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stanliwise:
@trisha01
In conclusion he wants to get to the cookie jar.
He is only trying to destroy your ego that would get against that.
I rest my case

Wow, just to have sex?

CheerfulGiver:
First of all, long distance relationships are a waste of time, as far as I am concerned.

Second and most importantly, when someone shows you signs that he doesn't want to be with you, compares you to other ladies and generally puts you down in private and in public, it's time to hold your head high and walk the hell out of that relationship.

As humans we get so emotionally attached that we always think there is no one else better than the one taking us for granted. A failed relationship is always better and more preferable, than a broken marriage. It's very simple. I don't care if you've dated him for 10 years. If you don't have peace of mind now, you can't get it in marriage. Consider that 4 years as wasted.

He is showing you signs of how your marriage is going to be. I can tell you for free that no one actually changes from an attitude they didn't show you before, but have begun to show it in very strong terms.

Unless of course there is something else you're gaining from that relationship, like money or good sex, you should leave that abusive relationship. Majority of you ladies are fond of seeking advice and then go contrary to what advice you were given because of "good dick".

It's your cross to carry but for free, this guy doesn't look like the man for you. He may be a very perfect fit for another girl, but he is not for you. There's no crime in a person's choice for a life partner. He has told you why you guys are no longer compatible. This is the writing on the wall. He isn't going to break up with you, until he has started dating his future wife. Take his cue and leave that relationship with your head held high, else you risk being as useless to him as the P in Psychology.

Cheers

Wow, thanks for this

More input please

Jashub:
Leave him. There are others out there and it will be a waste of time to marry a man whose focus is only money money. What if there is no money and he decides to use you for rituals? Think well. Peace

Thanks

Okay, my post might be quite long but please be patient and understand before commenting. And also please ignore any typos.

I'm on the fence here and I just need someone to draw my ears� and advice me. I'm dating a guy(30 years and in the medical field). I use to love him but of recent, all I feel for him is hate and anger.
We have been dating for 4years now but we don't stay in same state and have spent time together only twice. He said he wants to marry and was disturbing me to inform my family about him... which I later did.
Now, all he keeps saying is that he is business-oriented and because I'm not (according to him), I'm not meeting his standards. He tells me about his female colleagues and ladies that are always falling for him, tells me about how his family is well known and rich in business. Of recent, he told me he made a lady fall in love with him so that he would delay paying the money he borrowed from her...who does that?! Telling me that he can do anything to survive.
I think he is used to girls throwing themselves at him(because of his profession), so he expects me to treat him like a god. Everything to him is about business!
I don't know what to do to make him know that I'm not like other girls that throw themselves at him(is not like he is fine sef, just average), I want him to look for me, if it will lead to break up, fine!
Do you understand my anger?
Please ladies, redpill guys, what do I do?

Cc: farano, rocktation, Lalasticlala
Please help a sister forward this to front page to get more input.

Thattallgirl:
Is he financially okay? And does he surprise u with little gifts apart from your birthday?

He's a Doctor

Thattallgirl:
Is he financially okay? And does he surprise u with little gifts apart from your birthday?

Never

Truvel:
why Should U Be Angry? Av U Sent Any Birthday Gift To Ur Guy B4?

I buy him things occasionally

Thattallgirl:
Have u also given your boyfriend birthday gifts before?

Yes I do

Tenshades:
Plan for the future for once...

Na birthday gift be una main priority for this life?

Wetin u dey plan for your unborn kids?

Because you wan satisfy your selfish interest, you go dey chop the lives of your future generations?

Have you been planning on building assets with that boyfriend?


It's true that most of you are nothing but liabilities. Birthday gift ruin you there.

Arrant nonsense!

Bros e never reach insult abeg

trisha01:
Are there ladies who has not received any birthday gifts from their boyfriend or fiance and are totally okay with that?

Please this question is for people who have spent 2years and above in their relationship.

I want to know if I'm alone in this, if I'm actually okay and if its totally abnormal.

Please help out

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Ok

Guys pls help me, I've not registered because i don't ve an international passport yet but hope to get it January.
Pls what other thing is required so that i can get them before my int.passport is ready

You are having these problems cus u refused to bribe either or all of them...

Such unusual statement on this blessed day, maybe he came in contact with a forest today...
Wetin concern me sef

Ok

Lol

Chithauri:
It's ended already.

Okay... It seems like different states mark at different times...

Has neco marking started? Any update please?

Iogobenz:
Mine is managing money tbh.
It stresses me more to keep money than to make it.
Looking at my spending frightens me all the time!
Like how am I suppose to keep up with this?
Scares me all the time I swear.i just need a good woman now to marry who will help me manage some stuff tbh.
Heaven please give me a better half.that's all I ask.
I don't mind getting married to her tonight.

Marry me

Papvz:
Went to play football on a Saturday morning when she was out of town, she called on my way to the field and asked why the buzz in the background and told her I was out to play ball. Next thing I hear besay "God has revealed to her all my activities o, that cult meeting u are going for will not hold by the power in the blood of Jesus". Still called my dad to tell him i had gone for cult meting, abeg which cult holds meetings in the morning by 7?Football I have been playing for years prior to that. Besides i have never lived a reckless life but she has always thought the worst

Maybe you gave her the impression... Mums are the best

Apeshy101:


Lost
Her
Too
Early
To
Have
Some
Fun
With
Her.

Rip mum

Sorry dear

Shibaraba:
Sec school days
Drove to school mid lectures to take me back home so I can switch off the pumping machine.
She then asked me to walk back or use my feeding money for transport.

Since then till now I always run a checklist before leaving home or office, so I don't forget anything.

At least we see better thread comment. Bbnaija Don coza the whole news for the forum finish.

Lols..choi

We love our mothers but sometimes, they can be incredibly funny and dramatic and this is one thing that makes us love them more.
So share with us a situation where your mum was dramatic... Let me start

One day i was in the kitchen and i received a beep from my mum(she was in the bedroom) i ran to meet her, just for her to tell me to put only 2maggi in the soup, then she followed me to wash her hands

aragon4realz:
have not written any exams yet
it's for 3 month
past questions yes which I bought online

Oh okay, thanks

aragon4realz:
I enrolled for computer networking ccna and am almost in my third month

Wow nice
How long is that program?
How was the entry exam?
Do you have any past question?

aragon4realz:
who are we

Did you later apply? How was the exams and what course did you choose?

Please what are the steps to register for NYSC... That's from scratch

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