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Bornita:
Love in most cases betrays the one feeling it.

ForeverYoung197:
may I see that mullah.

foolinlove:
I doubt it.

It's the same thing as "big feet, big meat". It's just not true.

jenigurl:
Better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all.
The length of time you two have been together is irrespective if there's no mutual respect and love.
Like I said those words if spoken exactly as you stated are an indication of a deep issue.
Frankly she spoke her mind
Hence it would be naive to ignore this or simply brush it off as a joke.
Seek love ester where.
My two cents

Aviero:
Negative mindsets shouldn't deter us from showing good affection to the people in our lives. Abi?

I've learnt the hard way. These days, it's all about reciprocality. If I show bae adequate affection, and she doesn't reciprocate well, I begin to have second thoughts. I slow down on whatever it is I am doing.

You can't tell me to keep doing good to bae, when I know that bae is taking the good for granted and giving the goods to someone else.

I can't risk it all for any bae that's not going to risk it all for me.

So, OP, being careful matters alot.

I can't just be doing mumu all the time, and in the end, get heartbroken. I need to be careful this time around.

MzDesire:
If she's really serious with you, she would support you in times when you "have" and times when you "don't have". I don't support ladies been too demanding from a guy especially someone you are not married to. She should save the strength and time she uses in getting angry to work for her own money abeg.

ForeverYoung197:
Too early for cinema. What you will watch? Warcraft? Independence day?

ForeverYoung197:
Still sleepy but need to wake up. I have so many things to do. U?

LuveU2:
Its called stereotype baby. People have individual differences. There are many many people frm calabar that would barely fit into this box.

So yea check my siggy

ForeverYoung197:
I know not all.

prettythicksme:
I think ur gay partner don tear ur anus nii,thank God for your life.

lurdkriss:
Somthing mus kill a man

veecent:
Good day pals. I met this girl January this year, seriously it was love at first sight and I normally don't believe in it but immediately I saw her I just could not stop thinking about her. Not that she wore make up and all that, she was putting on this simple hair style and a gown. To cut the long story shot, I asked her out and it was not until February ending she decided to go with me. The first day she came to see me I was trying to kiss her and all that and then she said she has her rules while dating. No sex, no nothing. My first reaction was maybe she was just joking but this girl was serious, reluctantly I agreed because I really loved this girl. Everything was going smoothly, she even introduced me to her mother and siblings, at that moment I already decided I was goin to marry this girl but I noticed something whenever we have misunderstanding I would be the one to always apologize whether I was wrong or right all because I could not stay without talking to her. There were one or two times I could not take it and decided to call it quit but still went back begging her. Early last month i noticed we were not talking like we use to be it calls or whatsapp. I told her about it and she was like she's busy this days, I kept quite. This continued for the next 2 weeks and it was then she said her past experiences was affecting her. I pleaded with her to share she refused. After that she said she needed a break to clear her head, I agreed with her. Some days ago she said she was now ok but she still acted the same way. I decided to call it quits with her because seriously I can't be in a relationship where I feel I'm not appreciated or valued. When I told her all she said was 'OK no problem' . My question now is what's I wrong in putting my happiness first because since this whole thing started its been affecting me generally even at work. To be serious I still love her. Please house what should I do?

ForeverYoung197:




I know not all.

berllyn:
yea men are polygamous in nature