₦airaland Forum

we go hear about these relationships later.
many people make noise when they are in these relationships but they wont be singing the same tunes when those relationships go sour. They hardly ever work.

I am struggling to find 10 Nigerians who have been married to foreigners for over 15 years so I reduced it to 10 years and it's still not easy. Bear in mind that Nigerians have been dating and marrying foreigners since very long ago.

how many men in the world do those things? dont be decieved by what you watch at Odeon cinema o

if nigerian men are bad, there wont be such a high demand for them at present

you guys should read consultant's post.

The couple do not have any yeye open marriage. Open marriage ko, open marriage ni.

In Nigeria, it's got to be men.
In UK, women cheat more in marriages (I believe) than men.
Not sure about in America

hypertension and cardiac problems ke?
has it not been statistical stated that these are much more common in the west? so how do you relate that to Africa?
oyinbo people dey beat women pass naija people sef. make you come here come see the number of domestic violence wey we dey see everyday.

oyinbo people just like to publicise any negative they can think up about africa. we are not worse than them when it comes to domestic violence

delwu:
The problem with Nigeria is definitely not Nigerians,but the leaders of Nigeria who pretend they are out the intrest of the people and nation,and under his guise loot OUR treasury sick.We need a total change of these our so called leaders,who have been recycling themselves since the inception of this country. Don't you guys generalise this problem,its not really a Nigerian problem,the leaders it is.Thank you

And the leaders are not picked from among Nigerians

It wont be long till most of those mugus welcoming him start screaming that the leaders are responsible for their poverty and the lack of infrastructure. They will refuse to relate their acceptance of corrupt practices to their poverty and the lack of social amenities in the State.

Majority of Nigerians are 'mugus', knowingly or otherwise.

na George Bush

Xris74:
Amongst the great Nigerian families (no single family deserves that ''award'') in no particular order are:

Kuti
Dafinone
Ikoku
Osigwe
My own family (name withheld )

if you mention Dafinone again, Igo just

No be Dafinone be that senator man for the old republic wey dey follow dem chop money anyhow and destroy naija that time?

This is not a medical/doctor's surgery. why dont you ask medical personnel?

are you asking in the right place?
how many here have the right experience to give you sound advise with wisdom?

think well.

Religion has to be considered because the differences may eventually tear the family apart.

same goes for other things like culture and beliefs. Differences in beliefs are liable to cause problems in a marriages

the true argument here is whether you're a believer in God's word or an unbeliever.

If the word of God says that the man is the head of the woman, who am I to argue with that?
If anyone does not believe in the word of God, there is absolutely no basis for an argument because they can say what they feel based on their own knowledge and not based on the word of God.

chikena!

At first sight could be the love of God but not love the way you mean it.

That's mostly infatuation and love of the physical body. It's very common these days and that's why our relationships dont last again

The fact I know someone had been a prostitute is enough to make me not even be her friend let alone date her

shilpa's obviously done similar things in the past

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news_detail.html?sku=1203

the black man is the last line in the racist thingy. they all eventually think we're worse than them

OpeLovely:
I don't see anything wrong with dating an afro-american as long as he doesn't mention the Divorce word.

he wont mention it till he finds fun with another woman

where is Free from?

definitely not a Nigerian

funweez:
Are we all not being a little bit pessimistic?.

i think i agree with iice that some can make it work. Again, Maybe it depends on how badly you really want it to last.

If you already had this opinion, why did you decide to ask?

That (one) poor girl was under 18(as you casually bragged) if it's not pedophilia what then is it
I know parents that would have your ass in jail for just saying that alone, not even coming mile near their daughters. If you chose to date (accumulate) underage girls off the Internet then don’t come here to wash your dirty laundry do you expect a pat on the back or an award. These stories are one sided and delusional, You might just be as guilty as these girls.

Personally, I find old men that kiss and tell revolting and degrading
Just to note that the age of consent in UK is 16 so it cant be paedophilia to do anything with a consenting 18-year-old girl.

The legal age of consent in UK is 16 so it cant be paedophilia to have sexual relations with an 18-year-old girl.

If you dont like kiss and tell, dont kiss

Men and women are not equal.

This is not to say that either of them is less important.

Westernisation is not good for anyone who desires a good and stable family. It ends badly too often. African/Nigerian family ways are much more stable no matter how much they try to discredit those ways

Ayefele

anyone who doesn't want to listen to it again should stop

do you know what happened to him and highlife?

I was looking to give it to a friend. thanx