₦airaland Forum

iamrealdeji:
what's ur own business? why are u begging people? is everybody not entitled to their opinion? you have nothing to contribute to this nation than increase in population when the white folks are inventing wonders. you're a primitive black man who should be ashamed of yourself. if you like,marry at 18,no one is stopping you. 70 year old Donald Trump has a 10 year old child and Donald is far better than your father who has grown up children in every way. Africans with stupid mentalities. nonsense. must you wait for the day you will reap off your children? and must you just settle for any woman cos you want to marry?

Sir, with due respect, you should exercise decorum as everyone is entitled to their opinion.

You don't know his job or advocacy as such, you should not be hasty with your opinion. Direct your questions to the rich men and politicians who probably have not contributed significantly to the the building of Nigeria, even with our collective wealth in their purview.

So because some people are inventing (taking into cognisance constant electricity, good road and government support at their disposal) then you should pick on him? Is he the government or the one in charge of the wealth and affairs of Nigeria? Give Nigerian youth same opportunity, and you would see wonders. Direct your questions to the appropriate quarters.

When has Donald Trump become the "standard"? Probably your own standard of " good" your opinion. Why on earth should you insult his dad? Even if he has 50 children, that's not your concern. Just because Donald Trump is the U.S president and a billionaire, with fame and glitz does not make him better than anyone. His money and influence, his business.

He never expressly said that he wants to feed off his children. I kind of agree that nobody should marry just about anybody.

N:B Any guy that can cater for 2 or more mouth, has a shelter, and can fufil the basic life requirement, please get married, it is better in all ramification; even if you are 22!

Humility017:
thank you much

My pleasure sir.

elyte89:
C as ppu dey shout 150k-350k as minimum,am sure those quoting such amount are not in d realm of reality,maybe mostly fresh graduate,undergraduate, or secondary school leaver,
Like say e easy,abi no b d same Nigeria we dey tgeda dey hustle, dis earnings re level 14 and above take home for civil servant or for private,u go don read and get experience tayya b4 taking such home at d end of d month,as an employee of a private/multinational companies.
Ogbeni,my peeps,don't let us b like uncle monsuru in my neighborhood, dt graduated early and got a job dt could feed his mouth but refuse due to d high standard he has set for himself, like what odas have quoted earlier
Uncle Monsuru is now 43,still waiting for dt target,
Let's face d reality,once u av a job dt can cater for u conveniently will cater for anoda person too,dts d logic,its more safe and less expensive as a married young man Dan live as a bachelor wout focus and budget, at d end of s day,d previous will turn out better Dan d later

Only one person with all these sense??

Bro you too much o

Mypeople2:
Naso them dey talk.That is the reason why papa Johnny is it in one room with four children and unable to pay school fees.

And that is why uncle Paul is still chasing small small girls and bedding them in his three bedroom apartment and also using and dumping them till he realise that he's almost 50 and has varieties of STDs by then papa Johnny's kids would probably graduates

humilitypays:
early marriage has its ups and downs, don't concentrate on the advantages alone....consider the disadvantages too.

And stop the mentality that it is wrong for a man to be 60yrs while his kids are 20...it is not bad. Your message is one of the reasons poverty is widespread in Nigeria and Africa as a whole....look around Nigeria, you see children born without plan for them because their parents just married because they wanted to have kids early without any financial road map to give the kids a good future...we must stop marrying with the belief that miracle will happen....they miracle can still happen when u are single and focused.

Some of our fathers married at 27 - 30 during their days and some gave birth to 10 and above kids...now space the kids with 2yrs, it means some of our dads gave their last children up to 20 - 30yrs and they still look cool. So if a guy plans to give birth to just 2 kids and waits to be financial okay before he settles and finally settles down at 38 - 42yrs, its not bad. Populating the world shouldn't be the sole aim of modern day Nigerian youths but making sure your kids have a beautiful future should be

38-42 years wetin remain

It is good to start early if you can at least feed 2-3 people, earning a income, have shelter, and be able to carryout basic necessities of life. This would prevent the widespread fornication, and also ensure social sanity. I'm almsot sure such person cannot be entirely celibate till 38-42

Humility017:
you're right dear....
I have seen this for myself
but these should not be reason for rushing into marriage when one is not financially capable...to cater for two.
I currently earn less than #100k and I have learn avoid marriage not until I start receiving more than that.....because many ladies I have meant always frown at my income....

Then kindly look for ladies that are accommodating of your income. Don't let the "income standard" of some ladies determine when you would marry.

ibukunoluwat:
Awon Ti kwasu
I hail o

Abi o.

I guess you also graduated from KWASU or Unilorin?

Jazakhumullah Brother.

May Allah grant us happiness here and hereafter, Amin.

vedaxcool:
He wants to be baba Adinni but doesn't want to behave. like one

May Allah bless you for this comment!!!

^^^ Thanks for breaking simplifying it for Omo Kewu like us o .

What I meant by the number 2 was that. In one or two of his lectures, he has once said that Prophet Nuh is his brother "in anger", like he meant that he retaliates whenever he is wronged by others, and he doesn't want to be like the prophet s.a.w in that regard. Your other points have proffered the needed answer. Ignore.

Thanks again sir.

Empiree:
i read otit by lucas bashir on whatsapp. Sheikh Buhari was wrong in his approach. He could do better than that or better still, leave dawah for ACADIP network. This is few minutes clip below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fA5_Jkg_Dk

However, i dont want to judge too much base on this 4 minutes video bcs iot is not comprehensive enough.I think his mission is about fostering muslim-christian relationship. There is nothing wrong for a m uslim to be invited to church. I am only against him saying "In the mighty name of Jesus you will be blessed" There should always be a lie you dont cross btw religious tolerance and compromise.

Below is a comment from the YouTube video

they would not invite him because they are not ready to be accept the truth... but Sheik Buhari was there to foster muslim-christian relationships... nothing more and he did delivered some bitter truth to them stylishly


@Aminu212, this "ahlusunnah" guy is a kid with 10 kobo brain. He is a waste of time. His religious understanding is very limited and dogmatic

Sure. However, there are some things I've discovered from him after listening to his lectures.



I've also been deliberating recently about his lectures. He is more of an entertainer and money conscious fellow than a sheikh calling people to Islam.


How can a scholar;

1. Hold the hands of a non-mahram lady during a lecture of his, I think "Alhaja" Tayebi or one of those female singers, I can't recollect.

2. How can one of the Ummah of Rasulullah (S.A.W) claim he follows Prophet Nuh (sent to another Ummah entirely) while selectively following Rasulullah. What do you think? (Enlighten me on this).

3. Why should a scholar openly claim he has charms leaning on the negative side terming it "asiri" (secret). He mention this in a lot of his sermons.

4. Why should a person like him talk condescendingly about the leader of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria; the Sultan of Sokoto and idolizing his own emir.

5. Why should an Islamic scholar associate and thoroughly mingle with Musicians which Islam does not support. To the extent of even becoming a "personal Alfa" of sort to them.

6 Why should a Ustaz extremely profess his love for material wealth.

7. Why should a Ustaz pray for anyone using a name not affiliated with Allah

8. Why should a Ustaz charge exorbitant amount or even any amount for spreading Islam or coming to lecture.

9. Why should a Ustaz speak condescendingly at others and also exude pride and arrogance not known among sheikhs'? (The way he sometimes talks to those rulers and elders that attends his lecture).

There are other thing I've noticed in his sermons.

I have some clips to buttress the findings, but its lengthy.

I feel he is versed in Quranic knowledge, but all his action boils down to money, status and extreme materialism.


Kindly demystify those point and enlighten us on them.

Double post.

Our Sheikhs in the house. I found this piece on the net. "What say thou?"

In our world today, more attention is being given to extremism and the negative impact it has on the religion. However, a careful study of the lives of liberals and the extremists should bring anyone to the conclusion that "The liberals and extremisms are brothers." Distorting and negating fundamental teachings of the religion are required to be a liberal or extremist and anyone who studies the religion from the lives of a liberal and extremist misunderstands the religion.

Islam is a religion that understands and teaches respect of our religious differences. It is against hypocritical friendship/relationship.

The verse "Lakum deenukum wa liya Deen" does not mean not saying the truth about your religion in the presence of other religions. If someone cannot tolerate the truth from your religion, his level of tolerance should be questioned not yours. The essence of the verse is understanding and respecting our differences not tolerance, compromise that breeds nothing but hypocrisy.

The evils of liberals and extremists are much. In summary, when the religion asks you to leave people of other faiths to their religion, a liberal goes to practise their religion with them while the extremists would decide to harm them in the name of He that sent them not.

To a liberal, the one who practises Islam as it should be practised is seen as an extremist while the extremist sees him as a liberal.

Someone who studies Islam from a liberal sees the Muslim as an intolerant extremist. He sees the liberal as a perfect example of a "good Muslim" thus misunderstanding the religion. The liberal goes to celebrate the death of Jesus with a Christian to the joy of the Christian. Such Christian might know or not that the Qur'an says Jesus was not crucified; what a friendship based on lies, falsehood and hypocrisy!!!

One who studies Islam using the extremists as a standard also misunderstands the religion because to him, the extremist justifies his actions with the Qur'an while he sees the liberal as a "moderate Muslim" that does not follow the "extreme" teachings of the Qur'an.

It came as a surprise to many when Buhari ọmọ Musa was invited to a Celestial church to deliver a lecture on "Holy Mary in Islam" in a "Blessed virgin Mary feast". Buhari ọmọ Musa went as an "Islamic lecturer" only to pray in Jesus name.

While it is not on me to declare someone as Kafir, does praying in Jesus name not amount to associating partners with Allah? Did he pray believing or hoping the prayer would be answered or he just did to buy the audience? Whichever, they are not befitting for someone who claims to represent Islam.

The likes of Buhari ọmọ Musa are threats to Da'wah. They deface Islam and make Muslims that practise Islam as it should look extreme. The thousands of liberals will justify their actions by what Buhari Ọmọ Musa and his likes do.

How can an average Muslim tell a Christian during a discourse the meaning of Lakum deenukum wa liya Deen without the Christian referencing Buhari ọmọ Musa and his likes. Such Christian will further query the Muslim's Arabic knowledge compared to Buhari ọmọ Musa's.

If there is an Islamic body that sees to affairs like this, Buhari ọmọ Musa should be cautioned and such lecture should be stopped in future. How can an Islamic lecture conceal the word of Allah when an opportunity was given to him. If he cannot, why accept the invitation in the first place.


This is a Fitnah and silence is not golden in this regard. If he cannot declare himself an entertainer, we can urge him to change, help him with prayers and let people know that Buhari ọmọ Musa does not in any way represent the Muslims perhaps his stomach.

It is sickening to read a comment from a Christian, "Celestial church and Islamic practises are similar". innaliLlahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un. My response, "Yes, the Celestial church practises can only be similar to a Yorubalized version of Islam"

Extremists and liberals do not represent Islam and they can never be perfect examples of a Muslim.As we sought Allah's aid, may He rectify our affairs. Ameen.


(https://knowislam.com.ng/liberalism-and-extremism-threats-to-dawah/ )

Bashir Lucas Samson Lukman @knowislam.com.ng

Empiree
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And others

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Chigold101:
dear, i didnt say fybrod starts at 28.

If one marries a man that loves her and have the resources too, she can fly to the highest mountain.

I am married oh. I wanted to marry at 21 but i missed it slightly with few years.

After my wife‘s youth service, i made her take a Post graduate diploma in Education ( she studied biotech). My next plan is for her to go for masters in Education though she said she will like to take a second degree (nursing).

I am her husband i married her to help her achieve her dream and also guide her. If she achieve everything as a single lady before coming to my house, what would then be my own contribution to her success.

Sister if as far as i am concerned, if you see a husband at 18 marry him if God convinced he is your husband. A good man will build u to highest point.

Weather my wife is going for masters of going a degree in nursing, i am opening a school for her come september 2017. Because thats her dream and i am in her life to help her achieve it.

She is the mother of my baeutiful children. Taking care of me and our children are already too much work and i cant stand her being shouted down at by any man or woman.

Finally, dont miss your oppotunity cos you want to go into marriage table with something.

To manege men no easy then add it children plus pregnancy...

Too much wisdom. Respect sir!

I don't see the rationale why some people always advocate "career first, achieve all your life goals first etc." And then condemning marriage to be a side issue.
I agree that you as a man most especially should be able to support a family. However, saying that you want to achieve all your life goals first even though you can support a family, OYO.

Marriage for the right reason saves you from diseases, fornication, increases your focus and prevent other ills.
Marriage is an ACHIEVEMENT and a MAJOR life goal too. If you don't support or strongly criticize early marriage, don't force others to align with your stance.

No name calling please.

patrickkkk:
I designed and built a device that can preserve fresh ripe tomatoes for at least 30day in an hygienic unique way. I do not know
- if this innovation is an
INVENTION and if it is
- could it be patented ? How
can I go about it?

Sorry no video and pics attached yet because its confidential for now

Good evening sir,
how far with your innovation??

MrOfficer:
China gradually taking over. May interest you to know they pride themselves with the world's fastest super computer.

Taking my Mandarin classes seriously. Xie xie

A190:
I can conclude that you're an academic. At unilorin or kwasu

I'm a fresh graduate from KWASU.

Demmzy15:
Jebba is a yoruba word. It's derived from "Je-Eba" which mean "eat eba", the people there like Eba!

Let me sleep in peace o

Demmzy15:
Jebba is a yoruba word. It's derived from "Je-Eba" which mean "eat eba", the people there like Eba!

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Ama80:
Obviously she chose d man she has eyes on to achieve her sexual fantasy.acting my foot.spinlesss husband.

God bless you for this post!

The cuckold of a husband go dey form gentleman.
Why would a married woman be doing this!? ( please nobody should give me the "it's her profession" line). We are not Westerners.

The other irresponsible one Wale abi what is his name knows how to smooch other people's wife but cannot marry? Height of irresponsibility for a man of his age. (Again, don't give me not the "not everyone wants to get married" line. But everyone wants to have sex?

"Blood sisters" is still her best film till date! The Ryan Gosling wanna-be also tried in phone swap. However -0 respect for them.

realjoker:
how are Nupe sub groups being deliberately classified as non Nupe?

Let's do a small test to prove that the Nupe subgroups are being excised from the Nupe nation. Whom do you refer to as the Nupes. A seemingly easy question. But please, answer it honestly as usual.

realjoker:
how are Nupe sub groups being deliberately classified as non Nupe?

Let's do a small test to prove that the Nupe subgroups are being excised from tge Nupe nation. Whom do you refer to as the Nupes. A seemingly easy question. But please, answer it honestly as usual.

realjoker:
Like i earlier stated
1, Jebba is 100% Yoruba ancient city
2, its ownership is not under contention, rather jebba North is under contention, which is now dominated by Nupes on the northern side of River Niger ceded to Niger state after IBB regime border readjustment policy that based Kwara state and Niger state borderline on river Niger.
3, The two states government are working towards reaching amicable compromise on Jebba north ownership, part of the resolution is Kwara state being recognized as hydro electric power state. Note: Jebba hydroelectric dam is in Jebba North ceded to Niger state.
4, Nupes people and people of jebba and Yorubas in general has a cordial relationship predating colonial era and never fought any major war with each other. Till date Nupe and Yoruba still sees each others as brothers forget about the dirty politics currently going on in Nigeria.

1. Jebba historically is not a Yoruba town. I would always stand on that except you provide substantive facts.

2.Jebba is not a town under contention being that the Nupes are the original inhabitants along the Niger. From Kwara to Kogi to Niger, you would observe that Nupe settlements are scattered across the Niger.

3. Okay. However Jebba north undisputedly belongs to the Nupes.

4. Yes. Nupes and Yorubas in Jebba are in peaceful terms. But, the Nupes and Yorubas of the Old have fought wars.

realjoker:
Like i earlier stated
1, Jebba is 100% Yoruba ancient city
2, its ownership is not under contention, rather jebba North is under contention, which is now dominated by Nupes on the northern side of River Niger ceded to Niger state after IBB regime border readjustment policy that based Kwara state and Niger state borderline on river Niger.
3, The two states government are working towards reaching amicable compromise on Jebba north ownership, part of the resolution is Kwara state being recognized as hydro electric power state. Note: Jebba hydroelectric dam is in Jebba North ceded to Niger state.
4, Nupes people and people of jebba and Yorubas in general has a cordial relationship predating colonial era and never fought any major war with each other. Till date Nupe and Yoruba still sees each others as brothers forget about the dirty politics currently going on in Nigeria.

1. Jebba historically is not a Yoruba town. I would always stand on that except you provide substantive facts.

2.Jebba is not a town under contention being that the Nupes are the original inhabitants along the Niger. From Kwara to Kogi to Niger, you would observe that Nupe settlements are scattered across the Niger.

3. Okay. However Jebba north undisputedly belongs to the Nupes.

Markfemi2:
Show us evidence nupe founded Jebba - no shoe
Show us evidence of old nupe kings you no show
Pls you just wasted your energy

I would get you the evidence of the Nupes of the old. I would give you additional sources on how the Nupes founded Jebba.

While I'm on it, you too should start digging up facts about;
1. The Kanuri-Yoruba coalition against the Fulanis
2. The etymology of the word "Jebba"
3. Provide Mungo Park's book that predates Lugard's
Do that.

AworiLagosian:
No no no, the Obaship institution in Jebba does not have anything to do with Lugard.
The first Oba Debola Adebara ruled in the mid 1800's whereas Lugard only got to Nigeria in 1912.

So you see the delinkage.

"Other machinations involved" (Britain, UAC, etc) these ones were present and have been trading and exploring far earlier than that.

Gowever, observe the discourse from this angle. Jebba has been existing pre 1864 right? The question therefore is that; was there no form of rulership?

Markfemi2:
Well your stance doesn't change tbt fact jebba has an oba lol

You are bereft of any point please retire from this discourse.

realjoker:
Lol. Forward all the books to me. Princelawalahmed@yahoo.com

I would, you too forward yours.

realjoker:
Lol.. Seems like you have soften your stance now. Jebba is an ancient Yoruba town.

My stance remain the same, but you should understand the perspective that I'm coming from. Jebba is not a Yoruba town historically. If it is, please explain the etymology of the name "Jebba". Thanks.

Double post

Markfemi2:
Sigh

Ilorin loss is different from Fulani expansion
Before Fulani captured ilorin
They had already waged war against today's north east oyo empire and even Benin
Ilorin loss was another battle entirely

Please don't cofuse us. I was referring to the Yoruba-Kanuri coalition, but you are stating another thing entirely. Please address my questions regarding your assertion of the "coalition" between the Yorubas and the Kaburis agianst the Fulanis. Please visit that post again and re-read the questions and your assertion. Thanks.