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I won't even date such a lady...

Don't rush into marriage yet...date for at least a year

Makes sense...

Makes sense

CNN is yet to settle their beef with me....

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Nope...wot happens if u break up?

Breakups and divorce are mostly messy

Nope...wot happens if u break up?

Well good for her...I do kiss and would keep doing dat for a very long time

Totally agree with you bro...

He came to charge his phone

I'm still a virgin... ;Dw

Ifakiland:
07087936676

This guy is actually a fool...

Nice Axs by the way...

Violin church, Foshan city, China

In this recession?

Can you walk on water?

Old story

Really?

I blame the passengers for buying Arik tickets...if everyone avoids Arik, nobody would tell them to sit up

Lemme come and be going...

Somebody would just wake up and start talking nonsense....you would beat her up...REALLY?

Baby mama Loading...

Noblesoul123:
SIMPLE STEPS TO STEAL A FOWL THIS CHRISTMAS.
1. Survey the area for about 1 week.
2. On the day of operation wear an oversized shirt.
3. Be at the place between 11:00am to 2:30pm. At this time of the day, the owners will be gone to work or be indoors. The fowls will be playing outside happily.
4. Walk at the edge of the street and let the fowls walk freely at the center.
5. This is where u make the grand move.
6. Dive like a goalkeeper and grab the fowl by the head. Quickly fold the head into the feathers and put it in side ur oversized shirt.
7. Move on as if nothing happend. No looking back.

The Jagaban....the chicken of ...

Mavelshee:
Bro Code people....no fokin of friend's relative...things will just not be the same as before

One bottle of Heineken for you bro...


OP get a copy of the Bro code (Google it)

Tell them you're broke...then watch them flee

eezeribe:
is that an engagement ring or a key holder ring on her finger It really looks dull like bronze or chrome. Or maybe it's the type they wear in one of these orthodox churches

Bros cool down na, wetin be ur own this early morning ?

Badt guy

Franky826:
So why didn't you stop at the middle of the show to ask nairalanders this question

My brother...

God bless you... it's not easy but the good thing about it is the excellent communication and friendship built. And knowing that breaking up is never an option

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The general opinion of long distance relationships is that they don't last. And as much as we want to discredit such myths, we cannot but agree that there is some good reason for the thought. I like to refer to this thought as "The theory of Assumptions".

I'm going to talk on a general note and hope to get your PM so I can actually understand the peculiarities in your story. Although I must say, that you asked for advise is commendable; it shows a desire to make it work #ThumbsUp

Long distance relationships last and infact, done rightly, they last longer in marriage.

A long-distance couple already know that many of the odds are against them, hence they tend to put in more efforts in bonding more than partners who are physically close to each other.

How does it work?

First things first, you need to ask yourself some homemade questions before you embark on a long-distance. It isn't for the fainthearted, and it most certainly isn't for you if you are in just for the fun.

Long-distance relationships work only when the two partners genuinely love each other and truly want to be together.
So from the kick-off point, tell yourself that you're in for a lifetime. Make the decision to stick with this individual forever. When your mind is set towards forever, it makes it easier to filter through problems and find a solution, it helps for your mind not to constantly present breaking up as a solution. Basically it's a way of tailoring your mind towards a particular focus.

At the point where you mind is set on forever, it makes it easier to Pour out your very best into the relationship.
Now this is where many Long-distance relationships crash; Humans because of our assumptions are scared to put in their best into a relationship - "what if she ain't loyal? What if we breakup? How I'm I sure she ain't seeing someone else where she is? What if it simply doesn't work?" The irony though, is that this fear of the unknown (which by the way is normal) gets the better part of many of us and eventually become the real reason for the actualization of such fears.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Yes you may lose but what if you don't?

Every other thing done for a successful Long-distance relationship, lies within the corridors of these two principles:

Make a decision of forever. Note that, the fact that you have made this decision doesn't guarantee that forever would happen. However it gets you closer to such realization. It gives you the mental-kick needed to make it work.

Do your best, Do your part. In a Long-distance relationship, your partner may be doing all the right things or even all the wrong things. But none of these would matter if you yourself aren't doing your part and giving your best. Make sure to have exhausted all possible 'do-abilities' on your part before you call it quits.

I do hope that you send me a PM let's see how to make this work. Cheers![/quote]

No go read ur book...