₦airaland Forum

majekdom2:
how so?

Having a child(ren) out of wedlock signifies irresponsibility and a deadened moral consciousness.

No matter the name you choose to call it (Baby mamism o, friends with benefit o, live-in lovers o etc), a child out of wedlock is a BASTARD!!! And those involved committed fornication/adultery!! (Except it is a case of rape and related causes).

The West can choose to say otherwise, but that is what it is to a normal society.

bettercreature:
You called it wrong perception at the same time you said those you engaged told you their first priority is marriage
Mehn you can not pass a debate,you are in support and against your question

I think the OP's submission to Afam4eva is more of "political correctedness", while having a euphemistic garb.

Again, the OP also appears not to know the real root and philosophy of...communism....sorry feminism. . Let's not even go there yet.

Male feminist?? Better don't let your mum hear that


Anyone who choose to make marriage their first priority has all the right and backing, and can even decide not to be a "career woman", and still be very fulfilled.

Let's cut it short.

Longeaton:
Male feminist! like what the Bleep?

He still wants to retain his Masculine prestige now

Apogee14:
more like devolving

Or even better; "degradingly evolving".

planetzoom:
Ishiaq akintola is a jihadist,an open supporter of boko haram and fulani herdsmen. In 2016, he brazenly and openly supported the rape and forceful conversion of ese oruru and exonerated the perpetrators. he is being used by the caliphate to institute the islamic agenda. Nigerians expecially christians must be wary of people like him.

Call him all you want, he is free to demand his religious rights. And I'll like to see two different sources where Prof. Akintola "brazenly" supported Book Haraam.

toye440:
I do hope balarebe Musa's qoute sinks.

Peace.

toye440:
Pride they say comes before a fall i just hope ur brain washed idea or biased approach to life doesn't land u in sorry state. o lest i forgot,4 is d limit plus u can delete and refresh. The only reason u and i still break words is NL.
Take this Nigeria's, constitution is supreme to any religious law. If she cant vote at 15 broda she cant marry period.

Land me in a sorry state and how is the post biased?

Excuse me, you're the one exhibiting those to vices. The "constitution" is supreme to you not me. I don't take laws written by men to be supreme above God's. So because some people sat, down and declared that because she can't vote, so she can't get married?

Let's draw the curtain here, and each should go in peace.

Peace.

toye440:
its a pity i share a geographical space with some VIRGIN HUNTERS ppl like u; is Nigeria guided by Constitution or Islamic law.
u see y we r crying out for restructuring or a referendum, because we cant continue with this folly.
imagine u telling me to go back to reading biology txt books wen dey lurk in my brain, young man according to balarebe musa "if ur sentiment can blind u to a point wre it prevents u from speaking d truth then u r of no use to humanity". I think i concur with his point

Your first paragraph points to one thing! Bigotry.

Persue my post again and check which does not agree to the principles of a sane and morally upright society?

toye440:
i dont know what to say to u, but for now u need help, i can't imagine myself stoop so low to educate u on what is right or wrong.

You don't need to say anything.

Stoop so low to educate me? Someone you don't even have the slightest idea of? Your post reeks of pride and arrogance. Get rid of them and you might learn

miketayo:
What is this one saying, so u support teenagers getting married

Do you really understand my post?

Even from a biological point of view, there's nothing like a "teenage"; It's a Western construct

It's either you're married or not!

On a personal level, would you allow your daughter or son to have boyfriends ditto with your son (and fornicate around in the name of being a teenager) or would you rather want them married??

toye440:
I know Abraham has two sons, i am from d bloodline of ISAAC, from ur response i know wre u belong.
wch explains y a senator and some titled individuals/ traditional leaders lust after 13-14 yr old children, which i believe is particular to a region. U can say all u want but commonsense tells u its child abuse but because u r so religiously blinded u cant even stand for what is right wch is y VVF is predominant/ prevalent in this part of d country.
ur second paragraph talks abt masturbation and sex. i say wre is d place for discipline, but den i realised no one cares they learnt everything from d streets. But if only ur ppl would know what d bible says and do it; i know d bible says bring up a child in d way dat he would go and wen he grows he would not depart from it.i.e. teach dem to b morally sound and upright and so it would b. But how can they teach them wen at early stage of their life's they r out their on the street wch is y bible says a child left to himself would bring shame onto his parents.
i know u don't have or posses what it takes to understand my words they r like parables or foolish words to u, just like i know how d words of d cross sounds to those who r spiritually detached from d father.

Why do I keep feeling pity and hoping for guidance for you?

Which of the fathers:
1. Biological father
2. Jesus (Is a) Peace be upon him or who?
3..........
You'll be VERY VERY DELUSIONAL to refer to "God" as the third option.

So ALL those robbers, Con stars, prostitutes, "shooters" etc were left to their own vices?

I would not understand? Really?

Its alright.

toye440:
I know Abraham has two sons, i am from d bloodline of ISAAC, from ur response i know wre u belong.
wch explains y a senator and some titled individuals/ traditional leaders lust after 13-14 yr old children, which i believe is particular to a region. U say qll u want but commonsense tells u its child abuse but because u r so religiously blinded u cant even stand for what is right wch is y VVF is predominant in this part of d country.

He has two son, and you believe that the other one is "illegitimate"? You dare call one of Abraham's (peace be upon him) son illegitimate?? because yours not genetically from his (Ishmael; Ismail's peace be upon him) It's up to you on how you will answer your Creator on this!

To marry a girl requires in Islam requires that she's affirmed to be mature, she gives her consent and her guardian approves of it. And, maturity can occur at age: 12, 13....... That's common sense. Yet, if maturity happens, her consent is needed. If not null and void.


So because she has not attained the "magical age" of 18, she's not matured .

Do yourself a favour and read some biology and sociology texts.

YourTerror:
Go through my threads. At a time I decided to stop hating and preach peace. But terrorists like that make me alwaya wanna take them to the gates of hell!

Thats why their religion preaches violence!

Sir, I don't support hate speeches from ANYBODY. Just scroll past it. Tribalism is rife in Nigeria, and I hate that.

I'm a Muslim and I always proclaim it with any opportunity I have. Islam does not preach violence. Try to understand it while adopting a neutral stance.

kenny714433:
Don't be confused with the word child as used by me there. I bliv u should know what I mean.

No matter the justifications u may give for their union, I still stand out to tell u that at their age, they should be doing something reasonable to secure the future first. He should use his youthful energy to create impact in his society..... Not going into marriage.

Have you viewed it from this perspective that "he can be married, still be able to secure his future and impact his society.

Being single is not the only status where security can be procured and impact can be made.

Plainly speaking, would you rather support that he has a "girlfriend" which he fools (and fornicate) around with and still be trying to "impact" his society?

YourTerror:
Why not feel pity for the terrorist from your region that calls Igbos prostitutes while hiding behind Potor region?

Two wrongs don't make a right. If you're more mature, act it!

YourTerror:
And you wonder why VVF and HIV is prevalent in your worthless Boko Haram region?

Ground head hitter!

What I feel for you is....extreme pity

Be guided if not

kenny714433:
My dad will tell me" marriage isn't for children "

Define a "child", and do so while taking into cognisance the morphological, physiological, psychological and physical variations; don't use the "age 18" standard.

Thank you.

toye440:
This is no doubt CHILD ABUSE. The young boy knows nothing about how to run or manage a family, but at d moment all his going to b happy for is free sex on daily basis and watch free vjay.
pls d young girl should b in school its too early for both of them, somebody tell me wen she learn how to wash her undies clean abeg. Pls lets speak out against child abuse. I wonder wats happening to our value system. Boko aram bcame a menace because those recruited had no good parental care or parents to give dem direction, most of them wre handpicked from d street, this is a case of children raising children pls in ur honest mind wat r we expecting.

Who told you she's not in school?

What law stipulates that you must complete schooling before getting married?

Child Abuse? Tell that to those seeking to encourage masturbation and early sex education for children.

Child Abuse? But teens should be allowed to experiment with Sex, alcohol etc under the pretext of; "oh, they are teens"?

Swerve!

EBISABA:
No b 2day... B4 30yr of deir age nw dey will v gave birth 2 50children... North nd deir believe.. Hapi sunday guys

Its far better than "buying" a child because she's 45, desperate and needs a child.

miketayo:
common the dude is barely a man and the girl is under aged, in a civilized country the boy would be arrested along with everyone involved

Which "civilized" country?

You mean the ones that let their kids experiment with drugs, sex, alcohol before 18, but frown when the kids wants to get married, or the ones that are introducting a "third gender", or the ones that would rather have kids up and, down from different women, promoting homosexuality etc.

Tell me which civilized country? Don't confuse technological superiority with advancement.

kristisking:
Northerners and early marriage are like 5 & 6. Some people here are even justifying what the children did without knowing that marriage is for mature minds. It takes maturity to handle issues relating to marriage and not just two people coming together as husband and wife

What are the constituents of maturity?
At what age is an individual deemed mature?

Let's start from those Two questions.

theapeman:
prophet Muhammed got married to a 9yrs old child. at least this one is ok

You need help and guidance!

agarawu23:
North and stupidityy

No wonder dey flood Lagos street begging.

I respect you and I still believe that you're reasonable and far above what you posted.

iamsirmichael1:
What are they marrying??

Someone who isn't established wants to start fathering children for his parent to take care of

Go and tell that to the "Over established Uncle at 45", unmarried and still chasing young girls of 16!

Evaberry:
It is settled nothing good can ever come out from the North.
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Bunch of people without directions or goals



This girl is pregnant

You need all the help you can get. Seriously.

indodon:
before he's 25 she would have given birth to three or four kids .....


and the nigga wee goan marry another 15 yr old hahahahah

Looking past your myopic views, its extremely better than (if has all the confirmations of maturity) than sleeping around at 11, 4 abortions for three men at 14, 15 past sexual partner before 18, already a walking bag of disease at 21, and finally "tying the nut" at 24. It seems the latter is gaining ground unfortunately.

And when Muslim countries ban their "Euro-progessive laws and cultures", these bloody hypocrites should not scream " human right or freedom of expression and association".

Western hypocrisy stinks!

Empiree:
Or Chinese govt forgot that Qur'an is in the brain

They gonna have to exterminate ALL Muslims to be able to accomplish this.

Abi now. Except they'll commit genocide, or they'll nuke their country to be able to stop them from praying or reading the Qur'an.

Lilimax:
No sane country will open their country to influx of Muslims because most of them are very violent,
hostile and intolerant

I hope you receive guidance

Kwara can't be more than 70% Yoruba. Other ethnicities like Nupe, Baruba, Hausa, Fulani etc also exists as very important minorities especially Nupe and Baruba.

guru90:
18 years.... wen I finished my secondary school back in the years..

To me perfect year to marry is at the age of 25 or 28 and then lately 30.....


what is 18 years in Marriage?

To me it is nonsense and not acceptable.

I never wanted to reply in this thread, but your comment is just a truckload of NONSENSE!

So because you finished secondary school at age 18 so everybody must align with your perspective?

So because they probably don't want to fornicate and keep aborting and chose to do the right thing, it is not acceptable to you?

So you would prefer your kids to keep fornicating around till age 25-30 before they do the right thing?

Talk of a fool at 40...

BluntBoy:
I am not one of those who have made merchandise of the gospel. Repent and follow Jesus the Christ, the only and the truest Shepherd.

I have your time...small today.

1. Do you know why I won't argue with you? Because:

"Indeed, those who disbelieve - it is all the same for them whether you warn them or do not warn them - they will not believe".
"Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment" (Surah Al-Baqarah 2: 6-7).

Do you know why I just sort of pity you? Because you are- "Deaf, dumb and blind..." (Al-Baqarah 2:18).

Do you know why I won't bother replying you again? Because the Quran says:

"And argue not with the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians), unless it be in (a way) that is better (with good words and in good manner, inviting them to Islamic Monotheism with His Verses)... (Surah Al-Ankaboot: 46)

The ONLY reason I had to come in was when I saw your nonsense in this section which boldly states FOR MUSLIMS.

We're done. Don't bother quoting me.