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emmaodet:
Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

What a contradiction. Coming from a man that is married on a thread full of teenagers. Guy go and deal with your marital problems and stay away from here!

heartofcity12:
Majority of them get severely fvcked and have several abortions in between their tertiary education to working class period, it’s a wise decision when men only want to associate with virgins(who are needles in a haystack) alone for a serious thing and this notion really hurt these damaged women so much, but who cares..

Guy you are idle and really need a job. DM me make I find you small job to keep busy.

emmaodet:
Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Tbh, i don't know also.

@ the bolded most guys these days don't even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage - To this question -
1. Most don't know. They are not aware about the past of their spouse else they would have taken to their heels.

2. Let's be frank, most men out there are sexually starved and invincible to women. SO when a man sees a lady that is even ready to give him attention, to give him a listening ear, they fall over heels to have her and finally secure her from the preying eyes of many sharks lurking around like you BigBashiru (lol)

Do you know how many guys who have never received any gift from ladies are very high? even here on nairaland, i can bet more than 50% of guys have never received gifts or money from women. Something an average lady gets regularly.
There are many things to say but just have to leave it here

Oga speak for yourself abeg. Na your reality. Just own am with your full chest.

emmaodet:
It is true and tbh, if i am to become single today due to any factor (be it death of wifey(God forbid) or infidelity or she just decides to leave because she is tired of the marriage), whatever the reason may be, bro, i am categorically telling you i will stay far away from marriage.
Don't get me wrong - i am not trying to mislead the upcoming ones nor am i having any issues or problems in my marriage nor am i discouraging guys t marry.
This is just my personal opinion, i will stay away from it.
I don't have any issue with the institution but with what have seen so far, it is messed up. Too many damaged women.

Oga, you never talk true about wetin dey truly happen for your marriage.

Man wey marry useless okpo na him go come this thread to follow small boys to dey do red pill.

Person wey dey happy marriage to loyal woman will never ever be here to follow small boys to bash women.

MizzD:
Doyin, Dotun, Shella, Chi chi, Deji , Rachel chomzy had an interesting conversation last night in the lounge . From nominations to the lockdown pairing to shella’s relationship and strategy

Active participants were Doyin Dotun and Shella

So they started by trying to figure out who was nominated last week and this week . Doyin thinks Khalid was nominated last week but sheggz disagreed and said there’s no way Hermes would have put his roomie up in the second week of the game cost that would be cold. Doyin disagreed and said it could also be a strategic move and Shegz replied that it would be a cold strategy. Said he would never put groovy that early and he thinks he would be safe if groovy wins hoh. Doyin agreed that him and bElla would be safe if groove wins hoh. They agreed Phyna would put chi chi up and vice versa cos they give the same energy to each other. Doyin said she thinks Bryan was up this week and even though he didn’t mention to her directly at the party, he kept saying “im scared” and after the party, he hugged her and said thanks for the moral support. Dotun confirmed Ilebaye was up this week cos she told him but they don’t know the other people up. Doyin said she doesn’t want Kess or Modella to be hoh cos sha hasn’t bonded with the two of them , and she only spoke with modella for the first time at the party and it was just majorly compliments.

They talk about pairings and Doyin says she thinks Christy O and Bella are a mismatch, and would have thought Ilebaye matches her better, while chomzy matches christy O, based on looks. Bella agrees that she has no similarity with christy O but maybe they paired them cos she acted gentle all through her audition process. Sheggz thinks Ilebaye and chomzy are actually a good match cos they are both ‘life of the party’ . Doyin said she thinks Hermes and Khalid are a good match; smart and intellectual but Shegz disagreed and said Hermes is not as intellectual but strong. For cyph and Adekunle, they agreed they are both book smart. For Dotun and Kess, they initially said they don’t see any similarity but later, dotun said they are both ambitious. For beauty and Doyin, Dotun said he sees the similarity with the beauty pageant thing , then Doyin said more like their lifestyles are similar ; 9 to 5 career and an active social life, know the same people and have mutual friends, love to dress up and look prim. For chi chi and Phyna , they agree they are similar. For Giddy, the rest think bryann is not a good match but Doyin said Bryann is also goofy and cracks good jokes and giddy is probably the closest match. They don’t think Deji / chizzy or Rachel/ modella are similar.

Doyin said her chaperone thought beauty is a friendlier version so her, cos her first impression is that she’s stuck-up and proud, so she had to make a conscious effort to be friendly on her first night in the house so it won’t be a case of another wrong first impression of her.

On relationship, Doyin feels it’s not out of place for the HMs (Adekunle) to think Shella is a strategy. Dotun said he’s sure many of them at one point or the other thought so too. Doyin said she also initially thought it was a strategy and felt Segun has a type of personality outside the house and cos people would expect him to behave in a certain way, he came into the house to change a narrative like ‘ see o, I can treat woman nicely”. However, having watched them closely and seen the little things Sheggz does, she realized it was genuine cos there’s no way he would be acting all those little things .

Bella said she thinks he’s genuine and people think Shegz is acting cos we are not used to Nigerian men acting this way. Sheggz said if he wanted to be in a relationship cos of strategy, he wouldn’t have gone for Bella but didn’t say who. He said he knows people with strategy in the house but he wouldn’t disclose it, and that he doesn’t necessarily mean bad strategy cos there can be good strategy. Throughout the conversation,Sege and Bella had been sharing a duvet and this happened:

Sege to Bella - Should we show the world I’m just rubbing your legs? Chill, nobody thinks you’re getting fingered under the duvet

Bella- the kind of things that come out of your mouth. You sha want us to be fighting every night

HMs looked shocked but moved on.

They also spoke on beauty’s disqualification and the Versions they heard; bryann told Doyin, Phyna told dotun, groovy told Sheggz and Deji. They all initially refused to say what happened when asked, then chomzy and Bella asked if they were scared. So Dotun narrated what Phyna told him (incorrect version though) and Sheggz also summarized his version. Doyin said it wasn’t her story to tell so she wouldn’t say it till she hears from beauty.

Then back to Shella, Sheggz told the HM how Bella is very conscious and doesn’t like hand movement under the duvet so it’s not misinterpreted, especially cos her mum is watching . Said she also doesnt want to kiss. Doyin thinks Bella likes Segun as much now but she’s just stubborn about it . Thinks if anything happens outside the house, it would most likely come from Segun due to his lifestyle; he being the social, we’re outside’ type of person, while Bella is the homely one who doesn’t party and except they compromise , that’s the only issue she foresees.

Another Jobless lazy mama spotted. How person mama go siddon type this senseless epistle on a Monday morning? Na ment?

Gentlefury:
Hmmmm, i really wish it was easy to curve or bounce a girl that asks you out the way girls do to guys, but it's a very delicate art form. It's usually safer to sleep with the girl and then break up with her than to reject her advances because "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".

A woman bounced or scorned is a potentially very dangerous enemy, so what guys do is to act nonchalant oe even disrespectful and hope that the woman will be pissed enough to block his number and walk away.

Once again, women are mysterious creatures. They don't know how to process rejection, and they usually believe that in their own life movies, they are the lead characters who always get what they want. Only the mature ones understand when the guy is simply not feeling the whole thing and when to respectfully back off. Guys like to go after what they want, chicks need to master the art of giving Green lights, and it helps to try and investigate a guy's physical tastes before making a move. Another way can be through gestures (gifts, cooking etc) and positive affirmation while making it clear that they want to know the guy more.

Aggressive possessiveness (T-Boss/Miyonse/Jon, Beauty/Groovy, Queen/Whitemoney), emotional blackmail (Alex & Leo, Liquor & Emmanuel, Tolani/Prince, Miracle & Nina), abuse & violence(Cee-Cee/Tobi, Beauty/Groovy, Koko/K-Brule), Power-playing moves/Financial arm-twisting(Diane & Giddyfia, Mercy & Ike) - hardly work in the long run.

Constantly being around with subtle words & gestures of affection (Jackie B & Michael), or being suddenly daring (Beatrice & Pere at the reunion) , or straight-up stooping to conquer (Bambam & Teddy A) or convincing the guy that he's lucky to be the exclusive guy in a very sought after position, especially when other guys confirm that the girl is a very hard nut to crack (Jackie B and Michael) is sometimes a better way to go.

Doyin is definitely not as sexually experienced as Chi-Chi, but the latter has managed to turn herself to a hard target and a challenge in the house, Deji knows that Chichi doesn't rock guys the way she rocked him, he also knows Chomzy is everywhere yet very scarce, that's the kind of push-and-pull sexual expression that really gets guys interested. Doyin should vow celibacy till she leaves the house, afterall Big Brother supplies them with very comfortable duvets so she should be able to withstand the cold!

You are a very jobless lazy youth to have sat down to type this senseless epistle.

ubunja:
its true,, what you won't do, another guy will do,, even 20 guys are ready to do it. You can't control a woman by not fuccing her cause what a woman wants from you is not sex. Yes you can impress her and manage to look "different" in her eyes,, but what's the point of being "different" and "special" and "one of a kind" to a girl if she's going to fucc another guy who's decidedly not special as you and can't say NO to sex. What's the use of being special when it doesn't get you puccy? And you watch the so-called losers have their way with the girls you're impressing by not fuccing? Yes women will stay impressed by you not not fuccing them ---- as they get pregnant for every other guy.

Ol boy when was the last time you saw pucci? Stop deceiving people when you are just a sex starved porn addict and chronic masturbator!

Eeghe:
Biggie be honest boss man

Boss man ke. Are you an okpo??

descarado:
Hmm. Senegalese jollof rice. Slightly modified. Its like our concoction jollof rice but with non leafy veggies. Jollof rice originated from Senegal. Jollof is a name of a village or something there. I prefer this to our regular jollof rice.

It’s called Tchep.

Akeem79:
Super delicious

Please wetin be this

JESHAL:
Once you can control your sexual libido,you have overpowered any manipulative tactics of women then you need not to fall for the scam of one-titis as a man, don't invest emotionally and financially into a woman that doesn't have genuine desire for you.


One sided love is for ignorant foools not redpill aware men

Na so poor man dey talk when money no dey. As soon as small pocket change enter their pockets na to go spend am on women. All the so called redpill boys here na condition make cray fish bend. No money no woman na to join redpill remain. I pity una. I really pity una

JESHAL:
Once you can control your sexual libido,you have overpowered any manipulative tactics of women then you need not to fall for the scam of one-titis as a man, don't invest emotionally and financially into a woman that doesn't have genuine desire for you.


One sided love is for ignorant foools not redpill aware men

Guy do you have a job or any thing to keep busy? DM me bro. I get job for you cos by the looks of things you seem to be idle

dhiqson:

Man can't keep refreshing here only to see three unread Pages
Just to see it's just bickerings from Only God knows who

Please guys make use of the GODDAMN REPORT BUTTON
Report, click num2!!! E. No hard pass like that abeg
Una wan make taliban vex oh



TheDarkgamer bro pls drop the link here or any dead thread and tag me

If you like press report button until your finger turn red na you sabi

CaveAdullam:
DAY 222, REDPILL 2022

Once you hear "marry a man that understands you and take you for who you are" know that she is for the street.

Authority: Be vigilant.

Senseless trash

Nyascobar1414:
Word...

Imagine the exchange for provision and care in the same short life...


I dont really know If God support marriage...
Dammn!

Guy you still dey vex because you no get job and money to marry and to find woman to nack no dey.

First go write JAMB to enter university. If you never pass WAEC, dm me make I connect you with construction job for Uyo. I go tell the manager of the site not to give you the money. Na him go buy the form for you because I no trust you not to carry the money go nack okpo

ubunja:
rest baba. We're good here. Rest .

This Zimbabwean sef don dey talk Baba rest

Nyascobar1414:
Why you dey comment dey vex..lol..

Ignorance is bliss!
Delusion and bluepill is comforting..
Lmaoo

Guy WAEC result don comot. You pass? You don collect jamb form? I dey ready to give you job wey you go use to make small coins to buy Jamb form. Just DM me

chukshobayo:
He was with one of his little kids in the veranda catching fresh air when he collapsed and gave up the ghost right there. It is well my broda. A broke single man is healthier than a broke married man with CHILDREN. Society will look down on you, your spouse will look down on you. Even religious leaders will say go and carry cement, carry concrete on your head. But the question I asked myself in this thing will the money gotten from carrying block on your head enough to sustain the family and the wife contented?

Okay so you no wan carry block. Wetin you wan do? You wan do armed robber or yahoo yahoo abi you prefer to dey beg on Nairaland abi? Guy better go enter construction site to hustle. No food for lazy man

SF123:
How to know if a girl is beeping green light to me ?

See Jamb question. If you like dey there dey find green light from woman wey no send you. Instead of you to go hustle for daily bread like your mates. I really feel very sorry for you

OwnMyself:
Have been watching you clsoely for months now and have seen how you insult people in here for coming out to save men from being used..

If you know you're physically fit and one on one you could easily take down your fellow man.. kindly drop phone number... if possible your address... Would like to meet you in person.

You wey dey find money to cut out to Uruguay of all places. You dey find who you go kidnap to raise the money abi? You sound very desperate..

heartofcity12:
What scarcity mindset does to men. Smh

Guy, abeg try find job. I can see that you are very idle

DonEvarest:
Though this might be for clout. Clitocurrency no doubt remains one of the most lucrative business today... These lasses are cashing out big time

Oga go and hustle and make your own money. Free yourself from how women dey make their money with clitocurrency or whatever you call it. Enter steeet go hustle. Time waits for no man!!!

ubunja:
yes man, the red pill is hated most by men, especially men in committed relationships. They hate hate hate the redpill.

It's funny cause TRP is aimed at exposing women but the people who are coming out as its biggest enemies ARE MEN. You can even look at this thread, the biggest most useless trolls are guys, people like tranquility, these are guys like you and me, but they'll do everything in their power to push back against the red pill, something that exists to empower them. Now I don't know what they're afraid of as they see the movement grow, but they have made up their mind to push back. Women themselves are not even as hateful and spiteful as these male trolls, these guys have taken it upon themselves to fight for the female cause to the bitter end and don't care even to stop and analyze our message.

Anyways, TRP is golden and death to Simps.

Trash as usual. Coming from a lonely angry depressed porn addict and chronic masturbator that gets no pucci

timewillhealme:
Please guys, I need help
I got a job in V.I and I am in dire need of accommodation because my folks place is far away from V.I, so it can't be easy for me leaving home to VI everyday.

I would appreciate if anyone can help out with accommodation around Yaba, Akoka or Gbagada.
Any where close to VI.

P.S. I have about about 300k as a per annum budget.
I would also appreciate if I can get a place to manage pending the time I get my own accommodation.
I will be staying only during weekdays.

Thanks in anticipation.

You no get family members? Your pastor nko? Na for this place you dey find stranger wey go give you free accommodation ba? Just like that. Tomorrow now when dem use you do ritual your parents will be wondering wetin happen. Better give your self sense o

chenny360:
Guys please stop simpin around women. You'll regret your life at the end.. be a man and don't take nonsense please. This is one of my guy I'm texting from michigan US. He's a victim of being stupid Simp
.
Read our chat below

No be only one of your guys. Na one of your enemies. If you like no go hustle like your mates. Dey here dey waste your time with none sense that adds zero value to your life

iamme1234:
You better get sense
2m will only take you to Ghana
And get a house and start living there
At least you have escaped no light issues.
With honesty 2m naira is a peanut to land you in Europe
My sister went to Germany last week
Tourist visa hence she is isn’t coming back for now till she is fully standardized.
Total money spent is 3.350m

Don’t let anyone deceived you

Your 2m naira is a peanut

Guy abeg try raise money to buy this book. E go serve you well. You can thank me later

tosaino95:
Getting Reject Is Emotion Damage, Physical and Mental Issue for most guys I suppose to have been there before but i never maybe is because how God Created me.

Guy go buy Brighter Grammar and stop embarrassing yourself with your bad English o. No wonder babes dey reject you steady

SF123:
Fellow redpillers, you guys are doing extremely wonderful. I really commend the administration for creating this terrific thread!

Which one be administration again? On top redpill matter. You must be confused. Guy leave woman matter and go hustle o

Nyascobar1414:
..............................

In this times most men are thinking love exist...

I look at them, thinking they evolved from Mars..

Guy how far with your job search and JAMB? You don pass ya WAEC? Ol boy I go advise you for the umpteenth time. Leave this redpill and woman matter and go focus on your WAEC and JAMB. A word is enough for the wise

Ps: If you need job for Uyo to raise money to collect form, dm me…

RavagedHeart:
Sadly. It's usually at that age that most men get aware of the red pill, which I think it's disastrously late.
Men use their early years to hustle and develop one cruel being they call girlfriend. The only time we realize our mistakes and how low we have allowed ourselves to sink is after we have so much sacrificed ourselves and the girl leaves at the end. Looking for an escape from the life-devastating experience, we then stumble on the red pill.

I think the red pill awareness should start from 7yrs for every boy child. So he would be saved from the horrible experience that plague most men of this generation.

A lot of men have wasted their youthful years, dreams, and life goals. Simply because they get aware of the red pill too late.

This is not about age. It’s about common sense. How can a man work for his money and spend it on a woman in the sense of developing her? Buying her wigs, cream, paying her school fees, buying her clothes and underwear, buying her foodstuff and even giving her pocket money? Are you her father? What nonesense. I figured the senselessness in this since I was in primary school!

As a gentleman, maybe pay for dates and that’s for man wey get money. If you no get money, you have no business chasing women. Na so many young fools dey ruin their lives.

And for the umpteenth time, stay the fk away from broke girls. You fools will not hear. If you like continue to dey toast woman wey her papa na gateman..Anything wey you see for road, take am like that. Na you sabi