₦airaland Forum

ernieboy:
chief igbinedion ia not a kid that u just chat up on the phone, what is worth doing is worth doing well.

So Igbenedion is higher than former President I beg Jonathan didn't come ALL THE WAY TO EDO to thank Igbenedion!!!!!!!!!! QED!! Use your IQ pleaseeee!

And they have not reviewed Imo that people protested about? Or na me miss news since?have they reviewed Imo?

I am the only one that understands the OP...what he wanted to say or what he was implying is that , ever since he married his wife, a lot of misfortune came his way. In other words, the woman get 'spiritual barrier'. To advise you OP, na two ways. Maybe she has barrier or u have. Definitely, one of u has barrier, that's why things went hay wire after the marriage. There are some people who have been destined not to marry, if u try it, u might even die. My dear friend two of you should go for genuine Deliverance

In sanr climes, everyone is entitled to something

Kasalee001:
"On the phone" brother please grow up , there are alot of things that are beyond phone call.

So Jonathan came all the way to thank Igbinedion for the award given to him last year? Clap for yourself. I go remind u this statement during Edo election / decamping time

According to Osagie, former President Goodluck Jonathan was in Edo State to thank Chief Gabriel Igbenedion for the Doctorate Degree awarded to him by the Okada University.

I disagree and disbelieve. Why didn't GEJ thank Igbinedion on phone. Gej visit na to woo Obaseki. We ain't fools

AFONJAPIG:
20 out of 34 sacked staffs are from oyil soup republic... I no dey hear sai barbar this days werin hapun

Where be Oyil soup?

Racoon:
Nothing new @ all.APC is just a band of desperately wicked power drunks who formed a corruption-ridden government.Make una continue.Karma will pay back. Where are the mummified zombies of the govt?

The zombies are probably dead. Have u seen zombie live long? Can't u see the way they walk? They walk like the dead

magicminister:
When are we going to protest the lack of electricity that has been plaguing this country since before most of us were born?

The government has refused to do anything and in 2020, we are still unable to have 247 power supply!

We don't even need light 247 but for a few hours per day

I love this thread .I de swear for people wen cause our light problems. That's all I do

Person must cry na. How come e be news? U know how many times Buhari don make me cry today say I de this shit hole country?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

That is not true

Your girl friend knows nothing about what she is saying

I beg na true. Only sons are spoilt brats

Hmmmm

ZombieHUNT:
You want the presidency to sack the president?

The NSA stepped on the lion's tail..
He should live with the consequences

How?

Fulanis should go to the north with their cow. Fish is enough for Deltans

Yorubas say no to a.. licking Fulanis a..

NaijaRoyalty:
Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) ha failed in every sectors of the economy .

Insecurity , strife, homelessness, waste, on the rise under the dullards watch .

No pity felt tho because we warned Nigerians against reinforcing a failure like the worlds most lifeless President , Baba go slow himself, Jibrin Al Sudan .

I love ur last paragraph. Yeye Jubrin El Sudani,.. one day he will go to Sudan and never return

Shithole method for a shithole guy. I wish say na shit de inside the truck make them use am baf Oshiomole

ChoCho54:
Why? You expected them to throw punches? Haba nau!

But Oshiomole set hand like say he want throw punch

jawalis:
You really sounds like a gentleman. But here’s the problem. Don’t you think she’s humbled cos of the fact that she’s a single mother (After One) and she knows for sure that NO MAN WILL ACCEPT HER WITH A CHILD THESE DAYS. Let her not behave well or be comported like all those shit of good girl she’s faking and see if anyone will look her direction. Forget her humility or whatever mask she’s putting on as a camouflage to wipe off her ugly past. And you are calm enough to believe or assume she’s decent. Where’s the decency in ladies Nowadays. Listen; because she’s not used to social Media doesn’t make her trustworthy, it might be due to circumstances. Who knows where she met her ex who’s the father of the boy. Her so called decency decency or other freaky questionable qualities that got you attracted might be a product of her lesson leant in the harder way. Btw, she’s just 24 and already had a 4yrs old boy and you believe she’s good, decent, churchy and lots of shit. Bro stop thinking with your heart. Let your brain take charge of the reasoning. She told you over her dead body! Meaning she’ll chose the child over you and you are there protecting her and feeling butterflies for that chameleon who already manipulated you and already on the verge on caging you into taking responsibilities for her looseness. And she’s expecting you to condone what her own mother cannot tolerate. What a pity. Paying his school fee isn’t bad. Honestly. You can do more if you have the financial capacities but not at the expense of your happiness. From your words here: it’s clear you aren’t comfortable with the whole thing and she’s not ready to let go. There are lots of single girls out there who you can wife. Forget about these feeling issues. It weakens you.

What age u take disvirgin? At 20 were u a virgin? I don't care if u are male or female ..just answer me. . People always quick to judge

WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

Mr William,.... I'm happy u said u need mature advise. I will itemize mine:

1. No child is 'unstubborn' at 3-5...they are usually very very stubborn at that age. Haven't you heard of the slogan the 'terrible three'? It means they are very stubborn at 3. (And that range)

2. Why do u beat a 4 year old? That's very wicked of u . U can scold and spank..but it should end there. Beating a child? That's heinous

3. If u are marrying a single mother,u are definitely marrying the mom and child or children. There's nothing wrong if she's a single mother. People make mistakes. She might have made a mistake,granted, but is that the end of the world or her life? We all need second chance. We are not God.

4. Na na na ....I disagree with u, children don't go and look for their dads anymore, a deadbeat dad is a deadbeat Dad. Funke Akindele didn't go for her dad's burial, TBoss and dad abused themselves till he died,.. you remember Diddy right? He adopted Kim Porta's Son Quincy and raised him. On the day of Kim's burial, her Son Quincy hugged P Diddy first, cos Diddy raised him before he hugged his biological dad.. Go to Quincy's page, u hardly see a post of his real DaD AL B Sure.

5. If u know u love her, then marry her, if u love her, u will love her Child or children. I know man who married a mother of 4. He loves all 4 children. Can't u see Tuface's ex baby mama? She married a pastor,who accepted the kids.

6. U are too young to handle this situation at 26, u may need to leave her for a more mature man. I saw where you said she's cut off from men she did that cos of the series of betrayals

Oga Ned thank you for your fight against malaria. I'm so happy with u over this venture. God bless ur union with Regina. Haters make una drink Panadol extra with codeine

All I see is a powerful gun in the first pic

Man's inhumanity to woman .. sigh

Madam, u nor get case. I beg nor divorce o. U have no issue. In 20 years time , this man will be all yours

natnoble:
The special adviser should kindly state clearly with YES or NO if 100million Dollars would be paid to Bagudu not all this long stories.

God bless you,.I read through and didn't hear him mention Bagudu or $100m dollars. I was confused if it's the same post. Is $100million coming to Ba whatever?

Miyetti, just scram

haywire07:
And yet not a single picture after all these analysis?

This is one of the pictures

APC n coronavirus 5 and 6

EdoPrince93:
He is right you know...Burna boy has always been an arrogant prick of a person, Smh...No wonder he was labelled uneducated for not winning the Grammys... And also May God punish that Mr lifeless and useless bigot of a presidiot that claims to be in charge of Nigeria along with his useless grandson the dead vulture seller on nairaland...

Head of illiterate association. Who tell u say them call Burna boy illiterate? If u couldn't understand that part after reading the post, then what do I call u? I agree with what u Said about that lifeless buzzo, and mannagrills or whatever

Abacha?

Zombila spotted

pacespot:
People are throwing tantrum at president buhari and blaming on him for everything on this thread, buhari cannot be responsible for the husband and wife fighting in their private bedroom, the problem people have in this country is that they refuse to look within themselves to see what is causing the problems but are quick to judge others. What could cause someone to attack the other person unprovoked and take his or her life? What makes a public office holder to syphon the money meant for providing health care services into private pocket even though he is aware there is a short supply of the services? What makes you the ordinary citizen to think the only way out of your misery is to indulge in a questionable business practice and take over another man's property? The answers to these questions are what Nigerians not ready for, hence, the problem of insecurity and other menaces in the country.