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If you ask most of these ladies why are they bleaching their skin, their usual reply is , they're not bleaching but bringing out their true colour . |
Good one from the Pope. He has employed wisdom to finally close the door on those who want to be priest in the Catholic church and still be gay. Most people criticizing him don't understand what he has done It's not possible to be celibate and still be gay, and so a gay person who's aspiring to be priest in the Catholic Church must have to drop their sexual orientation and once they do so they're longer gay. The LGBT community will certainly not like this and come for his head because they want to eat their cake and still have it. I'm not against gay people, but if a position comes with certain responsibility then it makes sense to keep to it |
Yujin:1.Nobody is calling for her head. Child abuse is a crime and she's going to be tried for the that. 2. You supported her action when you said, the abuse was not much ,the child didn't cry and it's ok for her to go the "extra mile" to make the child learn . |
Yujin:The teacher hit the 3 year old pupil because she obviously lost control of the situation and didn't know how to handle it. She lacks the temperament ,experience,and ,I also think, the requisite training to handle children of that age. If she's allowed to continue and not stopped she would do alot of damage to the brains of those under her care . Children don't only learn from what you tell them,but also from how you treat them and behave in their presence. Teaching small children requires extreme patience,if not, you make it difficult for them to learn anything from you . The teacher did the wrong thing , and so please, don't support her in anyway . |
budaatum:I hope you're not projecting yourself? I'm not the kind of person to sexualize the action of a parent, whether father or mother, bathing their six year old female child ,or the examination of the body for evidence of sexual abuse in order to report it . Supposing the father is a medical doctor who has been assisting other parents to confirm sexual abuse? He shouldn't check her own daughter so people like you don't accuse him of sexual abuse? Unless there's evidence of an abuse going on,bathing or examining a small child by parents is private family business an outsider shouldn't poke nose into . Regarding the second paragraph above, if she repeats it all the time for the same reason she did it the first time as opposed to your "no reason at all, I don't mind you calling it abuse, as you have done. But do note that for me it is sexual abuse, and I prefer to call it that because that makes it even more heinous and unacceptable, which is what it is in my own subjective opinion.Your subjective opinion is not truth. And unless you don't like standing for what's the truth, you should know it's wickedness to accuse another person of a crime as heinous as child sexual abuse without evidence they committed the crime. It's lying about them to defame their character The evidence for child sexual abuse has been given if you bother to check for it. Actions springs from thoughts, and so, for a perfect understanding of another person's actions, the reason behind what they have done should be given equal consideration and not ignored,if not, we stand risk of misjudging them. Please be aware that while I am having this discussion with very intelligent you, a certain stupid idiot is saying what you may read in the link below, which might inform my you better about my subjectivity.Checked it out but since I don't know the Genesis, I couldn't make anything out of the conversation going on there. Thank you immensely for your time and your sense, Triple. We have not engaged for a while, and I do appreciate you and wish you a Merry Christmas.Oh! I'm also very grateful for you spending your time to respond to my replies. I wish you the same Merry Christmas. Thanks. |
budaatum:What you brought in, doesn't apply to the mother at all.You're misapplying data. You have abandoned the phrase, child sexual abuse, which you started with and accused the woman of, for the word,rape, and Googled the wrong thing Molestation ,and not rape, is the word often used to describe a small child that's being or has been molested sexually by an adult. Moreover, you have also ignored the fact that this is between a mother and her own daughter who completely depends on her mother for every single thing ,which includes bathing and cleaning her up whenever she poop in order to teach her to do it herself when she grows older. So, there's nothing out of place and nobody will frown at it , not even in the so called civilised clime ,if the same mother decides to check the same sexual parts which she bathes regularly if she suspects that her daughter has been sexually violated in order to report it to the appropriate authority. No mother who has ever done that and report it has ever been accused of child sexual abuse,not to talk of rape. You obviously have no experience raising a female child or closer to those who do,and so don't know what most mothers do if they suspect anything. Only a perverted mind would think of child sexual abuse, not to talk of rape from what was narrated. And because every mother is "permitted" to check, they sometimes discover their daughter is being or has been molested by an adult who has threatened them not to talk or they die.Lots of child molesters have succeeded with that. Or you don't want such persons to be exposed so they continue with their abuse of minors undetected ? The woman never described penetrating her daughter's vaginal with her fingers or stimulating it with it . What she did is the same a medical doctor would do to check for evidence of violation. She placed her fingers on top,not inside and gently open it to see if the hymen is still intact . But like I said ,if she repeats all the time, without any reason for doing so ,then it's wrong and can become an abuse, not child sexual abuse. |
budaatum:. Rape is a deliberate act. Rapist don't rape their victims unintentionally. . No one who has ever raped another has done so by mistake or unknowingly.It's shocking and really disappointing for you to suggest rape can be by mistake . The definition for child sexual abuse, or any kind of sexual abuse as an intentional act, is by the experts,not me. Even without them, every reasonable person knows rape or child sexual abuse is done knowingly, by the abuser .Please use Google because I see you have a very casual and stubborn understanding of what sexual abuse is. The reason it's judged intentional is the sustained physical stimulation of the victims sexual parts by the abuser resulting in an arousal or orgasm. Is there any evidence that the mother's intention was to cause those in her daughter and not merely to check if she has been abused?. You're unable to answer this important question since we started this conversation. There is a lot of evidence of sexual abuse in her story. She after all narrated that her 6 year old daughter was raped by her own son. And that's apart from her own sexual assault of her daughter.We"re talking about the mother, not the son, whom I said you accused wrongly of sexual abuse . So, focus on her, and provide evidences of the sexual abuse she committed against her daughter . For your information, sexual abuse and rape can be subjective, and thankfully, it is subject to the abused or raped person, regardless of what the raper or abuser may think or the space in which the person raped or abused. If it wasn't subjective, and if it was down to the abuser or raper, a sexual abused and raped person would not have a valid allegation.1. Unfortunately for you, no judge in a court of law will accept your subjective assessment as evidence and pass judgement in your favour. You need to prove your case beyond reasonable doubt . You, and not me has accused another of something. So the onus lies on you to prove your accusation of child abuse with evidence. 2. I never said sexual abuse can't happen in a tight space,but said if sexual abuse is not an intentional act , anyone who inadvertently touches a female in a place like that is guilty of sexual abuse. I don't like how you keep misquoting me. There is no requirement for you to accept anything I say, Triple, and neither are you under any obligation to.I said so because I noticed you were representing me by making it seem I support any kind of abuse. I asked you to be specific and stop using the word, abuse, vaguely. Since your subjectivity is equally as valid as my own subjectivity as far as I am concerned, my poison does not have to be your poison.If you could please provide evidence of sexual abuse committed by the mother on her daughter , then I accept the subjectivity tag. |
budaatum:What are you even saying? The daughter was molested by those who should be protecting her and not that she decided to experiment or satisfy her curiosity because of 'any "premature sexual awakening" If the mother had focused on the 6 year old learning maths, she'd likely be cultivating a mind of academic excellence insteadYou assume too much. What do you know about the woman to conclude she's not teaching her child anything ejse apart from what she described The mother agrees with you. Those who do fgm on their daughters also do not believe they are abusing their daughtersFGM ,I already explained,is a very violent form child abuse which is not the same as child sexual abuse even though still violent.. you're comparing apples and oranges. FGM is child abuse but not exactly the same kind of a abuse is child sexual abuse. Yes,the mother's repeated action of checking may distress the child at some point and effect her mind, I know, but there's no evidence of sexual abuse in what she narrated. Sexual abuse is your own subjective reaction to what she described . Sexual abuse is an intentional act ,if not, anyone who inadvertently touches another sensitive body part in a very tight space,an overcrowded elevated, for instance ,is guilty of sexual abuse. There's no evidence from her story of sexual abuse.What she described is exactly the same a doctor in any hospital will perform first on any female child to ascertain if she has been sexually abused .A doctor will open it just like the mother . I and many others here however do not agree that it is not abuse, and would rather such abuse not be inflicted on peoples' daughters even by their own mothers..Then you and the "many others" have reacted by displaying tribal thinking. Since others are saying the same thing, it doesn't matter for you if it runs contrary to evidence, ,you believe you're correct . That's how the tribe thinks. You're deliberately using the word, abuse, vaguely. Abuse exist in different forms. So which one ? Be specific so we can agree on something. I accept your psychological abuse, but reject sexual and physical abuse. No evidence for those ones in the story. If you can find any please bring it. |
budaatum:Please try to take control of your imagination so you don't continue to imagine things about me I will never think of ever engaging in Was this woman examining her consenting patient's private part?Are you even thinking of what you're saying? What consent does a mother need from her own child to find out if she has been molested if she suspects so? You have not reasoned like a parent at all . I would think you'd go to a doctor as a patient to have your private parts examined because you have an ailment and not because some woman wants to check for you.Some parents sometimes take their female child to a doctor for checking if they suspect sexual abuse. Now, from what you have been arguing the doctor has not sexually abused the child if he or she does the same thing the mother would have done if she, the mother ,knows how go about checking her daughter herself at home. You were quick to judge the mother's action as sexual abuse but have refused to the same for the doctor's. Why? You have refused to answer directly Jesus Christ! Are you going to check at 7 too, and all the way up till when she's 16 because she's used to it?Please stop making this about and find out from mothers who are doing that to their daughters . I never announced to you I do the same. Why are you not in support of it if it is not an abuse of the child's, specifically, sexual bits, along with her general psychology?I don't support it because it's an ineffective method of teaching a child sex education. What then happens when the mother is no more to check? Indeed she acted ignorantly and did not know she was sexually and physically and psychologically abusing her daughter, but I do wonder why you'd expect me to be ignorant like her instead of telling her how ignorant she is and what damage she would be doing to her daughter.Tell her the exact thing she's doing wrong first before going ahead to educate her on the correct way There's no sexual or physical abuse. The examination ,from the way she described it, was done without any violence or any intent to sexually abuse her daughter. |
budaatum:FGM is child abuse and not child sexual abuse. You don't seem to know the difference. And you failed to answer directly if doctors who examine their patient's privates, just like the woman, are also involved in sexual molestation . I guess you can define sexual abuse however you want to when you are sexually abusing others, but I'd strongly advise you consider your daughter's feelings and her eventual reaction when you subject her to this sort of humiliation.You really have mastered the act of giving a dog a bad name. I didn't define it the way I want to ,nor supported what she did because of what your corrupted imagination has suggested to you about my person,but to let you know you have judged her wrongly by not knowing correctly what qualifies as sexual abuse And it cannot be true that a female child of 6 who's already used to her mother washing her privates regularly whenever she's bathing her will feel humiliated in anyway if the same mother chooses to examine the same privates for for evidence of sexual abuse. The child at that age doesn't know much to make of it what your adult mind is trying to make of it . Please in your next reply which I expect, don't forget I said I'm not I support of the mother's action . What she did, (a lot of mothers especially in these parts are also guilty of the same) is very crude and uncivilized, not sexual abuse. She acted ignorantly. That's all .If she were sexually abusing her daughter,she wouldn't come to social media to describe it |
Except you allow it to happen,nobody has the power to affect your finances through the money you give to them. |
budaatum:I'm afraid you and some others here have overacted and unfairly judged the woman as sexually abusing her child. Although her action appears tastelessly indecent,it's not one we should interpret as sexual abuse. She has only acted ignorantly and need someone to educate her on the proper way to bring up her daughter without having to do what she described. Sexual abuse is when one intentionally tampers with the sensitive body parts of another without their permission in order to drive sexual pleasure from it ,if not, doctors who examine the privates of their patients are also sexually abusing them . This is between a mother and her underage daughter. And besides both of them like a doctor and his patient, are fully aware of the reasons for the physical examination which you deliberately ignored . |
Very foolish talk from someone who's not even married. Sex in marriage is engaged in by a woman to bound emotionally with her husband in order to keep the flame of love "forever" burning. A prostitute only have sex for money and not love |
mickey4tutorial:Before trying anything on your own,I advise you see a medical doctor first to know if your problem is due to some hidden health issues. |
She ordered her food because you were not civilized enough to ask her if she care for anything . Bush Man |
MrAmbrose:Not beautiful when compared to those of native speakers. |
RandDigital:A Nigerian who was groomed here won Miss world in your country . |
plaetton:Thanks for your response. It's possible to know if what you experienced were real or a creation of your mind. An out of OBE that's real must be connected to an appropriate source outside yourself because all of live is linked, both the visible and invisible. But when there are no such connections then the experience is just a movie created by your mind to relieve you of stress |
plaetton:Please I would like to know if you have had an OBE before? |
plaetton:Please how is consciousness the same as mind? I noticed you have been using both terms to mean exactly the same. Also, is there any evidence backing your claim about brain activity resulting in a foetus becoming conscious and using thoughts? |
DeepSight:It wasn't Lordreed but the person behind the moniker, killyaself, that declared "the something close to it". I remember him saying something like, writing ones thoughts on paper is proof that it's material and tangible. The same person is also behind,the knownunkown, moniker . |
Lack of discipline is the cause. BTW why do women like "throwing themselves at men who have suddenly become rich"? |
Kobojunkie:I'm not responsible for how you think or feel Moreover, you entitled to your own opinion just as I'm entitled to mine. |
Niorte:No. That's not how it works Minimum wage is law which everyone is already aware of. Moreover,the governor is not operating his personal business.He's responsible to the people of Lagos state who elected him and not just the civil servants . And so, whatever plans he has to execute especially when it comes to the issue of salary, which is definitely going to impact on the state finances, must be announced first to the hearing of everyone in the state , circular issued to those in charge of salaries before it's implemented . This is the process and not what you think should be done. This isn't the first time minimum wage has been increased in this country . The process of implementation has not changed. |
Kobojunkie:Just saw this now. Please mention one religion in the world that places the self as supreme deity that others within the group must worship as the one true God ?Just one if you're sure of what you're saying . 2.There's nothing like "at least" one supreme deity for every religion out there. You have asserted a falsehood which you're unwilling to take correction for. 3 If you insist on making a word mean what you want it mean different from its actual meaning which everyone else apart from you has accepted to be correct, then ......... |
@ Op You lost the bet because you gambled on something you don't have enough information on and not because the governor has displayed lack of integrity . Since Lagos State pays their civil servants every 23, it won't be possible for the 85k to reflect in the month of October because everything concerning this month salary has already been finalized as at the time the governor made the announcement . Salaries in the public sector especially for states with a large working force such as Lagos state, is usually ready at least two weeks before payday and not in days Your civil servant friend ishould have informed you of this fact if truly he is working with the Lagos state government or he explained but didn't understand what he said |
Kobojunkie:1. The argument model you have used about 4 thousand Gods existing and worshipped in the about 4 thousand religion in the world is not original to you. I don't think you understand it and the purpose it's meant for. A lot of atheists and irreligious persons have been using it to question the veracity of the claim put forward by both Christians and Muslims that theirs is the only true God which is responsible for the creation of the entire universe and everything in it . It's never about human deities who are never regarded as supreme creators . But I already said here on this thread that it's a false argument because most of the other religion in the world haven't affirmed different supreme dieties but just one which the say has different names in different languages and numerous paths humans have created to make contact with it. In other words,for these other religion there's only one God and not thousands. I believe you don't want to accept you presented a false argument at the beginning and so brought in human deities to create confusion as a way of insisting you were correct about what you argued . No, you not. 2. You're the one trying to create confusion and confusing yourself,not me. Humans are never regarded as supreme deities to be worshipped .So don't conflate the two all because you want to win an argument. If you know of any such supreme human creator deity or religion where' that is accepted, mention it. 3. I never said it cannot have plural. Please go back and read again. I explained "God" begining with capital letter and "god" in Small letter to highlight the difference between humans deities and invisible supreme dieties. Well ,I think I'm done with you since you're pretending not to know the difference between a supreme diety and humans regarded as lesser deities. Thanks for your time. |
Kobojunkie:Your latest inclusion of humans as deities to be worshipped contradicts your earlier argument that there are a thousand Gods in all of the different religion that exist in the world . If you're now trying to include humans, then the figure should be much more higher than the about 4 thousand Gods you initially hinted at The number of individuals claiming to be deities or are regarded as such runs into millions. So why did you stop at 4 thousand which is the estimated number of all the different types of religion that exist? And I never used the plural form "Gods" begining in uppercase but ""gods" . in lowercase in my last reply to you .Changing what I typed is you deliberately trying to representing me. |
Kobojunkie:But you have used the descriptive word,God and not gods in what I responded to. |
emmy512:The person I quoted at first concerning this discussion said that they're over 2000 religion with each one of them having a supreme diety and an hellfire. That's the correct context and not about the "number of people in a religion" |
Kobojunkie:Every religion in the world don't have a supreme diety like the two major religion of Islam and Christianity. Some religion are almost atheistic in nature while others have a deistic viewpoint towards what's regarded as a God. Or gods are a personification of natural forces which they venerate but don't worship or pray to like Christians and Muslims. |
emmy512:No, not true. The argument often repeated by a lot of atheists that most religion in the world have a supreme diety which they worship directly and an hellfire which they also threaten non believers with is founded on falsehood . If you're asked to mention at least 20 from the over 20 thousand as support for your claim,you will struggle to come up with a quarter of that figure . |
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