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DenreleDave:
Sometimes back, naso I arrange appointment with a lady.. Naso the lady come, entertained her, she carry her smoke. Naso Night reach as we don do do finish, we kon sleep. Trust mi, I cud not sleep overnight. Yes I could not sleep.

Why? I have always read bad news on nairaland about someone dying in another person place and it always ring in my mind.. Funny enough, the girl was not feeling fine and she never told me...

I was almost awake through out the night checking if she is breathing, anytime I suspect she isn't breathing, I tap her and she moves her body... I was even regretting why I had to let her sleep overnight sef but don't blame me, she came in the evening...

Guys, if you get any arrangement with a babe, Pls let her come in the morning and leave that same day, probably evening.. The enjoyment una wan enjoy for night can be enjoyed from morning to evening.. Don't let any lady sleep over.

Disadvantages:

1. She may be possesed (medium risk)

2. She may die in your care (very high risk). Imagine a young guy like you with a bright future going to jail for something u don't know about....

3. You yourself may die.. Hence endangering the lady's life. ...

I remember going to Lagos high Court for affidavit and I saw prisoners about to be judged coming down from the prison bus, mehnn. I knew some of them are accused of what they are not guilty for.... I pray that none of us will be unfortunate ooo

Nigeria is already messed up.. Notin like doing a forensic autopsy to ascertain the true cause of the death...

Advantages of avoiding sleeping over :

1. Peace of mind, even if she wan die overnight, she go go die for her place but pray she wunt die after leaving ur place for home

2. Any style u wan do in the midnight can be done in the day time

3. Her moaning wunt disturb the neighbors cox them go dey busy

Be wise.. Don't ever invite a lady over, any sex u Wana enjoy overnight can be enjoyed during the day..

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Give your life to Christ and get married. The pleasures of this world will fade away and you will end up in the pit of hell if you are not saved.

achierosion:
when time comes, you will see a lot of riffles smuggled from so many countries.
Those who want Nigeria balkanized.

It might be too late to smuggle them when the war begins. They had better smuggle them now because these fulanis are not hiding their intentions. In a sense, the war has already started. But my greatest shock is that so many are still playing party affiliation when they have been surrounded by enemies that can end their lives in just one night.

djon78:
Word
May God bless you really good for this truth

Amen

Adunny07:
Please I just really need someone to talk to about this and I will like your candid advise..

So since my older sister got married I always come to her house and spend few weeks or months and go back. Al·through my university days, whenever school is not in session I always come down here to spend time with her and her husband.

Truth be told the husband is a very nice man and has helped me always financially, anytime I come here once my sister welcomes me the first day like this, from the second day she leaves all her house chores for me, I mean everything and she just relaxes. At times I get really tired and don't even feel like doing those chores but because most times when I come visiting she is heavy ( pregnant) so most times I just help her...

Thing is my sister doesn't appreciate all my effort, most times she complains self its the hubby that tells her that I am hardworking and at least she should give me credit for all I do.

Now the reason why am writing this is because am done with service (NYSC) and as it is its like I have to stay in her house because the state where she stays has more job opportunities compared to where our parents live... She stays in Abuja...I have been down with malaria for few days now and I have been on treatment, just because I can't do certain house chores because am not too strong my sis started complaining saying I can't be living in her house and be waking up whenever i like... Mind you I was always the first that wakes up when I wasn't sick, in fact I will wash the dishes, sweep, mop daily, cook food, bath her children and all those things.

The only thing she does is to bath her youngest baby, but now because for these few days she has been doing those work I do daily she is already saying she can't tolerate me sleeping and not waking up on time.

My question is this, does she have the right to be so angry at me because she is doing her house chores? I feel its her house and so she doing her house chores herself shouldn't be a problem since am not too strong to help her do it. She herself just sweep and doesn't mop, but she expects me to sweep and mop everyday.

Should i just go back to my parents house and get a job there? Me renting my own house is not an option because am a lady and am just 22...

Please i need you guys advice, what can I do?

Find a friend to stay with. If you can't get one, go back to your parents. She doesn't love you and she has forgotten that you might be placed in a much better position tomorrow.

Chige777:
Hello everyone. Please bear with me because this might be lengthy. I have being dating a Jehovah witness lady for about two years now.

She is such a wonderful and caring lady. The type that would make sure I am happy at all times.

Around November last year, she found out that I cheat. She even found out that I cheated that same week she came to my house. After much apologies and all, she forgave me and we continued. We kept having issues and reconciling. We finally broke up in February because they don't marry outside their church (I am not even thinking about marriage now) and someone in her church has approached her for marriage.

They are planning the wedding but she still comes to my house and we Bleep each time she comes. Today she came and her husband to be was calling her she refused taking the call. I asked her why is she doing this to the guy, she said even if she gets married tomorrow she will still be fuc...king me. Although I don't know the guy but I feel pity for him

But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul - Proverbs 6:32.

You are on an escort to hell.

Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death Proverbs 7:27.

ludd2018:
All tribes ll will take the fight to fulanis who are killing people in Nigeria and chase them out of Nigeria then hausas , biafrans and oduduwa ll go .

How will the tribes fight without weapons? Remember that the fulani are in control of the military.

Vyzz:





If War breaks out... The igbos in the army knows what to do...



They can't be cut off guard twice.....



The already know the history and wouldn't want it to repeat itself.... But lest pray it doesn't get to that extent...

But they have started killing them in the guise of fighting Boko Haram. Soldiers doing the fight are from the south and they send them like sheep for the slaughter. What can these soldiers do? Resign or rebel?

kingzizzy:
If a war breaks out, it will probably be between the Federal Government and any Region, or Regions, that secede.

So what happens to the tribes from that region in the army? For instance, we have good number of Igbos in the army. What will happen to the armies that are Igbos if there is another war between Nigeria and Biafra?

The country is definitely sitting on a time bomb. There is tension everywhere. But if war breaks out which dimension will it take. Is it going to be Nigeria vs Biafra, Christians vs Muslims or North vs South? What role will the army play? Because in the Nigeria army, we still have Igbos, Christians and Muslims. There are also inter ethnic marriages involving the north and south. We don't pray for war but it might be inevitable the way things are going. When one is pushed to the wall, you don't have an option but to fight for your life. The fulani ethnic group are our major problem. They are terrorizing everyone and yet they are not declared terrorist. This present government is a mistake as they have refused to address this issue the way it should be handled. I am not aware of any single arrest of those committing this crime. But when you speak out, they arrest you.

What is your take on this?

Tell him after you have developed true friendship. But avoid sex as much as possible so you have another child outside wedlock.

kadiri3:
did any body ever see any isolation centres with patients?no coro is scam

I pray it catches up with you or someone close to you so you can believe. Thomas Didymus.

They will all give account before the God of heaven on judgment day. They are all thieves.

I thought many people said it's a scam. They will believe when someone drop dead in their home. Please school should remain close until solution is found. It is better to lose one year than lose our children and our lives. Government should find ways to support private school teachers.

7lives:
If you no soji na you sabi.

How do you think Nigeria got here?, when they fleece you and you play holy and turn the other cheek, they will commend you and use you as a good example to others, behind you they will laugh and jeer " no mind am na mumu ".
Now those who can't beat the monsters have wise up, they have joined the bad gang, they are even deadlier.
The more the merrier, orun ma wo ki se ori enikan, we learned from the best, we learned from them.
Now we are all BAD, the funny thing is I love it.

It won't be for too long. The good will prevail over the evil as darkness flee before light. It will happen but I don't know how.

Just give them their share and they will keep quiet. Our government is founded on corruption and thrives on corruption. They are all thieves. Only God will raise the right leader for us in future. And it will happen.

After graduation, they want to be on the same level with University graduates. You labour less and want the same pay.

But he is saying the truth. This is how Islam entered Northern Nigeria. They killed them and forced them to believe. Now, they want to do the same thing to the entire nation. This is why it is difficult for a Fulani led government to genuinely fight them because they share the same belief. It also reveals who this Allah really is that disguises himself as God.

Even under the Old Testament where physical fight were permissible, God never instructed the Jews to go on killing except for self defense and those nations who attacked them first. They also fought to possess the land God gave to them. Outside that, they don't just go to any community and start killing.

Muslims should review their faith because if Allah they claim to serve is not God, they will all end up in hell fire. There is only one God and one mediator between God and man who is Jesus Christ. Salvation is through him alone. So many of them believe but are afraid of conversion because of persecution. But our Lord Jesus said we should not be afraid of those who can kill only the body and not the soul. He that wants to save his life shall loose it.

It depends on the kind of relationship. If it's just a casual one, you are not under obligation but if it's one leading to marriage, you should take care of her. But that doesn't mean you should foot all her bills. Take care of her within the limit of your income. Any man who is running away from such responsibility is either poor or overly stingy.

Swtbabyvee:
who told you they won’t be there for the money also ,, with this present generation? Who r so focused on yahoo yahoo? Tahhh

There are still honest people in the society. Everyone cannot be corrupt.

I hope she found Christ also. Without Jesus, life is incomplete.

Please, let's kick all these polithiefians out. They are just there for their belly. We need new parties.

Same sex relationship is demonic. It was the reason God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah. Flee from it otherwise you will not escape the wrath of God.

I tire for this country ooo. Which Buhari again? So, some dumb fellows still believe he is still there.

He wasn't determined. Otherwise how many seconds does it take to do it even with someone standing right by you. In any case, the world beyond is 1,000 times worse if you don't know Jesus. Nigeria is heaven compared with Hell.

Worst government in history. I smell coup plot.

Nigerians has made this guy rich that he can afford to chatter a private jet. And so many professors can't afford it. Education appears to be useless in Nigeria.

They want it not because they intend to deliver good governance but just to cover their lies that Buhari is still alive for a longer time. They are scared of being exposed when they live office.

Is it because BUA declared a profit of about 20 billion naira this first quarter even in the midst of this pandemic. He was to monopolize the cement industry. He has made his money. He should allow others to make theirs too.

So all the billions donated for the fight of covid 19 has entered voice mail. Human rights groups should demand accountability from the government on the funds received so far. Don't be surprised to hear that they spent 5 billion to buy face masks. This government can loot sha.

But why inside the Church? Is it the new ritual prescribed by the juju priest? Churches should please lock up their doors on days service is not holding unless there is at least two security men at work.

This government is always looking for ways to loot. This is how our money is squandered. Aisha revealed last year that 2 billion naira was used to purchase mosquito net. They borrow money and loot it through useless projects over prized. And fools will queue up to vote these looters for only 1,000 naira. Even 10,000 naira is not worth it. I don't subscribe to selling your vote but if you must, anything less than 100,000 is meaningless. Because after you elect them, they will forget you and loot in billions.

TheRareGem1:
Lemme ask you a question?
Has any of our leader grace any live event asin going out to do something in this pandamic?
And FYI, Osinbajo has comminsioned some project virtually to tell you how active and task executor he is; commissioned virtually, 200,000 yam tuber storage shared facility in Benue, commissioned yesterday, commissioned another project, on Thursday, he presented the president, the ESC plan (if you want to know more about this, Google is your friend).
So my friend, stop exposing your ignorance here. Here, in NR, we have seen all this duties and task of Osinbajo.

I have my reservation for those pictures. Let us see him on video. Not recorded old videos. Let the press interview him after meeting. They said he chaired a meeting last time but it was someone else that the press interview. Whichever, the truth cannot be concealed for too long.