex they want something serious. The cycle always repeats itself. This have affected most of my relationships with females. Some now hate me for reasons best known to them.

What do you guys feel ?
Destructive and creative criticisms are welcome.

Sapy442:
Seems they're talking about a book here? Do you happen to know which book it is?

ProphetJeroboam:
”How to be a better man” a book by Shola, a masculinity coach on twitter.

SarkinYarki:
JJC how many times will people use and dump you ? You allow that kind ugly woman still use you then dump you join ...Go and make peace with that your first wife

AccessME:
I'm writing this with tears draining out of my eyes. I masturbated for over 12 years and lose a lots of body nutrients now I'm weak, feeling pains all over my bones, eyes and body in general.

As in the sperm I've been releasing all this year's have come to hot me now I want to regain them back. Pls which food can I be eating to help me regain my strength/sperm back within a short period of time?

seanwilliam:
U don make me laugh tire. I swear I just Dey imagine how him dick go look like lol

JoeNL22:
Yes I know. What I meant is when the are operational, you give them the tax credit.

How can you post a loss of (37 billion) after receiving such tax credits. It shows the management of Oando does not have an idea of what they are doing, and henceforth they should be sacked.

The bastard people don't have money to spend on capital intensive projects that will benefit the people and build Nigeria, but they(FG) have money to be giving themselves huge amounts of money has salary (13 million) for senator alone. I wonder how much the Senate and vice presidents and the president be collecting?.

Then the question is, why are they their in the first place when they can't make things work. Throughly accountability is minus ZERO in Nigeria or rather "ZOOGERIA"

quentin06:
He is not going to refine any crude oil, look at the logistics, a refinery like that should have been situated closer to its source of raw materials.

Its just a big tank farm for finished petroleum products which will be imported.

quentin06:
You guys dont ask yourself, where is he going to get the crude to refine petrol, look its not a refinery, but a depot for finish petroleum products.

quentin06:
The refineries at Portharcourt, Warri are rendered useless so that Dangote refinery can shine, despite billions sunk in it , it is still useless to date, such amount could have rehabilitated the existing refineries and built news ones.

And they cry about high cost of subsidy when they dont want the local refineries to work.

What a shame of a country? Only one useless body imports fuel, only one person should have a refinery.

JoeNL22:
That is why they(FG) need to give them tax reliefs and tax holidays, after that!, FG should act as an investor and not a lender. When this is done. It will motivate people to invest in building refineries all over the country. The government will just tell them to have a certain amount of money before they start a refinery. Just like the banks are demanded to have 25 billion before they can be given full operational license to operate as a financial institution in Nigeria.

The solution is right in front of them. But they won't act on it. Because some bastards are benefiting from the way Nigeria is operating.

Truth234:
What led to this issue was the fact that he had to construct most of what they needed. He built a port specifically for the refinery after they discovered Nigerian ports can't take delivery of most of the huge equipment they need.

Those were not budgeted for. He also constructed several roads. One is over 131 km. Also, this explains why he sold 20% to Federal Government. Dangote needs this additional N300 billion to complete the project.

Bigkoko:
In one of our post here on Nairaland, we accurately predicted that Dangote is broke before Fitch broke the News officially. Flat broke.

Dangote missed a vital opportunity to avoid all these humiliations, when his global economic Advisors advised him to take 70% of his liquid cash portfolio to New York, he would have retain about $200 million which was stripped off his holdings due to Buhari bad Leadership. He appears to have agreed only to back out at the last Moment. Year was 2019. The only Risk I see in the transcontinental deal was that Dangote would have been made to make Full Disclosure of his DIL, owners $ capital structures to American authorities. Dangote knew the risks and elect to stay in Buhari Nig with Emefiele promising fundings but unfortunately, the $$$ ran out!

I don't wish to be in Dangote shoes right now. He's going nowhere! The odds are truly against him.

Imagine the scenario Obi wins in 2023, & gives license to Investors for limestone exploration, cement Production & license for mini, medium highly efficient Refinery that is more feasible than the behemoth he's building in Lagos. Which he's most likely to do, so jobs would flow, Dangote only known Legit cash-cow would be deregulated & guess what? His poor management skills will be all more glaring! Int'l Lenders might take the company altogether!

Imagine the scenario Tinubu wins, Otedola would certainly get a chance to bounce back to Downstream Sector & Dangote might not enjoy continued patronage. Otedola a more astute business manager would easily rally hedge funds to his side & put up a medium Refinery in quick Pace in Ogun State.
By then Dangote liabilities would be too much for his decripit cement business or yet to take off Defining business!

Either way, Dangote is bleeped, ducked & trashed!

His horrible mistake: Building a large, Refinery due to the believe that he's going to be the only one selling refined petroleum in Nigeria! He's in for a rude shock as the odds currently favor Obi as President in 2023. 10 new players will join him in the puddle!

doctokwus:
Who do you think guaranteed the foreign loans Dangote has taken this far?The CBN and FG of course and when they are due,even when the refinery hasn't come on board,who pays?The FG!
So tell me where I was wrong to have strong suspicion that this looks like a phoney,money draining project?

olaniyilukman:
#4m na watering prices,,, omo we don suffer for this country

Drenimarcus:
Africa is ready but we have sellouts as politicians who do the bidding of the West. Mali, CAR and Burkina-Faso have all kicked out the French with the help of Russia's Wagner boys.

You can see the President of Senegal visiting Putin few weeks ago to discuss about Africa. We are getting there slowly but gradually.

CaveAdullam:
In trying to prove how smart he is, he ends up unleashing his dumbness. I can bet my balls that he is what he condemns or make a mockery of in others. In psychology, it is called projection. If he is not, how come he has enough time to spy and take a memory lane of all that is in opposition to his ideas? Even an established man will never have such a time not to talk of one that's building from the bottom or in the process.

I can bet you that this guy has scanned my moniker day and night to no avail. Because every one of my posts will end up countering his stupidity, delusion, and pure madness with every comma and full stop. He is simply not in touch with reality, wisdom, and respect. An id!ot in the making!

Let the dog keep roaming.

Dollarheist:
Ubunja longest time big brother
I abandoned the red pill for some time and of course I got burned she is a virgin, spiritual and attends a church with a lot of doctrine even down to relationship and marriage I learnt a bitter lessons dating the girl as it was toxic throughout

Moreso her dad has not been active in her life since she was a child her mum died when she was really young and her elder ones aren't not active in her life in terms of authority

But as a big brother to a junior one can you break down the whole concept of dating a virgin or marrying one cos Ive seen first hand that to have a successful relationship virginity is not really a major criteria
I have seen virgin that end up sleeping around after marriage and non virgin that lived a responsible lifestyle after marriage

Please ubunja help me out with the whole thing as I'm just confused right now

JESHAL:
Show me a virgin with sagging breasts then we can have a meaningful discussion, remember hymen first, firm breast next, so it is now promiscuous women used to sex that won't now cheat, why can't you minimize risk with a virgin, so it's hoes that are now good girls,no wonder they go to church, start acting matured to fool and cuck suckers like you


Hymen or nothing for long term commitment

AlphaAlex:
[b] Well duuhhhhhhhhh of course she’s not a Virgin of course she’s getting bleeped by numerous men , any girl who is not a Virgin is getting fûcked by numerous men let that sink in deep , the moment she loses her virginity no matter who she loses it to she starts her sexual journey, how can you be walking around life thinking women are not getting fûcked by numerous men there’s no way on earth any one woman has only Bleep just one man all her life unless the she fücked him and died that day open your Eyes To reality even the virgins you weak men praise so much will get bleeped by several other men . Wake up y’all have been sleeping for too long Lol you guys are just hoping you will find a “good girl Virgin “ even if you do once she’s out of your sights can you vouch for what she does with her body ? Better wake up and move past sex it’s nothing unless you haven’t been getting enough of it . Women are busy living life and you are worried about what they do with their pussies that’s just weak[/b]