₦airaland Forum

NLegendforte:
No na western laws dey destroy marriage institutions. them westerners will now fly to asia for better family wives. Nonsense

then what can we called the woman that misbehaved to his man in the marriage? No form of patience and endurance again 🐦🐦🐦

Boldideas:
He saw the red flags but ignored it. Most of these girls without background are the ones that are capable of doing things like this. They live well in cities with fake class but their parents live in mud houses. My sister won't try this because she knows NOBODY will tolerate such from her. We know them, slay mamas with empty brains!

most of them have good backgrounds, but because of the material things of the world that enters their heart, they allow divorce against their men in order to lived extravagant lives. This issues happened in Nigeria too. But it’s becoming rampant abroad.

ebufa:
Their retribution don dey start o! I hear say Igbo boys for Europe now go out of their way to marry kenyan and south african women......those ones are more homely and cooperative! Soon our women will have only fulani herdsmen and maigards to grapple with!

I think that’s the best for them. Good Marriage is very important for healthy living.

CelineOlabode:
If you know how many times I've sat down with him to advise him, yet nothing fruitful about it.

hmm definitely he loves to be in that State of mind. I will advise you not to give up on him. He will change, just keep following up on his case. If you keep mocking him, the situation will keep on getting worse.

harjay1986:
You no dey code, I go come home do am strong thing, just do some rewiring of brain tissue here, her life will never remain the same, sheybi we don born for each other and the kids will surely need one of the parent who is still stable up stair.....

If I can't get her physically because of the law of there, then am ready to do anything to get her in the spirit realm

hmm you really know the tactics to ground a woman when she’s living waywardly and not submitting to your leadership in the family. But you know some women carried powerful spirit in their bodies.

wany:
Honest with her body you are hilarious, will the man over there do same, the joke is on you.

I strongly believe that it’s the women behaviour that always makes men to behave bad in their relationship. It happens in the days of Adam and Eve too. See you know the truths but always shy away from it.

noble2faith:
U don forget sey India na home of thousand gods and goddesses? Make dem try am now!

hmm so the Indians fear juju more than humans. No wonder the rate of divorce in India is very low.

IbeOkehie:
I agreed that Indians don't divorce as much as Nigerians. My explanation centers on the character quality of Indians and Nigerians.

Their different reactions to colonial pressure and oppression explains everything. That's what I was trying to get across. Loyalty to their different Native Religions is a pointer to their loyalty in a family unit. That's all.

I've expatriates on my comment. Now you. If you care to answer.

Now what has polytheistic nature of Hinduism have to do with it? Native African religions are also polytheistic.



It's not that bad anymore. Protests have tamped down extreme judicial bias in favor of women. As long as there's no violence there's no extreme bias.

In fact men avoid violence so much these days that women now generally claim MENTAL ABUSE as their main reason for wanting a divorce.

Good Luck to Nigeria

wow what a great comment, you are speaking from experience here. The rate of divorce abroad is alarming. Imagine they are now adopting mental abuse against their spouse when they want to divorce. I’m fearing the female gender.

oladipupo2234:
What this guy said is the truth. That it hasnt happened to you, doesnt mean its non existence.

I know of a close friend whose wife has turned a total stranger just a year after arriving in the UK.

this is very bad, what is now the way forward here. This issues is becoming rampant in uk 🇬🇧 mostly. This is unfair from Nigeria 🇳🇬 women

Tektronics12:
Trash!, Nigerian Men should Man up and be an Alpha Male as well. You can't be Chased out of the House unless there is Violence or Assault and Police is involved.

what of them men that doesn’t subject their issues with their spouse with violence? And still the women in the relationship acquired their properties?

Exceed15:
UK that you have to work round the clock to meet up with bills - taxes . 17 yrs gone like that. Never bring a Nigerian woman over to europe no matter how humble or homely she is. People Change.

very painful. 17 years of struggle gone the drain. I feel the pains of the men battling with this issues at hand. What will be they be thinking? Much fears for single men in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and abroad.

lapintoz:
Hahahaha....while you are abroad, sending the money....someone is nearby....banging the kpokus....morning afternoon and night....back to square one!

that’s the most painful part. Well the ones that will be honest with their bodies will be honest and the ones that will cheating on their spouse will surely cheat no matter the situation maybe. It’s the men that always regret marrying them especially the clueless cheaters.

Very dark man don dey vex for davido. Toor 🥸🥸🥸🥸. Meanwhile, “VeryDarkMan wash your hand comot for activism” - Man advises

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LULG9svUsOo

CelineOlabode:
Good day house. Happy Sunday to all. I trust we are all good.
The reason for this post is because of my elder brother. He wants to end up useless for life. He is going to be 50 years by July this year. This man doesn't want to help himself. He is not working. He depends on our aged parents for feeding even as he still leaves in our parents house. All of my other siblings are married with children. I am married with children too. I and family stays in another state. Everyone including our pastor has advised him to get a job but he is very lazy to work. All he does is chatting on social media every day especially nairaland. He is a popular member of this forum but I don't want to mention his moniker to avoid embarrassing him here. My husband recently got him a job at a construction company but he has refused to work.
Pls I need your sincere advice on how to make him change for good, because I don't want him to end up useless for life.

see you are mocking him to do more evil to himself. As you type here, he will reads what you post here. See it doesn’t work that way. I will advise you to sit down with him, advise him on what he loves to do . Also if you are prayerful type, pray for him and keep on following up on him too. He’s a man. He can decide on what he want. Concerning he hasn’t married yet. He may have a girlfriend that he hasn’t told the member of the family. Help him to win

Exceed15:
I do not blame the woman but the fool who brought this woe upon himself.. tueeeh! God forbid bad thing.

the man thought the lady will have change for good why training her in Nigeria 🇳🇬. Not knowing that she’s the devil in waiting. She has have her way and also acquired the man properties cos’ of UK 🇬🇧 laws that supports the female gender mostly. The man is very weak cos’ of the age and the level he’s now. The lady in question can’t do it to any man in Nigeria 🇳🇬. She will surely meet her Waterloo.

Exceed15:
God bless you bro for sharing.

you are welcome sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Edusouls:
Chai women have struck again , Gods second mistake

I don’t know what to appease them to stop these evil works against the men gender. This is not right all. They forgot repercussions of what they did to men.

smasher1:
It works for those who want it to work for them. But for me, God's time is the best. Leave the matter to God to judge and check out the difference between you and the other person.

for speedy works to be done, people approach their traditionalists and they do huge concoctions for them for revolts. Juju still works.

Stevenbright:
You guys should stop accusing the devil thing. The aggressors in situations like these plan and executed what they want to do without any invisible force propelling them to act.

At times the devil is gentle in spirit, it’s the humans that do carried out his works on their fellow human beings. What I detest here’s that once a woman is carrying out devil’s work, she will never look back and remember the consequences of her actions.

harjay1986:
Naa because of sims guy now, once such thing happen let her take the property sheybi naa the person wey they mental stable go take property eye for an eye is better make nobody see anything

see you can do eye for eye in uk 🇬🇧 or USA 🇺🇸. The laws are mostly in their favours. You can only do eye for eye in Nigeria 🇳🇬

Angelfrost:
Nah... The homes were held by thin threads of pretence and forbearance while in Nigeria, due to the culture and religious beliefs here.

In a more liberal nation where laws liberate women and equate both genders, the marital chains are broken off.


See ehn... Most Nigerian men don't realize that their wives don't truly love nor care about them. They are merely tolerating them since they are the breadwinners.


Haven't you wondered why Paternity Fraud and infidelity among married women is at an all-time high?!!

A woman who can do these in Strictly cultural Naija, just imagine what she would do in a more liberal clime.

Angelfrost, you are 100% right here. Infact Doing DNA for the kids is now much advisable for men to do now. Paternity fraud is the order of the day now. The unfortunate situation is the men that are the receiving end. Men should wise up before it’s too late. It’s better as a man to send money to your wife in Nigeria 🇳🇬 why you work abroad . Nigeria 🇳🇬 women are evil personified.

Omoawoke:
And the interesting thing is that it is mostly Nigerian girls that come from Nigeria that behave this way.
It gets seriously into their heads and they misuse it

very true . It’s very unfortunate cos’ of the huge greed they allowed in them. The best solution isn’t for men to allow their men to come abroad again. It’s never advisable at all.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Devil is innocent here, woman are worse than the devil

very true. It’s the humans that are doing the works of the devil. Very unfortunate situation

Bluntemperor:
It's a Nigerian thing and have nothing to do with the Asians or Indian Women!
In actual fact,all the Indians who married their husbands are still with them in Europe,UK or America but Africa and Nigeria in particular,are just not there for their husbands ,as they have messy homes! But why?
It's Shameful!

very true here. It’s very rare to see Indians divorcing themselves abroad. Indians even lived with their extended families. I don’t know why Nigeria 🇳🇬 ladies loved to do evil this way.

Bruno3000:
They never actually loved their husbands. They simply used their marriages as a means to escape poverty. I fear Nigerian women including my mother and sisters.

100% truths here. Single men are just scared to marry this days.

JONSYN7154:
and you think the juju will affect the woman in abroad?

Seriously I no believe say juju dey work.

it will affect the woman if she’s not prayerful at all

jessylaurel:
The same way he was destroying his home and his wife mental health in Nigeria by letting the devil take charge of him. 😂

very true. Thousands of divorce cases in the court of justice weekly over infidelity. It’s very unfortunate seriously.

Hassanmaye:
We have advice men to stop marrying this hoes and see who will beg? Why would a man marry a liability who will reap him all his efforts?

I strongly believe the Nigeria man will have been seeing red flag 🚩 from Nigeria 🇳🇬 from that evil woman 👩 unfortunate he’s not wise enough to deal with the case at hands. I felts for his pains he’s battling with. He’s even in his late 60’s. Some women are very wicked and unfortunate seriously

Abeg fear Nigeria 🇳🇬 women oooo. I don’t know the pains the 56 years old man will be now.

otherway:
I hate stories like this.

Sometimes the guys have the blame.

I tell guys to understand that life in the UK is a 360° deviation from naija life especially when it comes to matrimony and if you are not ready to embrace it, you will always have issues with your wife.

In the western world, ladies cut the shots so just leave your wife in naija if you can't calm down.

I have also realized that couples who knew themselves in naija long before one or both of them travel out usually have a more caudial relationship than those who met their significant other after either is already abroad.

I don’t agree with you. It’s the greediness of ladies that always caused this issues of divorce and inheriting their spouse properties. They know the Uk 🇬🇧 laws favoured them mostly. It’s very unfortunate seriously