₦airaland Forum

iamrealdeji:
what's ur own business? why are u begging people? is everybody not entitled to their opinion? you have nothing to contribute to this nation than increase in population when the white folks are inventing wonders. you're a primitive black man who should be ashamed of yourself. if you like,marry at 18,no one is stopping you. 70 year old Donald Trump has a 10 year old child and Donald is far better than your father who has grown up children in every way. Africans with stupid mentalities. nonsense. must you wait for the day you will reap off your children? and must you just settle for any woman cos you want to marry?

Sir, with due respect, you should exercise decorum as everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Humility017:
thank you much

My pleasure sir.

elyte89:
C as ppu dey shout 150k-350k as minimum,am sure those quoting such amount are not in d realm of reality,maybe mostly fresh graduate,undergraduate, or secondary school leaver,
Like say e easy,abi no b d same Nigeria we dey tgeda dey hustle, dis earnings re level 14 and above take home for civil servant or for private,u go don read and get experience tayya b4 taking such home at d end of d month,as an employee of a private/multinational companies.
Ogbeni,my peeps,don't let us b like uncle monsuru in my neighborhood, dt graduated early and got a job dt could feed his mouth but refuse due to d high standard he has set for himself, like what odas have quoted earlier
Uncle Monsuru is now 43,still waiting for dt target,
Let's face d reality,once u av a job dt can cater for u conveniently will cater for anoda person too,dts d logic,its more safe and less expensive as a married young man Dan live as a bachelor wout focus and budget, at d end of s day,d previous will turn out better Dan d later

Only one person with all these sense??

Bro you too much o

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Humility017:
you're right dear....
I have seen this for myself
but these should not be reason for rushing into marriage when one is not financially capable...to cater for two.
I currently earn less than #100k and I have learn avoid marriage not until I start receiving more than that.....because many ladies I have meant always frown at my income....

Then kindly look for ladies that are accommodating of your income. Don't let the "income standard" of some ladies determine when you would marry.

ibukunoluwat:
Awon Ti kwasu
I hail o

Abi o.

I guess you also graduated from KWASU or Unilorin?

Jazakhumullah Brother.

May Allah grant us happiness here and hereafter, Amin.

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^^^ Thanks for breaking simplifying it for Omo Kewu like us o .

What I meant by the number 2 was that. In one or two of his lectures, he has once said that Prophet Nuh is his brother "in anger", like he meant that he retaliates whenever he is wronged by others, and he doesn't want to be like the prophet s.a.w in that regard. Your other points have proffered the needed answer. Ignore.

Thanks again sir.

Empiree:
i read otit by lucas bashir on whatsapp. Sheikh Buhari was wrong in his approach. He could do better than that or better still, leave dawah for ACADIP network. This is few minutes clip below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fA5_Jkg_Dk

However, i dont want to judge too much base on this 4 minutes video bcs iot is not comprehensive enough.I think his mission is about fostering muslim-christian relationship. There is nothing wrong for a m uslim to be invited to church. I am only against him saying "In the mighty name of Jesus you will be blessed" There should always be a lie you dont cross btw religious tolerance and compromise.

Below is a comment from the YouTube video

they would not invite him because they are not ready to be accept the truth... but Sheik Buhari was there to foster muslim-christian relationships... nothing more and he did delivered some bitter truth to them stylishly


@Aminu212, this "ahlusunnah" guy is a kid with 10 kobo brain. He is a waste of time. His religious understanding is very limited and dogmatic

Sure. However, there are some things I've discovered from him after listening to his lectures.



I've also been deliberating recently about his lectures. He is more of an entertainer and money conscious fellow than a sheikh calling people to Islam.


How can a scholar;

1. Hold the hands of a non-mahram lady during a lecture of his, I think "Alhaja" Tayebi or one of those female singers, I can't recollect.

2. How can one of the Ummah of Rasulullah (S.A.W) claim he follows Prophet Nuh (sent to another Ummah entirely) while selectively following Rasulullah. What do you think? (Enlighten me on this).

3. Why should a scholar openly claim he has charms leaning on the negative side terming it "asiri" (secret). He mention this in a lot of his sermons.

4. Why should a person like him talk condescendingly about the leader of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria; the Sultan of Sokoto and idolizing his own emir.

5. Why should an Islamic scholar associate and thoroughly mingle with Musicians which Islam does not support. To the extent of even becoming a "personal Alfa" of sort to them.

6 Why should a Ustaz extremely profess his love for material wealth.

7. Why should a Ustaz pray for anyone using a name not affiliated with Allah

8. Why should a Ustaz charge exorbitant amount or even any amount for spreading Islam or coming to lecture.

9. Why should a Ustaz speak condescendingly at others and also exude pride and arrogance not known among sheikhs'? (The way he sometimes talks to those rulers and elders that attends his lecture).

There are other thing I've noticed in his sermons.

I have some clips to buttress the findings, but its lengthy.

I feel he is versed in Quranic knowledge, but all his action boils down to money, status and extreme materialism.


Kindly demystify those point and enlighten us on them.

Double post.

The more we grow, the more we understand how deep life is. Masha Allah.

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Chigold101:
dear, i didnt say fybrod starts at 28.

If one marries a man that loves her and have the resources too, she can fly to the highest mountain.

I am married oh. I wanted to marry at 21 but i missed it slightly with few years.

After my wife‘s youth service, i made her take a Post graduate diploma in Education ( she studied biotech). My next plan is for her to go for masters in Education though she said she will like to take a second degree (nursing).

I am her husband i married her to help her achieve her dream and also guide her. If she achieve everything as a single lady before coming to my house, what would then be my own contribution to her success.

Sister if as far as i am concerned, if you see a husband at 18 marry him if God convinced he is your husband. A good man will build u to highest point.

Weather my wife is going for masters of going a degree in nursing, i am opening a school for her come september 2017. Because thats her dream and i am in her life to help her achieve it.

She is the mother of my baeutiful children. Taking care of me and our children are already too much work and i cant stand her being shouted down at by any man or woman.

Finally, dont miss your oppotunity cos you want to go into marriage table with something.

To manege men no easy then add it children plus pregnancy...

Too much wisdom. Respect sir!

No name calling please.

patrickkkk:
I designed and built a device that can preserve fresh ripe tomatoes for at least 30day in an hygienic unique way. I do not know
- if this innovation is an
INVENTION and if it is
- could it be patented ? How
can I go about it?

Sorry no video and pics attached yet because its confidential for now

Good evening sir,
how far with your innovation??

MrOfficer:
China gradually taking over. May interest you to know they pride themselves with the world's fastest super computer.

Taking my Mandarin classes seriously. Xie xie

A190:
I can conclude that you're an academic. At unilorin or kwasu

I'm a fresh graduate from KWASU.

Demmzy15:
Jebba is a yoruba word. It's derived from "Je-Eba" which mean "eat eba", the people there like Eba!

Let me sleep in peace o

Demmzy15:
Jebba is a yoruba word. It's derived from "Je-Eba" which mean "eat eba", the people there like Eba!

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realjoker:
how are Nupe sub groups being deliberately classified as non Nupe?

Let's do a small test to prove that the Nupe subgroups are being excised from the Nupe nation. Whom do you refer to as the Nupes. A seemingly easy question. But please, answer it honestly as usual.

realjoker:
how are Nupe sub groups being deliberately classified as non Nupe?

Let's do a small test to prove that the Nupe subgroups are being excised from tge Nupe nation. Whom do you refer to as the Nupes. A seemingly easy question. But please, answer it honestly as usual.

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Markfemi2:
Well your stance doesn't change tbt fact jebba has an oba lol

Please retire from this discourse.

realjoker:
Lol. Forward all the books to me. Princelawalahmed@yahoo.com

I would, you too forward yours.

realjoker:
Lol.. Seems like you have soften your stance now. Jebba is an ancient Yoruba town.

My stance remain the same, but you should understand the perspective that I'm coming from.

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