₦airaland Forum

chinwezdasilva:
Everybody for naija na fucking hypocrite

Everybody for Naija including you. Why are you so pained about his prayer?

Are you a Yahoo Boy? If so, change before it's too late. A big AMEN to his prayers.

Osinbajo keeps feeling that being called a gentleman will solve his problem in Abuja.

Sometimes real men take off their gloves and fight till the last man when it matters.

Then again, I am sitting here trying to remember how many people Afenifere assisted.

amarachi06:
I have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child.

Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way.

lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later.

l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me. l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so".

On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that.

The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband.

l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and sucide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't Know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him.

Please Sound advice.

It doesn't get touchier than this but you must gather yourself together and see this as an odd God will help you beat.
Have you recommended that both of you visit a doctor. If not, there's no better time because it may not even be your fault.

Good luck dear!

And we have democracy in Nigeria right?

If Tinubu is my uncle or brother, I will simply tell him to shelve his ambition. Period

Buhari till 2057

The old man looks like someone who really took care of his health and himself.

Nice One!

Well, the one that got me was calling a mob on her husband but the the good thing is that he is alive to tell the story.
If that happened in Onitsha or east, they will be concluding his funeral by now.

I think the marriage has broken down irretrievably though.

phew09:
Wakanda print

How many colours of these wakanda prints do you have? Price Pls.

ok

Ok

Kastrom:
Good evening ladies and gentlemen, I just finished serving last month and I got a job offer of 40k. I am a B.Sc holder, graduated with second class upper. I need your candid advice whether I should accept or decline the job offer.

It's way too low for a graduate with 21 though it's above the minimum wage.
If this is the only offer before you right now, then it's worth managing.
One thing you failed to tell us is whether you are going to be living by yourself or with your parents.
Good luck!

She couldn't close her mouth in any of the damn pictures. Yuk!

I pity those who have faith in the Nigerian Judiciary.

harrikoko:
So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

Both of you are not honest with yourselves as a couple but my biggest surprise is that she told you she slept with the lecturer just once and you believed her. Unless you tell us how many of your stuffs she damaged or how devastated she looked when you told her you have been having illicit affairs with countless women for over 6 months, I can tell you that you are living with a woman who has been sharing you with another man for 6 months or even more.

vibewithme:
can we all agree that Nigeria is a joke now??

Nigeria has been a joke since 1960. come to think of it.

Ok

;The cabals are setting a huge trap for Tinubu with Osinbajo.

I know he will never say anything about this humiliation or he will kiss his 2023 ambition goodbye

There are some demands people should stay away from, or feelings will be hurt.

As if some of you complaining here will not say harsher things to the dude

How come I dreamed where Nigerians are doing the same thing to our political criminals.

Buhari: If I start dealing with the mumu who mentioned my name in that useless video, Nigerians will say I am wicked.

Nice one.
You can always tell those who have good hearts regardless of how 'crazy' others think they are.

Because he is like a sad song who doesn't care whose heart it breaks.

Most lawyers are like that though. What do you expect him to do?

ViviZub:
Get your children educational android tablets @ N20,000 with free delivery nationwide. Go through my threads for pictures and please check my signature for contact

stfu

OK

Which kind mumu be this one. 7k when I collect 500 million ebry time I travel out of this useless Country.

There will be showdown on this thread all because of name of a person.

God, help me to visit NL peacefully today

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

I really don't know where to start but you need to calm down bro because every married couple will tell you that they have been pushed to the edge by the other at some point. I think that your marriage has broken down but not irretrievably. I believe you still love your wife and the kids but you must take steps to address this serious problem in your marriage because it looks like non of you is happy.

I know you feel bad about beating her but we all feel bad about the number of people your wife has beaten or sent to the hospital. Maybe karma paid her a visit through you but please don't beat anyone again. I think your wife is a serial beater or abuser and she is not happy with what she is getting from you and that's where both of you should have a reality check and decide whether to stay, get a divorce or separate.

I have a couple of questions for you:

How often do you spend time with her?
When was the last time you offered or made plans to take her out without the kids?
Are you the nagging type who really doesn't see anything good in her?
Have you both tried to have your parents or family members resolve these issues for you?
Is there anything this woman is doing that impresses you or you think she is totally useless?
Do you think it;s better to leave your kids and wife and move on or will it hurt you even more?
Can you deal with another man living with your wife and making decisions about your kids when you break up?
Does your wife have anyone she listens to or people who can talk sense into her and let her know her actions are really hurting you?

Answering these questions honestly will give clues to whether to keep trying or pack it up. Goodluck bro.

Back in the years, there was serious deterrent and people used to sleep with their doors open.

There was something called 'firing Squad'. They will bring them to their villages and execute them in front of their people.

I pray they will not tell us one day that this one 'escaped'.

Both my daughter and future son-in-law know there will be hell to pay if I see them as in picture #3. Period.

aro1:
I used the last money on me to send her #1000 airtime, so that she could subscribe data on her phone, and i still borrowed #50 credit to send it.

Last last, she still broke my heart..

Lets share the most stupid thing we ever did for love?

We were both crazily in love years ago. She visited me around 8pm and we agreed that I would take her back home after a quickie.
We both slept off after 'knacking', woke up around 1.30 am. She insisted that she would go home because her dad would kill her.

Well, I stupidly took her home at that time of the day but my problem started while returning to my own home.
Fear came and set in. Suddenly, I began to feel the presence of someone or ghost behind me, following me.

Then, the person or ghost started chasing me. I have never ran faster in my entire life. Till today, I still don't know how I managed to get home.

I have never taken a risk like that in my life. I was tired, stupid, reckless and completely nuts.

Edith, it's still not fair.